Romance scam letter(s) from Joseph Pellegrino to Mary (USA)
How are you today? I am so sorry for my late reply to your Email, I have been very busy with work activities.
In the midst of working and other busy activities, I have been composing an Email that would give you a bigger picture of me and luckily I am done....
I told you about my daughter Emily(32) leading me to the online dating world so you know I have a daughter :) - honestly my family is not that large, My wife passed away 8 years ago from Cancer and it really took a toll on me - I had to get therapy because at some point I was being dependent on Alcohol.... She passed away in my arms after multiple trips to the hospital for Chemo among other things. My daughter didn't take it well too but I'm glad she's happily married, leaving in the United Kingdom and expecting kids. We talk about 3 - 4 times a week and I am so glad she is part of my life.
My mother has Cancer as well but she is getting better because we were lucky to know about the Cancer on time..... all we need do is pray and hope she gets better really soon as she follows up her treatments.
As you know it is hard to describe oneself but if I were to say a little about me then I would say comprehensively that I'm down-to-earth, outgoing, good-humored, well-traveled, articulate, artistic, compassionate, charismatic and healthy (I enjoy being in the pink). I have got some flaws and eccentricity that makes me like every other human being as imperfect. Life is not a bed of roses, but full of thorns, ruggedness and anxiety. Life is sweet when you give yourself a chance to enjoy it so I live everyday as if it was my last by enjoying it to its fullest.
I value monogamy, commitment and integrity. I love to read, learn about anything and everything; explore new things and places; I love to laugh and have been told I have dry sense of humor. I am full of beans and adventurous when you get to know me. I have a lots to say about myself but I have to be concise, the rest you will find out when we get to know ourselves better.
A relationship I would love to have must be centered on Trust. Her Character should be paramount; Character speaks loudly of a virtuous and trustworthy woman. A relationship based on Love, transparency, honesty, fidelity, sincerity and loyalty. As for the qualities I seek for in a partner - I am not searching for much or things way over the top... I just want a woman with a good sense of humor, who is non-judgmental, kind , tolerant, patient, liberal, thoughtful, compassionate, easygoing and caring. I'm not looking for a perfect relationship or a perfect love. Humans aren't flawless and I expect her to exhibit one. I am not after sex or her beauty as her beauty is of little significance but what is most important is her character and the inner person. She might be sporty, heavy, average or otherwise; I'm only interested in the content not the container; do you resemble that person?
My ideal date would be attending an outdoor concert of classical music to start up the evening, and then enjoy a champagne candlelight dinner at a sky-high restaurant over-viewing the city with soft romantic background music after which we will take a walk to an undisclosed destination muttering lovely words and holding each other hands and sitting to the wake of the night stargazing. (I think its the Italian blood in me) And yes! I am a hopeless romantic hahaha...
I hope we can find time to always write to each other because I am really interested in wanting to know more about you.
Have a wonderful day and I hope to read from you later on with more about yourself as well....
Warmly Joe :)
Hello Sweetie, How are you doing today? Thanks a lot for your last message... I so much loved reading your Email :) I really appreciate the effort and I hope we would continue getting to know more about ourselves for now..... All I wrote to you previously in relation to what I was seeking for in a partner wasn't fictional at all, and somewhere in there I stated that we all have flaws, I think people that think alike deserve to be with each other because a partner with lesser requirements will always feel oppressed. I always wanted to be in my shell but with time I grew courage and decided to try this means of dating and so far it is not looking bad. I am positive we have a lot in common and you obviously have the qualities I am searching for in a woman hence I want to focus on getting to know more about you and hopefully we can head somewhere because we are not getting younger and we both search for the same things - I want someone to hold my hand through every aspect of life good or bad, someone that will be my life partner and continue this magical journey with me because reality just hit me and despite whatever I have or achieved, I need a soul mate... a face that would be smiling at me most of the time for the rest of my life. I'm going to be honest here... my biggest fear is dying without ever feeling love again, I do not want that to happen because no matter what has happened in our pasts, life must go on. Whenever I look at the sky, I smile because I know the big man upstairs will always fight for me and bless me beyond measure even if I deserve it or not - though I tend to believe I do. Like I said.... I have been in the Marine construction business as a Vessel engineer for over 30 odd years, We specialise mainly in constructions of oil rigs, heavy duty truce vessels and maintenance of vessels and i own a lot of vessels. It's not the easiest job but I love it. I have worked for major companies in the past but now I am a freelance contractor and vessel engineer, I own my firm and I only work on projects that comes via recommendation (It's an independent firm). I really would want to meet with you as soon as possible and that would happen but at the moment I am at the finishing stages of a project (Maintaining a vessel and controlling the distribution of goods and services out of a vessel) which would keep me here in New York for less than 3 weeks by God's grace but after that I'll be open to meet up so maybe we could continue to know ourselves better by Emails and phone calls which isn't that bad as well.... Can you tell me more about your likes and dislikes? What makes you happy? What are you looking for? Tell me how do you deal with frustration? What things make you extremely happy? Do you wish you were less or more emotional? Why?
Have an amazing day and I'll hope to read from you later on P:S - I attached a photo for you... That's a photo of me and my daughter Emily. I hope you like it :) Warmly
How are you today? I hope you're having a great day? So far my day was great…. I woke up very happy, took my vitamins and a hot cup of coffee then stepped into the office where everyone was excited to see me :) We've been working successfully for a couple of hours.... Isn’t that the life? I guess only a loved one is missing hahaha.
Thanks a lot for answering my questions and also you look so amazing. I'm always happy whenever i see your photos with lovely smiles. Right now i am confuse on which of them to make as my wallpaper because all are beautiful.
To answer the same questions I asked you: I do not like dishonesty, others who are too scared to tell the truth, people who are mean without compassion and people who just decide to leave and not work through their problems. Being together with the one I love, family or friends, traveling and having just enough of what is needed are the things that make me happy.
Whenever I am frustrated I sit down... I pray, listen to slow music, try to drink something very cold and then ask myself why I am frustrated.. Then think about all I have been able to achieve... Then I think of my mother and how she dealt with her own frustrations and then I realize, mine is nothing compared to what she went through raising me as an only child and working 3 jobs... After a long time of meditating I become calm and feel better again.
A great accomplishment definitely makes me extremely happy! Also, if I have made somebody happy like 4 months ago I volunteered to join a campaign that was to fight against poverty in South America; It was amazing and I stopped taking a lot of things for granted like clean water or food (I'll elaborate later). News of changed lives would also be in the list and I love surprises! good ones. As for my career choice, I was lucky enough to know a man call Bill Lambert and he influenced me... Honestly he paid for more than half my colleague tuition - He was a neighbor as I used to wash his cars, when he found out I was really ambitious he promised to put me through college and I am grateful to him till this day.
As for if I wish I was more or less emotional and why...Well, it would be better with less of the bad emotions and more of the good ones. They’re okay as it makes me human, not an unfeeling, heartless robot. But, I don’t allow them to cloud my better judgement nor do I allow them to control me... I try as much as I can not to appear too emotional but hey! It doesn't work all the time - Like me crying after seeing the "Notebook" movie. Nobody would want to come across as a softie especially me as I have a lot of workers that need to be put in place but they all see me as the warm Boss that everyone can crack a joke with and honestly it doesn't bother me at all being that guy. A lot of them come to me with their problems and I advice them like I would my own daughter.
Prior to when I started working on local projects and contracts I used to travel a lot for job related issues so trust me I have had my own fare shares of travel lol…. I built the house my mother currently resides in myself ground up…. It can also be called home but I still have the Condo myself and my wife bought 16 years ago here in NY (Manhattan) though it was too big for me when she passed away and my daughter moved out so I renovated it to a bachelor pad. I am a very content person, I grew up with good morals and my mother made sure I appreciated anything I got so when I achieve things I try not to be over ambitious because I believe life already has it's massive plan for us and what will be will be.
So tell me more about your relationship views, what do you expect from a partner?
What is my favorite food? Remember to smile a lot.... you never know who's life you might touch. Sweetest
Created: 2018-08-30 Last updated: 2018-08-30 Views: 1336
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