Thanks for sharing little about your self with me and letting me have your time, I feel honoured I just thought you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! Here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending?
No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own to be a wife and best friend.
A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner and a friend no matter the circumstance, a woman I can confide in. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound?
I just thought I’d share my background with you to enable you know me more. I come from a middle-class background; I was born in O'Hare,Chicago April 6 th, 1965. I am the only child of my parents; my Father is from the State while my mom is from Italy, i don't speak Italian language though....LOL.. My father has worked a variety of jobs, but he ended up in construction before he died when i was only 3 years old. I decided to take after my father’s area of specialization but in a different style and manner (Architecture/Construction/Building Engineering).
My mom was working as a medical biller for the government, she bills claims and medical stuffs, she died when i was 24 years of age i spent most time with my mum and was very close to her. When my dad died, we relocated back to Holland when i was 5 years old. My early nurture was in the Holland so my accent is somehow influenced by the upbringing
When my mum died, there was nobody to talk to as we were very close, she was so protective and always keeps me to herself, it was very difficult for me, and then I met Lilly's mother, we got engaged but everything changed after the pregnancy of my daughter. I was so happy about it and she was also happy but due to her lifestyle she could not commit herself to me alone, she felt she would be a bad mum, she felt she would be a bad mother and decided to break up with me.
All effort to convince her to stay failed and that really tore me apart, she died on the 7Th of July 2009 in a fatal accident with her boyfriend, they had drinking problems and she couldn't stop, Myself and Lilly was dumbfounded and confused but Lilly did handled it well because her mum was never there for her, most times she would only come to see Lilly twice in 6 months.
I have not felt the love of a woman for long time now and i really miss it, to be sincere, am scared but just want to be bold, like i said, am a one man to one woman relationship type and when i love, i love real hard, i listen to my partner and understand a lot.. .
Some day I hope to help people make healthier, more loving decisions with their lives. Perhaps as a kind of counsellor In the mean time, I'm happy with what I am doing because I know that the work I do makes a difference, I love everything about construction, I love to create new things everyday. I don't get angry easily and if i do, I tried to control myself by leaving the scene and then go back to talk about it after we are all calmed.
This will be all for now and thanks for reading, hope that you find nothing offensive in what i have written, if there is anything else you would like to know, please do not hold back to ask and would like to know more about you.
It was really nice receiving your emails, i had a huge smile going through your email, i appreciate you for sharing this much with me, yes am so serious in getting to know you better and talk more, I thought it would be helpful if I shared what some of my interests are and what some of my passions are and also what my likes and dislikes are. This will give you an idea about the man you are communicating with.
Interests: I tend to have a variety of interests, such as the following: I enjoy the outdoors. I love spending time by the water (lakes and oceans) as the water grounds me and provides me with inner peace. I too enjoy a nice sunset especially by the water (romantic). I enjoy cooking, walking, swimming, anything with outdoors involvement and playing like a kid when am with my partner. A swing is always lots of fun especially if someone is pushing you. I have a playful spirit. I enjoy quality time spent with my daughter. I enjoy a good movie, all types of music, reading, some sports, different types of foods. I am open to trying new things. The bottom line is I am active and have a tremendous amount of energy to expend.
Passions: I have a few passions in my life and I would have to say that I am passionate about being a good father, about my career, about developing relationships (in general), and I really look forward to being passionate and having a passionate intimate relationship someday. I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to the heart, my heart. Generally, this is my love and passion for humanity and for those that will come into my love life.
Likes: I like many things as I am open minded and flexible person. Generally, I like everything providing that there is no dislikes of mine infringing on the likes. Some of my favourite food (restaurants) consist of Chinese, Mexican, Italian with Jamaican sauce and rice being my favourite. I love red licorice and my favourite flowers are carnations. I do enjoy travelling and thanks to my job. I would like to see castles close up some day and stay in a beautiful hotel close to the sea. I am thinking about a holiday over at the Caribbean. Not sure where I would like to go for now...
Dislikes: There is not a whole lot that I dislike, however; the things that I do dislike seem to be based on values and character, allow me to explain. There are certain things that I have no interest in, however; these are the things that I clearly dislike or choose not to tolerate are: disrespect, unfaithfulness, dishonesty, lying, cheating, mean spitefulness, being judgemental callousness, harsh words, hurtful acts, untrustworthy people, displaced anger, unfairness, injustice, selfishness, being inconsiderate, blaming, not taking responsibility, self-contentedness, rigidity and anything else that can cause damage or be damaging to another human being.
Let me see, what else can I share about me? I have a strong work ethic and I never give anything less than my absolute best.
I trust that you had a lovely night and planning to have a wonderful week, I would love to hear from you and if there is anything else you would love to know or share about likes, dislikes, passions, and interests, do not hold back,
You are in my thoughts,
I loved reading your emails, I cannot keep my thought from wondering to you. I want to know everything about you. Your favorite color, your favorite beach, your favorite song, your favorite drink, your favorite... I want to see you, to touch you, to kiss you, so that I know you are real.
Thought I would share my "top ten" list. This is a list of qualities I came up with to measure a woman. They are a list of values I want in my partner. Here goes:
1. Freedom - I need someone that enjoys freedom, that has interests of their own and allows freedom in another.
2. Compassion/Kindness - The Dalai Lama says that compassion in the greatness power. So true..
3. Spontaneity - I love being spur of the moment, living in the moment. Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, and today a gift. That's why they call it the present.
4. Responsibility/Stability - I need to rely on the other person to be there for me and to have our life together.
5. Healthy - Body, mind and spirit.
6. Humorous - If you cannot find the humor in life, then what is the point?
7. Spirituality - My partner must think on a different level and I am not talking about religion.
8. Intelligence - Must I say more?
9. Passionate - I love a woman that is passionate about life, about the little things, about love.
10. Respectful - One must show respect for their partner, even if they feel like killing them at the moment:)
I came up with this over 10 years ago. Still looking for the person to fill all of these traits. I see so much of these qualities in you and want to get to know you more.
text me 312-529-8840
Hi Lori, here is a little story composed by me for you
An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.
One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.
At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.
For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water..
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.
But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.
'I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house.'
The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?'
'That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them.'
For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table.
Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.'
Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.
You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.
Have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side of the path!
Don't forget the Cracked Pot that sent it to you!!
Ever since you walked into my life, I have been smiling. There hasn't been a day when I have gone to sleep with a frown on my face, and it's all because of you. Babes, I am glad that you came into my life. I have always wanted the love of my life to be understanding, loving, caring, faithful and most of all someone who would accept me for who I am. Now I have found the person I was looking for. My heart told me that my Princess Charming was there when you first said hello to me over the phone. I didn't have to think twice when you asked me to come into your life. I knew that you were Mrs. RIGHT I don't think that there is, or there could be, anyone better than you out there for me.
I love you with my whole heart. I have never trusted anyone the way I trust you. Sometime I even doubt myself, but I know I will never doubt you because you are my true love. I know deep down inside that you will never break my heart or never let me down in anyway.
Thank you honey for everything. I pray to God everyday to bless you with everything you deserve. I will love you until the end of time.
Always and Forever Yours,
Whether we're in each other's arm or in each other e-mails knowing that you're in my life makes everything better.
You give me a wonderful feeling of deep down, all over happiness I've never had before and it keeps me going,keeps me smiling inside even when we're apart.
Don't get me wrong if i had my way we'd be together every minutes. But since we can't i want you to know that as far as i'm concerned, this love we share is worth every moment of waiting for.......
So keep that in mind because there is no doubt in my mind that you are the love of my life and wow that is a wonderful feeling...
I love you, since you came into my life, I've looked forward to each sunrise, the early morning calls and text, the midnight skies with us beneath a million stars move's me........
You makes me feel like no one else could, i like the person i am when i talk with you on phone or text you ...... you bring out a part of me that i never knew existed, a part that was was born when i will kiss you....You made me complete; now i have a reason to try; now i have a cause, a reason to believe in all the wonderful things life has to offer you took my hands and drew me into the light, and you saw in me all the qualities that no one else had ever noticed.
You gave me hope, inspiration, pride, and love.
Yes, i love you for all these reasons and for so much more.
I love you for being yourself, and i love you because of the person you made me to be
I love now and always
Every time I think about you,I'm reminded of the reasons why I love you from the depth of my heart and soul.
And I wonder what I'd do without you, without your healing smile your words of faith, the caring and sensitive way you touch my heart, lifting me just when I needed it most.
Without you, what would I have been doing? What would I be? I can't imagine existing in a world where someone doesn't love me the way you do.
You're the only one who ever understood me and accepted me for who I am.
And I think you're nothing short of amazing. Your love always has been and always will be, life's greatest gift to me!
I'm simply having a wonderful day because you are in my life, i woke up this morning and was thanking God for making me such a lovely man, He has given me Lilly for a wonderful daughter's and he has dropped you in my arms for a lovely and wonderful companion, honey i will hold you and never let you drop, i will hug you and never let go, i will cook for you like i have never done for anyone before, i will kiss you like i did on my first date during my youth and feel like not stoping, i will make sweet love to you like never before with honey, strawberry and chocolate all over our body.
I have made a portrait of your pics to right beside my bed to cheer me up and be the last thing i will see before going to bed, i can't really put in words how i feel honey.
All i can say is that you have taking me into another world, a world of peace, passion, blessings and most of all Love. I can't stop thinking about you honey and i don't want to, you have made me a real man with smiles on my face and i wish to do same to you honey.
Am off to new York now and hope to return soonest, i have attached and sent along this mail a song for you dear, hope you like it, do have a lovely day and don't forget that i care so much, please always smile because that's the best thing we can do with our chin and lips.....lol!!!
Lot's of love, Hugs and Kisses, i hope you get this mail before leaving the house today and wish for it to put ,lovely smile on your face all day.
Gazing at the stars, Thinking of only you, Thinking of how far you are, And how far I am too. Every day when I'm not with you,
When I'm at home on holidays, I want to be with you, For my heart, you took away.
The only thing that's on my mind, Each and every day, Is how I look inside me to find, The right words to say. But when I talk with you or chat with you, I forget what to say, So the only thing to do,
Is to write to you this way. Every time i think of you,I wish that you could see how my heart starts to race. I hope this poem I wrote, Will change something between me and you, But for now all I can do is hope, My love will get stronger for you.
I LOVE YOU
were do i begin? my heart is aflame from passion as i fall more in love with you. i have fallen deeply in love with you.
Unconditional, never-ending. How can a love like ours come to be? two stranger who have never seen each other , who share secrets,hope,dreams,and desires. we both have been hurt by love before.
We have cried many a tear.felt the pain and sorrow of a broken heart,afraid to even love again, but spark began in our hearts as we talked and listen to each other. a spark that grew into flame,a flame that grew into fire, a fire that grew into love, i seal my love to you with a kiss, i look to the future forget the past, the future lies with you each day and everyday as i fall more deeply in love with you.......
I want to kneel before you and kiss your hands and vow to you that i love you and put no one else above you.
I love you with my whole mind and with the breadth of my spirit. You have woven golden threads that bind my heart to yours forever, and you did this just by being you.
Now all of my dreams revolve around you and would have me meaning without you; for my heart exists to love you and would be empty without your light.
I adore you, so perfectly and beautifully, so completely that i will cherish you unto madness and carry this love with me beyond death.
All of my heart is for you i love you
When tears of sadness streak your face,You are not alone.
When you feel lost and out of place,You are not alone.
When it seems you can't carry on.And everything you do is wrong,
You are not alone.
When you open your presents on the holidays,You are not alone.
When nothing can seem to spoil your day,You are not alone.
When it seems like you made it through,
But there's no one to share this feeling with you,You are not alone.
You'll never be alone when I'm around.I'll cheer you up when you are down,
And whether you're happy or feeling blue,I will always be there for you.
So when you feel alone and in the dark.Just keep me in your heart,
And you'll never be alone.
I Love You
Hope you are having a wonderful day, HONEY GUESS WHAT!!... i have gotten the notification letter from them and The contract has been awarded to ME!!! Sweetie you don't know how happy I'm over here now. They actually asked me to make a choice regarding the contract in two different country, one is in Asia (singapore) and the other one is in Cape Town (South Africa). Sweetie i want you to know that i have choosen the one in South Africa (cape town), this is because i only have 6 weeks to finalise this very one and the money involve is bigger than that of the one in Asia, while the one in Asia have to take up to 13 weeks to be finalised. Sweetie you should know that i made this choice because of you as i really want to set my eyes on you sooner than expected (i want to be in your lovely arms).
babes receiving this notification letter has actually brought so much joy to me and i believe this has come through for me because you came into my Life, you are indeed a blessing to my life and i will like to use this oportunity to say a big thank you to you for loving me.
Honey its a matter of urgency and i will be leaving for South Africa on wednesday because, I'm needed urgently there in order for the construction of the site to commence. Sweetie i no what you are thinking now, but i'd like you to know that this will never disturb the love we have for each other as i promise to call and be writing you all through. Honey please be happy for us....
love, i will be expecting to hear from you and please know that i have already see you as a soulmate, so you are part of my family now. I miss you so much my dearie, how i wish you were here to hold all through the day in celebration of my new achievement, I know deep down in my heart that it will soon come to reality.....
I miss you so much MY LOVE, MY WORLD, MY HONEY and above all MY HERO...you are one in a million