Hello Dear ...
It was really nice getting the chance to communicate with you and I wish for us to continue the communication so as to get to know more about ourselves and explore much about us...I lost my parents at the age of 12 in a plane crash. So I don't have any family expect my son. Thank you very much for your contact and sorry because of security reasons we are not allow to make calls, hold money, and never to use the internet but because am staff Trainer Sergeant I get the access to use the internet..
I'm affectionate, love cuddling, kissing, holding hands. I’m very romantic and love to be romanced, pampered and treated like a special man. I am just an admire person looking for the real meaning of love. I am sweet, caring, understanding, patient, humble, I love people who accept who I am responsible am rich in good spirit and willing to share the real meaning of love to the right person. I love feeling secure and being sure that I can trust and be trusted. I love companionship that allows for having ones own space as well. I love being able to share interests but also have some of my own.
I’m Thomas Tin by name a Military Staff troop’s trainer and member of the military night patrol team, my rank is WO4.
My military education includes the United States Military Academy (U.S.M.A) at West Point, New York (Class of 1977) Infantry Officer Basic and Advanced courses, Armed Forces Staff College, and a U.S. Army War College Senior Fellowship at the Hoover Institution, Michigan University.
As at now I am on a National Assignment to Iraq and things here are a bit calm now.... I have been here for almost 9 months now... I use my leisure time to search for the love of my life because I figured out lately that I need to love again... I want to love and be loved. I want to settle down again. I have been a lonely for years now... I have also been in this service for the past 27 years and now I am looking forward to retirement. I have only one month left for my retirement.
I do have one son (Ray 14 yrs) who mean the world to me and have been my focus since I lost his mom... Rayis boarding school student schooling in America now. I do not seek a replacement mother for my son... Rather, I seek one amazing woman who will only accepts my relationship with my son but won't feel threatened by or jealous of this relationship and who can meld seamlessly into our family unit…
I don't need to rush...I will like to tell you little about my self......I'm pretty much a trusting person for the most part however. I have found myself to have people abuse that and make a fool of me..I believe each person deserves their own chance and don't judge anyone... In fact I try to keep an open mind with everyone at least as much as a human being can...I believe in romance! I love romance and being romantic...I enjoy pampering my woman (when I have one that is)...
I want a woman that is willing to accept my son as her own son, care for him also love him as she will Love me. I want to meet a woman who will always be there for me whether in bad or good times. Am looking for some one who will share my life and also understand things easily...I am easy going, simple, with a big heart, respectful, romantic, very active man etc. My heart is always happy when truthfully can say that by the grace of God I made another friend today. I am spiritual and not really religious.
I am willing to relocate provided that the relationship is moving in a long term/serious direction.. I am not interested in bopping around "trying women out" on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone...I must have feelings for the person and she for me...There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase... There are just too many diseases out here and to be honest. I have seen what they can do to a life if you are careless sexually...I wouldn't want that for anyone I know or care about...Don't get me wrong though if the relationship were to get to that phase. I am completely into pleasing my woman...COMPLETELY!
The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship...For this to happen we should be come Sociable,emotionally,intellectually,socially,spiritually,physically(call me shallow but looks do matter)and sexually..Even with all this love must exist and there must be that ever elusive "spark...” In essence, I seek the proverbial "Total Package...” Rather than "settling" for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom)intensity and bliss..
I’ve got a great sense of humor to make people happy all the time. When my partner is happy am also happy and I see to it that our little family will be full of Love and happiness. It’s not quite easy being a single parent but being a single parent gives a lot of life experience in many things. I wish to meet a woman that will always be there for me and my son, a woman I can trust and Love, A woman that will always be there for me. My dreams is to meet this special woman and for her to accept me by not who I am but how she becomes when she's with me.
I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable. Honestly I've all that it takes to be a man; I don't really need anything from my partner. Maybe in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right. It's not all that easy meeting that rightful woman with all those qualities which I'm dreaming off, I love friends and family...I am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and honestly.
I believe in honor, manners, ethics and treating people with respect and look for the same qualities in my friends. I also have a quiet side and am quite content staying home especially if I have someone to snuggle up with. I pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially. I have reached the point where I am looking for someone who is open to a new friendship and maybe even a committed relationship.
Dear I hope that I didn't bore you with all this information...I do know what I want...I have not date for the past 9 years since the death of my beloved wife because I wanted to make sure that I find a good woman and what I want to have in life with her.
Hopefully I have intrigued you to some extent...Please feel free to ask me anything you will like to know about me and I will be more than happy to answer you... Tell me a little more about you and what your looking for...I hope to read back from you soon....Take Care....
Well, I will let you go for now.
Hello Lisa.. I am very happy to be your friend and i prepared this mail for you..I will send you an e mail with the address to send me gifts okay ..You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this.......Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best proof of love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it can weather any storm. Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and happiness.It's hard to love and hard to trust; but finding love and finding trust was a gift from you to me..Relationships should never be taken for granted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don’t have these ingredients you will never succeed.To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her.Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.......The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each other Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people........
WHAT I LIKE DOING MY LEISURE TIME / LIFE TIME
I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.
I am comfortable in jeans or a nice english suit.. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.
Im a very outgoing person, who loves to dine out travel and enjoy the simple life. I'm a hopeless romantic and very affectionate. I have a good sense of humor and I like to make you laugh.
I like to chill out with a good book or watch and movie and its even more fun when you have a special someone to do this with. I'm very easy to get a long with and a very good listener..
I love To share My Time with People I Love and care eg, friends and Family.well about my family i come from a very small unit Of Family My Mother,brother and I,
I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship. I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I am an active person who enjoys cycling and running best. I believe keeping fit is important. I am not interested in games or drama.
I enjoy fine dining and am always looking for someone to share the appreciation of good food and fine wine. I amjust as comfortable with my hair up in old jeans as with my hair down wearing my favorite little black dress.
I love to dance: All styles, disco, house, or swing.
I like getting out and checking out local talent and live concerts, here or anywhere. I enjoy movies and music for relaxation. A quiet night at home is also enjoyed and welcomed. I am open to try different activities and up for the challenge.
I love spontaneity and being a bit impulsive. I am continually attempting to function from the inside out and to go with my intuitive impulses, because sometimes the spontaneous actions are the most fun, not expected and purely delightful.
I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).
I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.
I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me...
I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.
I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me.
I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha.
Hello my dear Lisa,
Good morning and hope you are doing good,well i got up so early this morning and was much thinking about you.i really don't know what wrong with me but everything seems that i like you so much and can't really stop this feeling of mine.we have known each other for just few days now and am having this kind of feeling from you.am even scared to tel you the kind of feeling am having for you right now.but am just praying we become what we really want to become in the future.i will be so happy to be with you seriously.you are such a wonderful woman and i never felt this way for any woman before.am surprised my self.
Am just hoping the distance between us shouldn't be any problem for you at the moment because soon i will be having my retirement just less than 3 to 2 months.afterall,Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart.There is no long distance about love, it always finds a way to bring hearts together no matter how many miles there are between them.Distance, it is a test of love, many will fail, but for those who can withstand it have the answer: true love.Time may take us apart, that's true, but I will always be there for you. You're in my heart, you'll be in my dreams, no matter the miles between.Lisa am so serious about my words and i mean them.you will never understand what i feel for you now but time will tell. I will not write much, i think i will drop my lines here and will be looking forward to hear from you soon.please take very good care of your self okay.and don't forget you have someone out there who really things a lot about you.
bye for now ...kisses for you,mmmmmuah......
How are you doing today??? I hope you are doing good as I am doing now... I am very happy to hear from you ....I am very very happy to have the pictures too... I thank you very much
How are you doing this morning?I hope you are doing great there ,I want to start off by telling you how madly, truly and deeply I am in love with you. I love you so very much, with all my heart and soul, always, forever and ever! Having you in my life is truly a blessing. You bring so much happiness into my life and so much love into my heart! I do not know if I tell you this enough but I want you to know it each and every day. And with every moment, my love for you grows stronger and deeper.Baby, I never knew I would be this happy. But you know what... it is the greatest feeling in the world to be content and might I say, I am very, very content with you and only you. No one else can make me feel the way you make me feel. Your caress, your kiss, your touch, your words, your understanding ways, your everything means the world to me and it can not and will not be replaced.Sometimes I truly feel like I am on top of the world babe ,and I promise you one thing that whatever happens will always be together and will still together. And that is what is most important. And we will always be together because we will always have this amazing love for each other. I promise that to you. We have been through the good and the bad but the good times definitely makes up for the bad times. And I know I am speaking for both of us when I say that. So baby, let's make some real good times and enjoy each and every moment we have together.
And from what I said, I truly know that you are my one and only, my partner for life, my best friend, my lover, my soul mate, and I will love you forever and ever! We've known each other for some time now and nothing could change the way I feel about you and us. You are my one and only. I don't think there could ever be enough words in this world that could really capture how I truly feel about you. I love you so much; I just don't know how I could ever explain it. But I do know that the one person I can count on always is you. I hope you knew this and if you didn't, hopefully you'll know this now and forever. I love you very much. I will never ever forget the first day that we talked. I remember each and every detail. Meeting you has been an answer to my prayers. I will always love you. My heart belongs to you and ONLY you. I never want you to forget that. I always think about you and you stay on my mind. One night I had a dream that I wish that would come true. I didn't think it was possible to fall in love with someone so fast ... but, this has totally proved me wrong. I am truly happy to be with you. You are my everything and I will do anything for you. I will never leave your side as long as we are together.
Each and every kiss feels like the first and my love for you grows stronger and stronger as the seconds, minutes, hours and days go by. I love you with all of my heart, mind, body and soul and I always will. Baby, I love you!!!
Good Morning ,how are you doing???I hope you are doing good as I am doing now.. I hope everything is fine and you are living healthy there.. I just woke up and wrote this e mail to you and I hope you will like it... I missed you so much,I saw you online but it seems you were a little busy ... I know a man in Ghana who can help Ray come to you and he works at the embassy in Ghana .. He contact me yesterday and he said he can create all the documents needed for Ray's traveling ... His name is Majid Ibrahim and he said the amount is 1,300 euros ... He gave me his address to send the money and also his telephone number.. When you send him the money he will create all the documents for Ray and also he will let you know the date and the airport Ray will arrive on .. I will be very happy with you if you can do this as fast as you can and get him the money , I will be very happy with you Lisa.. and please know that I will pay you back when we are together or when i come back home ..This is the information to send him the money ...
NAME: Majid Ibrahim
BANK:Western Union Money Transfer
This is the address to send him the money ... And his telephone number is 00233549610358... you can call him and ask him for any information if you want to... but when you send the money ,send the details to take the money to my mail so that i will send it to him..
I am very happy to have you near .. Kisses and hugs from Thomas....Take Care..
Oh okay .. But how much do you think you can get for now???I can talk to the man at the embassy to do something about it