Scam Email(s) from Benjamin Jason to Mary (Mexico)


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Letter 1

Hola como estas? Espero que este mensaje te encuentre en buenas condiciones, gracias una vez mas por el correo electronico que me diste, te ves hermosa y me atrajo cuando encontre tu perfil, quiero saber mas sobre ti. Aqui hay poco sobre mi, estoy soltero y vivo en Houston, tambien tengo un hijo que vive con mi ex mujer. Soy nuevo en el sitio de citas pero estoy deseando conocer a una mujer carinosa y comprensiva que entiende el verdadero significado del amor por una relacion seria que puede conducir al matrimonio por la gracia de Dios, esa es la razon por la que me inscribi en ese sitio. Me gusta la persona honesta y confiable que tenga un buen sentido del humor y, finalmente, la distancia no es una barrera para mi porque seguramente debo visitarlo si las cosas funcionan bien entre nosotros. Espero su respuesta.

Letter 2

Hello, is a new day and am glad to read your message before going to work because I'm having a busy week. Am fine and my son is doing great, he is 13 but lives with my ex-wife but he always visits me on the weekend because I love him so much. I have been to Mexico city before but that was a very long time ago. I was with my ex-wife for more than 15 years.
I'm so happy to get your response and thanks for telling me about yourself, is nice to meet you once again. I studied Mechanical Engineering and after graduation, I worked with some local companies for some time before going for an extensive course in petroleum engineering, after which I started working with Contango company here but i do work on my own sometimes if i get my own personal project. I have been alone for so long but legally divorced 2 years ago and i haven’t dated anyone since then because i wasn't ready, here is my first time in an online dating and I hope to meet a decent woman who is looking for a serious relationship. I've heard that many people don't take this seriously, but this is not my case. I would like to have a wife to share my life with, stay together, always and forever. That's what I wish to happen from the bottom of my heart, I have no commitment.
I'm not looking for fun. I'm looking for a real partner whom I would respect, love and pamper. When my time will come, I wouldn't choose anywhere else rather than being with her. I really need a life partner, someone to be with, someone to talk to in times of distress. I am a fun loving person. I am a very caring and sensitive person, I am a level headed, down to earth person who is totally devoted to the one I love. I tend to be a little shy at first, but I will open up quickly with the right person. I am confident, calm, happy, quiet, structured, and organized. i think I'm a cute easy going person.
What am i looking for in a woman?
I am looking for my one and only. I believe for every person there is a soul mate. I am looking for my soul mate, she needs to be fun loving yet responsible, loves the outdoors and sitting at home cuddling while watching a movie. The woman I'm looking for would have to be supportive of my work, romantic, caring, sincere, spontaneous, affectionate, loves to cuddle and give great lip action. someone who is not afraid to speak her mind. I divorced because of unfaithfulness from my ex-wife and there was no love between us because there was no trust. Distance will not be a barrier for me because i can go anywhere to visit the woman i love. I'm a Christian but I respect different religion exist in this world because they hold similar teachings which bring peace to everyone and makes you a better person. Sorry for my long message. I would like to get to know you better. I will tell you more about my hobbies tomorrow.
Have you ever communicated with a foreigner or dated anyone ever since you are alone? I'll wait for your response. Hope you have a pleasant day ahead

Letter 3

Good morning , I believe you slept well last night and how are you today? I woke up early today because I went through some paperwork before going to work. I was born in Bulgaria because my father is from there but my mother is from the United States.
Thanks for sharing your life with me and am glad that we are moving ahead to know each other. I want an honest communication and sincere woman who I will spend the rest of my life with because we are at a stage where we don't want games or wasting time. I will tell you more about me for you to know me better. I'm 180 cm height, blond hair with blue eyes and I'm optimistic, I don't smoke but I drink good wine or beer occasionally. I can be a bit stubborn at times but then I cool down lol. I hate domestic violence of any kind, I'm mentally stable, physically fit, funny in nature, warm, caring, honest, loving romantic and very passionate. I'm a good listener, and I enjoyed conversations. Also, God-fearing and a positive person. I am a real easy person, an outstanding personality. I enjoy outdoor activities such as football, road walk, swimming, golfing, sailing, going to a concert and much more at my leisure time.
I love listening to music, I'm also a good cook. I am a family oriented person, I love children and much more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself. One of the things I love most is music (folk music, romantic and Gospel depending on my mood), I cannot do without it. Music is my medicine, and without it, I think I would have been very sick. I hate cruelty and I only make friends with responsible people. I love traveling and by virtue of my work I have toured so many cities and a few countries and I know there are a lot of places I will still go to. I love my work and I'm highly committed to it. However, there are some challenges. It’s not so easy leaving the kid behind many times for execution of contracts, but God is always on my side. I'll be so pleased to know about your hobbies, your favorite foods, and colors?. Have a beautifully blessed day.

Letter 4

Hello, I'm happy to read your message again this morning because I believe that we have a lot in common and I also want to let you know that you have very beautiful names. Are you still going on that dating site? I have deleted my profile. You can write to me when you are less busy because I will be with my son tomorrow.
I believe that love is not restricted to a particular geographical area. And that distance is not an issue when the two people in a relationship really want to be together. I have a love for good people and those who see equality in one another.
I like privacy, out of respect for our children. There are many things to talk about, but first of all, know you and you know me, talk about us and after our children, our goals and where we want to reach. It is true that my heart needs love, but more my life, it needs a companion with whom to go hand in hand and be able to lean on her shoulder and say what I feel at that moment. My heart is noble, I am a lion in defending my child and family, but I am noble and I like peace and live in peace, I like to work and take good care of my family, I only hope to be someday a good husband and man to a good woman. If things work out between us i can come down there to meet you. My dear all i want is just for you to be honest with me. I’m ready to go anywhere to be with the woman i love. I think we all were born alone and a relationship working out is in our own hands, if we chose to make it work out it will and if we chose not to be serious about it, it's still our decision. You are far from me, that is an undeniable fact, but we can always keep each other by communication. I really wanted to be open with you about what i want, am a straightforward person who believes in monogamy. I can appreciate a woman who sees a man as a friend and a partner. I'm searching for my life long partner to share a great life of love with, romance, feeling very special, intimacy, spirituality, pleasurable communication, meeting of the minds, opening a door for you, flowers, traveling and other exciting interests and adventures, a great life of love, I am one who strongly believes in respect and honest and that without respect, you can't experience true love and generate a healthy relationship.
My favorite foods are - roast (diff meats) with veg and salads, mutton/ chicken curry, pasta, seafood, fried fish, paella, old fashion country stew. I wear a lot of black, red, white and earthy colors to work also pastels, blue, pink, lilac, lemon. But my favorite color is Black. What I dream is not big but just little and simple because I appreciate and feel any happiness. I look forward to hearing from you. Have a nice day.

Letter 5

Hello, how was your night? I hope you had a nice Sunday. I really had fun with my son after meeting yesterday, I took him to the movie and later went to watch football, we came back in the night, play little game and went to bed. I will drop him this morning before going to work. I hope you read my previous message that i sent to you. Happy new week.

Letter 6

Hello my dear happy Tuesday, I hope your night was cool? Is always a thing of joy to start my day with a message from you, I know we have a lot in common and I am looking forward to our meeting because meeting up will make this relationship stronger and we can also move to another level which is what I want. I am no longer in that application Tinder, All my pictures are recent, here is another one i take, you can send me yours.
I'm so glad that we are moving ahead to know each other, as to know if we can find the chemistry. Friendship is defined as a person whom one knows, likes and trust. Though the word friendship holds much deeper meaning to it. Actually, i thought it's wise to write to you because your appearance really interests me. One thing i would like to seek from you is Sincerity, I want us to be sincere to each other in everything we do, of course, you would agree with me that sincerity is the key to a good and lasting relationship, without truth we cannot move forward. I believe in cooperate existence in any relationship which i believe is the best for a matured relationship. I believe love to be the power that can bring two together from afar or near and i hope you will get hold of this point as i do. I prefer a bitter truth than a white lie.
My daily routine is getting up early, taking a shower, preparing my breakfast, eat and then go to work. I don't know if i have told you that i am very romantic when it comes to love.
I am being extremely honest with you so you will not be surprised or have any fear when we meet up, I don't like to tell lies. I am a bit charitable, I always try and help others and don't look for anything in return. I don't take advantage of anyone but people do that to me. Most times I say what's on my mind some people appreciate it and some don't, but then again you can't please everyone. My responsibilities at times can be overwhelming but I am strong and I get the job done. I always do everything for myself, I never had anyone to do anything for me but thank God I have my job, my health and strength. My child is my life and my best friend without him, I don't know how I would be. I now have you who I hope to be my best friend and something more. I really hope our lives will change for the better and our wishes come through. Have a sweet day

Letter 7

Hello, hope you had a good night rest last night? I was tired when I came back but I must tell you that I am thinking about you and how we gonna move forward and I want us to meet up soon, if possible next month, hope that is okay with you? Hope i have answered your question now ? Thanks for the pictures, you look so beautiful and i love your outfit.
Sure we can hear each other's voice, just send me your Whatsapp number with country code and i will add you up.
I believe nothing happens occasionally in my life, that's why everything that I do is made of my own free will and wish. I'm sure everybody must create his or her own life by themselves. If I don't believe in myself then other people will not, so i believe that it will work out between us if we really want it to. All the things that happen to us are necessary to make our life more interesting and sensible. When we get acquainted with new people, we get knowledge, learn to live and become more experienced. Maybe that is the sense of life. I believe we can create it the way we want based on trust, love, understanding, caring and honesty. If we get along well, I'm willing to relocate and be with you.
It is so pleasant to meet clever, kind and interesting people but when you are betrayed, mistaken, when people start to lie to you, you may even lose the sense of life. Really i believe in trust and honesty in a relationship so if we want it to work we should always learn to trust and be honest with each other. Caring is also important as it shows a lot. Of course it's difficult to make the right choice but It does not mean for me where the person resides or the distance, I know that I will have to overcome a lot of difficulties, but if we don't do this, we won't be able to understand the potential power that is inside our hearts.
I'm happy in a way but I miss so much of the warmth of woman and feel I can offer a lot to her. I am very gentle, romantic, sensitive, understanding, considerate and polite, very sincere and optimistic. They say I have got good manners and good character too. I take care of myself and I'm interested in fitness to stay in shape. I enjoy simple things in life and thank God for giving me a chance to enjoy life, but I want to share it with a special woman, maybe with you. I am dreaming of a loving partner, that is what will make my happiness complete. In my mind, there is something romantic in such kind of correspondence, as real feelings can't be born without romance. I suppose that love is eternal. People should not live in vain, leading a fast life, that's the reason why they always search for their second halves.
From my own point of view, in many respects, a relationship between a man and a woman depend upon a man. Harmonic atmosphere and coziness are born in the house thanks to a female's tenderness, caress, understanding, intuition, and kindness. Unfortunately, it is impossible to describe everything that I feel just in a letter but I guess if we can give each other a chance and we are interested in each other we will have a chance to discuss lots of things in our further correspondence. Have a wonderful day.

Letter 8

Hello, you have a beautiful name and Is a beautiful Thursday morning, hope the weather over there is good and that you slept well last night? I slept well also because I went straight to bed after taking my shower last night. Thanks for the pictures, you have a beautiful smile and thanks for the number, i wanna hear your voice also and here is my Whatsapp number +13462002650 i love your words and i can't wait to meet you in person. I had a busy day yesterday.
I really appreciate your interest in our welfare and your time to write me. However, I love to read your mail and found meaning in it, I felt honored having you in my life and my instinct tells me you are that special one that could bring memories to me. Even though I never had any such relationship with anyone before, but this is one that gives me huge interest and I really want to go into it with you.
A relationship is all about understanding in every aspect of life which is acceptable in human society. In my heart, I truly love to build a good relationship that could shape our future life and will show all cares to you. Dear, i hope your family members are not going to feel bad to hear that you are in a relationship with a foreigner? I only dreaming of a very simple dream to find somebody who will love me as the way i do. Well, you never can tell what the future holds for us. But i promise to make your life happier if you accept me with all your heart. And if there is anything you don't like about me, let me know so that i can adjust.
When you meet me you will understand how open and honest I am. A lot of people tells me that my sincerity can be seen out of my eyes. I don't like lies or hide anything. If somebody doesn't like what's on my mind - they are free to go. If somebody needs to lie to be with his or her lover, those relationship doomed, they will be destroyed later on, and then later it will happen then more painful it will be. I don't want to invest my time and emotions in a fake relationship because I am looking for a life lasting relationship and i will be happy to meet you soon.
I am religious to a point but not a fanatic I respect everyone's religion as i said before. I also go to Church and I believe in Jesus Christ. What type of movies do you like? I like Comedy, some romance and a bit of action. One of my regrets is most times I don't have a partner to share things with. The most important thing I have learned is to make your own life be happy and don't wait for other people to make you happy. I hope for us that all our lonely days will be no more and that ray of sunshine will enter our lives. Be blessed always. Have a lovely day.

Letter 9

Hello my sunshine, the weekend is around the corner, hope you are preparing? Yesterday was a busy day for me because I got an emergency call early in the morning for an important meeting which I rushed immediately when I woke up in the morning but is all for good because is for a contract project that I submitted for many months now and I am hoping the company will approve it soon. You write very well in English and i really appreciate it so much. I have been alone since after my divorced, which is about 2 to 3 years now. I have friends but they are mostly my coworkers because i see them every day. I am also a happy person, i learned a lot from my previous marriage but that doesn't stop me from believing in marriage.
You already know that i am a contractor Engineer but my major work is construction and maintenance of pipeline, so I work as a foreman to the company and also do my own private contract outside the company.
I am very much interested in you and I'm so glad to be in contact with you, i can’t stop thinking about you ever since i met you and i know we are going to make a good relationship/ family together, you always be in my mind everywhere every time. I miss you and I really do. They say love hurts, but I’m ready to take that risk if I’m going to be with you.
Today as a gift to you, I am giving you, my heart and my life, I promise to be faithful to you until we meet and I hope soon. I am a person of my word and you have my word. I wish to start a relationship with you, bring you a peace of mind stability in love and a long-term relationship. I hope to contribute to our lives in every positive aspect good times and challenges too. So from today, I hope we get closer and begin our new journey to a blessed life.
Even though i never set my eyes on you but I must let you know that what i feel for you is real and endless. And when you think about it, how could you possibly have feelings for someone you never met, but darling i really do. There are no words that can possibly explain how I feel right now, in fact, i really don't know what to say right now but i am looking forward to seeing you soon to show you how i feel about you. Hope am not scaring you with my words. Have a pleasant day

Letter 10

Happy weekend my princess, hope you are having a nice Saturday? I am working today but tomorrow, after Sunday service, am gonna attend a meeting and then rest in my house and also prepare myself for next week. I love this music and thanks for making my day honey. I can't wait to visit you and i will like to spend much time with you to allow us to prepare for the future together, you will like Houston when you visit honey. I love Passenger music.
It means a lot to me for you to take your time and write me an email. Thank you, I'm really impressed. I might not have gold to offer you but I know I’m honest, reliable, resourceful, supportive, caring and loving. I would like that when something is wrong, we communicate and do not leave in silence, because that can be bad in a relationship.
Do you know that before I came online, I had a lot in my mind, I had a lot of expectations and I thought about the challenges that I will meet if I find a woman whose interests are similar to mine. If I wanted just a girlfriend, I will not spend my valuable time coming online. I'm online to search for a soul mate so I have been very optimistic for a wonderful, serious, dedicated and a lasting married life.
I came online because I needed more. I need a life partner a woman who will be there for me. A lady who knows what it means to treat her man right. I know it will take me time to truly discover the hidden and the other side of you but my heart is made upon you. For better or worse I will stand by you. Even if we have problems, I will see it as a challenge to be a better man and not a reason to look outside. Problems will not tear us apart instead I will take the blame even though you were wrong. Sometimes, I prefer peace to justice. I will love you. I promise you so much care affection and happiness with all the fun you could ever envisage in your time. That's a promise. I got so much interest in you and I will show you actions and not just words.
Darling, i want you to give me a reason to love again. I want you to make my days so nice. I can feel your everyday breath in me. You are the other life I never lived and i will never block the only source of light in my one-man room. I promise you this with all my heart. I have interests in you because you have given me a reason not to look at my past boring life. Little things matter a lot to me. I know a woman when I meet one. You are a real woman. Although we are starters but you have so far acted maturely, very responsible and It will be so inhumane not to love, cherish and respect you. Do you have lots of friends? Have a beautifully blessed day.

Letter 11

Hello, my sunshine ,how was your Sunday? Is always a thing of joy to start a beautiful day with dropping a message from you which i know is a right thing to do since i believe that we have a lot in common, Do you know that i am worried each time i don't get a response from you? I spent my Sunday all alone in my home but I later went to lunch after sleeping for a whole day. How was your weekend? Did you read my previous message? I wait for your answer. Have a lovely week ahead love. Kisses

Letter 12

Hello,i believe you are having a wonderful week and also thinking about me because I am thinking about you too despite my busy days and that's why I always make sure that I answer your messages, and I am glad that I found you, I feel like we have known each other for many years now. I love this music, honey. I don't use my Whatsapp when i am working because it is not allowed to use while working and that's, why i write to you anytime, am free. I called you last night but I think you have slept off.
I'm happy to hear about your mother and i will be glad to meet her. You have a beautiful voice.
I'm so happy to read from you, it really gives me joy reading your emails because it always puts a smile on my face. I must say i now feel belonged and somehow complete knowing there is someone out there who cares about me, i must be as plain as i can, going home since we first wrote to each other is now a thing of joy. I'll say this is a wonderful beginning to a new relationship. Well, it all started by me finding you and writing each other, and then it happened all over again. The feelings that i thought was dead in me since i was all alone. Only this time, I'm free to act on them without fear of upsetting anyone.
Thank you, dear, what more can a man say to the woman who opened her heart to him, allowing him to feel her warmth across the great distance that separates them? You truly have no idea how i feel now. I try to put this feeling into words, but I always fail. As the days continue to pass by, i pray that this feeling will continue to grow. I never thought I could ever feel for a woman so soon, looking at how i have lived my life all these years and this was one of the reasons i kept myself away from women all these years, I'm too emotional and then i was not really ready for anything. Once again thanks for coming into my life. Do you share your personal life with your friends? Have a nice day.

Letter 13

Hello, my sunshine , hope you are in good health today? I can't just stop thinking about you and our meeting. You look so pretty and I can't stop looking at your pretty face.
Yes, honey, the reason why I work like this now because of my vacation that is coming soon and I need to get some jobs done before then. I never heard of that company because I haven't been to New York City before. What happened to the man you met in New York?
I just wish you could see how much you mean to me. If only you could look into my eyes, the window to my soul, then you would know that this is no lie,
So, if what you feel for me and what you said is true, then with all my heart, I trust you from now onward. If you want me as your love as much as I want you as my love then so be it. I give you this heart of mine and ask nothing less or nothing more but just that you don't go breaking my heart. My love and trust are all I have to give you, sealed with honesty throughout and as time goes by, may it grow stronger to fulfill your heart's desires.
If it pleases you, call me your lover from this day forth and you're mine. For your love I'm I and your best friend too. As our body, mind and soul combine, so do our hearts become one. Hear this, my declaration of love, from me to you. I love you, my Angel, with all my heart and I will never stop loving you. You are my source of joy, you are my happiness. Though distance may keep us apart, you will always be embedded deep within my heart.
When I communicate with you I feel like 16 years old lol, it's like falling in love for the first time. i haven't had this kind of passion in my life for a long time. Omg, it feels wonderful. There is so much I want to know about you, I wish you were closer to me. On a serious note, I promise you that l will not date anyone until we meet. i want to be realistic I know we are in an early stage of friendship/relationship what do I call you? i want you to be sure of what you want with us. I would like the assurance that I am not wasting my time that you feel a likeness or attraction. There is a huge attraction for me and I feel comfortable. i can see myself falling in love with you. My feelings so far are honest and honorable. I just want both of us to be on the same page. With all my heart I hope everything good happens to us. Be blessed. Have a sweet day.

Letter 14

Hello, my princess, how are you this morning my love? I don't wanna tell my friends about us because some of them are jealous and they will like to spoil our relationship. So is better i take them by surprise. Maybe we will visit NY today when we are together because I haven't been there since i don't have anyone there.
I just want to let you know that these last few hours that i haven't been talking to you has given me a lot of time to think about how I feel about you. I have decided that I want to be with you. What made me realize this is because I think about you every other time. Not only do I think about how much I want to be with you, but why and mostly do I deserve to be loved by you across a great distance and after all this, i still come to realize that you are the kind of woman i want to spend the rest of my life with.
It just feels so lucky to finally be able to feel for you like I have been wanting to for so long. It's a little too strange, I think, that we are so right for each other. Some might want to argue this, but I have a few examples for those poor misguided souls. When we talk, it's like two lost heart pieces finally discovered after so many years of search to make the heart complete. When I read your mail i feel the love in your heart reflecting on my own.
All this tells me one thing. our love is real. If you ask me about my dream, my dear my dream now is to understand you well and know you more then come down there and make you my wife and that will be the best thing that has happened to me in a very long time. I will be the happiest man on this planet when that happens, I can wait for this dreams to come to fruition. I am an open person and that's why i am free to express my feelings for you without fear because my heart accepted you and i know we will make this relationship work between us. Have a wonderful day.




Created: 2018-09-07    Last updated: 2018-09-07    Views: 334