It was really nice getting the chance to communicate with you and I wish for us to continue the communication so as to get to know more about ourselves and explore much about us...I lost my parents at the age of 12 in a plane crash. So I don't have any family expect my son. Thank you very much for your contact and sorry because of security reasons we are not allow to make calls, hold money, and never to use the internet but because am staff Trainer Sergeant I get the access to use the internet..
I'm affectionate, love cuddling, kissing, holding hands. I’m very romantic and love to be romanced, pampered and treated like a special man. I am just an admire person looking for the real meaning of love. I am sweet, caring, understanding, patient, humble, I love people who accept who I am responsible am rich in good spirit and willing to share the real meaning of love to the right person. I love feeling secure and being sure that I can trust and be trusted. I love companionship that allows for having ones own space as well. I love being able to share interests but also have some of my own.
I’m Johnson Carter by name a Military Staff troop’s trainer and member of the military night patrol team, my rank is WO4.
My military education includes the United States Military Academy (U.S.M.A) atWest Point, New York (Class of 1977) Infantry Officer Basic and Advanced courses, Armed Forces Staff College, and a U.S. Army War College Senior Fellowship at the Hoover Institution, Michigan University.
As at now I am on a National Assignment to Iraq and things here are a bit calm now.... I have been here for almost 9 months now... I use my leisure time to search for the love of my life because I figured out lately that I need to love again... I want to love and be loved. I want to settle down again. I have been a lonely for years now... I have also been in this service for the past 27 years and now I am looking forward to retirement. I have only one month left for my retirement.
I do have one son (Sam, 14 yrs) who mean the world to me and have been my focus since I lost his mom... Sam is boarding school student schooling in America now. I do not seek a replacement mother for my son... Rather, I seek one amazing woman who will only accepts my relationship with my son but won't feel threatened by or jealous of this relationship and who can meld seamlessly into our family unit…
I don't need to rush...I will like to tell you little about my self......I'm pretty much a trusting person for the most part however. I have found myself to have people abuse that and make a fool of me..I believe each person deserves their own chance and don't judge anyone... In fact I try to keep an open mind with everyone at least as much as a human being can...I believe in romance! I love romance and being romantic...I enjoy pampering my woman (when I have one that is)...
Am want a woman that is willing to accept my son as her own son, care for him also love him as she will Love me. I want to meet a woman who will always be there for me whether in bad or good times. Am looking for some one who will share my life and also understand things easily...I am easy going, simple, with a big heart, respectful, romantic, very active man etc. My heart is always happy when truthfully can say that by the grace of God I made another friend today. I am spiritual and not really religious.
I am willing to relocate provided that the relationship is moving in a long term/serious direction.. I am not interested in bopping around "trying women out" on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone...I must have feelings for the person and she for me...There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase... There are just too many diseases out here and to be honest. I have seen what they can do to a life if you are careless sexually...I wouldn't want that for anyone I know or care about...Don't get me wrong though if the relationship were to get to that phase. I am completely into pleasing my woman...COMPLETELY!
The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship...For this to happen we should be come Sociable,emotionally,intellectually,socially,spiritually,physically(call me shallow but looks do matter)and sexually..Even with all this love must exist and there must be that ever elusive "spark...” In essence, I seek the proverbial "Total Package...” Rather than "settling" for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom)intensity and bliss..
I’ve got a great sense of humor to make people happy all the time. When my partner is happy am also happy and I see to it that our little family will befull of Love and happiness. It’s not quite easy being a single parent but being a single parent gives a lot of life experience in many things. I wish to meet a woman that will always be there for me and my son, a woman I can trust and Love, A woman that will always be there for me. My dreams is to meet this special woman and for her to accept me by not who I am but how she becomes when she's with me.
I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable. Honestly I've all that it takes to be a man; I don't really need anything from my partner. Maybe in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right. It's not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all those qualities which I'm dreaming off, I love friends and family...I am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and honestly.
I believe in honor, manners, ethics and treating people with respect and look for the same qualities in my friends. I also have a quiet side and am quite content staying home especially if I have someone to snuggle up with. I pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially. I have reached the point where I am looking for someone who is open to a new friendship and maybe even a committed relationship.
Dear I hope that I didn't bore you with all this information...I do know what I want...I have not date for the past 9 years since the death of my beloved wife because I wanted to make sure that I find a good woman and what I want to have in life with her.
Hopefully I have intrigued you to some extent...Please feel free to ask me anything you will like to know about me and I will be more than happy to answer you... Tell me a little more about you and what your looking for...I hope to read back from you soon....Take Care....
Well, I will let you go for now.
Greetings to you and thank you so much for your mail.Am really making life possible and successful here by the Grace of God.You told me much and i do like to know you more.Life hasn't be so easy for you too but it seems sometimes it need to happen.I will like to spend time getting to know you better and see how the future will lead us too.I was really touched by your mail this morning.I only met you when i subscribe for Online dating and that was my first time.Am hoping to know you better because i never think of meeting someone very open like you seeking for someone in her life.I think to delete my profile from Online dating because i think getting to know you will be the best..
I will like to delete my membership account at Online dating because of you and i knew we have much in common.Am happy to meet you through Online dating.I will be very glad if you could delete your membership account.I have appreciate everything about you and i know that spending time together with you will last and we will have much interest when we get to know each one better.We don't need to rush.Everything should be step by step and hope working hard things will be possible..
Jacquie a friend in need is a friend indeed.Life without a friend is like death without a witness.I want to be your cheerful friend because a cheerful friend is like a sunny day spreading brightness all around.A simple friend expects you to always be there for ,a real friend expects to always be there for you!I do promise to be honest,caring,truthful and understand man to you.True friends are like diamonds,precious but rare,false friends are like autumn leaves,found everywhere.I still guess we have to trust and know more about each one.
Friends are like melons.Shall I tell you why?to find a good one, you must have a hundred try.In prosperity it is very easy to find a friend in adversity,nothing is so difficult.We find ourselves telling each other the deepest details of our lives.things we don't even share with our families.
But what is a friend? A friend is all of these things and more.No matter where we met,no matter how long we have been together.I call you a friend and hoping you will be more than a friend in my heart.Truly great things come in small packages.Once the package of friendship has been opened,it can never be closed.Friendships are foundations necessary for life and love.
I'm just a normal man and this is the excellent way to meet someone.It is not poetic,however a summary of who I am..I enjoy people with a quick wit and a sense of humor.Nothing like laughter to make the soul feel great.Comfortable in my own skin as to who I am and thoroughly enjoy the presence of an equally comfortable lady and again.I love to laugh! Hope you do as well.
I equally enjoy dressing formal for that black tie affair to accompany that attractive lady or with wearing shorts and at shirt while walking with that all natural woman..Always amazed how a child sees the world with such clarity and simplicity whereby we adults can make it complicated.
I love a great bottle of Australian wine especially when shared in intimate conversation with a lady to include Sinatra, Sade, etc.I like romantic music Ah,I'm a romantic at heart.I know it's a curse.
I love to engage in discussions involving day to day life experiences or such topics as global and national issues or local community events.My political views are moderate and believe in being practical when it comes to applying political or social issues of the day.I'm a sensible center kind of man.
I seek for a lady that has "twinkle in her eye", and enjoys living life to the most.She must be a woman who is not self absorbed and has a kind heart and a positive attitude toward people and life in general.Not interested in living in the past or carrying vast amounts of baggage into the future.It is just too heavy *chuckle*
Well,if you are interested lets get to know each other better and we can have our first meeting over some great coffee or wine at a quaint cafe someday..
I wish you all the best in life and hoping to read from you soon till then.Take care..
Am hoping that you are enjoying .. I will be glad to chat with you so what time will you be on skype so that we can be chatting all the time.. waiting
Good Morning and how is your condition of health? Got a lot of work done this morning, many reports out of the way and training. Majority of my assessments completed. Feels so good. I am so sick of the paperwork. I assume you have a lot of that to do also. No position is without its paperwork and reporting.
I will like to express myself to you as willing to know better.I have read over and over your letters and i will like to know more about you and see how good the future may hold us too.You have dignity in you and that makes me proud of you.
I sometimes feel to run out of here because Iraq is a very dangerous country and am always happy because i have one month to leave so that i can relocate the woman of my life direct from here.Sam is a very good boy with good education,respectful,honest,faithful and polite as the father.I will not go back to USA but rather to relocate my soul partner so that we can plan life together and see how to establish something good for the future kids.
I will like you to delete your profile from any dating service as we hold on geeting to know more about each one better. I don't play or joke in life. I mean i don't cheat on my partner because it's a sin and also it hurt. Do trust and believe me as well. I want you to know that in life all relationships have some adjustment periods but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love.
Loving relationships have good qualities such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise to a honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow and become something that you desire.We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. I want the best in life for those that I care for.
If your partner is unwilling to listen to your problems, she is not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking.
In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires.If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship.Watch to see that your partner is not secretive nor willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things.
While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner, a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, open mind and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.
Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money.Money and love aren't the same thing. The more you spend money, the less you have, the more you spend love, the more you get in return. Love doesn't cost money but it does require the payment of your heart.A man can inherit a house and money from his parents but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife. Love is when money and materialistic things no longer matter. It's when you're holding the hand of the woman you love and you feel like the richest man in the world having everything.With money, we can buy all things but with love, we find everything that really matters.It isn't money, fame or power ,the greatest adventure in life is love.Power is one thing; money and power are two things, but love is everything ..
You need trust to love but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this.Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and trust,it should receive that love back.The best proof of love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience,it can weather any storm. Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and happiness. It's hard to love and hard to trust but finding love and finding trust was a gift from you to me.
I hope you well and hope to meet up tonight on for a chat, there have been problems here with the internet and there are times I cannot get on.
Greetings from me to you this morning and hope you are doing well.My night was good but little bit dangerous.Always happy because i don't have much time here as I will be leaving here soon to relocate Sam and maybe my soul partner if i found the right woman.I received a mail from Sam this morning and thanks for your mail.
Your letters have touched me greatly. You have put into words my thoughts and feelings.My thoughts of what true love should be. My thoughts regarding how a woman and man should treat each other. I have put a lot of trust in you. I have come to understand who you are and what you mean. I understand that you are not asking for anything from life except to be truly loved. You want to know the arms that hold you each day, from the time you get up in the morning to cuddling you all night while you sleep love and trust you. I feel that we need to share each others world with the other. The one person that I should be able to cry and laugh with over the bad and good should be my wife.
Jacquie relationships should never be taken for granted.The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing.Trust,loyalty and respect are must for eternal happiness.No matter how much you love someone if you don't have these ingredients you will never succeed.To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust your partner first.You can never find love through the eye or ear,so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die that is your heart.Love is like trust,when you find your special someone it is as if you are trusting her with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands.
Jacquie faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them.Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help.Love makes not everyone but the only one in your life who specially think that you are always there to be with,to cherish you,to fulfill your dreams,to share with you and most of all,to make you realize how much I really care for you.
Jacquie distance doesn't matter when your in love but what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance love gets dry.Without respect love gets lost.Without caring love gets boring.Without honesty love gets unhappy and without trust love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift,trust in it, believe in it, give it and it will be returned to you to give again and again.
You can get advice from family,friends and strangers but the best advice comes from your heart never lies so trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy but only a few are worth trusting with your heart so choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.For you can love many but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of.Trust your heart.Distance cannot hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect,trust,commitment and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love,it's insecurities that comes in the way cause love has just one important ingredient that is TRUST.
Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything.It means trusting and being honest with each other can be beautiful with both inner and outer trust but when he or she betrays your trust,You become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient.Love is kind.It does not envy.It does not boast.It is not proud.It is not rude.It is not self seeking.It is not easily angered.It keeps no record of wrong doing.It does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth.It always protects,trusts,hopes,perseveres and faith.
Love takes many things trust,hope,wishes,dreams and everything you have got even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars,sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people.Am very honest with my words.I will be more happy if you could understand me well.I will also be more happy to know you better and see how good the future may hold us too.
Am hoping that you will be online tonight so that we can be chatting ...Hope this letter finds you well and staying safe. I look forward to your emails.Be good to yourself. Hey by the by I do trust you also believe in you.
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