Carl contacted me on Match. although I didn't realise it, he is the archetypal scanner. he got me off Match and emailing, then was keen to move to what's App. He claimed he lived in both Europe and the US. We were due to meet the day before he flew back to the US, but he had a "migraine". I accused him of being a fraud but he made a convincing case of denying it. He was calling regularly and making declarations of love very quickly. I realised he was a fraud when he asked me to make a donation to an African orphanage he claimed he supported.