Letter(s) from Benjamin Yoruba

 

Letter 1

GoodMorning Evelyn,

How are you doing today Evelyn?I hope all is well with you out there.
Evelyn,I'm really glad that we can exchange emails , I just cant believe this happening to me,i would also love to chat with you,though am new to the online dating scene,i feel that i've found all what i want and desire,i did like you to know a little more about me,My life has been filled with heartbreaks and i don't want anymore hurt or pains,I want to find a woman, who wants a relationship based on "Truth, Real Love(not **** love), Compassion, Friendship, Loyalty, and Honesty!!!! I also want to be able to be "Romantic" to her with Love, not her telling me things like "If you love me, you will do "this or that" for me". I want to be able to do anything to make her happy, because "I Love Her", not because she tells me to do it. Know what I mean? I want to feel EXCITED when we Kiss!! When we Hug!! When we Hold hands while we are in public or our home, I love displaying public affections alot.
I've been divorced for about 5yrs now, my ex left me for a man whom was my bossom friend. Well i felt i cant stop her from doing her wish. Ever since then, I've not dated much because i feel its better to find a real woman who will be with me forever, than a woman who will just be with me for a while.You have such a wonderful sense of humor that i know that you'll be nominated for the award of the best woman in the world and nothing can change that. I just wish we were closer, so i can tell you all this looking straight into your eyes through your Pictures and the beautiful things i see.
I'm a realist,i lost my parents when i was was at the age of 24, I moved into the states some years back after my parents death , My parents are Germany , Am a German Nationality.I grew up in the states ,i really don;t have anyone close to me in my life except the almighty God that's keeping me alive, He has been so good to me , thats why i always put him first in all am doing in life.
Evelyn, I would describe myself variously as...smart, funny, inscrutable, loving, easy to talk to, dependable, kind, honest, loyal, avenging of those who can?t fend for themselves, joyful, serene, intense, and absolutely original and I am a Christian by religion,, A caring, Loving, and God Fearing Man.I Love to swim, dance, read Books, Attend Parties and also Love to Cook Just like womens best friend, lol.I'm not beyond indulging myself with simple pleasures , buying flowers for the house on a winterly day, going out for a massage or pedicure. I'd love it if you enjoy pampering yourself once in awhile and indulging me when I do kind things for you not for a particular reason like a birthday or holiday, I take many things seriously but never myself. I find humor everywhere and take life's setbacks in stride. I'm also low maintenance, emotionally mature, afraid of heights, physically fit, a frustrated artist, an unaccomplished dancer, a good listener, a lousy cook and I'm always on time.
I am energetic, and dedicated as the German Shepherd that I love and adore. I love new adventures filled with thrills and the unknown. I love and respect the out of doors a lot. My favorite pastime is a good walk in the woods listening to nature's music. I have a very big passion for gardening. I would much rather work in the yard than clean house. (Not to worry, I know how to clean but I can't guarantee it will always pass the white glove test.) Sunrise and sunset are my favorite times of the day. I love the sound, smell and feel of Autumn.
I love a good camp fire with my Daughter and hopefully with that one special woman someday…or one on one with someone special, watching the night skies, a relaxing cocktail, entertaining, cooking but not for just myself and of course love it when someone cooks for me. I am a stable, hard worker which has afforded me the luxury of many things. I love a good thunderstorm and have been known to sit and watch them with the lights out and only candles or a hurricane lamp lit. I'll get out and walk in it, feeling them hit my face. I love the changes of the four seasons. It makes me appreciate the warm beach vacations I love to take.
I am not "materialistic"!! I would rather have someone to respect, care for, and love from my heart & soul, then money!! Yes, money is nice, but it can't buy you real love.I just want it to be, that anything we were to "own", as "ours", not "mine" or "yours". Yes, I know that there are somethings that will be mine, and her, but do you know what I mean? I want to be able to "spoil her" by opening a door for her, or carrying things for her, taking his shoes off when she is back from work,for no special reason, but that I care for her.
I too, have been hurt by the opposite ****, but I don't hold it against other women, because they have not hurt me yet. I hope that we can get to know each other better, and see how things might go.I can not "promise" that I might say or do something that hurts you, but I can promise that if I do, it won't be on purpose, it will be on accident, Becos i know how it feels to get hurt and i will never do anything to hurt anyone in life , Talkmore of a woman that want to be part of my world.. See, I don't know everything about your past yet, and I don't know what upsets you right now, but hope to know you better, so I don't say or do anything to upset you, because I hate that when I upset someone special to me.I love going out,taking walks down the park and thinking about my life,i love observing nature and i love to make and see people happy , It really enhance my feelings.
I'm a really sensitive and attentive Man.I'm an observer of people (not a voyeur!). I like to figure people out. I like to notice the small detail about people. I like to know what makes them tick and what excites them. I like to know how to make them happy, how to make them feel special. I can be really romantic. With my woman ,I like to surprise her by doing special things. Like leave a flower on their car windscreen. Leave a card for them at their favorite shop & office for secretary to give to them. I like to send flowers when she's feeling down.
I prefer private dates, with my woman and myself alone. I guess i like the private moments when we can share intimate things. Talk about plans, desires, feelings. As I said before, I'm quite physical. I love to hug and touch and be touched. I love to show affection to my woman and i love it when she's very affectionate with me. I love women and i always desire to respect them. When i have been with my woman, i have never taken advantage of them unless they have wanted me to. Even when they want me to be physical with them, I always want only to honour and respect them.
When i find the woman who i feel is my soul mate, i look forward to when we can spend time alone, cuddling on the sofa, watching tv/films. Making out, caressing and kissing. I am a sexual person and i love the thought of being intimate with my woman in every way. I want a woman who feels the same way. Who has the same sexual appetite as i do and desires to be as intimate as i do. But all of this must be within the context of an exclusive relationship. So i will protect the sanctity of our Relationship.
Can you tell me more about yourself?So where did you grow up?
I live in N KINGSLEY DR LOS ANGELES.
Where have you been? Do you like to travel?Have been to the UK and Europe with my work several times and it's my first time here in Africa and I have my daughter Sandy here with me in Africa and she love the adventures and the beautiful work of nature here. I'm a Self Employed. It's a tough business that's been good to me and I have enjoyed it a great deal and I'm very lucky I work from home bidding for contracts online outside USA... I work with great people and literally learn something new everyday. I am truly lucky. I'm a Building Contractor On Residential Buildings , I love my work alot , cos it expose me to other people cultures.I'm constructing some Residential Houses for an Oil company here in Africa.
Are you serious about meeting someone?I'm serious and ready.I have been hurt by my ex and yet i have so much passion and love that i want to pour out on one special woman. I want to make her feel like there is no better woman on the face of the earth. I don't want to put her on a pedestals because that would not be fair on her. But i want her to know that she has one man who knows that he is so important, so needed and wanted. I want her to feel that she has someone who is loyal to the utmost, faithful and dedicated to his needs. I want to be able to satisfy all his needs. Emotional, intellectual, physical,Humble and most importantly God fearing. My greatest pleasure is knowing that i can provide all these things with Gods help.
Are you willing to move for the right relationship?I would relocate for the right woman God have in place for me , Cos am willing to do anything for love.
What kinds of music and movies do you like?I love watching comedies ,Christians and romance Movies. I also love dramas and thrillers. Loved the Bourne Identity. I love fantasy films. Lord of the Rings is my favorite.
When feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. Where your pleasure is, there is your treasure: where your treasure, there your heart; where your heart, there your happiness. Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money and i think i could work that out being the man of your dreams. I want to start a serious relationship with you and lets get to know each other and see where it takes us..To love is to place our happiness in the happiness of another,Though miles may lay between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart,Moreso whats meant to be will always be no matter the distance within us.
What makes you laugh, smile, and cry? Crazy funny people. Sarcastic people like Dr Cox on Scrubs. I love his character. I love intelligent comedy like political satire. I love Robin Williams, Jim Carey and Mike Myers. They crack me up so much. I love watching those home video clips of kids doing hilarious funny things. Kids make me laugh. The things they say. You never expect it.
What makes me cry, I'm always moved when i see scenes on TV between parent and child when they are struggling or dealing with the relationship. Reminds me of my mum. And also cos i miss my mum.
I'm looking for a quality woman who takes care of herself and is comfortable with who she is. I would like her to be enthusiastic about learning and trying new things, and it would be great if she enjoys participating in sports and being active or anything that keep her fit.I don't so Much believe in age or distance, Coz what meant to be will find it way no matter how long it take to be, it only depend on time.Unlike, Love, Trust, Kindness and also good Faith, Who i cant live without. Who know what forever mean. who will love me in bad and Good I think it's important that a couple have shared interests and activities that they enjoy experiencing together (more than just going to dinner and a movie). I've found this helps keep the relationship fresh and makes spending time together even more rewarding. Finally, I would like her to be a good conversationalist, emotionally stable, fun to be around, dependable, warm-hearted, romantic, intelligent and a little bit sassy. She should be able to keep me on my toes, be my best friend and most importantly flip my trigger.
Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith, I believe if we meant to be together then our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one, What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have, I can tell you that I love things like taking a walk on a warm summer night and running under the nearest sprinkler or having a snowball fight by an outdoor hot tub in the winter. Are you a dreamer? Life is an adventure to be lived not a problem to be solved. I also think what a person gets out of life is in most part determined by their approach to it. An optimistic, open-minded, active person will always find more happiness than a cynical couch potato.
I hope that this would be an end to my search for a true partner.

Leonard.

Letter 2

GoodMorning Leene,

How are you doing today Leene? I hope you're fine and hearty.
Leene, Thanks so much for your kind heart and I just can't seem to than you enough because you've shown me how much you can always be there for Me and My daughter and I'll always do thesame for you because You're the best thing have ever encounter in my whole entire life and I want you to know that Life without you has been so useless and never worth called life.
I got the Funds and I've made the Payment to the Dr. and Sandy has been attend to and she's feeling now but the Dr. assured me she's going to be fine by Saturday/Sundayt so please keep Sandy in your prayers because we surely need that always because God is the best Dr. in life.
Leene,You've always touch my heart with your message and I can't live a day without not reading from you.
Well, I know you hate it when I say this, but I'm going to say it all over again; you are the most intelligent, Gorgeous woman I have ever met and I have been so blessed to keep you in my life and I just can't wait to get back into the states so I can hold you tight in my arms and never let you go.

Leene,I can't wait to catch you online so we can talk because I have my laptop here with me in the Hospital and I can talk with you anytime....I've missed you so much and I always enjoy talking with you because whenever I'm in your present, It's always as I'm the Present of the most beautiful Angels in heaven gazing into her eyes.
You will always mean the world to me. I can't believe God could make us find each other. I can't wait until I have the chance to hold you in my arms. You're the most wonderful woman in the world.You're always in my thoughts and in my heart.

Leonard.