Hi La Kiv a ,

How are you today? Thanks for your mail, It really made me Glad...I hope you are having a nice time, as for me am cool and lonely.

More about me, as you noticed from my profile, I am Paul Gascoil , 40 , single never married , born in Nice France , I am mixed breed...LOL ,My Dad was from Australia and Mum was French...Moved to Australia when i was 15 with parents . Lived in Australia for the better part of my life...I have a French accent when I talk...I obtained my degree in Business management major and Art Minor at Flinders University of South Australia, in Adelaide, my school is a public university in Adelaide, founded in 1966. It is named in honor of navigator and explorer Matthew Flinders, who explored and surveyed the South Australian coastline in the early nineteenth century.

I relocated to the States for some personal reasons which is very important to me weeks back but still willing to relocate for the right woman if God says she the one for me ... I find very much peace and tranquility here...I`m 6"1 , with a athletic build , mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, and mostly God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. I have passion for soccer, I like going to the movies, or watching movies in my room, I like swimming, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling, going bowling and also a good cook.. I am a family oriented person and There is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.. I love my life and everything that is has to offer. I am a strong believer in Karma. I believe that every person is placed in your life for a reason. Rather it is they are to bring something positive to you or you are to bring it to them. I love to laugh and have fun. I am very giving, sometimes too trusting, honest, fun, happy person. I will not judge anyone for their past because I believe that everyone has one. I am far from perfect, but I don't dwell on the past. That leads to my interests, there are too many to list but among them , I like to play games, watch movies, go hiking, eat really good food and desserts, cook, travel, explore new places, go to Broadway plays, I think I can have fun doing just about anything. I am a born again Christain go to church weekly , I attend an Interdenominational church and follow the word of God.

I am really interested in wanting to know about what makes you the special person you are today, QUESTIONS: I want to know more about your family, your background, your work, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me. I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone! So come on and share it all with me.

I want to know more about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential. And I’m using this medium to make you understand that I’m seriously seeking my Right woman, a Long term relationship. I miss having that one special someone to come home to. That one person that u call when something wonderful happens as well as when u needs a shoulder to cry on. I long for that one relationship that can withstand anything... the good and the bad. That one relationship that will last an eternity. I'm looking for someone who is honest, faithful, loving, caring, can make me laugh. Ok, I feel like I’m writing u a novel... lol. Your turn!

I will attach some more pics of me in this mail to you..Do i get some of you too???

Well, there is just a glimpse of me. Hope that gave you a better idea about who I am and look forward to sharing and learning more about you.

Take care and hope to hear from you very soon.....Paul

Hi La Kiva , Thank you so much for getting back in touch with me as it actually made my day!!!. I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today. The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions. I am a lonely person as my mail implies...Live alone with pets, I work on my own, It’s a work i inherited from my late parents. Its into buying and selling of Fabrics, Gold , Diamond...Not Like Blood Diamond..LOL,Well its easy i get contacted my clients who need my services , then i travel to where i can get the product Cheapest for them in the world and ship to them..I Love my work, It makes me travel and get to know different countries, It also have cool Cash attached..LOL,Cant you give me more insit on what you do?? More about my family and past relationships will be in my next mail!!! Am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me , communicate her feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need, stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in everyway, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constantlyreative, and treat me right.... I know you will think what is a guy like me doing on here .. Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise .characteristics of whom i seek...........The most important characteristics to me are compatibility and friendship. I'd like to find someone who's open, honest and easy going. A sense of humor is a big plus. Ideally we'd have some shared interests and goals, as well as some similarities in opinion about what's important in life. If you love to laugh, travel and appreciate the warmth of a furry coat and a wet nose, let's talk things that i would love to do with my woman...........Get caught with my woman in the rain. Dance with her in the rain. Stargaze on a clear night. Watch the sunset together. Spend all day with her doing nothing. Moonlight walks on the beach. Be more proud of her than i already am at this very moment. Go on a carriage ride through the park. Do a crossword together. Go to brunch. Have a disagreement (it could/will only make us stronger).Go for a twilight horseback ride. Watch bad/good movie together. Spend the rest of my life with you. Have our picture taken together. Eat ice cream with her. Make love to you passionately. Go to a museum together. Talk to each other using only body language. Give you space when you need it, but not space to hurt each other. Accept you totally and completely for the rest of my life. Dear the very reason I am interested in establishing a friendship with you is because I feel I have allot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a man of substance and I am very unique in today’s society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a man of integrity and my word is my honor!. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others. For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart. Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this. I know the type of person who I want to build a friendship with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you. Paul..

Hi La Kiva ,

How are you doing today and your family...??

I just want you to know that I very much appreciated receiving your letter every moment i check my mail!, Your answers are great and i feel comfortable in your words,..... you sound like all i want , you are my perfect match . You are a very special person who I SERIOUSLY want to explore the possibility of building a long term friendship with, that will in time turn into a marriage and family. That is my dream, and I hope to make it come true with you!. In my heart I feel you have all the qualities it takes to make me very happy...I'll like to tell you so many things about me, so I’m gonna put enough effort in this mail...

About my family its a long story to tell and touching that make me share tears whenever i remembered the past. I will keep this short came out from a good combination of two, my Mom is from France while Dad is from Australia.I am the one and only child of my parent, i will count it ,I have a big Family because i don’t know much about my Moms family in the French while my Dads part is very small...Unfortunately i lost my parent same day, same time, same moment by a car accident, this happened about 8 years ago, since then i have started to live my life by myself and not depending on my family, although i still miss my Mom because of the courage and advises she use to give to me about life , but i am glad i am whom i am today.

I'm sure you'll be wondering what a guy like me is doing on a dating site, Well.... I was cheated, My Ex Gf and Best Friend cheated on me and i just have to let go forever and ever...Its happened one Saturday i was to travel for a business trip to Chicago in Illinois , and she dropped me at the airport and left...But suddenly i couldn't make my flight that day cause, my flight was re scheduled to be the next Saturday and I have to go back home, to get her informed that flight was re-scheduled....Getting to home, I couldn’t find in the sitting room so i have to check her in her living room, on getting there...I couldn’t stand what i saw!!! I CAUGHT HER MAKING LOVE TO MY BEST FRIEND. All i was mad and crazy...don’t know what to say or to do..So i just started crying and she was trying to make me understand that its the work of Devil and not his intension, and ever since then i was single, lonely and far from sex for 2 years plus till date. My reasoning which I understand is very strange in today's world, but my belief is my heart and soul, and the passion that is in it is very unique and special, so I made the decision and made a promise to God that I would not be sexually active for the sake of just wanting sex, or to have sex for someone else’s own self gratification. Knowing the passion that is contained in my heart and soul is very unique, I made the decision to abstain from sex because I want this special gift to be shared with the person I am dedicating the rest of my life to, as her Husband.

But now i think, i should try and give it a trial again, Am presently looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me , communicate her feelings to me , make me laugh...It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for the special person I hope to share my thoughts, feelings, experiences, dreams and fantasies with, and I also do enjoy my job. Professionally, i have once been an accountant for a gold company in Australia before facing the carrier i have always prayed for. I do travel outside of the country to buy Art Sculptures, ,gold,jewelries , craft, beeds etc and ship it to the Clients that requested for it. this have make me travel a lot, I have been to different European countries, and I am presently in ENGLAND ,Manchester to be precise , just for some few weeks, is not just a visit, am here on business trip, am here to buy gold, sculptures and some paintings, it is cheaper down here compared to other part of the world, I inherit this business from my late parents, it has been an interesting business. My goals and dreams are to live a good life, and maybe meet someone that believes in unconditional love. I’ve got a great sense of humor, I am more conservative politically than liberal...I work hard, and know how to have fun... Actually I’ll be back home as soon as I’m through with my beloved business here....And would love to meet you when i get back home...

Honey in me you are going to find a man that was blessed with an over abundance of passion to give to the ones I share my heart and soul with. For you to really know me you will have to experience me, as the love that makes up my heart is like a waterfall, where the water never stops flowing down. In this case my heart is the waterfall, and the love and passion that flows endlessly is representing the water. I am a very unique person for many reasons, but one of those is the fact that I can never get enough of romancing that special someone.

Thank you again for giving me the opportunity to build this special friendship with you!. You will be rewarded for it through the passionate love that makes up my heart and soul!. I am so excited to be able to do what I do best and that is romance you with all the passion that makes up my heart and soul!. My special friendship with you is something I want to make permanent and eventually build into a family to call our very own!

Directly from my heart to yours!

Your Future King! (I hope!}

Paul Gascoil

Hello La kiva, How are you doing today and your family ?? Hope all is going on fine for you . Just wanted to say hi and know why i havent heard from you ? Or didnt you get my last letter ... Also want to know if u have a Yahoo messenger so we can chat online then we can get to know eachother more better and faster , If yes add me up at p_gascoil@yahoo.com , Or can i have your cell Phone Number so i can call u up sometimes.. Hope to read from you soonest.. Paul

Hello La Kiva , It's so cool and calm hearing from you, How are u doing, How is your day going with u, Hope u are having a very nice and a great delighted moment going on with you, I am young but I have experienced the joy of love and pain of hurt in my last relationship with my EX,I had to walk away to save myself from walking into more than I could handle, I may be nothing more than a romantic idealist at heart and a down-earthed guy, I cannot help it. But people either move me inside, deep in my soul, or they do not. I write you because you did. You touched me with your words and made me feel safe. I feel so cool and calm whenever i see your mail, how we will have a good time together, but did not know where to start from, I know we have many miles separating us but I know we will make it through someday. I have never seen you, but with what we have shared about ourselves so far, that all i want in a woman....I know that you are perfect for me. We are perfect for each other, in every way. Cause I don't want to be hurtled again and be cheated like my ex did take advantage of me and took me for granted, A commitment in a relationship to me simply means a promise made between two people to be together forever and be devoted to loving each other, be loyal to each other a commitment to love no other person, being totally devoted to each other, a promise to be loyal and truthful to each other in the relationship, A commitment a devotion a dedication to something strong that becomes a part of someone’s life, a part of someone’s soul, body ...and mind. A commitment of a heart to stay true to a heart, a bond of togetherness .......Looking at what i have written so far someone would think that a commitment is something easy to do but the truth is that commitment is far more stronger that anything except the power of love because I would say that commitment and love are equals when it comes to the true human feelings ......I would say a commitment would be the end chemistry of Love...... A commitment is like embarking on a quest of a journey to the deep corners of the earth searching for something you believe in so much that no obstacle can stop you from doing so .......A commitment when you fully in love to someone you Love and with no mind of doubts fully with Trust and Open Minded, Understating, Considerate, Caring to each other..to always be with the one u love forever through hard and tough times, in sickness and in health ,for better for worse ...A commitment to be a good respectful man to his wife ........Cos with every strong and happy family is the help of the support of the wife and husband, it would be part of their daily lives ....Two souls joined in heaven above, Two hearts bound by love, I see the stars in your eyes, My fire in the dark of night, My strength and guiding light. A deep love we hold never to die never again to be alone. Closing my eyes I hear what you say the oneness we became thru all the hurt and pain never changing your loving ways together never to part. Of love a gift from God above, Deep inside our hearts forever as one. Now the question now is are you ready for this commitment? For my Heart has opened up to you and waiting for you to come take me as i am ..........What is love? you ask It's a feeling in both mind and body A passion, a chemistry one might say longing to be near, close, Long talks about nothing, Laugher and sharing eyes filled with devotion, Not wanting to imagine life without the other, Doing nothing together and having the best time. Well I think, you know the answer already Listen to your heart with open ears you will hear the answer...it is very clear.... I sit here and realize how strong i have become, with such confidence I feel that I finally found that one. This feeling is so strong i am powerful when he's present.. It feels like a day of Christmas after opening my first present, The joy that he brings is the most wonderful thing, It’s like December and April or Christmas in Spring, I want to you to love me as a royal King and i will treat u also as my royal Queen, my soul she uplifts, and she LOVES me back, for me that's the greatest gift’s am wanting from you. Hope to read from you soon Sweetie... Paul

Dear La Kiva ,

Here are a few things I wish to do with you at some point in these lifetime when i come to you and we start to leave together as a family:

Be your best friend.
Get caught with you in the rain.
Dance with you in the rain.
Stargaze on a clear night.
Watch the sunset together.
Spend all day with you doing nothing.
Moonlit walks on the beach.
Be more proud of you than I already am at these very moment.
Go on a carriage ride through the park.
Do a crossword together.
Go to brunch.
Have a disagreement (it could/will only make us stronger).
Go for a twilight horseback ride.
Watch a bad movie together.
Spend the rest of my life with you.
Have our picture taken together.
Eat ice cream with you.
Make love to you passionately.
Go to a museum together.
Talk to each other using only body language.
Give you space when you need it.
Accept you totally and completely - flaws and all (I already do).
Discuss current events in a heated debate.
Have you see the error of your ways from aforementioned heated debate and make mad, torrid love to you, in the midst of all that passion.
Carve our names into a tree/table.
Go for a walk at dusk together.
Be one with you.
Send you a singing telegram.
Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.
Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you...and tell you.
Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes.
Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.
Spend my life making you happy.
Spend my life making our family happy.
Feel your heartbeat.
Go roller/ice skating together.
Give you a back rub just because.
ALWAYS being honest with each other.
Go hiking/camping together.
Have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond because we very successfully weathered the storm - together.
Marry you.
Laugh at someone together.
Share a plate of spaghetti.
Give you a stuffed animal just because.
Go on a fun family vacation and bring back the kind of memories movies are made of.
Treat you like my Lancelot.
Go on a road trip across America.
Count thunder together during a thunderstorm.
Envelop you in my soul.
Cook your favorite meal/meals.
Know you better than you know yourself.
Go to a Renaissance Fair.
Plant a tree in our yard together.
Look over at you during an office/military/family party and have you know without me saying a word - that I love you.
Be able to say "I love you" in 89 different ways - in 89 different countries.
Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most.
Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding.
Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
Grow old with you.

Honey can i know what you have in plans for me....

Love Always,

Paul

Some of this pics are ones with my my late child and also one one of my horses in Austrlia with the Vet Doctor..Enjoy

How you doing sweetness ?? How was your day? Did u miss me ? Think of me?? As for me..Oh My Gosh , I think of you all the time sweetie , U have captured my heart dear, I am all yours

My feelings are growing stronger and stronger every day. You confide in me. That melts me inside. No one has ever in my life talked to me about their hurts and sorrows and I love that. We both have gone through so much, and I feel like I relate to you on a much higher level than I have ever felt before. We have the same interests and the same likes. I know I am a person that needs gratification, and you seem to fulfill my needs in every way.

I think that if we take our time and do everything right, this love could blossom into a fairytale romance. All I ask - and I know I have said it before – is that you be true to me and be true to yourself. I have put all my trust in you, and I have opened every fiber of my being to you and only you. I also said I don't care about looks or money, granted they are nice things, but I am after a love that will give me a reason to breathe. I want a future wife in my life, someone to hold, confide in, laugh with, cry with; someone I can watch football with, fish with, walk along the beach at night with. I want it. I deserve it, as do you. I sincerely hope that you feel the same as I do about you.

You are beautiful, you leave me speechless, you turn tears into happy bliss, you make bad things seem not so bad. You astonish me and you brighten every aspect of my life. Like you said, it’s amazing that we’ve grown so close in such a short amount of time. The feelings blossomed rapidly and I don't want to lose that. I have fallen madly in love with you. You are everything and more than what I have dreamed of my entire life. You would make me happier than the richest person in the world by sharing your love with me.

I know I am not perfect, but I do have goals in my life. I take good care of myself and my baby. I am honest, sincere, and true, and I have a lot of love to give if you are willing to be on the receiving end. Please take this to heart, Baby; I love you.

I know that they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. I go to bed with tears every night waiting for the moment I can hear from you. I don't know this feeling - I have never experienced it. I want you by my side. I could never get tired of being near you whether on the phone, through emails or talking in person. I missed you more than words can say. I genuinely love you.

Love always,

Your Paul

My Love,

Hey, there is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bear with me through this. I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you lay out in the sun too long... I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be thirty years older and still make out with you like a little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to burst out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do.. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, whichever one we feel like at the time. I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you" because you know it's coming from the heart. I want us to be sitting there and watching our child take their first steps from my arms into yours. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head. I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I really am crazy about you, everything about you. Love always, Paul