Thank you for letting me have your email am honoured, for some reason I cannot access my match profile I cant view your profile as well. I have reported to the customer care they have not resolved it it was nice connecting via text message earlier.
I thought I'd share more on my background with you to enable you to know me, I attended Bauman Moscow state University, studied Civil Engineering,worked for endless companies but currently running my establishment. I am a Christian by religion, but finding it difficult to have a proper relationship with my maker and church because of my constant travels.I was born in Dublin(Ireland) March 27 1966, the only child from my now late parents. My mother was from Russia while my dad was from Ireland. I am not fluent in Russian but understand a little....lol. My father worked in the construction industry and after his death, I thought I would follow on his footsteps and hopefully make him proud.... I was 13 when he died. I hope I succeeded more than he did..
After my dads passing we were forced to move to my mothers place of birth, Moscow then years later relocated to England where she worked for the government doing billing. throughout my childhood and partly adult years I have been in between these 3 countries, hence my accent...so my friends and colleagues say, which some find it funny...ha ha ha. As you already know I'm a widower was married for 9 years, lost my wife 4 years ago in a fatal car accident she was a few months pregnant. She was more than a partner, one could say she was an angel. Post the tragic a lot changed, that being my priorities, goals,but most of all my lifestyle. I had to get a Nanny for our then baby boy who is now 8. He is all I have got in my life and I appreciate her with everything I have got, he lives at home with me and her name is Richard.
The reason I signed into (Match.com) Is because I have not felt the love of a woman for long time and a friend encouraged my to try on-line dating scene, yes I have tried in the past to start a relationship but it never worked partly because I was not ready and also she was in it for the wrong reasons.I really want to try again this time.To be honest, am scared but just want to be bold and move forward. Some day I hope to find a person who I can share my life and happiness with. In the mean time, my son and work is what makes me happy and keeps me busy. I love everything about construction, I love to create new things everyday, am easy going I hardly get angry because I do believe that energy and time should be channelled into something positive. This will be all for now and thanks for reading, hope that you find nothing offensive in what I have written, if there is anything else you would like to know, please do not hold back to ask and would like to know more about you? Cheers and a big hug from me to you. Attached is my pics hope you like it.
Good morning dear Effie,
How are you I hope you slept well? I was not feeling too well I have a terrible flu could not do much over the yesterday that is the reason why I am responding to your email this late I hope you had a nice one. I feel a lot better today though I am preparing for a safety seminar scheduled to start this evening in Montgomery AL am not really up to it given the way am feeling but I just have to attend The seminar is about learning new safety Technics in job sites it will go a long way to enhance my profile as a Civil Engineer/ Building contractor. Unfortunately I cannot view your pics I will wait for you to send me one I have given up on match.com I have emailed them a couple of time to sort out my profile with out success.
I wanted to see what the market looks like in the construction industry since the real estate market is picking up especially in the North America USA/Canada. I arrived Calabasas CA , along the line I got job through my old contact in Europe that requires me to renovate a mansion for a Russian Billionaire here in FL I was on the job for almost 6 weeks which I was done with on Tuesday. I own a small construction Enterprise I handle my jobs in contracts my speciality is bidding for contact mostly via world Bank Aids and grants to third world countries where they Build schools Hospitals, Pipe Borne Water and Roads they donate to these projects to less privileged communities. My job has taken me Central America and South American Countries like Jamaica, Peru Bolivia... I travel for work mostly.
I am glad that you took time out to tell me more about you and your line of business you sound like a hard work that is a very good virtue for a woman to posse. Just like you I also like to play, laugh, and enjoy life am interested in a lot of things that pertains to life and humanity I wish I have the power to change the world, there will not poor and homeless people that is one of my biggest passion to build shelters for the homeless and start a soup kitchen to feed the poor I know that my dreams will come true in the nearest future. I just want to get to know you the more. You must be very good with kids since you run a creche (day care) despite the fact that your kids are all grown up, How do you manage the financial business and the Day Care it must be hectic.I totally agree with you that distance is not a barrier people can stay in the same house and yet don't have a good relationship but with good communication you can get even closer with somebody far away I am very very interested in you. When we meet you will tell me more about your travel experience and also the reason why you divorced but if its a sensitive issue that you don't feel comfortable talking about it I will totally understand.
I intend to relocate to the North America finally with my son in a few months from now, I think I have a better chance of expanding my business and horizon also it will afford me and my son an opportunity to experience life else where other than U.K and Europe My dreams is to grow old with my partner holding hands as we walk down the street, park or the beach. everyday, honesty is my watch word I do not believe that little white lies are harmless rather it gradually build up to huge dark secrets that tears a relationship apart. I am passionate about life in general I love nature I love the arts. I believe in living in harmony, am financially independent because I have worked so hard over the year to secure a future for me and my son, everything I own is a result of my hard work and Gods blessing. I teach my son the virtue and benefit of hard work, I am trying to get a flight out AL, A colleague I met here in the USA signed me up for the Seminar he feels I will need it in my quest to work contracts in the USA and Canada it will enhance my application for a silence After the seminar I will arrange on how to meet over lunch or dinner this new weekend I hope you don't mind. I wish you a blessed and fruitful day. Attached is a pic of me relaxing on Tuesday in my lodge after the job was completed I hope you like it.Hug and kisses.. I look forward to hearing from you.
PS I want you to download msn messenger on you computer so that we can do instant messaging this will give the opportunity to ask questions and get instant answers.
How are you I hope your day is going well? sorry for the late response My day is blessed partly because I had you on my mind. The Seminar ended well this morning we are suppose to have a ball tonight to allow attendees network the Unfortunately I have to cancel, I received a call from you child minder( Nanny) in the UK my son Richard is not feeling well, I have been away for over 60 days, right now am back to my hotel phoning the airline to see if I can get a seat out tonight to the UK to attend to my him. Unfortunately I cannot make a detour to Canada to visit you I was looking forward to it, If am able to get a seat I will fly tonight. Its just a quick dash to the UK I will be back in a week or so.
I want to concentrate on getting to know you better. I am offering you the flower of my heart as a friend. It's always growing and searching for perfection ,always reaching for the sparkling rays of the sun but only if you can give it the care and nourishment it needs to thrive, Love it, Treasure it, Keep it safe, Give it your light and I pray it blooms forever.I want us to continue this communication because there is much to know about each other. I will will contact you as soon as I arrive England. I will send my number to you upon arrival you must feel free to call or Text me whenever you can. Though we are far apart but if we keep communicating good, we will be close to each other in our hearts...
Please don't allow my returning back to the UK scare you, OK! am all he has a family, because I have been away for some time am sure he misses me as well. Let just spend a few days with him, please understand , on my way back to the states I will fly direct to you this time I will coming to visit you if you and get a chance to spend rime with you that is if you don't mind. I will keep the communication alive from my end, Thank you for given me attention. That will be all for now I need to finish packing. Have a wonderful and blessed day.
How are you, I hope you slept well, I arrived UK safe this morning. I was jet lag and tired, its nice to be home with my son. He was sick as a result of the food he ate during the week his mate brought party pack to school. He is feeling much better now also he misses daddy lol..My plans is to relocate to the USA/Canada and start my company there, that is the reason why I visited USA with plans to visit Canada after my Seminar but family comes first you are right when you said that we cannot control the wish of god we can make plans and something else will come up to change the plan I guess that such is life.....The Euro zone is failing, Europe is neck deep in debt businesses is not growing the way they should that is one I am trying t be dynamic. Beside the failing economy I also want to experience new ways of doing things and I want my son to have a multi cultural experience just like me. I want him to study in the USA or Canada, I know that my flying back to UK did not scare you.
When I got home this morning my internet was not working, I called the service provider to fix it, I was really looking forward to reading your email, I did receive your text message as soon as I landed in Heathrow and turn on my phone it was awesome maybe because I was expecting to see a message from you that was nice. My Son is so happy to see me, he wants to know everything that happened in the States.... This is my phone number + 44 795 082 0927, you are welcome to give me a call or text me any time during the day or at night. It was really nice hearing from you on my way to the airport yesterday, you sound so angelic.
I understand that there are many different ways to partner, and I try not to judge other people’s choices, but for me, I would like to find an equal partner, some one who contributes as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn't have to be about money, rather the work, and effort contribution we bring to the table just like the way you prayed for my son and when I told you that I have emergency and asked what you can do to assist that is what I call true friend and lover. I have expectations for myself, and in the past I've found it difficult to find someone who had similarly high expectations for themselves. It seems like so many people want to do ‘just enough’ to get by, but I want more than that.
As a basic foundation I think there should be respect for each others freedom ( to make a partnership work, I believe that we have to freely choose to take our partner and our family into consideration when we make choices and decisions), honesty and openness is very important I don’t believe that ‘little white lies’ are harmless or kind I think I have mentioned that to you in my previous correspondence, I believe that honesty, even if we don’t want to hear what someone has to say, is always more kind in the long run. I think it’s especially important for partners to be able to trust each other, without that, it just seems like everything falls apart. I also think it’s important to be able to express your needs and wants and desire to each other. Above all make decisions together about how to meet them.
I believe it’s important to be kind to each other. To have compassion and empathy for each other and be willing to really listen to what your partner has to say. I want to support my partner in achieving her dreams, and feel supported by them in accomplishing mine. I want to work together with my partner to make decisions as a family, and share our power I know that your kids are grown up and Richard is still young I want you to know that he will not be a barrier to our nascent relationship he is a sweet boy. This will be all for now dearest and thanks for reading I look forward to hearing from you we will chat online tonight when you are free. stay blessed and hope you are having a wonderful Sunday I need to rest some more before I take Richard out for and a joy ride by the lake if the weather allows us.
How has your day been? I know you have been busy with work and everything I got back very late last night there was no airtime on my phone and I am up early today is a big day the inspectors are arriving this morning. I want you to know that since am with you, I feel alive. You bring to me a happiness that no one else ever could. You bring to me a love I have never known before. I could not imagine what my life would be like without you. You have touched my heart in ways no one could ever comprehend. I love being with you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
Every day I wake up thanking God for you. You have given me so much, and I know I will be able to give back all that you have given me. You have been my guiding light when I was lost. You have been my comforter through all my trials and sorrow. You have been my rock.
Sometimes I feel lost and out of touch, but when you’re there, I feel safe. Your voice soothes me. I could sit here and try to tell you just how I feel, but I can't find the words other than I want us to be together now and for ever.
I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life, and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms. I want to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything, because you are everything to me.
I promise to always love you and always hold you in my heart. I will always be here for you when you need me, and I will love you no matter what life brings us. You are my soul mate, and I vow to love you all eternity. I love you Effie.
Morning Love how are you? I know you slept well, How was your visit to you friends I hoe you had a wonderful time together. Its always good to receive your email. I am happy that I am in your thoughts just like the way you are in mine yes in a few weeks it will be my birthday it will be the greatest gift to share that day with you, I cant wait to hear the plans you have for me. Tell me what kind of song did you compose for me? that is so sweet of you nobody has ever written me a song you are truly sent from above Effie. thank you I am glad that you are proud of me and have a lot of confidence in me to be the man you will grow old with I am honoured, it feels so good to know that I am appreciated I promise never to let you down in any way. When I read about the your description of a physical connection I went to cloud nine and back I can also feel the chemistry from afar that is why I agree with you that its going to be magical the first day we meet, I have rehearsed over and over again what I will say to you when you come to the airport to pick me first I will pick you off your feet kissing tenderly but deep. On our way home or to my hotel, I know that I cannot keep my hands of you even while you are driving. I will be all over you trying to catch up for lost times.
I Presume you are still in bed right now under the warm sheet of your bed, my thoughts now are of us cuddling, your head on my chest, whispering sweet words you would love to hear into your ears, simply wish I was there with you, am sorry if this seems too soon for me to say but it's just my heart pouring out what it feels. My day has been wonderful, went for my morning exercise and when I returned I rushed down to my laptop to see if there was a mail from you, you should seen how big my eyes were when I saw 3 emails from you...lol, am really glad we are having this conversation again. As soon as Richard returns from school, we will be going shopping, he has really missed hanging without with me we need to buy a few things for the house, guess am trying to be the best dad that I can be...lol, when we meet and go shopping together and I will love the romantic date to Niagara falls I have never been there.
I guess your plan for the day is to work but please don't work too hard and no matter what you do, don't forget that there is someone out here who cares so much about you, will have to go into my home office now and put most things in place as it seems dusty as I have been away for a while.Take good care of yourself and don't forget to always smile cause that's the best thing we can do with our lips lol..., although there is something else we can do with our lips if you know what I mean, I look forward to connecting with you later today I miss you lots kisses and a big hug from me. I will send the Ice cream cone to Richard lol..
PS: I will read you second mail all over and respond after cleaning my office.
Hey dear How are you I know that you are busy I came back from my meeting helped Richard out with his home work and slept off on the couch, I think am still recovering from the jet lag lol.. How is your day going hope not too hectic, when the children are on holiday does it mean a break from work for you? Do you do the school run your self? you cant hire a runner or driver. I will not be shy about expressing my self, another wonderful night to confess my love for you… Such a blessing to be engulfed in your love, My heart belongs to you and I've never felt safe with giving my heart to anyone but I know you will protect it and love me forever and then more. To this day I'm still amazed how fast we have progressed in this relationship so much so that I can even get you out of my mind. During my meetings all I could think of is what you are doing right then, at some point I was distracted but in a good way ha ha ha ha ha Thinking of you is what I do most My confession for our love is by no means to boast But more so like a toast! We will be the light! For a world to see what true love is. I just have to sit back and laugh as I think to myself wow this is really my mate. This is the woman I've prayed for…. Both mentally and physically Because let’s be honest as a man I'm most stimulated through my eye gate But don’t be alarmed my love These eyes are only fixed upon you Your beauty is unprecedented, no woman dare compare. Mentally pshhhh you blow them all out of here Brains Beauty and hard work who have it all. I wouldn't have it any other way or ask for more Effie Hug and kisses.
Good Night my angel.
Morning my dear I wish I was there to stroke your hair till you fall asleep I presume you are still in bed right now I woke early as usually did my morning exercise then I dropped Richard off to school before returning to the office to do some paper work I have told Richard about you the day after I returned home he ask if you will be him new mother I just laughed he is excited but he knows that I am happy that usual since I came back he know that its because of you like I mentioned to you before Richard is a sweet boy anything that makes daddy happy he is up for it as long as I take him out as often as he want to ha ha ha I am also lost for words to express my inner most feeling towards you its in my head I wish I can act it out right now that way you will be able to understand what I am saying. yes I have been hurt in the past I mean its part of life but that is not the reason why I guide my heart I am just being cautious that is all but I think I have found my missing ribs its time to throw caution into the wind and just enjoy the gift that we have been given there is no doubt in my heart that this is true love Effie. I cannot wait to meet your son, daughter and the rest of your friends and family.
Are you serious about working for me hahahaha you have such a wonderful sense of humour whenever I read you emails I just laugh and laugh non stop. I wear boxers short brief is not my thing, like right now as I am sitting in the office reading and writing back to you I have a huge bulge on my boxer your emails are so romantic and erotic they turn me on. The part you mentioned removing my shirt and rubbing your breast against my skin my heart skipped I felt warm blood rushing all over my body and finally I had a hard on that will not go away I have tried so hard to loose it but its not going away I guess I need a cold shower lol... When I close my eyes, I see you. When I open my eyes, I see you. There is nothing I can do without thinking of you .I can climb a thousand mountains and swim a thousand miles just to see you smile.You brighten my day with the sound of your voice the day we spoke on the phone brought so much laughter and love to my life, you are everything to me and I was so blessed when god sent you here for me Somewhere, someone dreams of your smile and finds your presence in life so worthwhile. So when you are lonely, remember it's true that someone somewhere is thinking of you. Sun may rise, moon may fall, but I think my life would never be this nice if I never knew you at all.
You are in my thought we must chat online tonight
Morning my Angel I hope you sleeping nice, I thought I should email you before I go out I cant get you out of my mind, Right now am wishing that am with and its early in the morning by you. I would have loved to Kiss you on the forehead and say good morning, then lay you back and undress you slowly, taking time to caress and feel every part of you as it’s revealed. Your shoulders, your arms, boobs, your belly, your back, your hips, your butt, your inner thighs, down to your feet.
I’d undress myself, but maybe I’d leave my boxer shorts on for the moment, just to tease you a little. I’d take your hands and ask you to touch me on my face, my neck, my arms, then my belly, before I unwrapped the present in my boxers short. I will lie next to you for a while on the bed, feeling us skin to skin, warmth to warmth, savouring the awesomeness of touching you, caressing you, stroking you, feeling how wet you are with my fingers.
And then, when I think you’re in the proper mood, you will climb on top of me and guide me into your horny pot, fitting body our parts together nicely, enjoying the indescribable sensation of having me pushing into you, big and hard, and you will move your hips, up and down, maybe side to side a little, really feeling and enjoying ourselves. I’d be looking into your eyes all this time, wanting to watch you as we share these moments together.I would turn us over so that I will be on top of you, never losing contact during the process. Once you are underneath me, you would surrender to me completely. It would be my turn now and you will be entirely overwhelmed and overpowered by me. I will let you run your fingernails down my back, over my butt, down my thighs.
For want of a more polite term, I’d want to fuck you, hard and fast or slow and easy, as you choose. we will close our eyes, get lost in the pleasure, think whatever we want but try not to forget what we are doing Lol.. we will sweat, make noise, whatever gives us pleasure.Lose ourselves in the moment and when I am ready, will explode inside you, giving ourselves over to the incredible pulsating sensations that have been building since we were far apart. And when I am quite finished, I will collapse onto you, satiated, catching my breath, till you ask me to move so that you can breathe too. I will then slide off of you, out of you grab a glass of cold water. Chat a little bit before you jump into the shower and get ready for work as the case maybe....
That is how I want us to start and end everyday when I come over. I love you Effie I know its too soon but that is how I feel. Am going out to keep my appointments I have a few contract tenders to work on, we will connect when you wake up, you are always in my thoughts I cant wait to hold you in my arms forever.
Always you Miles...
I love you more I am in London right now for the bid opening I hope you slept well my angel? I was looking forward to reading your email in London because I left very early, I guess you are still sleeping How did your business meeting go last night I know it was fruitful you were in my prayers as well I just want you to know that I am thinking about you and I count greatly on your prayers to win the tender. I will talk to you as soon as I am done.
Hey Love How are you I got home a while ago Its was hectic for me today I had series of meeting as a matter of fact I was snowed under the whole day so much so that I forgot my name lol. I am glad you received the flowers It was meant to be a surprise that is the reason I did not mention it to you was only trying to express my self and to tell you how real I am. I hope you like them. Yes the Education system allows for hoe study I am still considering the possibility of him Travelling with me since its going to be Easter holiday the school will be close for the break I might be able to work some thing out beside when I spoke to my site manager in South Africa he mentioned a pre programme reception class/[ for expertriates and tourist you have kids its a system that allows the kid to study, play and go for sight seeing. I will see how it goes I want to be sure that I am travelling with him before I mention it to him.
I am honoured to have you in my life all I think about is ways to make you happy because when you are happy I am happy as well. I will not allow you work for me reasons is that you are my gal firstly I will work and provide for us I might consider allowing you do the books for me, you are to precious to me to work in my profession and get dirty ha ha ha ha... If I take on the Cape Town Job I will be done between 10 to 14 working days which means that I will not be in Canada in a fortnight as planned but I will be there in less than one month, I cannot stay away from you for too long as it is I will go crazy lol... You don't understand Effie I sleep eat work play and think about you you are in my thoughts 24 hours of the day
People at my office complex also noticed that I am happy the door man said to me Mr Miles you are an air of joy around you what is the secret I said to him that I am in love his jaws dropped but I did not give him any details. Regarding your friends I think we should keep details of our relationship in the wrapped for now I have come to realize that people are jealous especially when they are single and searching, they will go at any length to discourage or destroy what gives you joy or make you happy I hope you understand . At this early stage of our relationship couple with the fact that we have not met a lot of people will be sceptical therefore be care of how much you tell them let them know that you are in love and happy that is all that matter when I come over you can show me off to them like I will do when you visit me.
Yes I will love to share my birthday with you we have to plan it because this tender that my company won kind of affected my plans if I had my way I would have turned down both offers and follow my heart but it will affect my company in the future I miss you love.I want to take a shower do dinner then see if there is home work in Richards school bag then I will help him with it after that I will come on-line for a cat before I go to bed. I love you lots...
Hey love I am done with home work I was thinking we could catch up on IM before I attend to the work that I brought home. Are you busy, are you available to chat? please let me know.
Morning love how are you I am sorry I did not email you earlier I over slept when I woke up I was running late for my meetings and Richards swimming lessons regarding the tender I was trying to hire a site manager in South Africa via telephone that process on its own took the whole morning e came highly recommended by a colleague that has worked in that location in the past.and even part of my afternoon I just settled in now into the office. and check my email I feel so bad that we have not exchanged anything today. Are you enjoying the flowers and how is the teddy bear named Miles lol....
I was thinking about your friend and what she experienced in the past it mad me sad because I know that you have gone through a similar incident glad you could lend a shoulder to cry on for her you are truly an Angel Effie god bless you keep doing what you are doing to help friends and family especially when they need listening ear. I am glad you did not give up on us because of the distance yes with good communication we can bridge the gap till we finally me and never part no more I appreciate you my darling Effie you are one of a kind You friend is a wise woman thank her on my behalf for the wise counsel I will also do whatever it takes to make this work. Once again I appreciate the confidence you have in me it means a lot you are my better half the one I want to spend forever and a day with.
I see a bright future full of possibility happy times memories that we will live with for the rest of our lives. Yes its not going to be a smooth ride times will come when we disagree as couple but we should not allow the sun to come down before we settle our differences meaning that we cannot go to bed fighting with each other. When I am there I will kick Miles the teddy out of the bedroom he should not enjoy what is mine lol...
Here's my general thought about communication in relationships. At least once a week (or more often) couples should set time aside to talk and discuss things. I truly believe that date night is important. Whether date night is making dinner together and talking or going out to dinner and a show, it is important to spend that time together. As a family, it is important to have dinner together as much as possible and spend time together doing something fun (movies, museum, event) or productive (working on the yard, planting a flower bed, building something together). What we do doesn't matter, what is important is the collaboration and time we devote to making a better life for each other and sharing our experiences and knowledge. The things I remember most from childhood is planting a garden with my parents every Saturday morning and learning from them a million different things that I know today. I know that you are having a busy day today same here but we will talk in the night before I go to bed.
I love you lots.
Created: 2013-05-14 Last updated: 2013-05-14 Views: 124