how are you doing? it's a great pleasure to get your email and I really appreciate your cool response. i had a great and busy day yesterday, i just checked my email this morning and i saw your email.
After reading your profile it shows that you are an interesting and a fun woman, Am new to this online stuff, i was a member on match but Don't really know how it works, Well i think the first thing to do is to tell you more about me, am Stevern Welmesom 56, a Professional Engineer(civil engineer) into constructing, own my own company. I grew up in Stockholm Sweden. a family of 3, My Mom, my Dad and I. i Lost my dad 2 years ago and wife 5 year ago (am Over that now and have Moved on). i have a daughter, Kimberly 15, She is all i have now, she is the center of my life, she stays with My Mother in Sweden. i am 6"0. tall, widower and my picture is current. I really do look some years younger than I am, Am old fashion and traditional, like to take things slow and steady. I'm well read and intelligent, English is not my first language but i think am good at it.
I don't have plans for summer yet, do you have plans for summer?...hope you will be a great weekend.
like to hear some more from you and more about you.
Good to get an email from you, am really glad we can communicate like this and get to know each other better until we meet in person. Hope you are having a great Sunday. Am just enjoying a cup of tea and going through my works.
These are the answers to your questions
Am the only child of my parents. I had a lovely childhood as the only child my mum spoiled me but my dad was against her spoiling me, when school is out i love playing football and hanging out with friends, am an average student not too good and not too a bad guy. my favorite subjects are physics and chemistry because they are related to my course of study and the most important part is that the teachers were good, they know what they are teaching. my dad was an engineer, my favorite childhood holiday is Christmas. The last time i dated was two years ago but my girlfriend disappointed me by cheating on me, my daughter told me about online dating and lucky for me you are the first person that happens to be my exact match on match.com.
My wife died 5 years ago we were married for about 23 years. i got married to her at the age of 28 and i lost her at the age of 51. She died of cancer, it was a painful death she fought for her life until she finally gave up her ghost. ever since then am single. I moved finally to Victoria 4 years ago after my wife died.
Favorite Sport to play/watch? football
My passions include reading inspirational books, clever mysteries and intimacy, i have read this one by Matthew Kelly "7 levels of intimacy", really inspirational, would help you build a better relationship. On Music, I like Jazz,Blues, country, pop, classical, RnB soul. Am an Art Lover,i love going to the museum and antiques shops. I Am a movie Lover, I Love the cinemas and am the comedy type, I also watch some actions packed thriller, Adventures Romance and some decent Erotica. I Love to Dance going to the ball room
I don't like to be the center of Attraction, I love to lay low and prefer intimate gatherings?
My greatest fear is failure.
my favorite color is blue
Favorite Food? Love most food especially seafood and vegetables
Favorite Wine? white wine
My greatest achievement would be getting to where I am today and how much i have impacted on peoples life. I love to give freely and always expect nothing in return.
my Favorite vacation spot would be the Caribbeans, I have been to Milan, Greece(Athens) and Venice. I would love to go to Paris, Hawaii and Madrid.
what has been your experiences on dating sites? the good, the bad and the ugly? this is my first experience on a dating site.
hope to hear some more from you
I Will love to meet you for a coffee, but am having a busy week on a project am working on. will be travelling in two days time. hope to tell you when i will be free for a coffee. Its is not about information over load, but trying to create an atmosphere of comfortably and knowing what each other likes. like i told you earlier am old fashion and traditional, love to take things slow and steady. this is my first experience on dating site and you did not answer my question. what has been your experiences on dating sites? the good, the bad and the ugly?
Dear if you have any questions for me please don't hesitate to ask whatever you please i will be glad to answer your questions.your emails and your openness really makes me comfortable.its left for you to follow your heart and not let your past get in your way of happiness.i have had such a bad past with a relationship 2 years ago, but i feel its time to let it go and open up my heart again to love and beloved.I am so ready to fall in love again and give my heart 100%.i also look forward to meeting you in person but We better keep our communications open and learn more about each until we are comfortable to meet in person, so it does not seem we are meeting as a total strangers.I will be having a busy day to day against my travel tomorrow. even if we don't meet before i live, i will like to keep in contact with you while am away just for a month in England trying to make some earnings (a construction project).
that's a picture of me at a dinner and one with my mom the last time i visited her.
hope to hear from you soon
you such a beautiful woman, i love those picture and it a good way of getting comfortable with each other. I'm definitely eager to hear more about you. I like that you are a person who is comfortable with sharing. i will be travelling tomorrow. it looks like you don't check through your emails every day. i will love to meet with you before i live tomorrow if time permits me. hope to keep in communication with you while am gone just for a month to England. you can send me your number so i can call you.
Hello sweet Beauty,
I imagine being by your side and how good i will feel to fall into your arms all night long and getting comfortable with you. thanks for your number, i just had to drop this quick note for you before i leave later today. I will always communicate with you and tell you how my days goes until am back home. i will only be spending a month just to supervise the start up plan of the project. Hope that is not a long time to wait my dear. will call you as soon as i get to England. I won't let distance come in between our connection.
How are doing? guess you are having a wonderful day, am happy to announce to you that I had a safe trip down to England, although it was hectic and delayed at the airport for some reasons I arrived safely and have lodged in a nice private apartment. I thought about you all through the flight ,thinking about you is beyond what words can describe.
I can't really say the time difference but I guess it will be 6 or 7 hrs, However...... am not going to let anything come between us, distance, time difference whatsoever.
I so much value our communication, I love reading your emails, it makes me happy, Its so much fun to have you in my life. I want to use this simple email to to tell the way I feel even as we are miles apart........and I will always communicate with you and tell you how my days goes until am back home.
Just wanted to tell you that am fine and as time goes the bond will get stronger everyday. thanks for your number again. will call you later
I have rested and I want to just sit back and to talk to you. here is my number +44 7031917774 you can call me anytime dear.I can't wait to talk to you. I love your pictures, you are so beautiful.
thinking about you and hope you are having a great weekend
Good morning. it a beautiful morning out here and the sun is bright, just a little note for you before i leave for work. Guess you must be asleep right now. have a good night rest. I will answer your questions and also call you later tonight.
A few questions
Are you a night owl or morning person I'm up at 7 down at 12. not that good with sleeping
What is your main meal of the day dinner it a very good way to discus about the day's affair.
Are messy or tidy I'm tidy too
Clean or somewhat clean I'm clean
Are you handy with tools or do you call for repair services. I am handy with tools
What kind of car do you drive. I drive a Ferrari and a BMW
Do you play music all the time or is the house quite sometimes. I like the quite sometimes too
Do you have a fireplace yes but it's an insert
What's your "go to" place in town. I don't really have one theatre and some very few bars. am not really good with going out
Are you introverted or extroverted. I'm introverted
Quiet or very talkative. I like conversation
What's your favourite vacation spot. my Favorite vacation spot is the Caribbeans, I have been to Milan, Greece(Athens) and Venice. I would love to go to Paris, Hawaii and Madrid.
How much time off do you get a year. What do you do with it. I travel to see my daughter and mom or what ever comes up for a vacation
Do you wear jeans on the weekend. I wear any thing
What's your favourite restaurant. dont have any favorite
Which beach is your best pick. Willows too
Best lake dont have any
What style would you say your humour is. good sense of humour
Do you like holding hands walking or arm in arm or not at all. i like the two holding hands while walking and arm in arm
Are you a passionate kisser. Yes am a passionate kisser.
Hi Sweetie , hope you are had a great day at work, its mid night right here and i worked late. hope i answered your questions good
Am new to online dating, so i have to take things easy. am not good at dating a lot of women in a short period of time. Am Searching for my best friend and endless love affair. Outgoing, understanding and always trying to get the most out of life. Am old fashion and traditional. hope it goes well with us.
i called you but you did not pick up. Please call me back +44 7031917774
Good Morning Sweetie, sorry about you mom. hope she is doing better. I hope you are having a wonderful night rest. I wish I was able to talk to you longer than we did, I enjoy hearing your voice and you have the most wonderful voice i have heard in a long time.
Am corresponding with only one woman which is YOU. like i told you earlier i don't go around seeking to meet women any where i go. i prefer to stick to one woman that way i can get focused at this point of my life. i have never being into seeing many women at a time or getting to date them within a short period of time. i like a very long term relationship with a beautiful understanding.
Am I one of the two men you are corresponding with? or am i the third person?
Are you hiding me from your family. why do you have to leave the table. I want to be part of your life and i mean well for us. so you don't have to hide me away from any thing. i suggest you share me with them and i will like you to share your family with me too and i will do the same.
What did you mean you don't dine out good? i prefer dinning at home, but sometimes i go to Cafe Brio
Please give me a preferred time to call you, maybe in the morning wake up time or at night bed time. lets make things work for us.
have a good night rest
do you really want to be in a relationship? are really done with your past? are you seeing someone? if not i can't text you before i call you. i prefer to call you at my own will. corresponding with a lot of men is not going to help you out. you need to focus on one man and see where the relationship takes you two to.
just some pictures of me after a morning work out.
hope you are having a great day.
Hi Sweet Beauty,
it's a beautiful Friday Morning, and the suns are so bright. how are you doing? hope you enjoying your night and having a beautiful dream. i have to go to the site early today 8 00am to make sure that everyday plan is been achieved.
You are a gift to me from the good Lord above;
now you give me joy because you are showing seriousness about us.
Your eyes glisters and sparkle, so pure;
when I see the aura of your body, I knew just what you were.
You are an angel
Your wings fluttering beneath the starry night sky;
My tears only of joy.
Am happier now, because I've got an angel as a soul mate. I some times while work is going on i just look at your pictures and feel good. i will always communicate with you. YOU are the only person i communicate with and i needed a little seriousness about us and you have shown me that and i appreciate that. beautiful pictures and i appreciate it so much.
will write to you later and will also call you.
thinking of you Sweet Beauty, you are always in my thoughts.
Good morning beautiful,
The world is a better place to be cause of you. I am so thankful for what I have found, and for everything we will have. You are the woman I want to share my life with if you let me. I could never imagine life without you. I don't even want to think about it. All I want to think of is you. I just want you to know that I'm thankful that you came into my life and if you let me I will love you till the end of my days, I promise our love will never fade, I’m falling into you. am sitting right now with a cup of tea and looking at your pictures. you look wonderful and the day is sunny and bright.
i will be coming home on the 21th of Aug, hope you mom is doing better.
I am having a busy weekend hope you are doing great.
I'm comfortable writing this, I'm excited whenever i write you, I do a little happy dance, whenever I write you
you are in my thoughts, my feelings for you grow stronger each day.
With You on my mind, the project is going on well just putting in a lot of hard works.
please take it easy while you enjoy your fun camping.
thank God it's all going well with your camping. enjoy yourself while it last.
thinking about you beyond belief....Much Love & hugs,
Good morning sweetie.
What more can a man say to the woman who opened her heart to him, allowing him to feel the warmth of her across the great distance that separates them? You truly have no idea what I feel for you. Every body have flaws, i do also. The way you show your love for me is so real, I feel so loved I need only to think of you, of us, our hopes and dreams. I want to spend my life with you, loving you and receiving your love in return. I long to be in your arms and feeling your touch. Everything that keeps us apart will soon be gone and we will have each other always. thank you for reaching out to me the way you do. Each day that passes makes me grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.
lots of lov
Am the only child of my parents. I had a lovely childhood as the only child my mum spoiled me but my dad was against her spoiling me, when school is out i love playing football and hanging out with friends, am an average student not too good and not too a bad guy. my favorite subjects are physics and chemistry because they are related to my course of study and the most important part is that the teachers were good, they know what they are teaching. my dad was an engineer, my favorite childhood holiday is Christmas. my first girl friend was at 17 for a year before she left with her family back to Netherlands, she was a nice.
Good morning Sweetie, i work everyday here i use the little time i have to send to you an email. cause i miss you so much. everyday i wake up i look at you beautiful picture and smile causes am coming soon to get a sweet and a warm hug. from you.
am glad your camping went fine and that every body is doing fine. i will be running early for work today, making sure things work out fine.
have a good night rest.
the project am working on involves general construction and padding. i am the project engineer.
just had a very long day, i had to stay up late so i can go through my paper works properly just getting ready for bed. i sleep on the right side too.
hope you had a safe trip.
have a good night rest when you are ready for bed..
warm hugs and smooshes
My wife died 5 years ago. we were married for about 23 years. i got married to her at the age of 28 and i lost her at the age of 51. She died of cancer, it was a painful death she fought for her life until she finally gave up her ghost. me and my late wife were same age, but i was older with 3 months. i meet my late wife at age 19 after my first girlfriend went back to Netherlands with her family. . we dated for 9 years and later got married. my late wife was the only woman i ever got married to. I moved finally to Victoria 4 years ago after my wife died
Good morning Sweetie, the weather i bright out here and am just sipping on a cup of tea while i look at your picture and write you.
I adore you calm and sincere demeanor. from all you wrote you are a very honest woman who appreciates family and the nature of life.
Victoria was the first place i stayed, years back when i first visited Canada. ever since then i have always liked it in Victoria. i stay Michigan St Victoria, BC.
A sweet warm hug with a beautiful kiss will start up a beautiful moment for us with a great dinner and some sweet conversation. imagine me giving you a helping hand with some good conversation while you prepare dinner. i like to be traditional and am old fashion. i love sweet intimacy.
i have to run to work
hope you are having a sweet dream
Warm hugs and kisses
Good night dearest,
how are you doing? it just a beautiful night out here, although i had a very busy day. a lot of works going on at the site. it's just a military project an underground tunnel.
i appreciate you sincere demeanor, that show how strong and beautiful of a woman you are. i will like you to share your family with me and i will do same to you. am easy going and agreeable. my mom and my daughter lives in Sweden and are very comfortable with people. i even sent your pictures to my mom and daughter and they like you. i told them am talking to you.
i will appreciate it if you move in with me including your mom and daughter, i live in a 5 bedroom non slipt level. no stairs and no worries. but it's ok if your mom's wish is to finish her days in her house. i was the only child of my parents never had siblings to play with at home, we were just a little family so i love been around people with large family and i enjoy it when there share their families with me and i like to learn from every body the old, young and kids. your mom is a beautiful woman. thanks for the picture
What were you hoping for when you met the right woman? I will always share every thing with her, listen to her, appreciate her and always love her (the right woman).
getting ready for bed, it a bit cold here
do have a great evening
Warm hug and beautiful kisses
how are you doing. am just thinking about you. it was good to hear from you. your email was so nice. i enjoy read your email, it makes me feel closer to you
I am so humbled by your kind, compassionate, romantic, smart, sensible, intelligent, talented, kind-hearted, thoughtful, congenial, affectionate, appreciative, loyal, caring and loving words.
am counting the days and waiting patiently for the day i will get back home and finally meet you.
am not allergic to cats but i appreciate dogs more.
hope your day is going fine. will right you later
sweet kisses and and warm hugs
Hi sweetie, it all thoughts of you in my head. i have been looking at your pictures, I hardly blink my eyes when i look at them. I can't sleep, so I decided to write you. hope you like the music.
you have a beautiful voice too and i was speechless when i heard your voice. Am looking at your pictures while i write you. thoughts of you clouding my head
i appreciate that you are open with me in your expressions and i respect that so much. i need a woman to be my partner, my wife, my lover and my everything. not just about sex but we being so intimate and together in love forever.
Am willing to pursue this feeling I have and I wish you to do the same. i want to be able to learn about you like a book. i want to always make you smile, treat you like a princess and give you so much happiness so you can be happy for the rest of your life, for i know you will do the same to me. I am very happy now.
you don't have to hide your emotions, let it out. i will try to be the best that i can.
you are that woman i have being looking for. I feel like i have known you for a life time. Good things are in store for us.
Hugs and Kisses.
Sweet dreams and good night
I LOVE YOU
I was up late writing you. I it was about 2:30 in the night. after going through my paper works of the previous days work, I wouldn't sleep its was all thoughts of you all night.
It was work all day. you got my spirit to another level. when we spoke on the phone. I eat chicken and salad for dinner.
I won't be working back home for a while. I will be visiting England probably every two months for a week just to make sure that project is going on well as positioned. it's a one year and six months project.
hope you will go with me to England some day.
I was asking you on the phone what date do you celebrate your birthday. my birthday is on the 14th of match.
did you listen to the music I sent you in the previous email.
I like it when a woman dresses good, dresses, dress slacks or jeans. I like it all. just make sure its looks good on you.
My flight will be an outbound connecting flight with British Airways to Calgary, then a west jet to Victoria... flight number is BA6473. Time is 22:59 21 Aug
I do appreciate our calls.
I Love You
Hi Dear, I understand not being able to talk while you are with your mom, it's okay with me.
I have been going through so much down here since last week, its being my worst week ever and am so confused and stressed out right now. I don't know what to think or do anymore. Since I got to work I have not worked and my workers also have not gotten any work done. Dear this is crazy to me, I feel like crying so hard right now because I don't know what to do. I got to work and I saw the Manager of the tools company here in the site and he called me for a quick meeting and said he has been ordered to come get back the tools and heavy equipments that I am using for work because I have not paid in full. I dont know anyone down here that I can get that kind the some fund from.
right now I have spoken to the Director that awarded me this contract, to try and give me a sort of upfront payment but they said no until the due date, In the contract I signed I have to complete the project to a certain stage with my funds and get paid. right now I am in a fix. its just that I cant get my hands on such funds right now because I have spent so much already on the project and I am really out of cash right now.
I just have to let you know all that am facing right now, I feel alone. I hope I have not bored you with what am facing right now. Dear at this time I need to hear your voice. I am not supposed to tell you this but I can't hold on to it any more, And I don't want this to affect my coming back home.
I got to work and I saw the Manager of the tools company here in the site and he called me for a quick meeting and said he has been ordered to come get back the tools and heavy equipments that I am using for work because I have not paid in full, so he requested that I pay for the remaining time if I want to use the tools because what I paid for the has expired, but I explained to him that I don't have the funds available yet, and I also explained to him that he should hold on when I get paid for the project but he said no and also said it is not in the companys policy to give out tools that has not been paid for because of the past experiences they have had, so they going away with the tools and the heavy equipments now I can't go on with work anymore.
I tried the on-line loan you told me about the maximum they are willing to give is just $1000 with a high interest rate and it's going to take a couple days or week for approval. I am in a big shit. from my contract deal with the project I will be paid in full the moment I deal with the project and I am sure I will get paid in full. The cost of things are so expensive here in England. Please sweetie if you can help me out, please do. I appreciate your being concern about me. it so loving of you
My Mom just called, she was able to get hold of $4000. My friend in Victoria has being helping out with funds for the last weeks. So I asked Him but he said he is out of funds. If I had other means of raising the money I will not run to you for help.
I have been going through so much down here for the past week, like I told you on the phone I have not been working down here since Monday, am so confused and stressed out baby, I don't know what to think or do any more. my workers have not gotten any work done honey. this is crazy to me and I feel like crying so hard right now. my LOVE the truth is that I really need your help but I don't know how to keep saying it on the phone. am looking for $7,000 as a loan to go on with my job and Sweetie I promise to give back next week once I get my pay Cheque, which is when I will be coming home. Sweetie you are the only one I can run to now. If I was dealing with a small project I won't find it difficult getting the job done. Am working on a $4,200,000 project.
I have incurred a debt worth over $320,000. If I get the work to an agreed stage I will be getting 35% payment of the $4,200,000. which I will have to pay whom ever I owe without ever asking any body for any further help.
I feel bad when I run to someone I believe in for help and they can't offer to do anything.
Please call me when you read this email.