Scam Email(s) from Paul Elder to Sara (Denmark)


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Letter 1

Hello Kati,
Thanks for the email Address,just want to be sure this is your right email. Would love to learn more about you, and i would do the same in my next mail....what do you say to that?Have a great moment ahead till i read from you soon....Hope you like my pictures and i would love to see yours soon as well

Letter 2

Hello Kati,
How are you doing this evening and sorry just getting back to you now,was really busy with some paper work after emailing you.........Those previous pictures were taken in Alaska on a vacation with my daughter recently and those dogs are mine and the fish is call red snapper,I'm pretty new to online dating.I'm new to the this, so was looking for someone to share my time with for movies, dances, festivals, going out for dinner and etc.Where it may go from there is always a plus. I'm a down to earth person,am a widow with a daughter,It will be so good to learn more about each on phone and then meeting in person....( do you mind i have your cell number)what do you say to that,but before that,i will really love to know more about you,your family,your likes and dislikes,where you live and all other things you feel you want to share with me as a friend and i will likewise do the same dear,am a good christian and i hate games as well,I grew up in the sticks, and love the outdoors. I used to ski, but don't anymore-too costly. I enjoy cross country or snow shoeing. I love being in the mountains, but miss the smell of the sea as well.As a family with my passed away parent then, we spent many a vacation camping on the coast. I'm not much of a city boy then, although I will tolerate it up to a point.I love all kinds of animals and have lived with dogs all my life. I am currently seeking to find someone I can trust and develop a friendship with and see where it goes from there. I miss not having someone to do some of the things I like to do, like taking a walk or a hike or cooking or having a good laugh with.The only games I like are sports. Honesty is very important & trust goes right along with it. I would like to talk to you in person at some point. I think this is a good start for now. You can kind of get the feel for one another. Now its your turn. I believe I've covered at least some of the bases, I'm sure more will come as our conversations progress. If you have any questions at all feel free to ask me.
I look forward to hearing from you at your convenience.

Letter 3

Hello Kati,
How are you doing this morning?I know it's 3am there in the morning and it's 6pm here in Salida...........Thanks for taking your time to chat with me online and am sorry just getting back to you now,Thanks so much for those wonderful i must say,you so gorgeous.....i love the out door and nature,I really want to get to know you better and also to learn more about you each and every day that passes by...what do you think about that?developing our relationship via our emails puts who we our out there honest and open and in a safe environment.I believe in writing too,because it does give creative thought and freedom to say things...We see the beauty of each others spirits without the interference of the physical world.
I really love collecting antique cars but just have one though but i do enjoy going to shows for antics cars,i don't smoke and have never smoke in my life and am not bother about people smoking around me,i do drink socially and maybe a cup of wine once in a while because it's good for the heart.
I'm straight forward man,honest,caring,loving,trustworthy and understanding man that loves to be around loved ones....I am a soft hear-ted man who loves to help people if i can and I'm also into charity giving, 10 percent of my annual income is been given to the orphanage home..I do have a 19 yrs old daughter going to be 20 soon and her name is Sherry....i was born 1956.I'm originally from Berlin,Germany...I'm a Technician Engineer/Consultant. Grew up in Germany,so i do got accent and hope that won't turn you off..New to online dating though and don't really know much about it but would love to talk to you on the phone and text as well anytime.

My daughter Sherry is schooling in an American School in Manchester England so she comes home when she is on holidays but still yet i do get to miss her a lot but there are reasons for everything....i do want a serious relationship with an understanding woman because am not getting any younger but getting older so i don't want to play games and i want a serious relationship with a woman who is willing too...That's why i contacted you to see where this will lead us to in this relationship...what do you think?I have been married before now but i lost my wife for the past 19 years some hours after Sherry was given birth to and ever since then i been on my own trying to do the best for my daughter in raising her all alone,Have had some relationship after my late wife passed but i have never trusted any other woman or have anything to do with one and don't wanna go into any relationship since then because most woman i get to meet want me not because of me but what i has really been difficult all these years without a woman to love and call my own but i believe God has a reason for everything........I do attend Anglican and i believe God....Do you believe in God?

Till this year when my daughter advice me to go in search of Love online, that i could meet the right woman,i saw your profile and found interest in you..believe!!!! i really love what i saw and would like us to start up something because i feel that there's something so special in you.....Can you please tell me more about yourself...your family and all that you think i should know and you can also send me more pictures of you..let me tell you more about myself, i love watching different kinds of movies most especially action thriller, i like comedy movies and adventures, i like listening to Music(R&B,little bit of Hip-Pop, country music, classical and pop) I like bluegrass, rock, oldies and classic, harp, christian, country, fiddle, guitar.

i do watch TV shows but not always and only when i have free time to do so then i watch sport sometimes then maybe romance, westerns, true stories, comedies,series, i like spicy foods and sea-foods,i play golf on my free time and it will be lovely teaching you and playing some with you if you don't mind....

i would love to receive and show care with affection to my loved ones, I want you to also understand that i don't look at the outside beauty of a woman but i look at the beauty of the inside which is the " heart" because i need a woman with good heart not just beauty,i like a woman that dress to be comfortable.

I want you to know that I'm an honest and straight forward person and a man of my word so i don't want to play games as I'm ready for a serious relationship,you can make our getting to know each easier when you get to reply to my emails on time and we communicate more often by emails,what do you think about that?......please do take care of yourself and have a wonderful day ahead as i will await your email soon.


PS...Attached below are some pictures taken on a vacation recently with my daughter in Alaska.

Letter 4

Hello Kati,
Happy Valentine's day.....Thanks so much for the email and the video message i do really appreciate all your email and i must confess,am really into you,would really love to talk to you on the phone but i would love we take it nice and steady okay and do you mind i have your cell number?I'm really new to this and i pray things work out for us because am new to this and I'm a very shy person doing this.I do check my mail often but love to settle down and reply to one like this to a very special one like you.
I got a lot to share with you and i hope you won't mind,Just expressing my thought and i hope you can understand...the tricky thing about emotional baggage from past relationships is that it has a sneaky way of manifesting itself into our future romances which i won't want that in any relationship i get my self into because i'm really looking for someone to grow old with.After internalising negative feelings from previous relationships, it’s pretty easy to carry these fears forward into new relationships, leading us to act irrationally and eventually drive our other half away or cause the same mistakes to repeat over again....I Remember that my past experiences never have to dictate my future and refuse to carry them forward.Am so happy right now having you as a friend though....Before you can expect anyone else to want to be a part of your life you need to be happy with yourself to begin with.Relationships are a two-way commitment and if you’re thinking of getting into one purely for a confidence boost, you perhaps need to address why you’re lacking confidence so much in the first place. If we get together with someone to fill a gap, we’ll never feel complete until we address our own insecurities.
A confident, grounded and interesting person is extremely attractive, so we need to make sure we have our own hobbies, friends and interests before entering into a new relationship like this. When we’re on the dating scene, no one’s interested in the person who has nothing to say when asked what they do in their spare time.we both need to make sure we continue with our hobbies once we’re in a relationship too; spending all of our time together gets pretty boring and if we don’t have any of our own interests, what will we ever talk about?
Do we want someone who’s pursuing a similar career path to us? Someone who likes animals? A non-smoker? It’s no good finding someone who loves chain-smoking, extreme sports and wild nights out when we want a non-smoking, tee-total lover of relaxing spa days. We don’t make our checklist too strict though – we could overlook the perfect person because we’re too busy looking out for the perfect traits to match our checklist. Talking of strict checklists, if we've been dating numerous versions of the same “type” of person for a while, it might be time to open up our mind a little and see who else is out there. Sometimes we can be so keen on a certain prototype that we can keep pursuing them forever, but it won’t change the fact that we perhaps aren't compatible with this person. We just need to break out of that bad habit and start enjoying the dating scene and we’re likely to find the perfect person... and they probably won’t be anything like our type after all.I have Said enough and it will be awesome reading from you soon.So for now have a great day ahead and stay bless in the lord and once again thanks so much for the beautiful mail.
Love Always

PS........I was sitting here listening to some country music ( the old original kind) . Lol
And I was rereading your email. And I have to agree with you. Things do take one day at a time
When you do it that way Love Does Grow and Grow
If you rush it. It usually doesn't. Last forevrr. I am thinking about you

Letter 5

Good Morning Kati,
I am doing Fantastic Today – and hope you are too! Did you have a great night rest? Thanks again for another very beautiful email – I really love ALL of the things you said!I like that you are Old Fashioned and that you wear your heart on your sleeve.I was not been scared away because you are not religious and that won't separate us and our friendship.We all have our different kind of view with life and i am still interested in you been an Agnostic person and i understand your point of view totally.
Getting hurt because we give too much is part of the journey; I hope you never stop giving because you are afraid of the possible hurt – that is the courage involved in giving love!More about my life,I love the entertainment but i get to have fun when am less busy but am getting retired soon anyway to have all the fun in this world with my partner and i pray that would be you.I work in the office for my work as well and on the field.Most holiday,am always out of the country with my daughter to celebrate it some where we both have never been before. I've been in the State of almost 25 years now and i moved there when i met my late wife,mother of my daughter Sherry.I do go to Germany but not often because i got no relative or family there again...lost them all...but i travel a lot to some other country either for work or vacation with my daughter.
I really appreciate chatting with you.I have put everything I have into the relationships and have had relationships that they do not feel the same way about me as I do about them but with you,I've started feeling some thing inside of me that this is gonna work out between us.I do not make a lot of money but i'm bless with the little i have and i'm not waiting or looking for any woman that will support me but to love me and be good to each other.So i'm not coming to your life to feel been used okay?I would really appreciate if you can answer my questions when ever i email you please,i'm not demanding or commanding you but pleading honey.
I love to cuddle and even though I am not a big football (I do enjoy some college games), I am open to spending time with whatever is important to the other person – being together is the important part. I walk several hour a week and would love to do it beside you holding hands and enjoying the company. The phrase: Live Well, Laugh Often & Love Much hangs in my home office – it is a great motto to live by!
I love to see beautiful landscape and keep trying to get better. I am growing some fresh herbs now. I could really enjoy watching you cook – I am a great assistant and always ready to do the clean up afterwards,and am also a great chef if you cant cook or being tired to do that.
Being Happy is what makes our life journey EXCITING – and it involves commitment, sharing and caring – and constant communication. I am strong believer in lots of communication and not holding grudges. I try to Thank God daily for all of my many Blessings – and finding a soul mate would be a really special gift from God! So far, your emails have all the things on my wish list.
I hope you have a Blessed Day. I look forward to hearing more from you soon.Have a great day till i read from you soon.
Love Always

Letter 6

Hello Kati Baby,
How are you doing and i hope you don't mind me calling you baby..Thanks so much for the email and i really appreciate it so much....I know you really don't want to tell me much about you until you get to meet with me in person but i would appreciate a little more and i will keep on telling you more about me.Thanks sharing your son's name....What a very lovely name..Jani.Reason why i don't trust in woman for long after my late wife passed away was cause most lady i meet want just fun and not real love,but with you i know and have started feeling it that some thing good is going to come out of this if we both take our self serious and be honest.I do miss my daughter but being busy get me going and when she is home,we spend most of the time together though.Do you mind i have your cell number now?
I'm getting retire in few months time and i just want someone to love till eternity.Just to tell you more about me i am a Technician. I do repair and services Drilling and Mining Machines. I do work on contracts mostly and my job has taken me far both within and outside of the States.I am presently working hard on securing some new contracts that i had applied for in Asia, the Middle East and Africa which i have to make a presentation today and am presently in New York.I'm totally new to the internet dating.I lost my wife since the birth of my daughter Sherry and have been on my own ever since because i am patiently waiting for the right partner.
I’m told I have a delightful warm smile and friendly welcoming personality. I’m lucky to have aged gracefully, have few facial lines and maintain a youthful and relaxed approach to life. I love to dress well and look good always.I offer a fine blend of entertaining companionship with a caring, loving warm heart and soul. I’m a people watcher, you can learn a lot through quiet observation and listening. Words to describe me - articulate, intelligent, refined, versatile, creative, patient, thoughtful, masculine, affectionate, tactile, sensual, passionate and loyal. My IQ is apparently 131 - I ‘think on my feet and outside the square’. I enjoy creativity, design and innovation. I delight in music, dance, the arts – my nature seeks peaceful harmonious balance. I value truth, justice and equality; welcome open discussion on life and easy communication, take a stand for my beliefs/principles, but listen to others points of view with an open mind.
I have a wicked sense of humor and a quirky wit.I clarify that I detest prejudice in any form, narrow-minded judgmental people. I delight in cosmopolitan multicultural environments. I don’t appreciate those who consistently overindulge in alcohol or show a personality change when they drink, especially those who become aggressive.
I try to live with dignity and self-respect and do what I can to make a positive difference in my world. I'm realistic and know myself well - self-awareness & maturity nurtures quiet self-confidence and inner strength. At peace with the 'essence of me', I’m realistic, do not stress easily. I’m patient with life and don’t ‘trip’ over little things. I’m very loyal to friends, they hold similar outlooks on life, have extended their hand to me in friendship and share a piece of my heart and value this highly.Life is a long (hopefully) beautiful adventure….I LOVE IT ALL !! When relaxing I enjoy listening to music. I enjoy dancing, can jive and appreciate a slow sexy dance with the right partner. My music taste ranges from soul, R&B, smooth jazz –in particular Sade, Erikah Badu, Dave Koz, Barry White, Keith Sweat, Cassie, Craig David, Tweet, Tyrese, Beyonce, Benson, Santana, Luthor, Sting, Alfonzo Blackwell, Kirk Whalem and friends. I may read a book/the paper, with Foxtel or music in the background, perhaps download music, simultaneously! I’m organized, but really enjoy being spontaneous. I ease into my weekend with a delicious breakfast, juice, coffee (only days I can),
I’m into optimum health and cook well.My favorite restaurant delights are stuffed pheasant with Creme Brule – love a good steak, Cajun, Italian, French, Malay, Indian – list goes on! I enjoy chocolate, love flowers, and of course being pampered with massage! I enjoy going to the market to buy fresh produce on Saturdays, then come home and snack on delights purchased.My friends are ‘down to earth’, a warm circle of multicultural characters (many Americans, Italian, Greeks and German – with other cultures as well, diverse in personality – we have a lot of fun sharing quality time, much laughter and adventures.Both parents have passed. My strongest heritage affiliation is German.....I enjoy meeting friends for dinner, movies, theater, at a club to dance, concerts, barbecues, picnics, walking by moving water, horse riding and wild life in nature. I also enjoy occasional‘retail therapy’, especially when traveling.I got to stop here but till then,have a great day ahead till i read from you soon and wish me luck for my my presentation.
Yours Truly,

Letter 7

Hello Sweet Kati Baby,
Hope this find you well and you having a good morning. Thanks so much for all the beautiful email,i really enjoy that.You are my kind of lady and all you mentioned in your previous mail are all i wanted with my woman to be.My presentation went well and i bless God for that.....Still in NY though.And also i have deleted my account on the dating site,hope you can do likewise for me as well.I'm off the dating site and i'm not staying in contact with anyone except you from the dating site and outside the dating site as well.Am a one woman man.We all have negative personal traits but i will say mine are decent though.I am totally new to social media and i don't use WhatsApp, Messenger, Viber but can set one up soon.
I'm sorry for what you might have gone through and thank God you back on your feet now.I can say am all you want in a partner,but time will tell as we get along.Now i really understand why you are been cautious,it's good that way but i really want to assure you,you are in the right hand and i would never do anything to harm you or your feelings i PROMISE.In a relationship,honesty and trust are the two most important things.
I have been living a single life, loving it each and everyday to the fullest. I'm a self sufficient man who prides myself in handling life like a man. I am smart, I have a sarcastic sense of humor and enjoy a good conversation. I'm a bit old fashioned, in that I open doors for strangers and try to be polite. I am loyal whether it suits me or not. Family and friends are to be treasured and respected. I have a big heart and great capacity for love. I'm looking for a friendship that will grow into the whole fairy tale. A friend always asked what I mean by the whole fairy tale.

This was my response: The Whole Fairy Tale
The whole fairy tale is when you both see each other as truly beautiful. You shower each other with compliments. Being together makes you so happy and whole. You can't get enough of each other. You would do anything for that person. Your goal is their happiness because their happiness is your happiness. No other man has a chance with you. Your favorite vision of old age is chasing her around the kitchen or any where around house, playing grab-ass. You know that person will be there for you through thick and thin and will take care of you lovingly forever. Your heart is content. Your mind is at ease.

I am a seeker of knowledge, cultures of a vast sort on our planet. I've learned a lot, and i also have a long way to go wisdom is infinite. I do not judge people i observe, we are who we are. I can't make a perfect companion that's a disease of the ego wanting perfection, but there is an imaginary line that i have drawn and that i will not cross. I am a someone who won't play games. I believe that we all should be treated as we would like to be treated. I am romantic at heart. Am a loving and caring man,I am honest to a fault, energetic and caring. My Moral Compass, points strong and true. It guides me every day. I am wise about something’s and everything, but I am always willing to learn. I enjoy art and music, love to cook (solo or with a friend). Like to watch good action or suspense movie on TV, but would much rather be outside driving with the my woman, discovering new things on a sunny fall day. Is it true what they say about being good and good will come your way? Well if that's true then there is obviously someone with a good heart like mine out there!(will that be you)

I'm looking for woman who is conscious about what she eats, says and do. That she understands that being in a relationship is about caring for one another. Looking for a down to earth woman, truthful, has great will power, honest, faithful, charming, has classed about herself. Likes to have fun, willing to have a great deal of understanding toward the things in life, knows how to treat a man, I know it sound like a lot. It's all about growing into the things, together! We may have ups and down, where there is a will there a way. I would like to ultimately make a deep and enduring connection, but I enjoy making friends first and seeing where the relationship goes. The colors, tastes and experiences of life are much more vivid and intense when shared. Looking for someone to color together, even outside the lines. Must be intelligent, attractive to me and willing to teach and learn new things. A person that want's to treat his man with love and honor. I seriously doubt that there is a perfect match, but a woman with class and style, intelligent, personal pride and someone that still enjoys a home life would be a start. Having fun is a necessity.

Take care
love Always

Letter 8

Hello Sweet Angel Kati,
How are you doing sweet angel and how is your day going my angel,mine is awesome and after going through the stress of the presentation but i thank God,it all went well,am still in NY though and hoping to be back to Colorado after i get to found out what the out come is.Can you please send me some pictures of you....I absolutely love your letters too.The text of the Whole Fairy tale was my thought and i wrote that,thanks for the compliment about my writing.My dogs are huskies,their name are brute and smart,they are just 3 years and i always put them with their veterinary when i'm out of the city or country.I do travel a lot though but i won't be any more if i get to win this contract i bid for because i am getting retire from my present work and i need some rest because i've work all my life. You didn't mention if you going to take off your profile off the dating site.No one is gonna destroy my self esteem because i'm in your life to make it stronger baby.I just want you to be positive in all your thinking baby,i hate it when people around me are negative,we are all meant to face challenges in life but we just have to stay strong and be focus.
Dreams do come true my dear. I am so glad to have found you. Before i met you over the internet, i had gone on my knees and had prayed unto God to kindly provide me with the woman that i will spend the rest of my life with. I am quite sure that this woman that i prayed for is no other person than you.My words to you are from the deepest part of my heart. I did not believe in the internet form of dating until when i found you over the internet. Now, i can really feel the reason why the internet form of dating is regarded to be the best. There is always the zeal, eagerness and enthusiasm to be together by two wonderful people that knows the worth of each other and really wants to be together as well.We had never met but the love I feel for you is so big and true already and could only become complete by meeting you in person.Being far away from you is killing me, not sharing every day with you and not being able to hold you whenever I want, hurts so much but I know that at the end of all this pain, i will find happiness in your arms.I am very sure that we will have a great life together and can't wait for us to be with each other every day, sharing everyday problems and joy, without having to leave one another's side. Fate put us through this, but we'll come out of it all shining as the love we feel is hard to find.I'm proud of the person you are. I love the way you are with me and with others. I'm proud to be with someone like you, the sweetest and most caring person I've ever known.Don't ever change, Honey, as you're perfect to me ... we're perfect for each other and it will be like that for eternity.

Here are a list of the things that i look forward to doing with you when we are finally together.......
Be your best friend.
Get caught with you in the rain.
Dance with you in the rain.
Stargaze on a clear night.
Watch the sunset together.
Spend all day with you doing nothing.
Moonlit walks on the beach.
Be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment.
Go on a carriage ride through the park.
Do a crossword together.
Go for a twilight horseback ride.
Spend the rest of my life with you.
Have our picture taken together.
Eat ice cream with you.
Make love to you passionately.
Go to a museum together.
Talk to each other using only body language.
Give you space when you need it.
Accept you totally and completely
Discuss current events in a heated debate.
Carve our names into a tree/table.
Go for a walk at dusk together.
Be one with you.
Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.
Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you...and tell you.
Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes.
Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.
Spend my life making you happy.
Spend my life making our family happy.
Feel your heartbeat.
Go roller/ice skating together.
Give you a back rub
Always being honest with each other.
Go hiking/camping together.
Marry you.
Laugh at someone together.
Share a plate of spaghetti.
Go on a road trip
Count thunder together during a thunderstorm.
Envelop you in my soul.
Cook your favorite meal/meals.
Know you better than you know yourself.
Plant a tree in our yard together.
Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most.
Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding.
Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
I want to make you so very happy that you just laugh out loud at times , even when I am not there with you. I want you to share with me your ups and downs and feel like you can trust me completely. I want to :
Sing in the car as we drive somewhere , it doesn't matter if we are off key or mess up the words.
Kiss you when We go to bed each night.
Come up behind you when we are cooking and hug you , and feel like I am melting into your body.
Watch the sunset on the beach
Make up new constellations in the sky and name them
Make love to you at times when it is just spontaneous , and at times when I can slowly look in your eyes and wish the moment never ends , because we feel like life could never be better than that moment.
Hold hands as we take on the world , because together we are so strong.
Plant flowers in the spring then sit quietly on a windy day and let their fragrance fill our senses
Lightly touch as we pass by each other , and look across the room at a party and know what the other is thinking.
Never make you jealous of other men , but make other men jealous of you.
Love you with all my heart
Tell you how much I love you
Chase you around the house just to grab your cute butt
Learn to cook new things for us to try
Snuggle into your body as we fall asleep.
Explore different places in the world
Conquer fears
Be able to be independent , so we don't ever lose our selves
Share interest , so we can try new things...even if we end up not liking it , so we can appreciate one another
Bring you breakfast in bed
Talk into the wee hours of the night , because we never run out of things to say
Write you love notes to hide in you pocket
Be spontaneous.
I want us to be that cute old couple people smile about .
Grow old with you.
Hugs and Kisses.
Your Man




Created: 2018-02-21    Last updated: 2018-02-21    Views: 269