Thanks for your interest...I’m interested in you too and would love to get to know more to see how it goes. I have been a rather passive member on Match due to my busy schedules and my membership ends in tomorrow which i don't think i'll be renewing it. I do seek a serious/long-lasting relationship, so if you seek same then lets connect more.
Feel free to write me directly through: alfee22259 AT gmail DOT com
That way i can share with you more details about me along with couple more photos. Please forgive me if this seems being too forward.
Hope to hear from you soon Beautiful !
How are you doing today? And how is your weekend so far? busy i guess with your son. Sorry for responding late,was having hard time learning how to add photos to email but now i can.
Thanks for everything and for your interest so far, i'll like to use this opportunity to tell you some more about me. My name is Alfredo J. Feronti. I am 60yrs old,I am a widower, I'm Self Employed Construction Engineer. I was born in Scotland UK and raised in the United States when i was young so i have Dual Citizenship,i currently live in Old Westbury, New York. I put Laguna Beach on my profile because i’m in process of buying a new property in California. I’m ready to relocate but want to meet someone serious first before i move out,more reason why i join the site to meet a lovely lady ready for a serious/long-term relationship and i can relocate closer to her then we explore more and stay happily connected. My Son is grown now,so it gives me time to do anything...i'm always lonely..My Ethnicity Italian/American/Scottish I seek Long-term Relationship and do not mind a Long Distance Relationship to achieve this; though the distance i feel its up to both of us to determine if we gonna be or not. Besides, the distance is on temporary. I believe sincere love doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart,if distance were measured in terms of the heart we'd never be more than a minute apart but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much, and its up to us to determine if we gonna be together or not, and its worth a try.Distance does not matter to me,what truly matters to me is honesty,sincerity,trust,and open-minded relationship. I am ready to relocate/move to anywhere i found my woman.
I was once married to a loving, caring, honest and sincere woman until death came and took her away from me; i lost my wife 10yrs ago in an auto accident. I have a Son, He is all i have for now.. He is now 25yrs old, His name is John, he is loving and intelligent like me ahaha :) I have a kind heart and I have a lot of love in my heart to give it to my beloved woman. Am optimistic and do hope a day would come I would see a woman that will fill my life with sunny rays of happy family life. Though we have good and bad habits, we would have to share it together and accommodate each other, that way we would be in-separable.I will do my best to create warm tender atmosphere and special coziness where one can feel comfortable, i like people that are free and express themselves easily.
My ambition is to inspire my beloved woman constantly, to help her to keep the balance between career and private life, just as she would also inspire me to do good. Love is most paramount for me, i need a companion to share my life with, who wants to create a strong family. I want to take long walks with her and share what life has in stall for us both joy and sorrow. I'd like to look up to her as an authority for me, be proud of her, adore her, be supportive, she would have my devotion, understanding,kindness, care, calmness, cheerfulness,soul support and my great love. I expect to get all these traits from her too in return, Everyone wants something good for themselves, or don’t you wish yourself well? i want something good for me and my kid, thats why i wanna be with you.
I am aware lots of guys would actually tell you they are loving. kind, honest, bla bla and when you meet them they are completely opposite lol, well am not a cliche, i can't tell you how good i am or how loving i am i have to show it, and thats what am all out to do. There are so many interesting things about me, i am really fun to be with, and am hoping a special person like you would compliment me. A little more about me: I am intelligent, smart, honest, i don't smoke, have a good sense of humor and I love to make others laugh also love to laugh too (sometimes at myself). Pscheww looks like i have typed away, i would love to know more about you too, please describe yourself, dreams, aspirations and feel free to tell me anything about you, meanwhile i would love to know the following:
Are you still married? For i would NEVER date a married woman, for i know i would not like it if someone was wooing my wife.
How long have you been on the dating site ?
What do you seek ?
Tell me more about your occupation ?
How many kids do you have and how old are they?
Do they live with you?
Do you have any pets?
I have attached some pictures of myself to this email, let me know what you think.And send me more of yours if any Or the ones on your profile.
Hope to hear from you soon Beautiful!.
Alfee xx x
Such an incredible note from you. Sorry for not replying on time, i really want to share with you alot of information about me so i always take my time to reply because you're so special.Also sorry about your loss, i can understand how hard it is loosing any loved one...please if you ever need a shoulder, someone to talk to, someone to make you smile, someone to make you cry (tears of joy), or someone you can trust. Please count on me okay?.
I want you to know that i am ready to relocate and for a fresh start want to build that serious/long-lasting relationship again ready to make that special woman happy for the rest of her life(could it be you?).
Thanks for the photos (great smiles) and for sharing with me more about you, this really draws me closer to you. Now more about me.....concerning what i do for a living and more about me. I feel its important at this juncture to let you know the personality of whom you writing to. I studied Engineering,my main field is in Mechanical Engineering, i do Construct and assemble Power Plants, Generating Transformers, Bridges, Routers, Cells, Inverters, etc. I have a son and his name is John he is 25 years old and He is studying Architecture, he has a passion for Buildings, skycrappers etc. we both are men of art i guess lol. You can visit my company's website to learn more about my job. www.planetrdc.com
I travel alot because of my work and also out of the states. I have plans to retire in 2months, not as strong as i used to be,and moreover i think i have made quite a great deal of fortune, both in knowledge and in wealth but i do lack one thing: Am without LOVE. I guess the death of my wife also took a toll on me and also turned me to a workaholic, so i wouldn't think about it so much. I am over that now, and ready to move on, need a comforter and a true companion, and not the stress of work. One of my favorite vacations was taking a helicopter ride and horseback riding in the Grand Canyon. I Lost my parents couple of years ago (12yrs),really a long story so let me keep it short.My dads native american/italian and my moms British/Scottish they met in Europe. I have an accent but do not panic i speak really great and fluent English ahaha, I am the only son of my Parents.Its just me, my son John and my little bull dog Murphy. Well concerning sexuality, i am not a promiscuous man, my desire is to be sexually faithful to the woman I'm with. If two people love each other and will communicate on their likes and dislikes about their partner's sexual behavior, I believe many problems can be resolved. Looking good is what i spend most of my time doing. I need real love. I don’t play games and am not ready to be played.Age and Distance is not a problem. If I find the right woman. I don't mind relocating as long as I find the right woman; and i hope you feel the same way vice versa. I will like to know you better because I like to have the woman who is ready to spend the rest of her life with me and start our sweet family! Life is too short to play games. I am a very busy one lol.My Belief is there's one woman out there that can help me find that Love and affection again. Someone who is Understanding, Kind, good sense of Humor, Loving, caring, honest, sincere, passionate and affectionate, The Bible says" Seek the Kingdom of God first and every other thing shall be added on to you" I've sort the kingdom so I'm waiting for my Dream woman and i believe when i have a woman that is honest and caring, she wouldn't hurt my feelings and emotion which i have for her; thats why i have been patient and waited this long. Most people doesn't know what it take to hurt another ones feelings and emotion and how it feels so I'm not into playing games.
I am somewhat religious but not a fanatic okay?, i attend a Pentecostal Church (Christian Church of God), i like to work out and i am very active, i do Martial Arts too, karate,Judo, its just a way of exercising. I do Yoga to soothe my body and mind, visit the spa also. I am Very much considerate and thoughtful of others, Absolutely i treat others as you would like to be treated,I don't lose my temper very often; rarely,I love to Read, listen to music, or watch a movie when am alone. Favorite Countries Asia, France, and Australia, I like cooking, i eat anything and everything from sea food to Mexican, like Taco alot,Italian Restaurant too. I am Extremely patient, and romantic, I have so much to give the right woman, she would never question my emotions, i wear them on my sleeves.
I love unconditionally; i feel there's no other way to being true with your partner. What's more important to me love or money? Love, but money makes it easier, I love the beach, i find it so peaceful and calming. Some of my most cherished memories are there. Kindly send me some pics of you I will like to see more of you and I will love to know more about you. Do not worry i’ll answer the same questions in return and they are not deal breakers okay?.
What is your Birthdate?
What are your likes and dislikes?
Do you enjoy cooking?
Do you exercise regularly Or Work out?
Do you mind telling me about your faith?
Are you patient?
Are you romantic?
Do you love unconditionally?
Have you ever been unfaithful to your mate?
What do you do for fun?
What type of music do you prefer?
Do you like public intimacy?
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others?
How often do you lose your temper?
What do you do when you're alone?
When you go anywhere are you usually on time?
How often do you like to go out?
Thinking of You :) and Hope to read from you soon.
Keep Smiling Beautiful !!
Alfee xx xx
Do you work from home or office? Yes i have my home office. Work from home.
Do you travel to all the big work sites? (It looks like they are all BIG work sites!). Yes i do.
Who will take over your business when you retire? John would take over the company once i retire but i'll still be working for the company part-time and i don't have to be with him to do all that...as long as i have Fax, Computer, Phone and internet i can help out with paper works and all from anywhere i'm at.
Do you like to watch any sports? TV or live? I don't mind both.
Do you drink alcohol? How often? For me-wine with a good meal, margarita for fun! Occasional beer. Well i don't take myself as a drinker..only red wine on occasions.
Are you a neatnick? Well i like to maintain a neat environment but it doesn't matter i just love cleaning, i guess i'm used to that since my wife passed away. Been enjoying cleaning the house and all since i'm all alone. Don't want to be lazy.
Are there certain things you like certain ways? (How to squeeze toothpaste from a tube? Dinner at 6PM? Cooking with your mate? Clear countertops?) I love cooking with my mate ofcourse, it'll be fun playing and all LOL and also would respect her space too whenever she wants. Please don't worry about this because we're all human and i don't expect you to be perfect okay?
You sound like a great guy! Did I send up any red flags yet? Nooooo not at all. i love everything i've read so far and ready to explore more.. so far i'm happy with you and ready to take it to the next nevel.
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY !!
Its sooo nice reading from you and such a wonderful reply, i still have to re-read it because all your notes tells me more about you and i enjoyed every bit of it. I know you would have read more about me in the previous message. I know I will be hoping to meet you soon, I must confess that I love the way you express yourself in your messages and i will like to know if there is anything i haven't told you and you wish to know, please feel free to ask. I love everything you've written in your messages. I really get lonely at night so i work for long hours so as not to think or feel bad about my present situation. I am sure I am very close to the end of the situation. I feel that special woman that I am looking for is really close to me now. I am not trying to shop for women as I hate head games, I seek LTR like i told you earlier. I am searching for that woman that would make me feel complete. The woman that would be there for me all the time both in the happy and the sad moments of live. I have only loved once and I want to love again since my late wife has passed some years ago I have never dated any women.
I want a woman that I would be able to share both my good and bad experiences with. A woman that we would both love each other for the rest of our lives. I can understand that you have been through a lot. For now, I would like to know what you like in a man, I mean what you expect from a man, how you expect him to behave and how you expect him to treat you. I think I have stated that I am looking for a long term relationship and I am not ready to settle for less. I am not into casual relationships; i drive a truck 2008 Toyota Tacoma, i call her "T.T" lol. I enjoy going to the movies Very Much,live theater, karaoke Its great!, I enjoy walking in the park its makes me think and appreciate nature. I like sports watching Baseball and NFL, favorite team is Pittsburgh Steelers, also play Golf. Also into Sport cars..I have a 2006 Ferrari Spider too and a Bentley.
Now let me answer same questions;
What is your birthday? Feb 24th 1953.
What do you seek in a woman? I am looking for a long lasting ever relationship.I seek trust,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us.
What is your like and dislike? I like almost everything that is worth doing well and done well.i like details in everything i read or know and do the same to others,like others to understand me/view and also welcomes theirs anytime...also like to go to the beach, boat, golf (learning), tennis, fishing, camping, hiking, exercising : i do work out fine. I like to watch soccer. Also like to watch some sports on TV. I like to watch good movies and to go to the theatre some. I am a good carpenter and I know how to fix everything at the house.
Dislikes? Cheat,those that hurt animals/pets/little kids,liars,War,Someone that yells too much,Untidiness because i love to clean and maintain a cleaner environment.Love making things right.
Do you enjoy cooking? Yes i do alot but unfortunately i am not really a good cook LOL.i would love to take more time to learn if you'll teach me,John knows how to cook well so he's a good son and a great hand.
Do you exercise regularly Or Work out? Yes atleast 3-4times a week..you?
Do you attend Church if yes what church do you attend? Yes..Christian Church of God (like a Pentecostal)
Are you patient? I have a lot of patience and rarely lose my temper, I'm not saying it never happens but when it does I usually walk away or remove myself from the situation.
Are you romantic? Hopelessly romantic. Alot of Affections too comes with it...i can be emotional too sometimes.
Do you love unconditionally? Absolutely.
Have you ever been unfaithful to your mate? Never...we hardly even yell at each other..she was a great wife,sad i lost her in that kinda way.We never divorced or had any fight...very understanding,reliable,trustworthy,caring,loving and passionate.
What do you do for fun? Check my Likes Sweetie.
What type of music do you prefer? I like Classics,Jazz,Pop,Oldies,60's rock n roll too,sometimes RnB,Slows,Reggae,Soundtracks,Country,etc..lets just say any kinda music that makes sense and good to listen to.Music for good earing LOL.Also a sucker for Love Songs. I enjoy classic and country from the 80s &90s My three favorite movies Sound of Music, As Good As It Gets, The Lake House, My favorite actor is Bruce Willis, i also like Sean Connery but he's retired so i stick with Willis i guess, favorite actress Julia Roberts, My favorite singer Barry Manilow.
Do you like public intimacy? Yes, i do.Love is better when shown...kissing,cuddling,holding hands,except sex for indoors.
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others? Very Considerate and thoughtful...i treat others like i want to be treated in return.
How often do you lose your temper? told you before on but again... I have a lot of patience and rarely lose my temper, I'm not saying it never happens but when it does I usually walk away or remove myself from the situation.
What do you do when you're alone? Read,Clean,Think Of You ***smiles***,relax in water or looking at your picture Ahahaha.
When you go anywhere are you usually on time? Yes but not always LOL...depends on traffic but i am usually early.except if you do not delay me ahahaha.
How often do you like to go out? Like to go out with my loved ones,don't like going out along i rather stay indoors and keep myself busy.
What's are your favorite things?: cars, sports etc.If am were granted one wish, what I will ask is a True Love.
Dislikes: I hate unfaithfulness but I am not jealous.
Well thats all about me for now, I would wait to read from you and also attached some photos for you.
Hugs and Kisses.
Alfee xx x
How are you doing? And how was the wedding? You look so wonderful with a gorgous smile. I like your dress, would have loved to go with you. Although you said you're going to write me soon but i just can't wait to send you another letter because i'm thinking about you as i look through your photos and re-reading you letters.
Its good to get an upfront and sincere response from you all the time. thank you so much for telling me all about you..It's really makes me so glad..You sound so passionate and very loving. We need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other,We have to be so sure and certain of ourselves about making sure that this relationship is what we want out in life, We have to be sure and certain of ourselves that this relationship is our future and everything.. Everything in life happen for a reason, my being lonely for a very long time makes me want a companion and a woman to share my feelings with, I'm in search of a soul mate to spend the rest of our life's together.I hope you know Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.
No one is perfect and we could only give it a trial. Though it is right for us to learn from our mistakes. Which makes you resisting and having hard time trusting a man again in your life. A Relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY and HONESTY, all this paramount fact must exist in a relationship before anything can work out of it. I'm a man of my word and will always stand by my word. I'm a caring and loving man, Open minded and Upfront in every aspect of a relationship. Being scared wouldn't solve it. we shouldn't be scared to give this a trial and work on our hearts. Faith is the substance of things not seen, but the evidence of things being hoped for, why not put your Faith and Trust in the Lord.
Alfee xx xx
P.S: You can send me your number so we can talk on the phone sometimes,that way you can hear my horrible accent **Smiles** (just kidding).
Got the photos...Thanks so much for the email and for the phone number too (would call you tonight). Sorry i couldn't call last night i was really busy and finished late. Its been really a long weekend for me, helping my son with some stuffs and also handling the Contract bidding,i have been bidding for a Construction Job in Asia and Africa respectively and hoping i get one,really praying towards this because its going to be a huge success and adding more credit to my Job ,really waiting to hear a good news from this soonest hopefully.
I understand we need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other.I have been thinking about you since the last time that I read from you. I can see we are looking for the same things. Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you loose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are, you end up being complete with your loved ones.Don't just love him, but show him,As food is needed for the body, them same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love,I don't believe in love at first sight anymore, I cried too much over it to believe in it, I think I need glasses to see accurately 'cause I can never really see the right one for me,well am very happy meeting you,i have been lonely for years just because i don't wanna meet the wrong woman,i will be very happy to come over to you (because you've captured my heart already) really crazy but amazing how this happened. I am looking forward to when we can finally meet face to face i should be coming to you atleast soonest to spend sometime with you and then we do alot of things together,just having a meeting to attend in couple of days after the meeting we plan on the date okay?.
I want a woman that is loving and caring. A woman that would love me for me and always be there for me both in the time of sorrow and in the time of happiness. A woman that would give me a shoulder to cry on when I am sad, and laugh with me when I am happy. I have all these in folds and I am ready to return them to that special woman. I am a one woman man to say. I don't play games and I feel we are both matured and we don't need to bit around the bush any more. I believe one thing in life that there is no one in life that is perfect, only that we need to make the best out of what ever we've got. It is quite obvious that we are looking for the same thing in a partner and here we are together. I feel it is the right time for me to quit my search and stay with you. I can imagine a better future ahead of us. I hope I am not getting too forward for you but I am saying my mind. I feel it is high time for me to love and be loved again. What do you feel about that? Waiting to read from you.
Alfee xx x
It was soooo nice hearing your sweet voice last night. Want you to know that i'm thinking of you and you're always on my mind. I really don't know what happened to my phone tonight but i just can't dial out. I would check on the provider in the morning, really exhausted now and need to head to bed.
Want you to know that i printed out ALL your letters, so i re-read them all the time (kinda keeps you closer to my heart) and after reading your messages over and over tonight, I have been thinking about something and I am finding it difficult to put them into words as I am considering myself to be anxious. Its quite obvious that we are looking for the same thing in a partner and here we are together. I feel it is the the best time for us to find love and quite loneliness. On one hand, I feel "the patient dog eat the fattest bone like that says" and on the other hand I feel the earlier the better as I like what I have seen and it is what I have been looking for. You may be wondering about what I have seen despite that we have not meet yet, what I have seen in you is internal beauty and that is what I have been looking for. Although, physical attraction is necessary but not really important to me. I believe internal beauty is the best. I learned so many things in your previous messages that made me imagine what it would be like to be beside you. You may feel that we don't know much about each other but I feel the ones we know are the basics and even if we stay on the same street, we can never know everything about each other. In life we live to know more everyday.
I feel this is the best time for me to love and be loved again and how about you? I imagine a brighter future for both of us. I hope I am not too forward or being pushy but I am only pouring my mind. I'm the most excited soul on earth reading such a wonderful ,Very sweet and passionate letter from you..You indeed sound so wonderful and so compassionate..I don't ever believe i could meet someone sweet and great like you in my life...I felt for you right from the first day i saw your profile..You look so great and so passionate ,I never believe i could be this lucky to meet someone like you... You make me so happy in just a little time and you need to know that the bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before....Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end....If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one....What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover?
Ever since we started sending the recent messages we've sent to each other...I've been so much thinking about you and to be sincere i am thinking about you.Wow! So here I stand, among the digital masses. We're not so different after all. Here I stand,surrounded by people who've met on-line, People who've loved and lost, and people who are found, and somehow, in a desperate world, found each other. So what do I say that hasn't already been written, or been already said? Hmmm, pretty tough! Okay... try this: I no longer need to hope for love by going to bars,supermarkets,church, chat rooms, etc. I don't have to search for love, since i have found you.I prayed for a miracle, wished for an angel, and God brought me heaven here on earth, and thats you.
Thanks for coming into my life.
Hugs and Kisses.
Alfee xx xx