Hi there, I'm sorry for not writing you earlier, I have been extremely busy with work and haven't had time to get on my laptop at all. Thanks a lot for letting write you on here. I'm a simple guy, being optimistic and open minded has always attracted people to me naturally. I have been alone for a while now, I work a lot and even with that its not entirely wonderful being alone for a long time. I recently decided to try this out and see how it goes. I also enjoy taking cruises, shopping and enjoying vacations when I can. You can also catch me taking long walks at the beach but its usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time with I am fun loving person with a caring heart.I am also friendly and cheerful.I ve got 9year old daughter, who is my world. Her name is Jessica. I am in search of trust love and happiness.I am an artist,I sell arts works and organize exhibitions. I've really have missed the touch of a woman in my life. I'm gonna be totally honest with you, I am too old for games and I'm not interested in flings. I'm hoping to be able to build a solid and committed relationship full of love with the woman I'm looking for. A person with a good sense of humor who can sometimes make me laugh when i am unhappy.A woman who will stand by me through it all. I'm very comfortable and is more than capable of taking care of my family. I like outdoors and cos of the nature of my job I travel a lot sometimes and learn different cultures.I enjoy spending time with my daughter.I occasionally like to go out visit nice places around, every other day am working in my studio gallery. I would love to know all about you and what you do. I'm an open book you can ask me anything you wanna know about me. here are some of my pictures, I would love to see some of yours as well, so feel free to include them in your response. I hope I didn't bore you with my story...lol. Chesterfield has got a couple nice places, it would be nice to share a drink, lunch or dinner together sometime but in the mean time. I would love to exchange a few emails first before being comfortable enough to exchange phone numbers and all. Hope to hear back from you. have a lovely day Oliver

Hi there, I'm sorry for not writing you earlier, I have been extremely busy with work and haven't had time to get on my laptop at all. Thanks a lot for letting write you on here. I'm a simple guy, being optimistic and open minded has always attracted people to me naturally. I have been alone for a while now, I work a lot and even with that its not entirely wonderful being alone for a long time. I recently decided to try this out and see how it goes. I also enjoy taking cruises, shopping and enjoying vacations when I can. You can also catch me taking long walks at the beach but its usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time with I am fun loving person with a caring heart.I am also friendly and cheerful.I ve got 9year old daughter, who is my world. Her name is Jessica. I am in search of trust love and happiness.I am an artist,I sell arts works and organize exhibitions. I've really have missed the touch of a woman in my life. I'm gonna be totally honest with you, I am too old for games and I'm not interested in flings. I'm hoping to be able to build a solid and committed relationship full of love with the woman I'm looking for. A person with a good sense of humor who can sometimes make me laugh when i am unhappy.A woman who will stand by me through it all. I'm very comfortable and is more than capable of taking care of my family. I like outdoors and cos of the nature of my job I travel a lot sometimes and learn different cultures.I enjoy spending time with my daughter.I occasionally like to go out visit nice places around, every other day am working in my studio gallery. I would love to know all about you and what you do. I'm an open book you can ask me anything you wanna know about me. here are some of my pictures, I would love to see some of yours as well, so feel free to include them in your response. I hope I didn't bore you with my story...lol. Chesterfield has got a couple nice places, it would be nice to share a drink, lunch or dinner together sometime but in the mean time. I would love to exchange a few emails first before being comfortable enough to exchange phone numbers and all. Hope to hear back from you. have a lovely day Oliver

Hi dear, how are you this morning? hope you had a good night.. Thanks for writing back and sharing. I think you are a sweet lady. I would like to get closer to you and learn more about you. You can ask me anything more you would like to know as well. Call me old fashioned but i like to do things the conventional way, get to know each other proper and see how things turn out eventually. Thanks for the pictures, you have got a lovely smile. There is no doubt about that fact that I am attracted to you and I'm happy we came across each other here.I am looking forward to meeting you soon and hopefully things would work out as we get to know each other. I would like to know what you desires are in your man. The kind of things you like and don't like . what makes you smile cos seeing you happy would definitely give me joy. I liked everything i saw on your profile. I hope you can be that man i have been waiting for all this while. You seem like a good match, the good friend for me and the type i would definitely like to share a future with someday. I'm willing to learn whatever it takes to please you and makes you happy.I'm totally gonna be myself and I expect the same from you but if there's anything you don't like about me as we go along don't hesitate to let me know. The things I want are maturity, love, companionship, friendship, honesty and everything else in between. Some one to think of and know that you are also in their thoughts.Someone to share my daily experiences with be it good or bad.Someone who remotely connects with me regardless if there's distance between both of you in case of work or anything. What do you do? Tell me a little more about your family. Its been a rocky past couple of years.Due to my past state of mind, I have always kept myself busy and buried in my work. I spend a lot of time with my daughter when am not working, besides my mom she's my only source of joy, happiness and companionship.how long have you been on the website and what have been your experiences? Trust is hard to build especially these days, I'm willing to take my chances. I want genuinely love again and be loved back in return. Pls include your number in the next mail so we can text and call each other sometime. I look forward to hearing from you and have a nice day Oliver

Hey Michelle, how are you doing today? Its really nice to wake up and see that i have a nice message from you this morning.I guess I have being on your mind just as you have been on mine.Yesterday was pretty intense after I came back from picking up a few things with Jess, we got back in around 8pm had dinner, I cant even say for sure what time I fell asleep as i was supper tired. So far Michelle, I like everything I have read about you and the more I seem to read the more attracted I am to you.I'm really glad i gave this a try, i never really believed in any of this.I really like you, I hope we get a chance to move to take this to the next level after we get together.You are and attractive woman but I don't put everything into physical looks, it's the woman inside that means the most to me. However, I do believe in taking things slow, there's no rushing into anything,i believe it would all evolve naturally as we go along.There's no doubt that I 'm highly attracted too you. More about me, I lived in Greece with my parents till i turned 20, my dad retired from active service then we moved to the states.I lived in san diego with my parents for many years and also attended college there.After college, i got a job and moved to Kansas city where I got married settled down and had Jess.I recently moved up here to Chesterfield after my divorce, so you can say am new to the area.Jess lives with me full time, its been that way for a long time now so we are pretty much used to it.Are you close to your family? I wish I came from a big family. I was raised an only child cos my mom had complications after she had me.I grew up with all the love and affection but both parents.Not that i was spoiled in any way or over pampered or anything I remember having my dad spank me hard whenever i got really naughty,lol.I do miss him a lot, everything i am to day learned from him.He passed way 9 yrs ago, that's why my mom moved back to Greece cos i was in college at that time, she needed to be closer to her family.She visits us from time to time.... So when exactly is your birthday?Mine is Nov 29th, that makes me a Sagittarius and Jessica march 30th an aries....I don't know much about signs, i just know they exist so don't think am some kinda zodiac freak,lol. Forgive my sense humor i could be unusually playful sometimes....I should go now so i can get ready to leave for work. Thanks for the number, I will text and call you later on. I will be thinking about you. Have a lovely saturday Oliver

Hey sweetie, how are you doing this morning?Hope you this emails finds you cheerful as you start your day.I just got out of bed a while ago feeling fresh and clean ready for a brand new day. Its been a hectic couple of days for me is why i haven't written you. It was so nice talking to you last night on the phone you sounded as sweet as I hoped and even more :) I went to bed with your voice playing in my head, cant stop thinking about you baby. Its really great to always start my day like this, fills me with all the positive energy i need to have a good day.I can't really explain how this is possible but its been happening a lot and i intend to keep that way until we at least meet each other.The past few days has been so exciting always enjoying communicating with you one way or the other.I don't think i have connected with any one like I do with you such a long time.I can't describe how good the feeling has been the past couple of days... I included some more pictures for you, i hope you like them. You can have an idea what my life is like in different moments.I wont mind getting more of yours if you have...You have been on my mind and i hope this feeling never goes away....I'm running a little late this morning cos i have a short meeting to attend to before work starts, wish me luck!I will talk to you again tonight...do have a lovely day.lots of love Oliver

Hey sweetie, how are you doing today?It feel nice waking up knowing i would probably hear from you. I really enjoyed talking to you last night on the phone. You always sound as sweet as I hoped and even more. We should talk more every evening. Don't get me wrong texting is great but you talking and hearing each others voices takes it to another level :)after this it would be us meeting together for he first time...lol. Seems my Thursday is kicking off with a bang! So how was the rest of your evening?when did you go to bed?I'm really happy to have come across you here, been a while i felt this good about any one or anything besides work and Jess.Its been great communicating and learning more about you everything.I haven't been able to stop thinking about you since we first started emailing each other.Its such a wonderful feeling and I'm so loving the effect its having on me.You seem to be awakening the feelings i no longer thought i was capable of having. I like starting my days reading from and writing you,it gets me off to a great start with a lot of positive energy.I'm optimistic and hope for the best between us in the coming times.I probably say this a lot but you are a very sweet woman.I feel blessed that our paths crossed, I know we still have a lot to figure out about it each other,we would take it one step at a time.My heart is open to you and as time goes on it would be a lot easier to open up about more personal things I included some more pics for you. Let me share a little from the past. The story with Jess mom is a long sad one. She had a drug and alcohol problem that became very severe. Unfortunately he is no longer a part of both our lives.She died about 2yrs after our divorce, she wasn't such a great mom, will tell you more about it later on.We got divorced since 2009 and just like you i have tried dating but haven't really put my mind in plus i haven't met any one who really connects with me,Its different with you.. I wish i could write you more but i have to go and get ready to leave for work.I will be thinking about you as always..... Oliver

Hey sweetie, how are you doing today?Just getting off bed and you know how i like to start my day with the woman who has captured my heart(you).Went to bed thinking about about you and now I'm awake and the first thing that comes to mind is to read from or write you....smiles. Its been super hectic for me my phone has been a mess, i apologize for my delayed correspondence. Honey, I have got great news..I just got an invitation from the south African ministry of arts and culture and was shortlisted as one of the foreign artists to participate in the annual art exhibition starting next week wednesday in milnerton south Africa. I am so excited about this cos its gonna be my first time in south Africa and i hear its beautiful there. I just the mail this morning and I have responded. Well i thought i should share this with you as i will be busy with this all day today. Its a big opportunity for me that could open a lot of doors. I'm only gonna be away for a week and I will be taking Jess with me. First i would need to stop in Edinburgh, Scotland, UK first for 2 days to pick up some artworks that i would need for the show before I finally head to south Africa. The entire trip should last a little over a week before we get back home I don't have much time to write this morning as i have been up n down a lot.I will talk to you on the phone and give you details of when we would be leaving which should most likely tomorrow morning .I will be thinking about you as always.I would text you during the day to check on you....Hugs n kisses
Oliver

Hey sweetie, how are you doing today? This me writing you all the way from Scotland, UK. Its beautiful here and the weather is very mild. Jess has her school books with us here so she can catch up on shool work whil am working plus she is a very bright kid,its never been hard for her to catch up. We arrived here at about 6:30 am. This is the first time I'm turning on my laptop since we checked in our hotel. I just wanted to let you know we go her safely this morning. its about 6pm in the afternoon here quite chilly but comfortable.I will be calling you shortly with a +44 number so you know its me. Jess and I are doing okay just slightly jet lagged. I'm missing you already. I'm sorry we couldn;t meet before I left we will have plenty of time to catch up on that once I get back next week. The gallery will be closed till I get back. Pls take care of your send and stay good till i come back home to you. have a lovely morning cos I know its just starting out there.. You can email me anytime I would get it. hugs n kisses Oliver

Hey sweetie,Its a beautiful Thursday morning here so I can say good morning from this side of the world.The weather here has been great, the sun is already up and shinning really bright.I'm sorry i didn't write you or call you early. we had to settle in and we were very tired and jet lagged. I feel comforted with your remote presence, that's how strong the power of communication is.I wonder how hard it would be if we didn't have this technology and isn't able to communicate at all through this trip, i would have been unbearable. We got here at about 4am south african time, we mad it to the hotel about an hour later and managed to get some sleep till 9am this morning.The show is kicking off this morning. I'm quite pumped and ready for it. I hope every thing goes well. I'm looking forward to a lot of great things on this trip. Its lovely here in Africa, very nice and warm. They say its summer now and they usually have winter around July august very different kind from ours. I bought a sim card at the airport and registered it. They say i would be active in less than 12hrs. So I should be able to text or call you, the number is +27610481078. Jess is so excited and happy to be where with me. I'm really looking forward to having successful and enjoyable adventure here with Jess. Wish me luck! You are always in my thoughts even across the miles currently between us. Thanks for checking on us and making sure we are okay. I have to get off now to start my day. Write me when you get this in the morning. Hugs n kisses Oliver

Hey sweetie, how are you doing this morning?I hope you had a good night cos mine was great, filled with lots of wonderful thoughts about you and I.The anxiety and eagerness of wanting to me meet you gives me a lot of positive energy.I look forward to it every day.When i miss you and cant talk to you i look at your pictures and try to visualize being there with you or you here with me. I was hoping to talk to you on the phone last but didn't work :( Its a bright and sunny morning here in milnerton perfect day for an outing. I'm so glad the weekend is here so we have two work free days just to have fun and visit cool places around here.I hear there's a lot of nice places and things to do out there to make our trip more memorable especially for Jess.She is already starting to get bored with my usual work routine.I know its gonna be fun.I will tell you all we were up to as the day goes on when we return in.We intend to make this most of it cos its gonna be our last weekend here before we head back home on thursday So what plans have you go to for the weekend.I hope we are able to chat tonight.I will text you whenever i get on phone.I'm getting more and more into you day by day,I'm really loving this feeling,i pray it never goes away.Enjoy your saturday sweetheart...Lots of love kisses and hugs Oliver

Hey sweetie, how's the weekend going for you so far?its been great here just came in from a very interesting day out with Jess.I am exhausted at the moment but it was really worth the time.So what have you been up to? am trying to picture what you are doing at the moment.been trying to text back for some reason it isn't working hun. Today was a really good and interesting day. we spent a lot of time at the beach cos it was sunny all afternoon.At the beach We got horse back ridding, never knew African horses could be so energetic, that's why they are called horses right..... We later sailed to this little fishing island where we had roasted cat fish and pepper soup.It's the most spicy thing i ever tasted...but was good.On our way back, we spent a little time at the amusement park. Tomorrow we intend to continue on our little voyage, visiting nice places.You know its our last weekend here so we intend to make the most of it.We took a lot of pictures,i would have e-mailed them to you but i didn't come with the cable of my camera.I have to wait till we get back home before i upload the pics on my laptop. I'm gonna freshen up now eat dinner and try to get on so i can talk to you before going to bed.If that doesn't happen,i believe i would see you in my dreams.Hugs n kisses

Oliver

Hey sweetheart, how are you doing this Sunday morning.We both work up really late today,glad I'm not having get ready to leave for the show.Its our 2nd free day here in milnerton. The weather here has been been wonderful very good for the outdoors.We had a great time through yesterday. It was the best feeling being able to talk to you before going to bed :) There's still a lot of things we didn't get to see and do yesterday,i hope we have the chance to do much more.Its bright and beautiful outside i can tell its gonna be a good day.I will let you know when we get back in hopefully we could talk tonight.You are all that comes to mind when i think of home and lately you are all that has been on my mind.I will be texting you during the day as always.I cant tell you how muxh I enjoy hearing from you..Lots of love kisses n hugs Oliver

Hey sweetie, hope you are having sunday so far,its past 9pm here thought i should write you again before going to bed.We came back in around 8pm. Jess is right here getting more relaxed we spent the rest of the evening indoors.I can in imagine how it is at home now, wish i could send you a big warm hug..Thank you so much for the voucher Jess is extremely grateful :) Today was also a lot of fun,We took a crane to table mountain from where you could actually see the whole of Capetown Later on, we went shopping at the galleria, bought a few things for Jess and just window shopped all through the malls.its great to see have all these cool stuff here in Africa sometimes it doesn't actually feel like you are in africa with their level of civilization,its just like anywhere else in the world. we played some racing games at the arcade store, i had to let Jess win a few times just to cheer her up...lol. I touched a croc for the first time at the zoo.There were actually harmless which is weird.Jess couldn't even come close,I'm sure most kids her age would do the same too. Sweetheart, you are very close to my heart even though we are thousands of miles from each other presently.I will be the happiest woman the day i get to hold you in my arms,soon enough all that is gonna happen. so we would be done here by thursday. I should get off now,I'm a lil hungry and thinking of grabbing something snack on before going to bed, Jess is already sleeping....kisses n hugs Oliver

Hey sweetie,how are you doing this morning. I trust you had a good night, well I did and right now, I'm happy to be able to write you. I told Jess all about you and and that we would meet you soon....She has been wanting to know what i have been in such a great mood lately and why I always seem happy especially when i'm on my laptop.She knows unlike before that the first thing i do every morning is get on my laptop.I showed her your pictures too.All she did was smiled and said "dad, she looks like a nice lady"....I trust we would all get along well. Yesterday, was really fun we enjoyed the weekend all the way. Let me tell you how it works.People come into the exhibition hall, you take them around and help them understand and appreciate each of the pieces you have on display so if the like it they buy or place and order to pay later.The show isn't ending to the end of this week. I'm sure you already know we are coming home this weekend,one day closer.Its amazing how time seems to be moving by smoothly. Sweetheart,You are like my morning coffee which gets me off with a great start and my comforter at night. I'm really glad to have you as a part of my daily thoughts.Thanks for bringing so much joy in to my life,i should say am grateful for that.We hit if off with this amazing chemistry on here,I can only imagine how good it will be when we finally together.I have to get off now,hope to talk to you tonight...have a lovely day.
Hugs n kisses to you guys from Jess and I Oliver

Hey honey, how are you doing today?I'm just getting up feeling a little reluctant to do anything today, its like one of those days when you just like to sleep in and not do anything.I enjoyed my sleep and wish the night was longer so i could continue dreaming about you...lol. Now am awake and there's sweet message from you.how nice!It rained a little last night and I realized the internet at the hotel shut down till this morning. I'm glad I could at least email and read from you this morning before leaving the hotel. You are one of the best things that has happened to me in such along time.I know in my heart that our paths crossed for a reason and its not a mare coincidence that we met.My heart has continues to swell with pride and joy knowing that i have met this wonderful man whose grown to become a special part of me.When i think of you, i look at all your pictures and smile,its almost feels like am looking directly in to your eyes.I all the your pics saved in a file on my laptop so i can view them without going into my email. I feel like this kid again, having butterflies in my stomach when a thought of your crosses my mind.I think about the great times that lie head of us,I keep saying to my self the best is yet to come.I know that's true.I cherish the moments I spend communicating with you,its always the best feeling when you know there's someone out there who truly cares for you .I'm shocked that we are able to establish this kind of bond and haven't met actually meet each other in person cos personally I never believed in meeting people this way.Who would have thought, I would be a living testimony to this. You make it a lot easier to cope with being so faraway from home....I have to go now, Hope to talk to you later..pls take good care of yourself and enjoy your day...hugs n kisses to you from Jess and I Oliver

Hi sweetheart,how are you doing?Its sunday evening here,I haven't got anytime to reach you, let alone email you for the past couple of days, you must noticed.I'm sorry if i had you worried its just things haven't been so good lately.Jess is really sick right now and has been admitted in a private hospital not far from the hotel since thursday night I noticed around past midnight her temperature became very high and she started shaking.I was so scared, i had to call the attention of the hotel manager, who helped me get cab and we took her to the nearest hospital not so far from our hotel where she got admitted. The doctors diagnosed and found out she's got "typhoid fever”. It must have been caused by untreated water she drank, most likely in my absence.This is why i haven't been able to get in touch to with you lately cos i have to stay up in the hospital with her most of the time,I only come in and leave almost immediately to get supplies when she is sleeping.I also missplaced my phone that night in the process of everything, thats why I couldn't even text you the situation but I know I will find it i just have to check around our room properly must have dropped somewhere and the hotel phone in my room doesn't have calling time on it. We were supposed to be on our way back to missouri as you already know but couldn't make it cos of how bad she was.Even worse, turns out my meetings with the clients didn't go so well. We still would have managed to return home if not for Jess's present medical condition.The doctors say she is not in good shape to travel yet till she gets better,hopefully in couple of more days.Baby you have no idea how I feel right now about everything.How much I miss you and how worried I am about my daughter.I could never forgive myself if anything happens to her.I'm sure she will be fine as the doctors have assured me that.Who would have thought things would turn out so bad after it started off so nicely.
Baby,I cant wait for this to be over,i know it will very soon.so we can all be together at home where we belong.I really do care about you and mean everything between us with my whole heart.You mean so much to me, pls put me in your prayers always. A lil concerned that you didnt even check up on me to find out whats wrong... Are you okay? I will be in touch as much as I can, call n text you once I find my phone .Lots of love n kisses,Oliver