Romance scam letter(s) from Nigel Bacon to Sam (USA)
I just thought I’d share this with you and know what you think. I understand that there are many different ways to partner, and I try not to judge other people’s choices, but for me, I would like to find an equal partner, someone who contributes as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn’t have to be about money, but in totally, the work, effort and total contribution we bring. I have expectations for myself, and in the past I’ve found it difficult to find someone who had similarly high expectations for themselves. It seems like so many people want to do ‘just enough’ to get by, but I want more than that.
As a basic foundation I think there should be respect for each other’s freedom (though to make a partnership work, I believe that we have to freely choose to take our partner and our family into consideration when we make choices), honesty and openness, I don’t believe that ‘little white lies’ are harmless or kind, I believe that honesty, even if we don’t want to hear what someone has to say, is always more kind in the long run. I think it’s especially important for partners to be able to trust each other, without that, it just seems like everything falls apart. I also think it’s important to be able to express your needs and wants to each other. And make decisions together about how to meet them. I believe it’s important to be kind to each other, to not be callous with each other’s hearts. To have compassion and empathy for each other and be willing to really listen to what your partner has to say. I want to support my partner in achieving her dreams, and feel supported by them in accomplishing mine. I want to work together with my partner to make decisions as a family well.... Thanks for reading. Hope to chat with you soon. Steve...
How are u doing over there? I am sorry this message is getting to u late. A little more about me. My name is Anthony, I am a native Of Lexington,NC. I am Army Sgt. in the US Army. I joined the army in August 1987, only three months after graduating from high school. Growing up in a military family, My bother and I, Brad, both set our sights on serving our country at a young age. Brad joined the Navy while i joined the army. I was assigned to Fort Campbell. My second tour in Afghanistan was my 24th overall, and i was hoping to quit soon and start my own business empire after i return home. He also served in Somalia, libya, Iraq, South Korea, Egypt,Afghanistan and Haiti. I don't fear insects or spiders. At great heights, I jump off, smiling. In the face of death I wink. But, when I look into your profile, i was in fear of how much i will like to get to know you. How are you doing and how is everything going on with you over there and hope all had been really good at your end, have been very busy and things has not really been going the way i wanted it but anyway am grateful to God, am a man that believe so much in God and i know his up there watching everyone though am not so religious but i know there is a creator cause am from a Christian background and i do say my prayers once in a while most especially when things seem a bit difficult, i really do appreciate the moment you have taking to sit back and write me and my heart tells me that there is something good out of this communication and who knows maybe the long searching angel is right here now, am a very positive man and i dont give up easily and believe in the best and cant give up trying to get the best, lots of people on the internet searching for thee love ones but well i must say am new to everything cause have never met or talked to anyone like this online before so for you to be the first person coming my way then i know there is much to it and who knows where this might end us, everything has to be a step after another and we get things work out for good with truthfulness and openness, Where do i start from? Really it is disturbing to come on this dating site to see how much people appreciate love, but yet we have to go the extra mile to get this great status. i have come to realize that we are nothing without a partner, someone who would stand by me no matter the situation. A woman who can hold her own when it comes to matters of the heart. Well enough of that cause i wont to bored you with all that. I was never married. I had a son out of wedlock. My son is 23 years now and is currently in Australia married with a son too. Being able to come home a stressful day and hold a nice conversation with my woman is something that has been missing in my life for a long time. Believe it or not, the most sensitive part of my body is my fingertips. I love to touch!!! Holding hands and showing affection is very important to me. I believed in friendship so much cos to me it is the key role to a long lasting relationship. I am looking for someone to cherish to love or be loved and i believe it might be you. I want the person whom i can share my ideals with, express my concerns with , comfort her in an hour of need. i am down to earth, very practical, common sense individual. I believe in trusting one another. Trust is the most important of a relationship don't you agree?. Without trust a relationship cannot exist. I want to be the one that can be there to reassure You in your times when you questions something. I want to be the one that can make you laugh for i do have a good sense of humor, and a general good disposition about me. One cannot fake this, I am a one woman man and i would respect my love for who she is. My heart would not permit me to hurt my love emotionally for to hurt you would also hurt myself. There would be great emptiness in my life if i was to lose you. I will value you like myself, ideas, and feel that what ever you have to say is important! my values are traditional. I was taught to respect others. To treat that person as i would be treated. I would like to give it a try and get to know you as deep and compassionate as yourself better. This is my interest and i want you to know what you think about both opinion. You've got lovely looks and I must let you know you're so gorgeous and will definitely be a woman every man will admire and want to be with. fell free to talk to me much of yourself and how you think this whole thing can work out for the best and send me more pics of you my favorite colors are Blues and green then sometimes love to go one white too. Your profile as hit me like a tidal wave. It takes a second to say I like you but a lifetime to show it,... It's my first time on a dating site due to my work. Some of my hobbies are listening to country music, writing, Playing tennis, Cooking, reading and i also love watching movies when ever i am free.The main thing i look for in a woman is trust ,love, care and i want to trust her even if she's 1 million miles away and vice verse, Here are some questions for you ( smiles ), i need to know when your birthday is ? how many friends do you call your best? are you a fast food type or eat at home ? whats your favorite spot on Holidays ? how often do you travel ? Due to your work circumstances , how many hours does it keep you away from your lover in a day ? Are you single or have been married before? Do you live alone ? in a house or an apartment ? For how long have you been into the online dating system ? I'll wrap it up here My Birthday is Feb 27 and i am 43 years old, my favorite color is Blue, my best friend is Jesus because he has never failed me, I am still in US ARMY and i am deployed to Kabul Afghanistan war zone.
My awards include the Bronze Star Medal, Meritorious Service Medal with 2 Oak Leaf Clusters, Army Commendation Medal with 4 Oak Leaf Clusters, Iraqi Campaign Medal, two Overseas Service Ribbons, and a Meritorious Unit Citation from Operation Iraqi Freedom. I has earned the Senior Aviator Badge and the Parachutist Badge. I am qualified in the AH-64D Longbow Apache, the AH-64A Apache, the OH-58 Kiowa, and the UH-1 Iroquois “Huey” Helicopter. I have seen faces of women on this site, many of whom have been taken for granted, many of whom are not being reciprocated, but i have come with a good news and a bad news... the good news is i came here to pick my woman to make me happy, my eight wonder, my best friend, my copilot, but the bad news is that i have only one woman to do this for.lol. I saw something in your face, something that made my heart pause to read your profile up, something that tickles in the heart, could it be love at first sight? maybe we could find that out, I'm talking about faith here when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. Always feel free to share with me everything you think you want me to know about you and i will also do that in return.
I will be waiting for your response. I have not been here much after i viewed your profile and liked what i saw..... I mean, one can come here to find just one person, and when you have found one, something within you will tell you. Have a nice day and hope to read from you again. I need a real woman that would be there for me and that would love me for me... Tell me when do you normally come online so we can chat maybe someday because I don't have much access to the computer.
So i can email you more freely I will love u too also send me your pictures too and tell me more about the job u do.
I hope to hear from you soon.
Just had time to use the computer again. Well i will Only let you know my Interest in you ...It doesnt border me if u are older than me. I am very loyal and will be the best friend you could ever have or want. I may not have the biggest shoulders in the world, but I am a friend for life, and want to always be there for my woman.I would try all my best to make a friend smile and Happy at all Time. Its nice seeing new places and meeting new people from the world, Bedroom aerobics are great, and I consider that an important part of a relationship. Being able to come home after work and hold a nice conversation is something that has been missing in my life for a long time. Believe it or not, the most sensitive part of my body is my fingertips. I love to touch!!! Holding hands and showing affection is very important to me. I believed in friendship so much because to me it is the key role to a long lasting relationship. I am looking for someone to cherish to love or be loved and i wanted to give the dating site a chance maybe I will find someone since am far away right now.I want the person whom i can share my ideals with, express my concerns with, comfort her in an hour of need. i am down to earth, very practical, common sense individual. I believe in trusting one another. Trust is the most important of a relationship don't you agree?. Without trust a relationship cannot exist. I want to be the one that can be there to reassure my woman in times when she has a questions or something.
I want to be the one that can make my woman laugh for i do have a good sense of humor,and a general good disposition about me. One cannot fake this, I am a one woman man and i would respect my love for who she is. My heart would not permit me to hurt my love emotionally for to hurt you would also hurt myself. There would be great emptiness in my life if i was to lose someone I love again. I will value my woman like myself, ideas, and feel that what ever you have to say is important! my values are traditional. I was taught by parents to respect a woman like Yourself. To treat that person as i would be treated. I would like to give it a try and get to know you as deep and compassionate as yourself better. This is my interest and i want you to know what you think about both opinion. I want you to know love is not about finding the right person but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end and you need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust. Am begining to develop something for you wish I will let you know as long as we keep the geographical gap between us closer with the help of communication,Your presence in my life will brings wonderful smiles and loving thoughts within my heart Happiness whenever I see a message from you. Am very pleased with you and what attract me most is your soul and personality.Thinking about you. By the way i am currently in Kabul
Have a wonderful day babe. Yours,
Hello My Angel,
How are you doing and how is your day and hope all is going on fine with you at the moment, am glad for taking you time to respond to the little test i gave you and i must let you know you really tried and let me put it this way you passed and have been able to express your mind truthfully, this is my own answer to the Test i set for you before so i guess we both should answer it,
If someone gives me $10 million with no strings attached, what would I do with it OK this is how i will spend it.
Pay my tithe
$2m goes to families and friends, $2m to the orphanage, $1m on myself, $3m on stocks and investments then the rest will be deposited to enjoy with my woman (YOU) LOL.
If I could sit down to lunch with any 3 people (living or dead), who would they be?..
It probably would be my mum and dad the next person is no one but you cause you have captivated me now ever since i met you.
My dream in life is to... be a happy Partner.
My mission in life is to... raise a happy Relationship with my woman and be a good role model to new generations.
What values do I hold most deeply?..
Honesty, loyalty, determination & positivist
What are the most important things in life?..
Make the people around you happy so that you can be happy as well. Be loyal and honest to people, God fearing and most importantly building a happy family and children.
What does happiness mean to me?
Feeling safe and secure in a relationship. being in a relationship where there is trust. having time for recreational activities, sharing with people when you have then automatically they will be happy to share with you in return.
What event (negative or positive) was a turning point in my life or taught me something I didn't know about myself?..
There are loads but I will mention one.. this was when I was in my final class in High school.. after my new Literature teacher finished reading my poem, he called and praised me to put in more efforts.
If I only have 6 months to live, what would I do?.....
All I would want is to move close to my partner and close ones and probably think of something which will serve as a stick of remembrance after my death and we keep having a fun filled moment daily till the day i will die. Well i think have been able to answer the questions also so tell me what my scores are too, have a wonderful moment as i will be thinking of you and hoping to read from you again.
How are you doing and how is everything at your end, i really appreciate this consistent communication and i will say it is a sign of will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead. I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people, it is a place called joy and happiness. Really i just see in your face that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul. As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realise there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge. no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give you support. There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My friends would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love, but sincerely that is the bitter truth. When my ex gf cheated on me, they told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better can't start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co-pilot.
My son and grandkid are doing great in Australia. I often get to communicate with them and we often plan on where to be together for Christmas. My son has been asking me when will i move on with my life and i need to find a good woman to continue with but i told him the right woman is not yet available but maybe i will tell them about you but let see how things works out for us and who knows what this might leads to, anyway distance is not a problem.
My heart would not permit me to hurt my love emotionally for to hurt you would also hurt myself. There would be great emptiness in my life if i was to lose you. I will value you like myself, ideas, and feel that what ever you have to say is important! my values are traditional. I was taught to respect a fellow human like myself. To treat that person as i would be treated. I would like to give it a try and get to know you as deep and compassionate as yourself better. This is my interest and i want you to know what you think about both opinion, i love good and cool music starting from Country, Rap and Blues, classic, Gospel, and not the TV person maybe once in a while to see the news on, documentries but not often, i eat anything as long as its good and healthy but i like seafoods greatly, i always try to do some little excerises one a week just to keep fit
My usual saying, and i am known for it, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple. I don't like to complicate things,there is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from. I want to spend the rest of my life having fun. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less. I say, Who says we cant design our own paradise together? It is workable,just walk by my side.
I long to read from you later in the day,for now i must take care of some work so i will check back on you later ok. Have a lovely day.
The man who dont want to stop thinking about you and wondering where this communication will leads us to,
My dearest Angel Samantha,
You would agree, we are corresponding to know each other better? I will share with you in this letter, which I am; I will give you a chance to know me, without even having met me in person. I know that relationships are developed, we must meet, spend time together to know for sure. I think it is important that you know me, and I share with you who I am, even through my letters but please i will want you to take special care to read my letter. Go somewhere still and quiet, so you can be alone with me, give me this special time with you, with no distractions. Read my letter with your heart, and you will hear my voice, you will hear my heart beating, you will feel my gentleness, my care, my passion, my emotion, my laughter, my joy, my positive energy. Angel Samantha, you have no idea the limitless love I have to give, if you were made of wax, it would probably make you melt. Angel Samantha...I have so much to give, to someone who can fully receive it, and appreciate it. I will say also, I have such deep desire to be loved in return; it is so very deep within me, such intense longing. I know we have not got to meet yet, but my impression of you, is that you would be able to love me, and let that love flow out of you, and not hold it back from me. I desire relationship with you that are uninhibited, built on love and trust, comfort and security. We should feel completely safe with each other, and we can share with each other ALL things, our heats, minds, soul, body, and spirit, completely open to each other. What do you think of this, what I have said? I believe your heart echo's the same. Angel Samantha...I must also tell you, something that is so very...very important to me, I want that you should always remember this.
I try very hard to communicate, and I put a lot of loving work into it. I have learned, from experience, communication is extremely important!
Angel Samantha... I desire this from you as well; I want to know if you should be sad, if anything troubles you, I also want to know your joy, and laughter, your thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Angel Samantha, I want that I should be able to bathe in you, be consumed in who you are, that the river of your soul should wash over me, and bring me into deep...deep...so very deep intimacy with you. I know that communication comes in various ways, it is personal energy, body language, verbal, and mental...a knowing. I think you are this way too, but I want to hear these things from you Angel Samantha. I know at times your heart will speak to me in many ways, in your simple gestures, romantic gestures, body language, in a gentle touch, a smile, or a joyful laugh. I consider that communication is also a labor of love, if you truly love someone, you will love to communicate, but it is always a choice, we always choose our actions. If you feel hurt, or misunderstood, or upset, your first reaction should not be to turn away from that person, or to withdraw and become distant. I tell you a more excellent way! Let your heart soften, let the love within you soften your heart, let your first reaction be to draw to each other, to come together. Love can truly heal all things, it is a healing balm or salve, but it is always a choice, love cannot heal unless you allow it, it is a choice of the will, and we must always take accountability for our choices, we can never blame anyone else. I am a positive person, and I refuse to let negativity control my life. Positive energy brings life; negative energy tears it down, or destroys it. I wish to be surrounded in a positive environment as much as possible, where life, and love thrive in abundance, and grow!!! Negativity is another word for FEAR. Please think about this.
How does fear affect people, does it ever produce anything good? Of course not, fear paralyzes people, disables them, hurts them, controls them (if they let it); fear robs from people, causes people to do things they do not want. Fear out of control brings death! OK...enough about fear! In life there is a rhythm, it is a Universal law, the entire universe abides by it. This rhythm expands and contracts, it is like inhaling the breath of life, and exhaling sweet breath. I look for harmony in relationships, peace, love, nurturing, understanding, gentleness, passion, sensuality, creativity, spontaneity, laughter, joy. The rhythm of love between a husband and wife, sometimes it flows like a raging river of torrent and passion, it can become a gentle stream of slower current, or the slow trickle of crystal water that flows from a mountain stream. Yes love flows these many different ways, and goes through these rhythms and cycles if we let it, if we will only choose love, and give no place to fear. I believe that life is lived from the inside out, who we are, and who we want to be, is what we are inside. You want to know me right? Always what is inside of us is what is expressed outwardly, on the outside. I share with you, what comes from within me. I open my heart, even in my letters, so that you can see into my soul, the person who I am, and who I want to be. I share with you, something from my Heart. Sometimes I write things down, my thoughts, feelings, dreams, emotions, passions. Relationships, good relationships, are not based on hobbies and interests, it is only mutual love that a relationship is strong, and survives. If the love stops flowing, so does the relationship. We must always choose love; it is the most excellent way!! If the relationship is good, then the hobbies and interests work themselves out. I share with you from my mind, because you need to know me, who I am inside. It is important you know who I am. If you desire to know who I am, then you will be able to not only read my words, but feel them. As you read, open your heart, let go of all fear, and they will come alive to you, it will whisper the truth to your soul, you have only to become still and quiet, and you will hear it's voice, it is a voice of gentleness, love, and compassion.
These are my own words, my own thoughts, and feelings. Judge for yourself, what kind of person do you think I am? Do you think I am capable to love? You have not met me yet in person, but what does my writing speak to you. If you listen, it will speak volumes, if you listen, it will be as if I am with you now. I stand before you, I look into your eyes intently, and with tenderness, read my words, and look into my soul. Indeed, we will meet in person, hopefully very soon....but you do not need to meet me, to know me, before I come to you. I ask you, is not inner beauty most important? Read my words, read from my Heart that I share with you. Ask yourself, what kind of person I am, can you see, without having met me yet? Do these words come from a person who is beautiful inside, or someone who is ugly inside? You are the judge, you want to know me, here I am, and you will know me, if your heart is open, you will have known me, without even seeing me. Of course I am much more than these words, what you see now, is only the tip of the iceberg. I will be much more in person, than you see here. I am infinitely more...
Sorry for the late response, I was a little down with flu. Greetings from me and may God bless you. Thanks for giving me your attention, I was born in Barbados to a Danish dad and a Lebanese mum, I have a very weird mix, I relocated to the United states five years ago, I lived 40 years of my life in Bridgetown Barbados before relocating to NYC after the death of my mum, I lost her to cancer, she was all I had, my dad died when I was just 25, I was lucky to experience love from both parents, my mum was so full of life and she always had pleasant things to say about my dad, enough of my bitter stories. I am single, I have no kids and I have never been married. My parents were into agricultural imports business, I took after them and i have been managing the business since i was 25. I shuttle between Edmonton and NYC for my business and most times i am in NYC. My mum never stopped talking about my dad and that is the kind of union I want to have with my partner. I have very close aunts, uncles and cousins in America, like I said before I am the only child and so I have no siblings. Well it was a tough experience, when you have parents who taught you the very reason for existence then I am sure you can pull through any situation. I think everything happens for a reason and we can not really control or affect them. I am motivated to know more about businesses and cultures all over the world, thus the reason for my choice of business; I am involved in the importation of agricultural products such as corn, oil-seeds, wheat and cocoa for manufacturing firms. I am a christian, I was raised a catholic but my beliefs do not interfere with that of others, I believe in one Christianity, tolerance and one true God. Let me see, what else can I share about me? I have a strong work ethic and I never give anything less than my absolute best. Oh, one more thing, in case you hadn't figured it out already, I am a hopeless romantic. I love the little things about a relationship -- holding hands and doing nothing, picking flowers in a field for the table for dinner, I know, it probably sounds silly but it's me. I enjoy the outdoors, love spending time by the water (lakes and oceans) as the water grounds me and provides me with inner peace. I enjoy a nice sunset especially by the water, I enjoy cooking, walking, swimming, anything with outdoors involvement and playing like a kid when am with my partner, a swing is always lots of fun. I have a playful spirit. I enjoy a good movie, all types of music, reading, some sports, and different types of food. I am open to trying new things. The bottom line is I am active and have a tremendous amount of energy to expend.
I do hope we can take it on from here; maybe we can talk on phone, text more and see where it leads.
I await your message
I have been thinking about you. I think I like the direction we are heading, thanks for letting me feel welcomed to you. I just thought I’d share this with you and know what you think, I understand that there are many different ways to partner, and I try not to judge other people’s choices, but for me, I would like to find an equal partner, someone who contributes as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn’t have to be about money, but in totality, the work, effort and total contribution we bring. I have expectations for myself, and in the past I’ve found it difficult to find someone who had similarly high expectations for themselves. It seems like so many people want to do ‘just enough’ to get by, but I want more than that. As a basic foundation I think there should be respect for each other's freedom (though to make a partnership work, I believe that we have to freely choose to take our partner and our family into consideration when we make choices), honesty and openness, I don’t believe that ‘little white lies’ are harmless or kind, I believe that honesty, even if we don’t want to hear what someone has to say, is always more kind in the long run. I think it’s especially important for partners to be able to trust each other, without that, it just seems like everything falls apart. I also think it’s important to be able to express your needs and wants to each other and make decisions together about how to meet them. I believe it’s important to be kind to each other, not to be callous with each other’s hearts. To have compassion and empathy for each other and be willing to really listen to what your partner has to say. I want to support my partner in achieving her dreams, and feel supported by them in accomplishing mine. I want to work together with my partner to make decisions as a family, and share our power, well.... If there is anything you didn't find comfortable with what I just said please don't hesitate to let me know. I have a very unique and soft spot for you, I love the way we have connected and being able to communicate honestly and freely is a positive sign for something great in the future. I do hope our meeting turns out to be what we have both wished for and it will mark the beginning of a beautiful relationship for us. It might come with challenges, same with everyday life, but one thing I am sure of is anything can be achieved with some effort.
Have a beautiful afternoon
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