My world is a world built for two. One where we look to each other for support and lean on each other when things are bad, and hold each other when things are good. One where we respect each others differences and give each other space, but also enjoy each others similarities and our time sharing them, together. We can agree to disagree, and still go home holding hands when we're done. We are humble in defeat, and gracious in victory. We know we can talk to each other anytime about anything. We enjoy being with friends. We can poke fun at each other and know it's all good. We are compassionate and understanding, and we are our number one cheerleaders. We enjoy giving rather than receiving. And most of all, we are in love with each other.So what's in it for her? I'm not one to toot my own horn, but in the interest of someone who may want to know more, I can tell you that I'm financially and emotionally stable, and I'm in a place now where I want to pursue other interests and not have to worry about the little things so much. I have a great deal of good friends who are my friends because of what they have told me about myself, namely that I care about them, are generous with my time when someone needs a hand with whatever it may be: a lift, an extra hand with home repairs, a computer problem, a friendly ear, or a partner for an evening out. I like doing things for other people, at least as much as I do for myself. I consider myself pretty even tempered, laid back and always up for ballgame.Things I like: baseball games, bowling, kissing, the company of good friends, dining out, a good movie, animals (especially dogs), winter, spring, summer, fall, weekend getaways, music, the tv off and the stereo on, blues clubs, going to the gym, taking pictures, concerts, lazy afternoons on the chaise lounge, a good hamburger, billiards, bike rides, and more kissing.
Interesting but ti start i will say my real name is Raymond Gilleran I was born in FL., Miami but,was raised in Germany dad is a German and mom is a native American.I started A & A Children start 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 18...
I was married for 33 years. When we met in college it was sex drugs and rock n roll. When we graduated and started trying to be adults everything started to change. Eventually we found out there was no live there just lust. As we both believed that divorce was not an option we stayed together. We had our daughter and then stayed together til I finally moved out with her in 2015. In 2016 She graduated, we got divorced, my dad died, I moved back to Ky from Ga, found out I had colon cancer, went through chemo and surgery. 2017 I finished with cancer treatments and got a clean bill of health. 2018 I started trying to get a life again.
It's been a crazy 2 years but I am ready for adventure. Ready to start over and find a much needed and wanted happily ever after
Sorry about what you have been through,My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the Gold mining company in Ghana. I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam I had a pretty bad experience and as you already know, I am currently stationed in Kabul, the capital of Afghanistan I have to let you know that I am on my third mission.. My second mission to Iraq was in 2004.
Same here and always know that PRAYERFUL doesn't mean PURITANICAL. I like hugging, kissing and cuddling just as much as the next person (if not more). If physical expression is not that important to you, we may have a basic compatibility problem because I crave ongoing expressions of affection such as holding hands, walking arm-in-arm, or that stolen glance from time to time that says so much without uttering a single word..
Thanks for you kind words but I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest,and looking to meet a woman that i can spend the rest of my life with in goodtimes and in badtimes as well, A woman that I can love and cherished with all my whole being and heart and I pray to God almighty that he will provide me with that kind of a woman someday in my life
Well Leslie, there's something I want to share with you. It's been few days and we've known each other a lot. I believe you are the one I am looking. You are beautiful, kind, loving, easy going, perceptive, intelligent and trustworthy. Looking at your pictures alone makes me happy and I appreciate having you in my life. Honey, there's this feeling that I have for you and I would like to share it. You know, I have been thinking of you so much and I keep missing you, I always wish I was there with you to express this feelings because words alone cannot contain this feelings but since I have no option than to tell you in words and I believe you will understand me.
Well I always think of you and I can't get you off my mind. Anytime, I wake up, you are the first person I think of after praying to God. Happiness has been my portion since the day I met you and this fondness keeps growing stronger and stronger each and everyday.Honey, I am falling for you and I want you to be the woman of my dreams, the woman I would like to share my intimate dreams with. I want to be the man who will always be there to hold you tight, make you feel special and treat you like a Queen. Well, I would never and ever in my life force you to love me or prove your love for me.Dear, I really think that this time it is for real. No one can replace you and if anything happens to you, I don't know what I'd do without you. You are the one person that I love dearly.
You are my life and everything revolves around you. You seem to hold my whole life in your hands. You always make the whole room light up when you enter it, and you just know how to be my star, but you're not my star ,you are my angel. Dear, there's nothing in this world that I would not do for you. If you want to know more about me, just ask me because I have nothing to hide I'm ever ready for any question.. Everything begins with a step. Do you believe in fate? And have you heard about twin flames?. I do love you because of what I felt in my heart with you.. You have grown with me so much that I can't wait to have you next to me. Remember I met you online. Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?. What do you want us to talk about?.Anything you have in mind. To love is divine and to error is human, life is full of ups and downs, but strength in each other will determine life for a true relationship.I don't know yet when am coming home but will let you know when I get my letter of deployment.
There are no words to express how I feel about you. I constantly search for the words, and they all seem less than I truly feel. You are my heart, and my soul.You are my best friend. You are my one true love.I knew that you are the one I was meant to be with forever.. Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All I can say is you're the best surprise life has given me and your capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me.I've truly been blessed by finding you and I'll never let you go.Here I go, telling my Commander and my best friend that I desire you and need to be closer to you. You are a wonderful person who has allowed me to realize the important things in life. I appreciate and thank you dearly. I am here and always will be. All you have to do is e-mail me, and you know I'll answer you. This is your invitation, and it'll be open whenever you're ready to do the rest. You've showed me the way to happiness and love, something no one has ever done before. Thank you.After being your best friend and telling you all my hopes and desires, I need to tell you what will make me happy. You have brought so much happiness in my life.I love being with you and I just love everything about you. You are the best friend I have ever had.Last night when I was trying to go to sleep, I kept thinking about you. I couldn't stop thinking about you! I thought about all the good times we would have together.I love you and I want to be with you, forever and a day. This is for you, listen to it and tell me how you feel
Here we are again with smiles on my face as I read your email.What is making me smile? I can't say. Nature is very funny I must say.I came online to check if you emailed me back and luckily there was an email from you, now that I have clicked on Reply to write you back,I don't know what else to say to you. Okay let me start by saying THANK YOU for writing me back out of your busy schedules.
Yes! I remembered promising to tell you more about me when I emailed you on the site.It seems that I have not done that so let me start from there. I don't know if you met my profile as most of the things that I will say here were on my profile.I already told you that I am a portfolio manager and financial adviser.I have a daughter who joined the air force recently as an Airborne Electronic Analysts.I have been widowed for 9 years.My marriage lasted for 26 years until my first and only wife died in in 2010. Since that very day,I have not been in any form of relationship.I have dual citizenship, American and Greece but I was born in Turin Italy.I have lived in many countries.I hope I am not boring yet with my long talk and loud mouth
Like I said earlier.I am a Financial Broker Representative that has worked with the international office of MERRILL LYNCH in Scotland before joining BAIN CAPITAL- an investment company established by Mitt Romney and Bill Bain Hence the name BAIN Capital with head office in Boston MA and International Head office in London and branches in many countries.I worked with them for years before I resigned or will I say retired which was when I lost my wife.
Today, I work under contract with Bain' Capital as an International Representative.They gave me an offer after I retired asking that I come out of retirement to work under contract with them under a working condition that I saw to be good enough so I accepted the job which the working condition allows me to remain in United States to head the International Office Clearing House instead of going back to the Main office in UK. Today,I work as the international Broker representative and Financial Regulatory adviser.A job I love and enjoy doing.
I told you that I can be a clown, yes,I Can be clown as I generally like being happy.I am a happy person and have achieved much in life professionally, financially and personally by just being happy. I know you will ask HOW? Which you will get the answer soon .I discovered that there is more to gain than to loose being happy. I am positive on everything that life brings to me. I believe that I am where I am at this point in my life for a good reason. I am an honest and caring person who is very loyal to those I care about. Having travel around the world, seen different cultures, poverty and famine in countries seen good and bad government,I have come to realize that I am blessed to be alive and be called an American Citizen.
I will say here that I don't need much in life than to find love again and complete my happiness.I am comfortable by every means you call comfort .I have a good job, I am financially secured, has no health problem, a lovely daughter with good values.I love giving and it makes me happy to see the smile and the appreciative face of the receiver.I am a good dresser who is comfortable wearing suits, jean, T shirt I am conversant,I have that Italian blood and athletic body which I try to maintain by keeping fit.I am generally a healthy man.wow! I have really said much about me so let me cut it here and say more when I hear back from you.I hope my email did not bore you with all the I AM, in it.
Enjoy your day!