Hi Lesley,
Thanks for everything and for your interest so far, i'll like to use this opportunity to tell you some more about me. My name is Alfredo J. Feronti. I am 60yrs old,I am a widower, I'm Self Employed Construction Engineer. I was born in Scotland UK and raised in the United States when i was young so i have Dual Citizenship,i currently live in Old Westbury, New York. I also have a property on Montpelier Street, Knightsbridge in London. I put London on my profile because i’m in process of buying a new property in the U.K. I’m ready to relocate but want to meet someone serious first before i move out,more reason why i join the site to meet a lovely lady ready for a serious/long-term relationship and i can relocate closer to her then we explore more and stay happily connected. My Son is grown now,so it gives me time to do anything...i'm always lonely..My Ethnicity Italian/American/Scottish I seek Long-term Relationship and do not mind a Long Distance Relationship to achieve this; though the distance i feel its up to both of us to determine if we gonna be or not. Besides, the distance is on temporary. I believe sincere love doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart,if distance were measured in terms of the heart we'd never be more than a minute apart but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much, and its up to us to determine if we gonna be together or not, and its worth a try.Distance does not matter to me,what truly matters to me is honesty,sincerity,trust,and open-minded relationship. I am ready to relocate/move to anywhere i found my woman. I was once married to a loving, caring, honest and sincere woman until death came and took her away from me; i lost my wife 10yrs ago in an auto accident. I have a Son, He is all i have for now.. He is now 25yrs old, His name is John, he is loving and intelligent like me ahaha :) I have a kind heart and I have a lot of love in my heart to give it to my beloved woman. Am optimistic and do hope a day would come I would see a woman that will fill my life with sunny rays of happy family life. Though we have good and bad habits, we would have to share it together and accommodate each other, that way we would be in-separable.I will do my best to create warm tender atmosphere and special coziness where one can feel comfortable, i like people that are free and express themselves easily. My ambition is to inspire my beloved woman constantly, to help her to keep the balance between career and private life, just as she would also inspire me to do good. Love is most paramount for me, i need a companion to share my life with, who wants to create a strong family. I want to take long walks with her and share what life has in stall for us both joy and sorrow. I'd like to look up to her as an authority for me, be proud of her, adore her, be supportive, she would have my devotion, understanding,kindness, care, calmness, cheerfulness,soul support and my great love. I expect to get all these traits from her too in return, Everyone wants something good for themselves, or don’t you wish yourself well? i want something good for me and my kid, thats why i wanna be with you. I am aware lots of guys would actually tell you they are loving. kind, honest, bla bla and when you meet them they are completely opposite lol, well am not a cliche, i can't tell you how good i am or how loving i am i have to show it, and thats what am all out to do. There are so many interesting things about me, i am really fun to be with, and am hoping a special person like you would compliment me. A little more about me: I am intelligent, smart, honest, i don't smoke, have a good sense of humor and I love to make others laugh also love to laugh too (sometimes at myself). Pscheww looks like i have typed away, i would love to know more about you too, please describe yourself, dreams, aspirations and feel free to tell me anything about you, meanwhile i would love to know the following: Are you still married? For i would NEVER date a married woman, for i know i would not like it if someone was wooing my wife.
How long have you been on the dating site ?
What do you seek ?
Tell me more about your occupation ?
How many kids do you have and how old are they?
Do they live with you?
Do you have any pets? I have attached some pictures of myself to this email, let me know what you think.And send me more of yours if any Or the ones on your profile.
Hope to hear from you soon. Hugs, Alfee xx x

Dearest Lesley,
WOW!! Such an incredible note from you, alot to sink in (Thanks Alot). Sorry for not replying on time, i really want to share with you alot of information about me so i always take my time to reply because you're so special. I want you to know that i am ready to relocate and for a fresh start want to build that serious/long-lasting relationship again ready to make that special woman happy for the rest of her life(could it be you?).
Thanks for the photos, you've got great smiles and lovely kids too. Please feel free to share more if any.
Now more about me.....concerning what i do for a living and more about me. I feel its important at this juncture to let you know the personality of whom you writing to. I studied Engineering,my main field is in Mechanical Engineering, i do Construct and assemble Power Plants, Generating Transformers, Bridges, Routers, Cells, Inverters, etc. I have a son and his name is John he is 25 years old and He is studying Architecture, he has a passion for Buildings, skycrappers etc. we both are men of art i guess lol. You can visit my company's website to learn more about my job. www.planetrdc.com
I travel alot because of my work and also out of the states. I have plans to retire in 2months, not as strong as i used to be,and moreover i think i have made quite a great deal of fortune, both in knowledge and in wealth but i do lack one thing: Am without LOVE. I guess the death of my wife also took a toll on me and also turned me to a workaholic, so i wouldn't think about it so much. I am over that now, and ready to move on, need a comforter and a true companion, and not the stress of work. One of my favorite vacations was taking a helicopter ride and horseback riding in the Grand Canyon. I Lost my parents couple of years ago (12yrs),really a long story so let me keep it short.My dads native american/italian and my moms British/Scottish they met in Europe. I have an accent but do not panic i speak really great and fluent English ahaha, I am the only son of my Parents.Its just me, my son John and my little bull dog Murphy. Well concerning sexuality, i am not a promiscuous man, my desire is to be sexually faithful to the woman I'm with. If two people love each other and will communicate on their likes and dislikes about their partner's sexual behavior, I believe many problems can be resolved. Looking good is what i spend most of my time doing. I need real love. I don’t play games and am not ready to be played.Age and Distance is not a problem. If I find the right woman. I don't mind relocating as long as I find the right woman; and i hope you feel the same way vice versa. I will like to know you better because I like to have the woman who is ready to spend the rest of her life with me and start our sweet family! Life is too short to play games. I am a very busy one lol.My Belief is there's one woman out there that can help me find that Love and affection again. Someone who is Understanding, Kind, good sense of Humor, Loving, caring, honest, sincere, passionate and affectionate, The Bible says" Seek the Kingdom of God first and every other thing shall be added on to you" I've sort the kingdom so I'm waiting for my Dream woman and i believe when i have a woman that is honest and caring, she wouldn't hurt my feelings and emotion which i have for her; thats why i have been patient and waited this long. Most people doesn't know what it take to hurt another ones feelings and emotion and how it feels so I'm not into playing games.
I am somewhat religious but not a fanatic okay?, i attend a Pentecostal Church (Christian Church of God), i like to work out and i am very active, i do Martial Arts too, karate,Judo, its just a way of exercising. I do Yoga to soothe my body and mind, visit the spa also. I am Very much considerate and thoughtful of others, Absolutely i treat others as you would like to be treated,I don't lose my temper very often; rarely,I love to Read, listen to music, or watch a movie when am alone. Favorite Countries Asia, France, and Australia, I like cooking, i eat anything and everything from sea food to Mexican, like Taco alot,Italian Restaurant too. I am Extremely patient, and romantic, I have so much to give the right woman, she would never question my emotions, i wear them on my sleeves.
I love unconditionally; i feel there's no other way to being true with your partner. What's more important to me love or money? Love, but money makes it easier, I love the beach, i find it so peaceful and calming. Some of my most cherished memories are there. Kindly send me some pics of you I will like to see more of you and I will love to know more about you. Do not worry i’ll answer the same questions in return and they are not deal breakers okay?. What is your Birthdate?
What are your likes and dislikes?
Do you enjoy cooking?
Do you exercise regularly Or Work out?
Do you mind telling me about your faith?
Are you patient?
Are you romantic?
Do you love unconditionally?
Have you ever been unfaithful to your mate?
What do you do for fun?
What type of music do you prefer?
Do you like public intimacy?
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others?
How often do you lose your temper?
What do you do when you're alone?
When you go anywhere are you usually on time?
How often do you like to go out? Thinking of You :) and Hope to read from you soon.
Keep Smiling Beautiful !!
Regards, Alfee xx xx

Hi Sweetie,
How are you doing? Glad you got there safely, thanks for writing even though its short i still like that.
Want you to know i was re-reading your notes...Its good to get an upfront and sincere response from you all the time.thank you so much for telling me all about you..It's really makes me so glad..You sound so passionate and very loving. We need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other,We have to be so sure and certain of ourselves about making sure that this relationship is what we want out in life, We have to be sure and certain of ourselves that this relationship is our future and everything.. Everything in life happen for a reason, my being lonely for a very long time makes me want a companion and a woman to share my feelings with, I'm in search of a soul mate to spend the rest of our life's together.I hope you know Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.
No one is perfect and we could only give it a trial. Though it is right for us to learn from our mistakes. Which makes you resisting and having hard time trusting a man again in your life. A Relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY and HONESTY, all this paramount fact must exist in a relationship before anything can work out of it. I'm a man of my word and will always stand by my word. I'm a caring and loving man, Open minded and Upfront in every aspect of a relationship. Being scared wouldn't solve it. we shouldn't be scared to give this a trial and work on our hearts. Faith is the substance of things not seen, but the evidence of things being hoped for, why not put your Faith and Trust in the Lord. Hugs,
Alfee xx xx P.S: Do you think you can send me your number so we can talk on the phone sometimes, that way you can hear my horrible accent **Smiles** (just kidding).

Hi Sweetie,
Thanks so much for the email. Its been really a long weekend for me,helping my son with some stuffs and also handling the Contract bidding,i have been bidding for a Construction Job in Asia and Africa respectively and hoping i get one,really praying towards this because its going to be a huge success and adding more credit to my Job ,really waiting to hear a good news from this soonest hopefully.
I hope you're enjoying your wonderful trip? What is the weather like there now? Here are my numbers U.K 07700093339 US +1 917 595 2045 US +1 646 397 5695 You can call me on any of this numbers but i think the UK number would be cheaper for you and also you can send me text messages on it too. I suggest we hear each others voice ofcourse while we plan on meeting soon.
I understand we need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other.I have been thinking about you since the last time that I read from you. I can see we are looking for the same things. Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you loose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are, you end up being complete with your loved ones.Don't just love him, but show him,As food is needed for the body, them same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love,I don't believe in love at first sight anymore, I cried too much over it to believe in it, I think I need glasses to see accurately 'cause I can never really see the right one for me,well am very happy meeting you,i have been lonely for years just because i don't wanna meet the wrong woman,i will be very happy to come over to you (because you've captured my heart already) really crazy but amazing how this happened. I am looking forward to when we can finally meet face to face i should be coming to you atleast soonest to spend sometime with you and then we do alot of things together,just having a meeting to attend in couple of days after the meeting we plan on the date okay?. I want a woman that is loving and caring. A woman that would love me for me and always be there for me both in the time of sorrow and in the time of happiness. A woman that would give me a shoulder to cry on when I am sad, and laugh with me when I am happy. I have all these in folds and I am ready to return them to that special woman. I am a one woman man to say. I don't play games and I feel we are both matured and we don't need to bit around the bush any more. I believe one thing in life that there is no one in life that is perfect, only that we need to make the best out of what ever we've got. It is quite obvious that we are looking for the same thing in a partner and here we are together. I feel it is the right time for me to quit my search and stay with you. I can imagine a better future ahead of us. I hope I am not getting too forward for you but I am saying my mind. I feel it is high time for me to love and be loved again. What do you feel about that? Waiting to read from you. Alfee xx x

Hi Sweetie,
Thanks so much for the email. Its been really a long weekend for me,helping my son with some stuffs and also handling the Contract bidding,i have been bidding for a Construction Job in Asia and Africa respectively and hoping i get one,really praying towards this because its going to be a huge success and adding more credit to my Job ,really waiting to hear a good news from this soonest hopefully.
I hope you're enjoying your wonderful trip? What is the weather like there now? Here are my numbers U.K 07700093339 US +1 917 595 2045 US +1 646 397 5695 You can call me on any of this numbers but i think the UK number would be cheaper for you and also you can send me text messages on it too. I suggest we hear each others voice ofcourse while we plan on meeting soon.
I understand we need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other.I have been thinking about you since the last time that I read from you. I can see we are looking for the same things. Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you loose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are, you end up being complete with your loved ones.Don't just love him, but show him,As food is needed for the body, them same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love,I don't believe in love at first sight anymore, I cried too much over it to believe in it, I think I need glasses to see accurately 'cause I can never really see the right one for me,well am very happy meeting you,i have been lonely for years just because i don't wanna meet the wrong woman,i will be very happy to come over to you (because you've captured my heart already) really crazy but amazing how this happened. I am looking forward to when we can finally meet face to face i should be coming to you atleast soonest to spend sometime with you and then we do alot of things together,just having a meeting to attend in couple of days after the meeting we plan on the date okay?. I want a woman that is loving and caring. A woman that would love me for me and always be there for me both in the time of sorrow and in the time of happiness. A woman that would give me a shoulder to cry on when I am sad, and laugh with me when I am happy. I have all these in folds and I am ready to return them to that special woman. I am a one woman man to say. I don't play games and I feel we are both matured and we don't need to bit around the bush any more. I believe one thing in life that there is no one in life that is perfect, only that we need to make the best out of what ever we've got. It is quite obvious that we are looking for the same thing in a partner and here we are together. I feel it is the right time for me to quit my search and stay with you. I can imagine a better future ahead of us. I hope I am not getting too forward for you but I am saying my mind. I feel it is high time for me to love and be loved again. What do you feel about that? Waiting to read from you. Alfee xx x

Hello Beautiful,
I'm sure you must have been sooo worried, really sorry for not writing you early enough it was hard for me to call while at the airport because i already activated the roaming and i have to wait for couple of hours before i could turn on the phone so i wasn't able to call you before we left JFK.Also i was really rushing because we do need to have the malaria parasite/medical shots and some other medications to prevent any kinda diseases or infections. Anyway,Just to let you know we are now in Nairobi,Kenya...sorry for the late in contact,had issues connecting my laptop with their broadband here takes almost 24hrs to activate,and also got my number (646) 397-5695 and 07700093339 working here HURRAY!! So you can call me like you're calling in the States only that the network might not be clear due to the roaming,but i've also got a GSM number +234 8159616777 (a well known phone network between East and West Africa) that you can call me on too okay?.If you call me and i never pick up maybe i'm on the site but would definitely call you back once i am free.. I thought about you throughout and also when in the plane,I just want to let you know that I and John had a nice trip to East Africa and we arrived safely.We stayed in Hotel but now got an Apartment closer to the Site like 10mins drive so its better. I also checked the time difference, seems i am 2hrs ahead of you..WOW ! but no worries would work out the timing thing...anyways. It's so sweet and great to hear from you..I am so glad to read from you and If only I'd known that you were out there, then I could have been searching long before I met you. If only I'd known that there was a woman like you, I could have searched the ends of the earth. If only I'd known that I would someday meet someone like you, who gives me everything, would do anything for me, gives me all her love... I could have done anything and everything in my power to find you sooner. But, now that I have found you I'll never let you go. Because of you all of my wishes and dreams have come true! I love you with all of my heart!! Reply soonest.Miss You So much. I Love You More, Forever Yours, Alfee xx xx P.S : As i promised you,i attached couple of pictures i took right from the Airport and the other one with John (in blue jeans) was shy but managed to get him in one picture..Did alot of spending and yet more to come today..materials and all really a big job but would always have time for you honey...see the pictures.