Hi Anela,
Good hearing from you,... I thought I had to write you soon , I just wanna clearify your thoughts about me letting you know who I am and making things straight so we can both decide if we want the acquaintance to continue,i thought it would not be nice discussing the site where we met.
I work here in london on a contract to construct building for a company about to be established here, due to the nature of my work,I think we are far apart at the moment, I love kids so much, Yes I am from United State because thats where my Dad's from but I lost him while I was just a kid too, I never got much of him ,but I love to meet and make friends with people from Australia and other countries of the world, I once lived with my mother in london,a beautiful city most of my life The city that never sleeps, she is originally from the New Zealand before we moved back to the states, when I was a kid we used to travel between the states and new zealand, it was always fun,but after my Dad's death she relocated to South Africa, where we all lived till I grew up to be a Man, I am from a good home, well brought up with goodeducation,i am presently doing a contract work..
I did not come into the chat room to meet people that will hurt me, or think less of me, I like to meet genuine people, who would not mind sharing anything with me, who will be my friend and who will respect me for who I am and not wanting to take advantage of me,who knows where that might get us maybe after some correspondence....I am not a one night stand type, so if that is what you are looking for, I think I am the wrong person....So tell me....What do you look for the most in a man..is it looks..sense of humor...intelligence...??
There are a lot of factors involved in a relationship that has chemistry and much has been written about that subject over the years...i think it is something you cant put a finger on..it just is or isn't.Do you agree? These days it is so hard to find the right one...but i do believe that when you do...you have to nurture it and make it grow into a lasting thing because finding that special person is not a common happening. Some say that it only happens once in a lifetime..not sure about that but i do know that it doesnt happen every day.I long to have that in my life...i have alot to give in a relationship and think that if both are on the same page that it can be incredible.I get mails ever day in the chat room, but mostly from some "freaks" who wants nothing but sex, I think sex should come with a passion, I'd rather prefer the word love making to sex, that comes with a passion and desire for the other party, I think your email got my attention because you kinda sound genuine and straight forward knowing what you want with a good manner of approach, so what do you think of a distance friendship or as the case maybe relationship...Well my favorite color is brown,I like to go to the Cinema and i Enjoy swimming a lot....will like to hear from you soon,can you tell me more about yourself maybe some personal things like your dislikes, likes,have kids?,marriage etc .. feel free to tell me anything I will appreciate that.i attached a photo of me this mail,hope you like it.Can you send me more pics of you as well..?
Cares cares...
Jake.

Hello Sweetie,
Sweetheart your letter keeps chilling me up with hopes and thoughs of a future plans .At this very moment I am sitting here dreaming and fantasizing about how nice it would be for you to be near, where I could do what I enjoy most and that is being able to romance the special one I have in my life...
In me sweetheart you are going to find the most passionate, loving and romantic woman you have ever met. There are very few promises in life but this is one of them!. ROMANCE is the key to my happiness and to my heart and soul!. It is the single biggest reason I am single today is because I have yet to find a woman who will romance me with the passion of there heart and be a giver of there love, and not just a taker. I am a man who is very committed to the special woman I am sharing my heart and soul with. I totally dedicate and devote my life totally to this person 24/7, for she is my Queen and it is my belief that as long as she is my Queen, God would want me to treat him as such, by putting him on a pedestal that is reserved only for a queen and showing him with an endless amount of affection, attention, passion, and unconditional love. It is my duty as a follower of the word of God to be his provider, providing for his emotional, mental, and sexual needs. It is my responsibility as her king to take any problems and stress that he has in her life and put it on my shoulders to free him of it, for I am a man and her king!. My shoulders are bigger so it is my obligation to carry the burdens she has in life on them, allowing her to have a healthy mind, body, and heart and soul at all times. I love and cherish this role sweetheart, and it is because I love it so much, that I feel God has a role for everyone in life, and his chosen role for me is to be a excellent Husband, father, and family man, because of the way I live my life, and because of my passion to be a great lover and family man, in addition to the passion I have for children. I believe children play a big part in life. Dear you are really going to be in for a big surprise as you get to know and understand me as my words mean nothing compared to my action. Your King,
Jake.