Dear Susan,

I believe everyone should be trusted until they break that trust in some way. I mean if we live as skeptics, how sad is that? I see myself as a realist.There are those who live in la la land and are often disappointed in others when I feel they should be disappointed in themselves.I mean thinking the knight in shining armor is in everyone you meet is dangerous.I always see the glass as half full not half empty, and if the glass is empty then fill it.Life is simple really.
You must love yourself and others will love you as well. What I mean by this is, if you know yourself you know what you will or will not tolerate in others..First of all let me say, you have such a way of expressing yourself ...It's really hard to find a person that is interested in a possible long term relationship and not just a one night stand. I am looking for a best friend and partner.
Since the bar scene isn't really my thing, I'm looking for a way to meet some new friends and hang out.We can talk about going outdoors,sports, a good book and travel. I vacillate on what I am looking for.. I think that I'm ready to find my soul mate.Other times I wonder if a soul mate really exists. I've been in love numerous times. I really want the real thing. I am a very organized, hard-working person who is very dedicated to my job. I take my job seriously. However,sometimes I need to be distracted!
:) I am very responsible and enjoy helping others. Nothing makes me happier than to help someone out and make them smile! I am sincere in actions and words. I love to learn new things. I enjoy spending time with people and I don't really care what I am doing as long as I am having fun with people. I enjoy laughing and having fun and I think I am pretty funny! :) Guess you will have to find out! :). I signed up online because of several things. One of such is that, I'm not into the bar or club scene as i told you earlier on.. And don't feel that is the most appropriate place to meet someone.
Secondly, I think I am a good specimen for you to examine. ... I remember When I travel to Italy , I was an art curator, writer and critic added to my army experience, and this takes me around the globe...My involvement in the contemporary art and army scene is mulch-faceted....Is a city for the senses. It looks wonderful, it sounds human, the food tastes fresh, the sun feels good on your skin.The city still offers up brand new surprises. You can walk down the same street every day, and one afternoon, at a certain moment, the sun hits a window or a wall and you see a different beauty for the first time.
This is magic. I still get around town on my bicycle, which in the early days of pot-holes, uneven cobblestones and bag-snatchers,was an uncommon and fairly stupid mode of transport.But as a result, I now know the streets very well.
And you can talk to anyone — a kid playing football,dustman, young businesswoman parking her Alfa,dubious shaved guy, housewife — and everyone talks back to you. I am a shy person, but in some cities, it can be hard to find out anything about fascinating local drama.
My first proper project in Roma was in the Late -1990 where I worked with a Building and Construction Engineering firm... It was a hands-on, unusual experience but which I enjoy and learnt a lot from it ..This led to offers of work from some Italian Engineering Firms but i couldn't ignore my Love for Army ..From my work as army, grew a frustration with the quality of many shows I was seeing. So in 1992,I organized a small group exhibition together with some of my colleague which shared similar interest at Villa Palagione ( which is an excellent location where you can experience both culture and nature at close quarters) just to prove to myself that it wasn't impossible. The next year, as a further test, I conceived and organized an event called "Le meraviglie d'arte " ..This spirit of collaboration has characterized my work ever since...I am not a big fan of formal restaurants, so there is a series of noisy trattorias around town where I usually hang out but Pierluigi in Piazza de Ricci (near Campo de'Fiori) has been my second kitchen for the 2 years i spent there before returning to the states...You can find some forward thinking events and people in Italy, but they’re rare and few amidst many more.
I enjoyed The Dissonanze festival in Roma where I do go Once In a year... So this is a good example of forward thinking and open mindedness when it comes to music and art attached to my profession as an army, but they are few and far between and they still suffer from the majority of the crowd and public approaching them from a fairly close-minded perspective. What do you normally do at your Leisure time ??? My favorite activities are basically anything to do with being outdoors..Camping is one of my favorite things to do and also trying my hand at new things and I want you to know more about me . I believe and have faith in the golden rule also. I was raised rather strictly by Christian parents but i am not against any religion or belief. I am not perfect, no one ever is. I believe everybody has the power to control their good and bad sides---We make how we deal with life either good or bad with our attitudes and how we present ourselves to others and sometimes LIFE HAPPENS, and we just deal with it best as we know how.......I still have faith,and it is what has seen me through all the hills and valleys in my life-plus having great parents...I do still attend church, and that is something that will always be....so, if you aren't wanting to experience going to church with me ....I do not date a lot because I do not enjoy going out with so many different people....when I do go out on a date it is only because I am quite attracted to that person (in all aspects...not just physically), I think it is of extreme importance to be on the same levels with someone you are to share your life with. i.e intellect, sense of humor and also similar goals in life. These things all add up to admiration,loyalty and friendship..I would like to find this so that I may begin the second journey of my life in which i let you know in my profile so please ask me whatever you would like to know. I think you are someone that is seeking the same as I and so I would love to pursue this relationship with you to see what happens.
Thirdly, I lost my one and only family, that's my Parents Since i was little age,My sweet mum was born in the state "she get married to my dad" on her trip down to Italy" So let me say I'm Half American and Half Italian.. But that's OK now, I'm a big man now...I was born on March/4th/1965 which is 48 years old'right,my best color is Blue cos my eyes blue lol....I have been in the U.S ARMY for over 19 good years and I'm planing for my retirement processing.....cos this is my last deploy in Afghanistan, and i was identifies as a Staff Sergeant (SSG/Pay Grade E-6).
I was born in the state before i move down to Italy with my dad relatives, they stay in city of Rome, So i grow up in Italy and i spent many years over there with them and it really a great moment been over there as for me but the language stuff is really another thing...lol and i really love it to be honest with you...but just one day my grandma took me down to State without any reason. she just keep saying she want me to be a great man and be happy in united state...Can you imagine that.....lol so i went down to United state to start a new life' so she took me down to Hillsboro TX....I went to Hill College "Graduated: N/A" So i join a Military in 1998 and then i rent my first apartment in Lake City,UT cos i don't wish to stay in same city with my grandma she is very hard to deal with some times , so that's were i met her....I mean my sweetest queen Helen she was too nice to be and very funny woman as well she make me be a real man today...Do you understand what i Really mean by saying she make me be a real man....cos she gave me a lovely boy Mark my best gift from God means he is my happiness...So that make me a real man.lol But the saddest day of my life was when Helen passed away, I felt like it was the "END" of the world, I was a very happy family man and we had a great family until the "Tragic" incident took her away. I said I was never going to be married again but each day I feel really lonely and empty in me. I want to be happy again so I am looking for someone that can be honest and loving...I want to start life all over again as a brand new man....Helen was a Cancer patient before she died... I spend a lot of money and i try so hard to safe her life but God took her away from me, but its OK she's gone..So i have been a widowed for 8 years and i have never kiss or sleep with a woman since the death of my late wife Helen....Mark was born in Lake City,TX as well that's were i met is mum which is my late wife Helen, Yeah I'm able to see my SON the very day he was born to this world..., very great day of my life..cos i was so Dem happy on that day...Imagine myself became a father of kid..Wow!! It was very amazing.
I would love to have a faithful, loving,caring woman and family, and will do everything possible to have a wonderful relationship that is based on love and mutual respect..I believe we are meant to share living with another person. To me happiness is having someone to love and to be loved by someone. I want to meet a wonderful woman who will love me for who i am, there is nothing more special than having someone special in your life.
If you decide that you are interested in discovering the real me and seeing if I'm the man you are searching for, please write back to me. I will patiently be awaiting your letter.
I am looking forward to your response soon.
Yours
Faithfully
David
Hackett.

Dear Susan,

When I met you, my life could not have been in a worse state. My heart had been broken too many times to count and life just didn't seem worth living anymore.
Then you came along.
From the first time I laid eyes on you, I knew that you would be someone that would make me smile again. You had such a warm, soft look on your face that I knew there was comfort and friendship in your heart. We started out as friends and you were the rock I needed in my life. I soon began to realize that what I was feeling for you was more than a friendship... Something so overwhelming and wonderful that I couldn't even believe it myself. You opened my heart to new and wonderful things! You showed me what love really is and showed me that I was worth loving.
You have given me hope, fulfilled dreams, and given me a reason to go on. You have helped me become a complete man, A better person, and a better friend. You have completed me in more ways than you could ever imagine! The love i have given to you is sometimes so hard to believe that I still have to pinch myself to make sure it's really in my life!
I love you so very much, Sweetheart, always and forever! I'm so very thankful to share this unbelievable love with you! I love you, my angel!!!...
Hope to hear back from you soon.
Your
Love,
David.

Good Morning my sweetest queen of my heart, How was your nite? You're always on my mind my love, you are the very air that I breathe, the very love that I need, my heart, my soul, my everything. The sweetest of my memories come when I think of you. I remember the very first day that I saw you, I could not believe I was looking at a human being. I pinched myself the hardest one could ever do so as to wake myself up from the drunken stupor I was in. For a moment I believed I was in heaven, I even danced to the music the angels were singing. Upon opening my eyes I realized I was not in heaven but that an angel had come down to earth, just for me. Words alone limit me to explaining exactly how I feel about you, no song that I can sing, and no gesture that I can show, to prove my love for you, for the love I have for you has no definition. How can I describe the sheer joy I feel with the very thought of you? How simply hearing your voice causes my heart to beat faster, my pulse to race and my smile to widen. How can just one person give me so much hope for a future I have always dreamed of? You have opened my heart and awakened my soul. You are my one and only true love and i can feel it in me ever since i met you on the site. That is how I know that our love is everlasting. I can say you are the sole comforter to me, the only one who ever took the pain to understand me. You dry every tear that falls down my cheeks. Loving you is the best thing that ever happened to me and I will forever cherish the moments we have spent together. Seeing your pics, i like the way you look at me, my mouth felt numb and I stuttered. I wished I had the courage to do so because you're the most beautiful angel I have ever seen. Maybe God closed my eyes to other woman and you attracted my attention. I have been waiting for you for 8 years now, I hope I'll be able to hold your hands and kiss you soon.
I can't just wait to do that. Every night I dream of heaven, and I'd gotten used to the idea that they are looking for an angel, one that went missing the day you stepped into my life, the day all my sorrows were washed away and I took a step into the impossible, crossing the margin from natural to supernatural. You are my angel and forever you will be. The one whose memories I will treasure forever till the day I turn into an angel like you. I really felt so lightened inside that I melted. I could say nothing but to just stare at your natural beauty. I wish we could go out together right now and we could have our nights by the bay and that I could pour out my feelings to you. I love you so much! I can't wait to spend forever with you my love.
Xoxoxo Your Husband ! David.

My sunshine I appreciate you so much I must confess, I wish I could put all my thoughts into words.I believe we are so compatible with each other which is very true. I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand.
This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you lay out in the sun too long.I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass by us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I want to see you walk down that aisle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be 100 years old and still make out with you like a little schoolgirl. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up going to pick up a to-go or dinner somewhere lol. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to burst out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time.
I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, whichever one we feel like at the time. I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you" because you know it's coming from the heart. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head. I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I am really crazy about you; everything about you. I guess it’s your turn to share some of your wants with me as well. Your Husband To Be !!! David Hackett.

My Queen,

Never in a million years did I ever think that I could find the kind of happiness and love that I have found with you. You are a dream come true and I'm really glad that fate brought us together. It wasn't difficult going at first day, My sweet knight, I love you with all my heart, body, and soul. When ever i talk you seem to make all my worries disappear. I have never had a woman such as you, make me feel so loved, needed, and oh so happy!
I know with you anything and everything is possible and my dreams - our dreams, are destine to come true. You will forever be etched in my heart like a permanent mark for our eternal love - a soul mate's reminder that I will never again be alone in my search for true love, for you remind me that you are truly sent from the heavens where only the bravest knights, such as you my love, can turn an iced heart of glass and melt it, turning it into a soft warm puddle of bliss where the future is secure and all will be well. I am so proud, and honored and completely overjoyed knowing that you will be my wife and I your husband. The love I feel for you is quiet often hard to put into words. I promise you, my sweet knight, I will go the distance to show you how much I need you in my life and how much you will always mean to me.
The love we have is that only of soul mates' true love for one another which will never be doubted or destroyed....
I love you so much Susan and I can't wait till I will be in your arms for real and tell I love you in person.
Your
Husband
David.

Hi Beautiful, I just wanted to do something simple to say I love you and to put that smile I love so much back on your face. I want everyone to know how much you mean to me. Ever since we have been communicating in fews days now, I've been flying on Cloud 9 and I have not come down yet.I tell you this day, you are the most beautiful perDaughter I know, inside and out and I see that more clearly with each passing day. I love everything about you, more to be about us. You do somethings no one has, you have made me so happy, the happiest I've ever been. You give me the most amazing feelings inside, the feeling of being in love with some one like you cos you pay so much attention to every thing i say to you..I still don't know what I did to be so lucky to have you in my life, my dream come true... I am so thankful though. In this short time that we've been together, I have grown so much and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us. I want to love you like no one as ever loved you and care for you like no one as ever does, babe with all my heart and soul, always and forever!
Thinking
Of You Always, David.