Romance scam letter(s) from Martin Durboi to Dana (USA)
My Dear Dana,
Thanks for your email, I feel honored to receive a message from you. I'm interested in getting to know more about you. Thanks once again for finding time to email me, I greatly appreciate that. Early this morning, I left for work, there is a home building job that I am currently supervising that requires urgent completion, so I have been making sure my team works round the clock to have the house completed, because the owner wants to move in on or before Wednesday, the job is 95% complete though, so that's why I have been busy this period, I hope you bear with me. I was married to my first wife for 12 years and became a widower after losing my wife and baby girl, ...I was born in Munich Germany. I am the only child of my parents, my mother was from England While My Dad is German (so I got some accent, lol). I am an engineer who is into building constructions, I build houses, hospitals, bridges roads, Oil sector..etc, I am self employed and I handle my job in contracts. My daughter is 11yrs, she lives with me, she likes, swimming, sailing with me, volleyball, soccer just like myself, kayaking and ice skating. Eye Color-Blue
No I don't smoke
Occupation-I am an Civil Engineer (a private Contractor), I don't work for anybody, I sort for building contract jobs, then I assemble a team to get the job done. I'm in search of someone honest, caring, understanding and, above all have a good sense of humor. I am typically shy when I first meet someone. I always try to look for the good in people and that often leads to my being taken advantage of, but I am the eternal optimist and will continue to help and support the people around me. I want Someone not to have a fling or temporary relationship with, but a forever lasting relationship. I look forward to meeting someone and becoming friends first and then hopefully it will turn into a life long relationship. I want someone who will accept me for myself and understand that I am not perfect and am not searching for perfection as well. I want someone that I can laugh with, enjoy life's adventures and spend quality alone time with. I am as happy out with a large group or simply enjoying a quiet evening snuggling on the couch and watching a good movie. Am a very easy going person who like to play and have fun around my partner, just need some one in my life to grow old with, that is why I really need a partner that will stay with me and live together happily. Here are some attached copies of my pictures so you can have idea on how I look, but I must tell you am not the picture type, I don't like taking pics. This will be all for now, thanks once again for writing me here and hope to reading from you soon. Warm Hugs,
Morning Dear Dana,
Thank you so much for your email and I hope this email finds you well. Thank you so much for the beautiful pictures, you look so beautiful. I'm so sorry about your past I will say it prepares you for the future, thank you for being the mother to your kids, I want you to know that I have been hurt in the past and I believe the ability to over come it makes us who we are today. I enjoyed reading these wonderful piece of your life summary. I really appreciate your honesty, sincerity and openness in your message. This is one thing I feel a lot of couple do not have Effective Communication and Honesty. This two are a good foundation to a lasting relationship, and I am happy we have started on a good note and I want to be this happy that I am now. I wouldn't want to talk more about the past but to go on with this and see where it will lead us to. Basically I love life and I love living life. I enjoy the outdoors, traveling, restaurants, laughing, going to cultural events, and socializing with quality people. Its just better living and sharing life with someone else :) I enjoy being active, healthy and Staying fit. Likes: long hot bubble baths, massages, holding hands,kissing,walking on the beach at sunset, going to the mountains, waterfalls, exploring nature, camping, concerts, music, dancing at home or out on the town, roses,sunflowers,road trips,intimacy with the right woman and spending time with my family. One day I would love to cruise to the Caribbean islands and Alaska with the love of my life! Dislikes: Unfaithful people, cheating, drama, disrespectful people, selfishness and mean spirited people. I've always wanted to parachute out of a perfectly good airplane! :) Interests: going to the beach but afraid to swim in the ocean because of all the shark. I love to swim just not in the ocean. I like going to amusement parks, playing scrabble and board games. Love sailing and Kayaking Seeking love isn't an easy quest, but it's always best to take this journey on our own side. It's important to fight the patterns inside us that hold us back from getting what we want. We can't shield ourselves from the world or keep ourselves from getting hurt. We all carry flaws, and these vulnerabilities are especially apparent when getting close to one another. Thus, achieving intimacy is a brave battle, but it is one well-worth fighting for, each and every day, both within ourselves and, ultimately, within our relationships. I am a down to earth guy with a good sense of humor and love to laugh. I have a strong work ethic and love my job. I'm a hopeless romantic and I want to fall in love again, friends first and then we see where friendship will take us to. My heart has been broken before and also would not want anyone else to have that experience. Btw I live in Bethseda, so we are about 15-20mins apart. I think I will have to stop here for now and hopefully you can share more about your likes, dislikes, passion and interest. Do have a great day ahead of you and hope to read from you soon
Morning sunshine, how are you, thanks for your lovely email
I love your beautiful pictures, your lovely smiles...Thanks for your pictures
My Dearest Dana,
I hope you had a great night rest, mine was great and I kept dreaming of knowing you more. Thank you so much for your email and thank you once again for sharing much on your likes and dislikes, it enabled me to know you more. I just thought I’d share this with you and know what you think about relationship, partnership and commitment. When people say they want love or romance, what they really want is a true partnership, whether they are aware of it or not. People have all sorts of skewed ideas about what love is. Many think it is an all consuming passion that’s supposed to last forever, or another person who understands you completely, or someone who takes care your every need without you having to ask, or maybe never feeling lonely again. But all of these things are more about attachment than love. Yes, ideally the person you’re with cares about your needs and understands you pretty well, and there should be passion, too. But strong, healthy romantic love for me is so much more than that. “True love” is, more than anything, about creating a true, equal, caring partnership with another person. I believe that one must feel comfortable enough with a person to express his/her thoughts, feelings, and opinions freely. I also believe that one must be able to be yourself without censorship. Sometimes, we censor ourselves because of self-consciousness, and sometimes, we censor ourselves because of another person’s negative reaction. Neither bodes well for intimacy. Feeling safe doesn't happen instantly, nor should it, but should build upon a number of positive experiences sharing small aspects of your inner world and allowing the other person to do the same. I believe that one should feel as though his or her partner listens to his/her thoughts and feelings and makes an effort to really understand them, and you, without judgement or agenda but because he’s interested in what you’re thinking and feeling. You should do the same for him/her. Being more concerned with truthfulness than with not hurting each other’s feelings. I also believe that people who truly care about each other fall into the trap of not saying how they’re feeling because they don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. This is poison for a true partnership because, no matter how well-meaning your intentions are, not talking about issues that bother you will create rifts. It can be incredibly difficult to tell someone you care about that you’re angry, disappointed, or hurt, but if you don’t, you will create areas of emotional dishonesty that inhibit closeness. And if you get into the habit of not talking about what’s bothering you, your once great love will fizzle into a distant ease with each other where neither person is getting what he or she really wants. This is incredibly common, perhaps being the most efficient way for people who love each other to grow apart. Some of those honest conversations are excruciating, but they’re excruciating for a reason: because it’s stuff that has to be talked about. Be kind, but be honest. Respecting each other’s boundaries. Many people think true love means baring all to each other and not having any secrets. This is not intimacy, but being entangled. Everybody needs space and freedom to breathe; everybody is entitled to private thoughts they shouldn't feel obligated to share. A true partnership is about two people who come together with common goals and mutual caring, but that doesn't mean they own each other. Sharing every thought, as good as it sometimes feels early in a relationship, will end up feeling like being in prison. It is an impossible expectation to maintain, and trying to do so will create power struggles, resentments, and other forms of distance, which put intimacy, and thus a true partnership, out of reach. I'm here to show you love and care, I have been heart broken before and I will promise not to break your heart, I know how it feels to be betrayed and to be heart broken. What's your favorite color? Mine is Blue and black Favorite food? Mine - Sea food, sushi, grilled chicken Are you a righty or a lefty? I'm right handed Something odd about yourself? Me - I'm allergic to small circles close to each other. I do have facebook and insta graam but I seldom use it Well, I think this will be all for now, please if there's anything you want to know do not hesitate to ask me.
Do have a great day and hope to read from you soon.
My Dearest Dana,
It is always nice to see a mail from you.
It brings smiles to my face. It is a very good way of starting my day.
Thank you so much for keeping in touch with me. It means a lot to me here. How are you doing my angel ?
I hope you are doing well. I am doing great and thinking a lot about you.
I am thinking about the beauty of knowing you more and every mail brings me closer to knowing you more and more.
I know that it is difficult to trust words from someone you have not met but trust and belief are very essential in a relationship. I have no reason to say what I do not mean. I am an open book.
I'm here with one purpose. To look for that missing special person.
I have been a casual observer on the site and nothing was really interesting on the site until I saw you.
I am not one of those men that came to deceive women.
I am a man of integrity.
I will not do anything to hurt you.
I just want you to give me your hand in this.
I want a relationship with you.
I want your hand of trust.
Please do not judge me with what you have passed through.
I remained single for this long because I did not want to rush into a relationship again. I have a very fragile heart and I do not think I can endure another pain.
I will make you smile all the time.
I promise to help erase all sad memories from your mind.
I am an open book and I am ready to tell you all about me from childhood to adulthood.
I was raised by my mom whom to me is the best woman that ever lived.
She taught me respect for women at a very tender age.
She showed me love and made me promise her never ever to hit a woman.
I have never done that and will never do that. Let's see...my growing up years. I was born in Germany, into a military family, My dad was in the German Army while my mom was an accountant in a law firm.. I'm the only child of my parents, so I got pampered. As a kid I was a very cute boy, lol. The one whom everyone would want to bully, bullies would target me in school and my neighborhood...Only for them to notice that there's this super tough side in me. I could make anyone smile with my cute face and smiles..Anyways, My dad retired from the German Army at an early age and we moved to the States, my dad got a job in an engineering firm working as a construction worker and my mom became a medical clerk in Chicago Illinois. My dad worked hard and went back to school, studied Engineering which he later owned a small engineering firm years later. After I graduated from University, I worked with my dad for couple of months then I got a Job in an oil platform in Russia, stayed in Russia for about 1 yr, got transferred to North Sea(United Kingdom) then I decided to come back home as my dad's health was deteriorating and he always wants me around and wants me to run his small firm which I did diligently. After about 3 years I lost both parents in a space of 6 months as they couldn't live without each other, I missed them so much and sometimes I wish they are still alive. I moved to New York in aspiration of expanding my knowledge in engineering field were I obtained my second degree in Cornell University NY. I met my late wife in a grocery shop, we got along very well, we became close friends, chatted and visited each other, exchanged gifts and we became so much in love and got married about a year later. She gave birth to Sharon which made our lives more happier, Sharon brought this loving beauty to our home, I would want to come home early to spend time with my family, cook, play around the garden and go picnicking as a family. Then we decided to make another baby since Sharon was growing up and we needed a sibling for her. My late wife got pregnant again and then after few months I lost both of them, she had still birth...it's a scar that I have managed to clean for the past years...I normally don't share this to people, I don't want to think of the past, but you have touched my heart in so many ways, you're part of my life now, that's why I have to tell you. I tried to take care of Sharon all by myself but it was so difficult to be a single dad than a single mom, I had an Au Pair( Nanny) for some months but she couldn't help matters, Sharon couldn't stay with her while I was away for work and she just couldn't do anything right. So I dedicated my time to work within the New York to care for her after few years I got married to my second wife, she was introduced to me by my ex best friend Adam. after couple of months we got attached to each other and we got married. Just about a year and two months into marriage, I caught Adam and my Ex in bed...I've been suspecting both of them but I gave them benefit of doubts until that very day. That's why I gave up everything about relationship and having close friends, in between I tried to date but my heart says no and I focused on my job and my child. Am so happy she's a grown I'm a pretty simple person in my wants and needs, I tend to be centered around my home and spend most of my free time there. I enjoy gardening and being outside in a nice weather. I really miss having someone to share the time and the everyday chores. I don't mind getting in there and getting grubby. Shared jobs can make the work go faster and it's more fun at the same time. I probably have more experience with carpentry and remodeling than most men, so I think am handy in some way, love spending time in my fireplace. I respect and like a woman who is so much involved in her family's life. I Like to see more of the world when I have the opportunity. Travel through my work but don't enjoy it as when you travel for vacation. I love to travel whether nice trips or one day getaways One day I would like going to Bora Bora with the love of my life. I have done a fair amount of traveling over the years, I visited France a few times. I snow skied in the French Alps and visited Paris, the capital city of Love. I have also been to the Gulf Coast thanks to my job. I love outdoors, love swimming in the ocean, beach. (Scared as hell of sharks though) If I see something nice, like the sunset, I will take a picture and later when I have the time, I will paint it. I like all types of movies, romantic comedy is my favorite. ( I must say that I don't watch scary movies when I'm alone) Would not mind watching it when you sit next to me(lol). I love spending time with loved ones. I'm looking forward spending the rest of my life with you, having a passionate intimate relationship. I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to the heart. I hope this gives you a broader knowledge about me I want you to give me the chance to make things right. I promise to love you with all that I am.
I promise to give you all my heart without reservations. I will love you and treat you like a lady.
I will make you happy all the time. Putting smiles on your face will be my priority.
Please open up your heart and give me the chance to walk into your heart.
I want to tell you that the words I use in my mail comes straight from my heart. It is my own way of expressing how I feel in my inside.
I am sure of what I feel and how you have affected me.
Please tell me about yourself.
Tell me about your life, what you like,your job, your outlook towards life.
What makes you smile, what makes your day....
I often imagine a perfect union
One that is built with Love and Happiness
One that brings an incomparable Joy.
I think I have to tell you this at this point in this relationship.
I do a lot of charity. I visit orphanages and old peoples home a lot.
My mom taught me how to do charities. According to her it is a way of giving back to society. I visited this orphanage on day and this little girl was crying after me. She always cry after me when ever I visit this orphanage.
I made inquiries about her and I was told that she was abandoned at the gate of the church when she was four months old.
I was touched by the story that I heard about her and I've been supporting her....She is a very special child to me.
She's married now with a little son who calls me giant dad.
I have have here about a year ago and I like it here.
My pet peeve, slow drivers...lol
Well I think this will be all for now, do have a great day
Hope to hear from you soon
You are always on my mind.
Hugs to you.......
Thank you so much once again for your mail.
I keep looking forward to getting your mails.
I really do not know how to explain how I feel any time there is a mail from you. Thank you so much for coming into my life....... How are you doing this morning ?
I hope you are doing well.
I am doing good and thinking so much about this beautiful thing that I am feeling in my heart.
I have not felt like in a very long time... I have added some questions with this email, I want you to relax and take your time to answer this questions so I can get to know you more better, I want us to be as one, I want to look at you and be able to see myself through you and you through me when we meet, and the only way I believe this can happen is by being open-minded, faithful, honesty, humbleness, sincerity and answers, so am sorry if it sounds like an interview!) Do you like to dance? Slow dance or fast?
Favorite type of music, groups, band?
Do you have any close friends ?
What was the last date you went on - or last relationship you were in?
Favorite childhood memory?
What do you find most romantic?
Do you like things tidy/clean - or are you messy? (lol)
What's your favorite type of house? (new construction, old/vintage?)
Do you have a bad temper - or are u easy going - mellow, difficult, strict?
How about possessive, jealous?
Do you ever curse (say bad words)? (lol)
Do you like to drive fast/slow?
Do you like to kiss, hold your man, hold hands, be affectionate? How about in public?
What is the most attractive feature on a man that you like?
Are you generous to people, helpful?
Do you think you're nurturing - do you take care of someone when they are sick, be by their side?
Do you worry about things - give an example of something that makes you worry?
How often do you work, what is a typical day for you?
Where do you see yourself in 1 yr from now? and what's your middle? or let me know what your full names are Just curious...! Have added a song for you to listen as you answer my questions...lol, by Rascal Flatts "Bless The Broken Road" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-vZlrBYLSU Hope to receive your answers soon...lol. Let me bask in the light of your eyes
Let me breathe the breath of your soul
I will sit at your feet
learn from your wisdom
I have seen my visions
and dreams manifested
and my revelation come to life
in your eyes
We will unlock the mysteries
that until now
And with the discovery of truth
born into reality
we will accomplish great things
and move the world
and this boundless power of love
that is US… There is not time that passes without my mind going to you.
You are occupying my mind all the time, Thank you so much for your number, I will text you shortly,
I will talk to you later...Have a great day
Hugs and kisses
Hello Once again, thanks for both emails, love them.
I will look you up on Face book. I did have huge snow
I sent you my answers in my previous email, I have few
errands to run this morning and I sent you a text
My Dearest Dana,
It is always with smiles that I see your mail
It is always the highlight of my day.
How are you doing today, I hope you are doing fine.
I am doing fine here but have been thinking so much about you.
I have been thinking about this great feelings that
I have not felt for years now.
You make me want to wake up in the middle of the night to read my emails
You make all things bright and beautiful.
You make my heart glow with joy and happiness.
You make me smile all the time....
I have discovered that you are very honest and straight to the point in your views about a relationship...I admire that about you very much....
I was thinking about how much you have affected this heart of mine in just a few days...I just want to be your man...
I was thinking about you all through the night.
You have touched me deep in my heart.
Thank you so much for the answers to my questions Anyways, these are my answers to the same questions as I lay them down to you. Do you like to dance? Slow dance or fast? I like to dance. Yes, I love to dance fast or slow...Depending on the vibes of the song playing
Favorite type of music, groups, band? R&B, County Music, I love jazz, Rn B, contemporary, Hillsong, oldies. love Celine Dion, Brian McKnight, Tina Turner, Kenny Rogers and Dolly Patton, Whitney Houston, Rascal Flatts, Lionel Richie etc Do you have any close friends ? I don't have close friends, just the Hi type...my child has been my best friend after my encounter with my ex and best friend. Favorite childhood memory? trip with my family to the Alpines and Maldives What do you find most romantic? Little things…. A flower left on the car, or delivered to the office… pulling me close by the back of my neck (gently) for that kiss. A soft touch. A note to say “ I am thinking of you” Do you like things tidy? I like things tidy and clean What's your favorite type of house? (new construction, old/vintage?) My favorite type of house is new construction Do you have a bad temper - or are u easy going - mellow, difficult, strict? I am pretty mellow. I don’t get angry easily, I believe energy and power should be put into something good. I've got the sweetest temper ever. How about possessive, jealous? It would depend on the situation... But generally I am not a jealous person. Do you ever curse (say bad words)? (lol) I am sad to say that yes I do sometimes. Never with a child around.
Do you like to drive fast/slow? I tend to drive a bit over the speed limit. But driving too slow is a pet peeve of mine… Don’t like it...lol
Favorite car? My favorite is Mercedes. I drive Mercedes Benz, Land Rover
Do you like to kiss, hold your woman, hold hands, be affectionate? How about in public? Yes yes and yes…. In public…. Somewhat… holding hands and a little kiss from time to time maybe but that is it … maybe even a little pat on the back side…I am not afraid to show my woman that she is special to me. What is the most attractive feature on a woman that you like? The eyes you can tell a lot about a person from the eyes. And boobs, for the back rubs… LOL.. Are you generous to people, helpful? I would have to say yes I am. I can get birthday, Christmas and items for school for people that are in need.. I have even made sure others have food to eat from time to time. I have even given a little one a birthday party when I learned her grandmother did not have the money to do so. That was fun. I have helped out an elderly woman with her flower beds and things like that. There is a guy across the street from me who does not work, so to help him I pay him to mow my yard. In turn it helps me as well. I also make sure that I send money to the less privileged homes each month to help them out for my charity. Do you worry about things - give an example of something that makes you worry? Yes I do. I worry about my happy ending.. I need someone to love and she love me in return...I am not proud being a single. I wonder if I will be able to make it when it is time for me to retire from work and spend my life all alone. Yet, I still have hope that God knows what I am facing and will lead my way. I do not let this worry, consume me or stop me from living. The job I have is a good one and I have long dedicated my time and energy to my job. My full name is Richard Amore Gallant. How often do you work, what is a typical day for you? I work Monday thru Friday from 9:00 to 5:00...usually when I have an on going
contract, sometimes (not always) on Saturdays too. My work is mostly in field, But I program my agenda as I want really.
Where do you see yourself in 1 yr from now? I will like to have a happy family again, going on vacations abroad. celebrating festivals together and never to spend time alone again. Please give me all the chance to be your man......
Can you hear my heart's longing
Echoing quietly in my mind?
Spanning the distance between us,
Allowing love to find. The one person I wish to share
My heart, my soul, my delight;
I love to hold you close to me
And spend a passionate life. The years ahead hold promise,
Although this beginning brings fear;
Because no life is certain
Or ever free of tears. Every night before bed
I lay awake cause your stuck in my head
I am falling for you harder than I have ever fell, my heart pounds harder than it has ever pounded.. I want you to give me the keys to your heart..
Love is all that matters.. Well, we can use that song as our song
I believe this will help you get knowledge of who I am.
I hope to hear from you again soon
Hugs and kisses to you
My Dearest Dana,
It is another day that I am starting with smiles because of another mail from you.
Thank you so much for the answers to my questions in helping to know you more.
My heart skips a beat whenever there is a mail from you.
I wish you will open up this heart and see what it says.
Your name is constantly on my lips.
My heart beats anytime I think of you......
How are you doing this morning?
I hope you are doing well.
I am doing very well and I keep thinking about you and all that you mean to my heart.
You have taken over my heart.
You have captured my heart in so many different ways......
I want to assure you that my words comes straight from my heart.
The words that I use in my mails are just an expression of how I feel in my heart of hearts.
I want you in my life. You have touched a place in my heart that I
thought will never be touched again.
I have been touched by an angel.
You are that angel that has touched me.
You touched me in my heart. Beneath what all the world does see
There burns a fire bright
It burns with such intensity
A blinding bright white light
You are so beautiful There is no way to douse the flame
It burns eternally
And though it burns there just for you
It consumes only me
I have missed the love and warmth of a woman in a long time.
I kept alone because I do not want to rush into anything that
I am not sure of but when you came along all my doubts and fears disappeared.
You have taken over my whole life and am loving the feelings more everyday.
I think about you all the time.
I think about how you fare on a daily basis.
I think about what and what you will be doing at particular point in time.
My heart is in your hands.
I have decided to give up everything to fall in love.
I have decided to do anything to make you know that my love is here to stay.
My love will conquer all doubts.
My heart beats for you...I have known Chris for almost a year now
And yes I don't have close friends any more after what happened to my ex
Well, I do have an au pair that can look after Sharon
I am getting ready to leave for church.
I will be thinking about you all through today.
I will be thinking about all that you will be doing today. I hope to hear from you soon.
Have a wonderful day
Hugs to you
My Darling Dana,
It is a very beautiful morning of waking up with sweet thoughts of you.
I woke up with smiles on my face all because I was thinking about you all through the night.
I was thinking about how much you have affected my hart.
You make loving so simple and easy.
You make loving so beautiful... I never knew that I will feel like this for anyone after the issue with my ex.
I never knew that anyone will ever affect my heart like you do.
No one has ever come close to where you are in my heart.
I am loving this relationship. I am loving every single bit of this relationship...
I know that meeting you on the site was not an accident..
I am sure that meeting you was pure destiny..You are my destiny... I built thick and solid walls around my heart.
I never knew that anyone will ever break down the walls.
You are pulling down my defenses.
You are breaking down the walls every single day.
I am loving every single part of my conversation with you.... I am getting ready to leave for work this morning.
I have a very important meeting to conclude on a contract job that I have long been working on.
Please I need you to pray for me about it.
I will be thinking about you all through the day like I always do.
I have been praying about this relationship.
I have asked for Gods guidance and protection..
I have asked God to direct us on this journey of hearts... You are the sweetness of my heart and I will never take your love for granted
I will love you endlessly and overwhelm you with love and care.
There will never be a dull moment when we are together because when am not happy you will make me laugh and when you are not happy I will make you laugh. I and Sharon have accepted you as one of us
I just want us to meet and establish this great love that we bond us as one happy united family. We shall be very good together and we shall be one big happy family.
I cant wait to hold and make sweet passionate love to you, in my bed.
We will never get tired of each other
our love for each other will never die because we were destined to be together. I am very grateful for your love.
I am very grateful for your care ...
I will love you till the moon..... I was looking for you, but you found me. I waited and God sent me the best in YOU.
For years I’ve been waiting and the wait is over..I have found my soul mate.. I've never known how it feels to be loved...
until The day I met you.
Suddenly feelings grew deeper and sure
As our love became richer and pure.
Now there is nothing for you I wouldn't do
As Baby I'm hopelessly in love with you! I like the strong hold you are having on my daughter.
She talks about you all the time...She talks about you at any given opportunity..
You are making me happy..You are making me smile..
You have touched me deep in my heart and soul..... I will talk to you later.
Sharon sends her love and regards....
My Darling Dana,
I hope you're having a great day? I cannot stop thinking about you. So much is going through my mind. I always want to communicate with you as it makes me so happy. I promise there will never be a dull moment with us, I promise to always make you a happy woman for the rest of your life as long as you let me. I already know what I want and all I want is you. This isn't about the mere physical (lust) as I am more interested in your good heart and how you make me feel. I could go on and on but that would just sound a bit too cheesy. You sure won’t believe what the results of my presentation was and I’m short of words right now. I was awarded with two contracts but I have to pick one and one of the contract is to take place in The gulf of Texas which will take longer than I want, Its an estimated work of 16 weeks while the second contract is in Cape Town which will last for 4 weeks, so I’m deciding to take the job in Cape Town South Africa which will grant me less time and I will be able to get back home on time. I’m barely able to control the excitement that I feel and my feelings at this time are quite mixed. In as much as I’m happy about this. I still find it a bit saddening that we might not meet until my return as I have to get on the next available flight to Cape Town before Thursday as there is a crew down there waiting for me as we speak. I have to admit that this is causing a little ruckus because I have a lot to take care of before I leave and I ought to have at least a week or two to get my affairs sorted out before I leave but I don’t have that much of an option right now as it is. I've been trying to see about postponing my resumption date but that’s not possible as there’s a completion deadline and I will have to keep up with the schedule they have laid out for me. I wish my time would permit me to see you and this really hurts as I've looked forward to this for a long time now. On the upside, it’ll be an opportunity for me to take Sharon to Cape town and she can explore it more as a birthday and I will get to issue her birthday present to her there so I think it will be fun to have her there, what do you suggest? I want your opinion on this if you think its a good idea, as I have not one to talk to about this except you because you are the closest woman close to my heart now. I have to get moving now as I have some documentation to sign and the term guiding the contract. . Not sure how much I can pack as I don’t have much time. There’s two phases with a 2 days break in-between each week, during which I plan to spend some time with Sharon. I’ll stop here and be sure to be in touch as much as I can while I’m out there and I’ll expect the same of you too. I need to ask you a very important question, the answer worries me. Will you be able to wait for me till I get back? Nothing will change the way I feel about you, and I will always contact you by phone and email. I will never let a day goes by without communicating with you. Do I still have you? I don't want to lose you no matter what. Waiting anxiously for your reply. Any decision you make won’t change the way I feel about you.
The ball is in your court Honey.
Enjoy your day. Lots of love
Love You My Baby
My Darling Dana,
Good Morning My Angel.
Thank you so much for your understanding with regards to this job.
I never expected the contract to be sudden like this but I will soon
be done with this job and come back into your loving and beautiful arms. You have touched a special place in my heart .
You have touched a place that I thought was dead a long time ago.
You have shown me that there are still better ladies out there.
You have shown me that there are still good ladies that can be trusted.
I am trusting my heart to you. I am giving you my heart and my soul
I have decided to give you my heart and my soul.
I promise you from the bottom of my heart that I will love you till death.
I have found my home in you. I have seen my soul mate in you. You brought me back from a life of loneliness and now I am very happy and always smiling.
I am getting ready to begin my day, I have a lot to do
I am also going to do some documentation about my flying with Sharon to Africa.
I will be busy but I will be thinking about you all through.
I will be leaving tomorrow morning because the ceremony is on Friday night. You think you’re flawed but you've no idea,
I've not a thought of you that isn't dear,
You seem to have this power that I,
Cannot resist it makes me smile,
All the times I used to wonder,
Have I failed or done a blunder,
But now I am starting to believe,
I love you I want to hold your hands as we walk anywhere, try and cook for you, and see if you like my cooking....massage your shoulders from coming home all crazed from work and toss popcorn at each other...If I was with you, and you did fall, I'd never let anything hurt you, I'd shelter and protect you. Love you fully with every inch of my body and soul, care for you till you were strong again. Touch you tenderly to remind you I was near you and wasn't going to leave till you were healthy again. And if you meant ..if you fall with your heart, I would be so blessed to have that heart that I would do the same with it as well. Shelter, protect, love, and care. Sharon told me she wished you are going to Africa with us.
She talks about you all the time. She wish you are here with us already.
I have to calm her down and made her understand the reason why we can be with you for now but we will all be together soon. I know that I will be away for some time but constant communication will keep you very close to my heart. Communication is the heart of a healthy relationship.
I will call you all the time and I will send you mails on a daily basis.
I will keep in touch with you. I will be buying my suit today from Armani.
I wish you will see me in my suit. I will take pictures for you.
I am with you in all things and I am coming back home immediately after the job to make your heart my home forever.
I simply cannot wait to plant a kiss on your lips...
I will talk to you soon.
Wish me well today.
Hugs and kisses to you my princess
My Darling Dana,
I hope this mail meets you good.
I am about to board but my heart is heavy....
I am already feeling like a part of me is staying behind the States. I am feeling very bad because I am leaving behind this young relationship.
I hate it that I am leaving this young baby that is still at its teething stage.
This relationship is like a little baby still learning to walk. I wish I had all the time to see you,
talk to you face to face and move on from there
I want to beg that you keep in touch with me.
I promise to call you everyday.
I promise to send you mails on a daily basis.
I promise to keep in touch with you.
I promise not to let go.
I promise to stand by you.
I will make your heart my own.
I will stick with you through thick and thin.
I want to beg that you keep in touch with me here.
I want you to keep this candle of love burning.
I want us to disregard the distance and place all our hope
and focus on that day that I am going to come back. The day you were born, the whole world was blessed
These thoughts in my mind to you I must confess
The time has come for me to express my true feelings
You are the center of my thoughts and the essence of my being
What you have brought me I never thought I could procure
The gift of comfort, with you I am secure
For you have lifted me up from a life filled with sorrow
And made me realize there is always a better tomorrow
It amazes me how someone can make me feel this way
I love you more and more with each passing day
You brighten my days and lift my spirits
I have felt this for so long and now want you to hear it
I will never forget what you have done to my heart in just a few weeks. I will always love you .
I treasure this great feeling that we share.
It is going to be a long flight but I will surely think about you all through the flight. I will call you as soon as I arrive...
I want you to put all your trust in me.
I will not hurt you or do anything to break your heart...
I just cant wait to come back to your loving arms and make sweet love to you
I LOVE YOU NOW AND FOREVER Cheers
Hugs and Kisses to you my angel.............
My Darling Dana,
I am doing this mail to inform you that I have finally arrived South Africa.
I arrived some hours ago but I have been doing some clearance at the airport due to the money that I brought in for the Job. I was delayed at the airport but the airport police confirming my contract and the reason why I came into the country with so much money in cash.
I have been cleared and I am now in the guest house where I will be staying in Table View, Cape Town. I was very busy with the officials sorting out things and in the process Sharon misplaced my hand luggage which contained my phone, her toys,
her iPod, credit card, iPad and her play station games.
The officials promised to sort it out and call me back later on.
I long for you to just hold me close in your arms.
To see that look in your eye, missing you ever so much
I'm not going to be whole again until I come home to my heart, baby you're my rock, my world , and my everything missing you ever so much. I lay awake at night with thoughts of you.
Sometimes I wonder if your thinking of me too
I knew I loved you the moment I met you
Do you believe in love at first sight
I didn't think it was possible but its true...... Anyway Cape Town is a very beautiful city. I did not know that Africa is this beautiful.
With the stories that I have heard about Africa I never knew that it could be so beautiful.
The road network is fantastic and the scenery is beautiful.
I am staying in a three bed room house. It has a swimming pool and the rooms are spacious.
Sharon is sleeping and I decided to send you a quick note. The contract award ceremony will be at 7pm South African time...
I am going to rest now after the journey so that I will be fresh for the ceremony
This is my South African phone number here now +27623340793. You should dial straight.
It was given to me by my project supervisor.
I really miss you and I hope we will commence our communication. I know the distance is what keeps us apart
but it won't get me down, you're always in my heart
it's something that together we will face
until we can feel each other's embrace
Sometimes I feel insecure and alone, you do too
but I won't show you I won't tell you
I just keep it to myself, prefer to hold it in
It's weird but it's like you're under my skin
If you ever need someone to talk to
just know I will always be here for you
we both know that with me you belong
can't wait till we meet, say it won't be long....
I don't want to hurt or cause you any pain.
I 've finally realized my attempts will be vain
If I ever do hurt you, I will not hurt you for all the money in the whole world...
You're the one I hold on to, don't leave me.
I know I'm Not perfect and that I will never be
I don't search for perfection, just want you to see
that you're all I need, everything I was looking for
therefore I Can only pray that we'll both stay strong for each other..... You are always on my mind.
Sharon is not happy about her toys and play station.
She sends her regards and was always asking me when she will meet you.
Please call me as soon as you get this. I really want to hear your voice. Hugs and kisses
My Darling Dana!
The time here now is 8:20am and I feel so tired after the contract ceremony
The contract award ceremony was a success and I couldn't stay for long
I just had a meeting with my project supervisor and the foreman, we discussed
at length about recruiting the working crew and also negotiating their wages I just rushed to send you this email because when I write to you I feel closer to you.
I have seen the site and I promise to take photos of it once I recover my camera.
I have called my credit card company to block my credit cards just in-case.
Honey, sorry I did not tell you that Sharon is really curious about knowing you?
I know we're far apart -- you're In the US, and I'm in Cape Town -- but hey baby,
like I said, distance means so little when you care about someone so much.
I was talking to Sharon about you and explaining how you are on my mind 24/7.
I'm thinking about you when am eating, walking and even sleeping. You are in my thoughts all the time. I'd tell you you're in my heart,
You are sweet, caring at heart, beautiful, and you make me feel like one of
the luckiest guys in the world. I need you to know I am with you through everything,
the bad and the good. I've given you my heart and I hope that you won't break it.
Keep it and give it some loving from time to time. I want you to bear in mind that
I'd never let you down, that I'd never treat you bad, that I would share your
joy and pain? I will promise all those things over and over again. I don't know what's wrong with the phone, I think there's Viber App, do you mind downloading it,
We can call, text and video chat with it. I miss you honey, I need to go to bed now I miss you and eagerly waiting for you reply. Yours Always
My Darling Dana,
It was so nice to see your beautiful face early this morning.
How are you doing my angel ?
I hope you are doing good.
I am doing great but thinking a whole lot about you.
The weather was so nice, very hot and bright until 7:30pm which made work so easy. The work at the site has started.
Some of the equipment have been supplied this morning to the site.
I have a site engineer, a supervisor and 27 local workers reported this morning to commence the work.
The foundation has been laid and the workers began work this morning. They are all local workers. They are very strong though.
The workers asked to be paid on a daily basis.
They demanded to be paid after every days job.
I accepted their offer..I paid some money to have my working permit, Baby everything here is so expensive, I am spending more than I expected but its for the success of the project. I normally resume the site location by 9am and then I have 1hr:30mins break, I take my first break by 1pm which is for lunch and the I take 10mins every hour until am done for the day..
I get my workers to go on break as well but only on shifts so that work can commence even when quarter of the team is on lunch.
It's a beautiful experience honey and am loving it here(wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life here though...lol) My body aches when you're not here
My eyes close to hold back a tear
My hands are empty they need your embrace
To feel your warmth next to my face
I'm lost without you, can't you see
Just what your love is doing to me
My soul is lonely, it misses you so much
Longing for you and you're not there to touch
These feelings I have are so deep and strong
Together with you is where I belong
My heart is full of this love for you
Your heart responds with a love so true. Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. Honey, I just had my shower before coming here to email you cuz my mind keeps running to you, I'm using the guest house computer, I can't go to the internet cafe at this time cuz it's late now, I can't go a whole day without sending you an email. I had dinner and it was so nice, I ate in a sea food restaurant, had shrimps, Calamari and lovely snails. Honey I haven't eaten snail for a very long time and it was so nice, I was just looking at the street and it reminds me of Florida, beautiful beach front, people jogging, cycling, skateboarding, surfing and chilling at the beach. The beautiful sunset.. I have not heard any positive news about my luggage, I went to the airport and they asked me to fill and sign some forms which I did..It is getting me upset as I need everything in that luggage for a successful job here. This is the first time that I will be doing a huge job like this overseas and it is good that I do a nice job out here. I do not want any mistake here as I have invested so much already. I called my credit card company and cancelled my credit card because of the credit card fraud all over the world. I am still going to call the authorities tomorrow morning and probably got there..I am always thinking of our first night together...It will be a night to remember...I will make love to you like no one has ever done to you. I promised keeping in touch with you and I am doing that so far, I want us to keep this flame of love burning like I said before and not allow distance to be a barrier to this love and relationship, thank you so much for keeping in touch with me so far cuz it means a whole lot to me.
Love you loads,
My Darling Dana,
It is always with joy in my heart and smiles
on my face that I wake up to your words.
Thank you so much for taking time to keep in touch with me here.
I have noticed that I have not been feeling lonely because you have
been in touch with me since I touched down here in South Africa.
How are you doing my baby ?
I hope you are doing great.
You make me happy each time I hear from you
I can feel your soul touching mine it makes my stomach lurch,
Your beating heart travels time for me it comes in search.
The thoughts you send me, make it clear your love is on it's way,
Your spirit tells me, you are near and will be without delay.
Your actions always tell me how the love in your eyes is real,
And that our love will always grow with a kiss your lips will seal.
Your hands caress and hold me tight they always seem to say,
The future for us, is very bright don't ever fade away.
There's three little words I forgot to say
Those three little words I say each day
Those three little words are I love you
And you know it's true because I do
So if one day I forget to say
Those three little words I say each day
It really shouldn't bother you
For deep in your heart you know I do
So all you really need to know
My angel, my darling I love you so much..
The warm words you say
Is more calming than the rain
It seems being with you
Has helped even the deepest Emotional pains
I once swore I'd never love again
But not only have I found love
But also gained a friend, a lover and a confidant. I love you so much and I will never do anything to break your heart.
You are the first thing I think of each morning I rise,
you're the last thing I think of when I close my eyes.
I have taken Sharon to a school here.
She has started a school here this morning.
I am waiting for her to come back and give me her experiences on her first day at school.
I want you as my forever. This is my sincere truth and I am saying it with all honesty. Anyway the workers are doing a hard job here today.
I must confess that these people are very strong and dedicated to the work.
It is a pity that they work so much and so well yet receive very little.
Poverty rate here is very high and the people do anything to survive.
I have pity and compassion on them anytime I am very close to them.
They requested to be paid after everydays job.
You are always on my mind.
You have taken over my life and my soul.
My life will be incomplete without you.
You make me feel like a real man.
Your love touches me down there.
You are my queen.
Your heart is where I want to dwell.
I love you my angel...
You are my soul mate and I will do anything to make you smile...
You will smile all the time..............
I am at the site with the workers and the work is in progress, was missing you so I decided to do you this email.
Please call me when ever you can.
You are always on my mind.
Hugs and kisses to you
Created: 2018-02-08 Last updated: 2018-02-08 Views: 622
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