How are you doing?I thank you for giving me the opportunity to email you and tell you what i am looking for and how i feel.I am not contacting people that I do not feel i will meet.I know what I am looking for, and that which i can offer and/or exceed what they are looking for.I also try to understand that entire person and where they stand on life’s adventure and what they want to achieve.I admire a lady that wants to be a success in life, enjoying an achieving, growing, loving, exploring and relaxed lifestyle.I also understand my needs and desires,and know that if 60% of those characteristics are available, or apparent, the other 40% will be created.Hope to meet a wonderful lady to fulfill majority of life’s desires, wants, needs, hopes, fun, etc. We all dream of having that special person in our lives…at least i do!The new way of meeting them seems to be on-line according to my personal research and i have read great testimony about people who have found on-line dating the best way to meet your soul mate. I'm a sincere caring compassionate person who loves people, enjoys conversation and always interested in what people have to say.I consider family the heartbeat of who i am.We can meet at some point when we both feel comfortable enough doing so.
I have 2 children 18 years Old girl and 24 years old boy.I was married for 25 years Unfortunately she passed away 3 years ago from Cancer of the lungs. I love my two kids so much and they will always be in my life but they don't dictate or consume the life I live or will share with you.I love to laugh and try invoking my light-hearten sense of humor into conversations.I'm optimistic and hopeful this will start something. I do not smoke but i drink occasionally. I am a Marine engineer and the nature of my job takes me places.I work in Oil rigs most of the time. I am a great man offering a fantastic fun filled future with growth, happiness, love, care, dedication, honesty, family, with least amount of stress possible. Mental and physical excitement, respect, desire for a monogamous, long term relationship, with true friendship, dedication and support, creating that security in life that makes for a positive, happy, wonderful world.Plenty of great things to learn if you are interested in a man that will take care of manly business and real dedication.I believe if we all get real and look at what we offer versus what we expect, things would move along much more appropriately.
I hope so hear from you soon.
Good Day Sue,
I want to thank you this time for your response and email i hope our friendship will lead into something great, am not looking for a woman to jump into bed with but a woman i can grow old with and spend the rest of my life with.
I want to assure you that I’m not here for any form of mind games, I'm not here to deceive any woman, not here to just flirt and not just looking to get laid but someone to lay with for the rest of my life someone to grow old with. I Just wish you were some-one i get to see everyday. They say Life do take us to places we least expect, Who knows what tomorrow holds, You could be the answer to my prayers. How's the dating site been treating you?
You know males are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The girls don't want to reach for the good ones because they`re afraid of falling and getting hurt. In stead, they get the rotten apples; from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples up top think something's wrong w/ them when in reality they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right female to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top.
I am a man that is filled with love for life. I am filled with energy and passion for all the great things that life has to offer. I agree with the word that say - each day is a present. Each day is a wonderful gift. We should all be grateful for the beauty that surrounds our lives each day. I am a very affectionate, kind-hearted and romantic man. This means I like to do the simple things like open doors, send cards, flowers, little unexpected surprises - things along those lines - when I feel close to someone.! People call me "The Definitive Gentleman! I am a man who will never cheat on my partner because i believe God created one man for one woman. so i should be like that. so if you think is on then we can move on.
You are in my thought,
Good morning Sue,
How are you doing? Thank you for the response to my email and telling me about you.I felt i should write and tell you more about myself.I am ready to tell you everything about me and anything you may wish to ask as we proceed.I know we cannot learn everything about each other in one day even if we meet for tea or coffee but texts,emails and phone calls will drive us to a meeting point and things will be allot easier when talking in person.I want to let you know that i am currently communicating with only you and I just want to assure you that i am for real and i have no time for games.This is my first time on internet dating sites.I am not very comfortable with the dating sites but my daughter keeps persuading me to do it and here i am.
I am looking for a serious and long term relationship and i know that person can come from anywhere,regardless of where they are located or their background.I have not dated since i lost my wife but i believe we all need a partner in our lives at some point.Someone you can share your dreams and visions with,someone you can call your own,laugh with and wake up to.I believe in constant communication and i just want to be simple as much as i can.My children are so special to me, they are both wonderful Children to me and i have always make sure i give them the best and never to make them feel the death of their mother.My first son is practicing to be a doctor in Ottawa University and my daughter studying political science in British Columbia University both in Canada.
I am a marine engineer but my work is usually on contracts.I work mainly in Oil Rigs and I have traveled to allot of places for work.I have mainly worked within the Coasts of United States,Canada and Mexico.My favorite colors are blue and yellow.I love all water activities hence most of work sometimes keeps me in water.I love pets but i do not have any at the moment but when i retire i would love to have some animals around me.I do play golf sometimes and i love it.My father was born in Upper Marlboro MD.My mom was born in a little town called Sandy Cove which is within the district of west Vancouver.I grew up in Rockford IL,where my mum was working when she met with my dad.My Dad's origin was traced back to Spain as far as to Germany,he was an orphan and the story is still not very clear to me till date.I have not bothered again to follow up because it was getting more complicated the more i search.
I have allot to offer and i do not want any woman to hurt me and i do not want to hurt anyone.My parents taught me to be careful when dealing with people,especially in relationships.To live each day and to be grateful for each moment is to participate in life joyously.To love and be loved in equal measure is to be revered and smiled upon by the angels.It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,an hour to like someone,and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.The best and most beautiful things in the world can not be seen or touched but are felt in the heart.Life some things turn against us and the people you hold so close are always the first to disappoint you but i pray never to disappoint anyone and i want to treat you with respect,love and faithfulness. I hope we both find what we are looking for in each other.
Have a nice day,
Good Day Sue,
How are you doing? i thought of you this morning when i woke up i wanted to write you but i was rushing for an appointment with God, how is your day going am so happy with your messages telling me about yourself , i have work all my life and i think is time to settle down again all i need a good and honest woman to grow old with, go to the beach together, see a movie together, go on vacation together and of all be happy together.
I want to spend the rest of my life with someone who is friendly, honest, caring, trustworthy and God fearing. I find very much peace and tranquility here. I`m 6 ft with a athletic build, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, a good listener, God Fearing, and a positive person.I am real easy person to talk to and a loving and outgoing father. I like going to the movies, I like swimming, listening to music and dance to any kind of music and also a good cook. I am a family oriented person, love children and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself. like i said before i will really love to know you more thanks for the mails.
Hope to hear from you soon.Until then have a pleasant day.
Hugs and Kisses
Good Day Sue,
Here is a poem i want to share with you please listen to it - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1K0E6r58vA
I want you to know that I am not overly impressed by material wealth...I would walk away from a drop-dead-gorgeous millionaire with a Bugatti and her own private island without a second thought if I didn't feel the kind of connection I am looking for. I am more interested in what drives the woman, not what the woman drives.
I know that knowing someone takes time. It is a gradual process but i want to invest all my time in knowing you. I did my best in my past marriage, but guess what? Death like they say is inevitable. I have decided to give my all into this and see how far it will go. I have not been in a relationship for long now because, I don't just want to rush into any relationship, which will not last long, I want a relationship that can lead to something great, i can and am ready to relocate for the right woman and I meant it, have had series of jobs in the past and I think it's time to build a relationship. i am a man who will never cheat on my partner because I believe that God made one man for one woman and so I should be like that.
I just thought I will share this with you and know what you think; I understand that there are many different ways to partner, and I try not to judge other peoples choices, but for me, I would like to find an equal partner, someone who contributes as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn't have to be about money, but in totally the work, effort and total contribution we bring. I have expectations for myself, and in the past I have found it difficult to find someone who had similarly high expectations for themselves. It seems like so many people want to do "Just enough" to get by, but I want more than that. As a basic foundation I think there should be respect for each other"s freedom (though to make a partnership work, I believe that we have to freely choose to take our partner and our family into consideration when we make choices), honesty and openness, I believe that honesty, even if we don't want to hear what someone has to say, is always more kind in the long run.
I think its especially important for partners to be able to trust each other, without that, it just seems like everything falls apart. I also think its important to be able to express your needs and wants to each other. And make decisions together about how to meet them. I believe its important to be kind to each other, to not be callous with each others hearts. To have compassion and empathy for each other and be willing to really listen to what your partner has to say. I want to support my partner in achieving her dreams, and feel supported by them in accomplishing mine. I want to work together with my partner to make decisions as a family, and share our power, well.... This will be all for now and thanks for reading, hope that you find nothing offensive in what I wrote, if there is anything else you would like to know, please do not hold back to ask. As this will go a long way till i hear from you.
Big Hug and Kisses
Good Day Sue,
How are you?I have been thinking about you and i want to share more things with you.My Son is 24 years old(Daniel) and my daughter is 18 years old ( Joyce).I lost my wife 3 years ago.I know it is very important we meet as soon as possible but i am comfortable in doing that at the moment,i would still love to learn more about you through emails,text and phone calls and our meeting will depend on the times we will both be free.There are so many things i would love to share with you but we will take it step by step.You are very free to ask me any question about me or my work and it will be my pleasure to answer you.I own a 4 bedroom house where i live alone and i also work from home.I do most of my admin work from home.The physical work requires me to be present at the site because that is where i am most needed.
I just want to share some of my interests with you and see if we are compatible.I will like to give you more insight about me.I tend to have a variety of interests, such as all outdoors activities.I love swimming as the water grounds me and provides me with inner peace.I enjoy a nice sunset especially by the water (romantic).I love pets, especially dogs.I enjoy cooking and i can cook anything you would like me to cook for you. lol..I have a playful spirit.I do believe in God and i grew up from a christian background.What about you?I enjoy a good movie and the last movie i watched was Captain Phillips,I love such movies full of suspense and action.When it comes to music i listen to anything that refreshes my soul.I am open to trying new things.The bottom line is, I am active and have a tremendous amount of energy to expend.
I have great passions in my life and i would have to say that I am passionate about being a good father, about my career, about developing relationships (in general)I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to the heart, my heart. Generally, this is my love and passion for humanity and for those that will come into my love life.I would like to see castles close up some day and stay in a beautiful hotel close to the sea.I am thinking about a holiday over at the Caribbean very soon. I like many things as i am open minded and flexible person. Generally,I like everything providing that there is no dislikes of mine infringing on the likes. Some of my favorite food (restaurants) consists of Chinese, Mexican, and Italian with Jamaican sauce and rice being my favorite.I love red licorice and my favorite flowers are carnations.I do enjoy traveling and thanks to my job.
There is not a whole lot that I dislike,however;the things that I do dislike seem to be based on values and character,allow me to explain.There are certain things that I have no interest in,however;these are the things that i clearly dislike or choose not to tolerate are unfaithfulness,dishonesty,lying,cheating,untrustworthy people,selfishness.Let me see, what else can I share about me?I have a strong work ethic and I never give anything less than my absolute best.I would love to hear from you and if there is anything else you would love to know or share about,do not hold back because i so much want this relationship to work for us.
Have a wonderful day.
Hugs & Kisses,
Created: 2019-03-11 Last updated: 2019-03-11 Views: 75