I contacted him first via eHarmony.
Many inconsistencies. Spelled his sister's name two different ways (Elisabeth and Elizabeth), would ask me the same question more than once w/in a 2-3 day window, said he was an independent contractor for the Department of Defense and working on a new contract in NYC at ADT, said his parents both died, but didn't say how, claimed to be a God fearing man/Christian, text msgs would vary in structure - sometimes good English, other times, many misspellings or wrong use of the word, said he spent time in Palo Alto, CA, but timeline didn't line up, never married and no kids (on his eHarmony profile). Uncle to 1 nephew, Francis. After 2 days, was calling me dear, then baby and then talking about going on a cruise together. He said he missed me w/o ever meeting me in person.
He seemed like he was financially independent. Mentioned in a note that he would take me to Italy (a dream of mine) when we ARE together (after never meeting me).
Then I got an email from eHarmony saying that they removed his profile.