Romance scam letter(s) from James Paulo to Maryanne (Canada)
Thanks for trusting me with your email, It is nice to start communicating with someone on the site and thanks for the chat on the site last night, we honestly seem to have alot in common. I did really enjoy our conversation. I can tell you are an interesting person to talk to, this is my first time trying this and it is pretty weird for now lol hopefully i will get use to it, having to talk to strangers online. Anyways I was skeptical of signing up on a dating site until I realize it is the only modern medium to meet people of our age regardless of the unserious people out there, I just want to have Faith that I will find the woman of my choice that is on the same page with me, I want to be able to travel to places with my partner, I want to come back home from work and get a kiss from my partner, I want to be able to share my work day story with my partner, I want to be able to trust again and enjoy life with someone that is ready. I have alot to offer and I expect that from my anticipated partner, I am very hardworking and independent, I wish for someone who is hardworking and indpendent as well. I am 100% in support of meeting in person because that is the only way to know if there is chemistry or connection and long distance i wont consider a problem. I guess we can communicate and share more about what you are looking for, I will appreciate it if you tell me about your past and experience with the dating world and your ex marriage then we can go from there though it is always good to let go of the past but i feel it is a way of getting to know each other. Have a goodday
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to continue communication with you and thanks for your interest in wanting to know me. I appreciate it, you sound like an honest and open minded person, well it is great to know that we are on the same page, let me tell you some basic things about me, where do i begin mmmmmmm OK. I'm an Italian(Dad)and American (Mom) by origin, I was born in Italy and later migrated to Pickering ON with my parents through Federal Skilled Worker Visa. My full names are "Mateo Riccardo" turned 61 years old on Valentine's day, Feb 14th, I have a Bachelor of Science Degree in Petroleum Engineering at University Of Toronto, after my University I decided to move to the west for my career, I lived in Calgary for 15years and just recently moved to BC after me and my ex wife was finally done with my divorce. I am an independent contractor and work with major oil and construction companies, I am currently working with Canadian Natural Resource Limited CNRL. I have two dogs, sheltea and a chocolate labrador, i have a cat too, I love animals as pets.. I lost my only son to lekeumia cancer early last year, the death is still very fresh in my memory that I have to see a counsellor for support to overcome the grief but I am glad I am good. I have been single for 4years now, when my wife filed a divorce... It was really a bad time for me, I have been trying to cope with the vacuum because it hasn't been easy for me. I don't have any relationship in person right now. I am a descent professional man, belong to a well responsible class. I am a generous person, transparent man, mentally stable, physically fit, gentle,positive, funny and purpose-minded. My goals and dreams in life are very simple, living one day at a time and enjoying one moment at a time and to meet someone that believes in unconditional love/relationship. It's my desire and want for you to ask whatever you wanna know about me. Let us take it step by step.
I'm so much interested in knowing you better and what makes you the special person you are today. I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me as a friend. So come on and share it all with me if you don’t mind. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as this friendship/relationship i want to build with you. I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship/relationship i want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.
I must admit that you are a very cute, charming and attractive looking lady, I admire you. I am ready to cross the ocean for the woman of my dreams because I have a tender heart, I know it might suprise you that I sound like this but there is about your picture or rather say your personality. I am a one woman Man and I promise to take very good care of her and treasure her like gold. We will be best friends and great lovers, we will have great fun everyday of our life, bound together with strong relationship with love and confidence. This is what i want in my life with my true partner, I want us to know each other more. I don't joke or play-games with any ones emotion and i don't want any one to joke or play-games with mine as well. Looking forward in further communication with you.
Regards, take care & God bless!!!
Thank you so much for such an incredible email Maryanne , I like the open communication you have created and thanks for giving me the opportunity to know you better as well as you knowing me. I find writing you interesting, you are a very simple and easy person to communicate with and i'm sure glad to have come across your profile. Anyways, I do like to go on with introducing myself after reading your last detailed email and I just felt you should know me more better and ofcourse on every first date you are suppose to tell each others more about yourselves, right? So let me tell you more about the divorce of my wife, she was really a kind woman at heart, intelligent and beautiful to all standard, she knows her duty as a mother and wife but it was so unfortunate she had to capitalize on the nature of my job and made claims on some of my properties.My job requires me to travel every now and then so that was not too good for our marriage. It was really pathetic because I had better future plans for the family and I did not prepare myself for any financial or emotional consequences. She made $40.000, %30 of my anual income. God so kind I had a private investment that she is not aware about that sustained my financial state and stabilize the reduction of my income, I had to move on with life and today I think I made a decision to fall in Love again and put in a 100% as I am considering retirement.
I moved to Canada with my parents when i was 19years old, I was originally born in Bari (Southern Part of Italy) before my Dad moved to Florence. I enjoy cooking and it's one of my hobby & interest.It's nice reading from you and knowing more about you. You write me like we have been friends forever, You are such a polite and friendly lady and i must admit that I feel so excited writing more about myself and reading more about you. I have been living a lonely, both sad and happy life since the Divorce between me and my wife. I'm sad that she's gone and there's no partner to comfort and make my house feel like a home again and Im happy that i have a good job that keep me busy often. Talking about finding a perfect match around here, Since i have been single four years ago, I have been so emotionally down, hence i didn't deem it necessary to find my dream woman. Honestly, I would really like to know you more better and keep in touch with you very often. Thanks for the sympathy of my son, I am glad he is at peace in heaven instead of suffering in this world. Can you please send me some of your recent photos please, i will send you some of mine at the end of this email. You captured my heart with your simplicity, hence i want us to be best of friends. I would love to share my view about what I look forward to in life with the right partner. Kyle was a 19year old loving son. I would like someone that will love and respect me for who I am, that likes to hold my hand and surprise me with a little kiss when I least expect it or give me a wink from across the room to let me know she's thinking about me or give me a call just to let me know she's thinking about me... Because I will be doing the same..
I'm a man one who strongly believes in respect and that without respect, you can’t experience true love and generate a healthy relationship. I believe in a smaller “wow” when it is first a friendship and then a larger “Wow” later as it evolves into a Beautiful Loving committed relationship. I believe it’s not just what you are like on the outside, but more about what you are like on the inside. I’m seeking friendship first, (no game playing please) with someone who appreciates some of the same temperaments and interests I enjoy. That special someone is a woman with integrity, having similar beliefs and is responsible, intelligent, has a sense of humor, positive, is clean and neat in habit and appearance, romantic, passionate about living and loving . I like an adventurous person who likes travel, nature and enjoys being home.she is a woman who is at peace with herself. I am hoping to connect with someone of like minds to form friendship first and then leave the rest to the Universe..
I'm a gentle soul, quiet and certainly not what most people would assume - a social butterfly. Instead I'm the quiet watchful, listener who will provide you with a listening ear after a tough day, and not judge, or assume or tell you something that get you mad. I also wish to let you know that I'm a very straight forward man, I don't go beating round the bush, What i write is what i mean, Nothing more, nothing less.
I have got much to say about my ideal match and I will sure tell you more about it, as we talk further. Please take your time to tell me more about yourself and your thought too. I have attached my recent photos, I hope you like them.
Thanks for your time & God bless you.
Thank you very much for the nice conversation so far Maryanne. You are for sure a very honest, simple and responsible Lady. These are the qualities of my dream woman after the divorce of my wife. I grew up with this thought in me "Honest people are rare gems" hence, when you meet one, try to always appreciate them. I like you for who you are, I am much more into knowing the kind of person you are INSIDE and not the OUTSIDE. I don't get tripped by a woman's look, height, size or age. So long as you have what it takes inside of you to be a great partner, you sure fit in. I'm overwhelmed and amazed by your honesty, I find you interesting and would ofcourse want to know you more better, yes I enjoy experessing myself in writing. Thanks for the pictures of you,at least I have more idea of what you look like. You and your family are adorable.
I am the only child of my parents and I came to Canada with my both parents like i said in my ealier email. My Dad had a oil lucrative business back home in Italy and he invested on real estate in England. His demised was as a result of a stroke 5years ago. My mom could not take the shock because they were very close to each other, they were best friends have never seen couple as close as my parents when she heard the news of my dad death she had an attack that led to her death two years later.
I would have to say that my favorite color based on nature has to be a neutral green, But my overall favorite color in clothing and all is BLUE. Green is the color of nature and it is the color that warms my heart. Why does this color warm my heart you ask. It warms my heart because when I look out at nature I see the birds playing and singing their beautiful songs in the trees. It all makes you think that we live on a calm green earth and we call this place home.
Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that, I think about you all the time. Although we haven't met in person, But I know you are out there because I can feel your presence when I try to put my heart in my letters to you, It feels like you're sitting right beside me and we just have a random conversation about ourselves. We are two lonely souls seeking true love and affections, It's amazing how we can feel this special even without seeing in person yet.
I know while there might be something that really make's me interesting, you will also be able to stare straight into my heart. Through seeing my heart, I know you will help me to break down my walls that have caged me in due to my past. We will be able to share our deepest secrets with one another without fear of judgment.
Most importantly, I know you will help me understand what it means to truly love someone because of the love you might give me daily if we are meant to be together. You will be the best thing that has ever happened to me. As we embark on our friendship together, I hope the friendship will only grow and flourish into something remarkable.I want you to know that I don't plan on settling for anything less than you since we started communicating. I am working on being the right man for my dream woman. I am not perfect but I try to stay positive I know we won't have a flawless relationship if we end up together. I have my faults and you are expected to have yours as well. The beauty is that we will be able to accept each others flaws regardless because of the love we will share. There might be times that we will fight (Argue/Quarrel). I know this because sometimes there might be some little up's and down's along the line. I will always strive to put you first. Though at times I may fail, know that I will always work towards becoming the best man ever for my dream woman.
Well, there are more than alot to talk about, But i just hope we get to understand each other perfectly well.I'm always thinking about you and I feel extremely excited to have you as a dearest friend, You have made me feel and think about what I never had in mind for a very longtime. Thank you so much dear. I think it will be a great idea to talk on the phone, My phone number is 778-697-6413 text me and let me know what time is convenient for you to talk on the phone. Have a wonderful day and weekend ahead. Hope to hear from you soon.
Firstly, I do like to say a very big thanks for the phone conversation last night and how far we have come so far,it is pretty impressing. It was really nice hearing your voice, it tells alot about how serious we are, you have a very kind heart. I must also admit that I am getting so much attached to you that if i dont hear from you a day i feel something is missing, you have such an inclined voice and reasonable sence of humor, I slept off going through our emails last night!! Thank you so much for your interest in me. There are so many things I want to say to you, but i just can't find the right words. I love the feelings you putting in me. I have never felt this special and cared for in a longtime now. Going through your lovely letter just made me remember an old saying "Your body makes you sexy, your smile makes you pretty and your personality makes you beautiful." You are so beautiful Maryanne and i want you to know that I'm not saying all this to sweep you off your feet, but this is just exactly how i feel about you and I just hope we can build our own world withing each other.
Well, I just wanted to tell you a few more things about myself, my favorite food is Spaghetti with meat sauce with Italian spinach, and Manicotti. I dance to country songs of the 50s and 60's, Like "Oh Pretty Woman" - By, Roy Orbison, Mack "The Knife" - by Bobby Darin, "Don't Be Cruel" - by Elvis, and so many others anyway. My favorite kind of music are Country, Pop and Gospel, and my favorite desserts are; Raspberry Pavlova, Cheesecake & Apple Crisp pie. I'm not an Alcohol person, But can cheers with a glass of drink white or red wine along side my meal sometimes. Yes I am a happy person just like you. Each day I wake up and review the challenges of the day. As I go through that day, solving each challenge, one by one, I get a great feeling of satisfaction. Even simple challenges such as what to eat for lunch, makes me happy as I gobble it down. For those that do not feel happy, I always urge them to look back at yesterday and find the good things that happened, no matter how small. Even if you just think to yourself, I made it through another tough day. Soon, the positive side of your everyday life will overflow with happiness and you will start looking forward to the next day of challenges.And also, I do love to laugh, and I laugh alot (I think I have a pretty good sense of humor). I think that laughing is a very important thing in this world. Laughing keeps one sane in an insane world.
I'm a very affectionate person. My heart is tender and I love people for just who they are towards me, and sometimes I get hurt, but I pick myself back up try to put on some armor and Go on! I can't help It. I'll always be that way. A wounded Warrior I guess!.I am extremely even-tempered and calm. I am also highly rational and logical at all times, even when am really angry. Only people who really know me well would be able to tell when I am angry. I have often referred to myself as a type B minus or 'low-strung".
I am convinced that this outlook makes life a lot less stressful. My mother's classic statement (my father calls her a type C) is "it upsets me to get upset, so I don't".I just want to let you know that you are the first woman that approached me the way that you did the first time we met. And although it was only a casual meeting over the internet, I guess, I did not take advantage of you, by playing with words. I have been very careful with my messages and have always stayed honest with each and every lines about myself.
Thanks for the happy memories, It's been a longtime I last had this much conversation (deep intensely) with any lady. Writing about myself just gives me this wonderful feelings. I will cherish them, I won't forget you! I will try and call you before going to bed tonight, I am just getting ready to go run my errands in regards to my trip back to work tomorrow. Hope you have a wonderful day.
Good morning from Fort Mac darling. I hope you had a goodnight, I am so so sorry i could not talk to you on the phone last night or send you an email, the internet and phone reception here is kinda poor. It is so weird how I missed you so much as well it led to sleepless flight for me though it was short but i usually fall asleep as soon as the plane takes off lol it is one of my weird habit lol, but this time I was not able to fall asleep on the plane, I find myself thinking all about you. I was considering when I will finish this 3weeks trip and probably make arrangements to meet the woman I am falling for, that i just met like a week ago that feels like years upon years. I'm so glad how far we have come, Maryanne I would have to be honest with you ,I am kinda developing and feeling some type of way already, I will call you my glowing diamond.
Well, I arrived safe and sound, went to the site yesterday to get everything all set up, my crew arrived today and we are resuming work immediately. I had to write you so you may know my schedules, We have already done the evaluation, calculation and also did the mathematics as usual. So I have 20 laborers on my shift including machine operators and we will be working 12hours daily which is 8am to 8pm AB time which i told you earlier. I usually rent heavy equipments to carry out this assignment. I´m writing this little letter to you so you may know how important our relationship is to me.
You came to me as a balm, making me forget about all those headaches I was enduring then. The relief manifested in a comprehensive, patient and careful person, the support you have been providing me with has been extremely important to me. I´m expressing all my enthusiasm here, you have been sweet and wonderful so far. I feel like that emptiness I was feeling was replaced by your presence and for that I´m thankful to God.
Our friendship is still at the beginning and I'm very sure it's going to last forever. It is a very clear truth that I´m so interested in you! This admiration, though not worth much in itself, is to me a big reason for hope of living a new and happy phase of my life if things work between us. I really hope that our coming together has come to complete our existence and since we didn't have many happy days in our lives, we now long for a better future for ourselves. I think we deserve it. Luckily for me or us there is wifi here so i can receive and send you emails, you are free to send me email at any time. The phone reception was not all that great since i got here but I will try and give you a call before going to bed tonight if i get a better service. Enjoy your day and like I said I will keep communication very close. I have attached a picture my neighbour took of me yesterday morning before leaving for the airport.
Thanks for letting me feel welcome to your heart baby, I am here cant seem to find sleep thinking about us, thanks for your wonderful email and the lovely picture of what you want in a man, It felt great to read your email when I woke up to use the bathroom. Your emails means alot and i miss your voice, i am sorry i could not call tonight i was pretty exhausted after work, i showered, ate and fell asleep after i got back to my residence from work, I just woke up now and decided to send you a message so you dont have to be worried about me, I am fine. I just thought i share this with you and know what you think, I understand that there are many different ways to partner and I try not to judge other peoples choices but for me I would like to find an equal partner, someone who contributes as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn't have to be about financial situation but in general the work, effort and total contribution we bring. I have expectations for myself and in the past I have found it difficult to find someone who had similarly high expectations for themselves.
As a basic foundation I think there should be respect for each other (though to make a partnership work, I believe that we have to freely choose to take our partner and our family into consideration when we make choices)honesty and openness, I don't believe that little white lies are harmless or kind, I believe that honesty, even if we don't want to hear what someone has to say, is always more kind in the long run.
I think its important for partners to be able to trust each other, without that it just seems like everything falls apart. I also think it's important to be able to express your needs and wants to each other and make decisions together about how to meet them. I believe it's important to be kind to each other, not to be callous with each other's hearts.
To have compassion and empathy for each other and be willing to really listen to what your partner has to say. I want to support my partner in achieving her dreams and feel supported by them in accomplishing mine. I want to work together with my partner to make decisions as a family. Well I found some pictures of Kyle when he was at the hospital and a picture of my parents when they were younger. I have to go bed now, may Angels guide you as you sleep baby. Kisses
You are in my thoughts
I am back again on my screen looking at my computer and thinking of what to say to you, wow I am so proud of us, how far we have come in this short time. I know for sure that I have found something that I will never let go, at least friendship would definitely come out of this relationship, I am happy to have you as my new best friend and so excited to meet you soon. What I'm about to say to you is important for both of us, knowing and realizing that there is still alot to unfold, I'm willing to go forward if you are. Something shifted in me today not sure what or why, but it did. I'm Surrendering my HEART to you, I'm going to trust that what is happening between us, is of God. I'm going to try to put all my fears aside and go with what my heart has been telling me. I take your Heart in my Hands with all the gentleness, kindness and love that I can possibly hold in my soul I ask you to do the same.
I realize how crazy this may seem to both of us. But, I do believe in miracles and work in the metaphysical World.So, why couldn't this be happening? I have prayed and ask God to bring me someone that I may find peace and happiness with. Why shouldn't it be you? We both have been through alot of heartache and work experience, its time for our Blessings.
I had a hard time sleeping last night, I will share my prayer that I prayed when i wake up because i cant keep my thoughts from wandering around you. I asked that God bless our union together,that it will be filled with Love,Peace and Happiness. That we would be blessed with a long life together with good Health and financial security, I asked that our extended family and friends be blessed with our union and that all that our life together we touch will know the presence of God Love.
I dreamt that I introduced you to a close friend that was dying, He is a very close friend and spiritual mentor to me. I was kneeling by his bed and told him I had found you, he wanted to meet you. I know it was you because I turned and said Baby, please come meet Jason. I know on some level of consciousness we were all together.
I want to concentrate on getting to know you, this past two weeks of my life have been different knowing that I care about someone and the person care about me the same way, please don't get me wrong am not trying to impose it on you that we must have something, i just want to have my attention on you and see where it leads us...
Please stop me now. If you don't think this is at all a possibility I'm going to trust my instinct, this moment in time and my Heart is now in your hands. I am glad I rested yesterday, I have being busy getting my paper work done today and I am going to go do my laundry, cook, I will call you before going to bed. I could not look at airbnb you sent to me via phone because I dont have a smart phone but yes i think airbnb is a good idea, I wish you could send it to me via email. I have attached a selfie picture I took this afternoon for you. I miss you and haven't even touched you
I hope you had a great day at work? It feels so good to come home to your numerous heart warming email and text message after a long hardworking day. How come this intensed feelings happened so sudden but who are we to question God for the beauty of life. I have my own flaws as human for I am not perfect but I promise to put in my 100% in this relationship, You are my diamond Maryanne, I dont know where the feelings came from but I am positive it is real. I missed you so much darling and I want to let you know that you're always on my mind, despite my busy schedules, I miss you so much baby.I had a terrible day at work today, One of my heavy equipments broke down today almost at the end of the shift.
There have been alot of major improvement darling and I'm very excited about that. We worked 12hours today again and had 4hour break only, They major challenge we are facing right now is the weather. The equipments has been awesome and makes the job a little bit faster, that makes me happy because i can finish my assignment on as planned and being able to retire, then spend the rest of my life with you. I just got home now and the first thing I did was to check my email for your messages and I was amaze to read your email and get your adorable pictures, you are beautiful. I am feeling sleepy already so I wont be able to write so much hun. I'm counting the days baby, I'm here, but my spirit, soul and thought are over there with you. I just yearn for you. I want to be with you, so close to you. I will give you a call before going to sleep I got back to my residence late. I have attached a picture I took for you this morning before going to work, I hope you like it. Thanks for you beautiful pictures, I cant wait to kiss those lips
I'll always love you Maryanne.
Created: 2021-02-08 Last updated: 2021-02-08 Views: 59
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