Hello Eliane, It's nice reading from you and getting your email, A break down of my personalty are as follow... I'm Antonio Benito, White Caucasian an Italian, Mum is from KZN while my dad happens to be a Italian. I studied Engineering in University College Cork (UCC) where i obtained a graduate Degree in first class. I own an apartment in Pretoria a place called Zambezi and i own a house in Cape Town Century city,I have two 2 kids and there names are Chris and Sandra. I lost my wife 5yrs ago she died of cancer, It came to me as a shocking news to me when i heard she was dead cause then i was in Itay. I had found it hard to love again and decided to remain alone because honest and truthful women are hard to find in this time of our global village but prayed seriously about it and i heard God telling me that another flesh of flesh, bone of my bones is out there waiting for me. I need my woman to be God-fearing, caring, understanding, emotional, affectionate,romantic and outgoing. she must love camping, sightseeing, traveling and a wild range of adventure because life is meant to be enjoyed to the fullest.Finding love has been real issue to me because ever since i lost my wife has not been the same anymore because most of the women out there are up for their own selfish interest and gain. I am not saying you're but most of the women in our global village are after outward stuff which soon fade and perish away soon. Already i feel we're compatible with lots in common. I have lots love, care and respect to give you if only let me come in your heart.I have a lot of love to offer and i am really looking to sharing and investing it with the woman who's going to be the last woman in ,Wow what a long and mind blowing letter, For the first time in years i felt i was going to seat for a test to reply your message. I want a woman who's going to be a unique,extraordinary and outstanding woman who's worthy of being loved and cherished at all times. Life is too short and the more we live it the more we are close to our graves...lol I will be telling you more about my interests and beliefs in relationship in my next email? What you do for a living??What are the attributes you seek in man, Do you like adventures and travels. What do you do for a living, whats your favorite colour, what do you seek in your man. Best Wishes Regards Antonio

Hello Elaine, A good morning hug i am sending to you wrapped up in love with big smiles too my special wish is you'll have a good day i hope things are pleasant each step of the way a day filled with sunshine no clouds overhead feelings of peace as you climb out of bed enjoy the fresh air be good to yourself find time to relax we only live once a good morning hug for you my friend have a good day from beginning till end may your day be filled with sunshine Thanks so much for getting back to me sorry to hear about lost, I want to let you know that i reread and read your letter over again. I feel we share the same common interest and definitely looking for the same thing in life if only we give this a chance. I can't wait to meet to you in person to express my feelings already. I truly like everything about you and long to be with you in person, you are an intriguing woman with true beauty, I feel after reading your profile and mail we may have a few things in common, I wish to find someone that i can share my dreams and ambition with and build a good solid foundation with you. if you are looking for someone that will value independence as well as interdependence where two people can work together on things that are common to both and yet retain our own identities and independent natures. I would welcome the challenge of such a relationship that may have the possibility of evolving into something more or not More of my interest are visiting the cinema, watching videos, swimming, dancing to romantic music, traveling,dining out, camping and sightseeing. My kind of songs are Romantic blues, jazz and country music. I do some other things for fun most of which are with my woman or soulmate, I wish to tell you more about this in a chat soon. About my profession, i am into Contruction Engineering My favorite colour is Blue and orange. I have just gotten a place of mine and wish to grow into a big organization. I love visiting the cinema, watching videos, swimming, dancing to romantic music, traveling, dining out, camping and sightseeing. My kind of songs are Romantic blues, jazz and country music. I need a woman who's ready to love me for who I am. A woman that's sincere, worthy, creative, honest, outgoing and outspoken, a woman who I can regard as a best friend,a comforter, a lady who's comfortable in her skin, One who is bold enough to make right decisions on her own, a family oriented woman who has goals in life and future ambitions. A woman who is able to make life worth living like in paradise, she understands my feelings and she's willing to show affection and love always. I'm not looking for a rich woman,No thats not an issue to me..But a woman who is rich with love care and affections .Do you think you can be the woman of my dreams? I love to be kept at the edge of my seat. My favorite cuisine are Italian,I also like the American food as well. My perception of an ideal date is walks by the beach when we have hands in hands and from there we can go for a candle lit dinner or something else that is nice. Now some little questions for you lol..what do you like to do for fun?,whats your favorite meal?,whats your idea of a perfect first date? whats your kind of music & movies? What are your dreams towards our communication? Will you be able to get across more of your pics across to me. Hope we chat soon and know what we have in mind for each other. Can you send me picture of you. Hugs and kisses Antonio

Dear Elaine, I am pouring you some sunshine to spend this time with you a warm toast of the morning with honey words to chew here is a mug of happy tea and as your heart is fed slowly sip each moment of this lovely day ahead now as you take your shower please know that I will pray that with each drop a blessing comes to carry you away i hope there’ll be a spring in each every step you take a stretch or two before you leave for goals that you will make mornings are the best of times to get us on our way knowing friends like us can share another lovely day. I really appreciate and love your outspokenness and honesty, I understand what it means to be used by a man or woman you really care and feel for and at the end bring shame and downcast. I believe that partners are 100% equal in a relationship and both should be able to feel they can trust each other 100% at all times. I feel that any woman who ever disrespects a man is not a caring woman at all. I am affectionate also and I have no trouble showing it for the right woman in public or private. I love to cuddle while watching a good movie, when were in bed, I love to hug, cuddle and kiss my woman at anytime and anywhere it could, be it a store,shopping mall or along the sidewalk. Im self employed.You are looking for long term, i am looking for something permanent :-) and i know it takes time and a lot of good effort to form a good relationship. I want a woman to be my best friend at all times, my sweetheart, love of my life, my partner and my soul mate all wrapped up into one lovely man. I would be all of that for her and more,I would love her with all of my heart and have nothing but good feelings for her. She should be a very caring person with a lot of good feelings, be honest, reliable,pleasant personality and have a sense of humor. I am trying not to ramble here for you but i am looking for the "One TRUE SOULMATE". What does that mean to me? She's the person that you can't wait until she comes home from work so you can kiss her and sit down and relax in front of the TV or go out and spend an evening together. The person that just calls to see how your day is going but knows that it just got much better because you are talking to each other. She gives you a lift when you are down and can always make you laugh because you know each other so well. The person that can simply lay in bed with my head on her chest and our legs interlocked for hours and talk about what's on your mind. She is your best friend, your lover, your equal and if lucky your Wife and Mother of your children. If I didn't scare you by being so serious and this sounds like something that would interest you then we could probably hit it off if you are up for it. I'm not afraid to go for it and this is what I want from life because I deserve the best. I am opening up to you because i read what you had to say and i think you could be the best. You have high standards and that's usually because you expect to get what you give from a relationship. This is almost a page long already. I feel that we have broken the ice and have found come very common grounds between us. Why not let put our emails into our voice, what your number? As i wish you a great productive day. Hugs and kisses Antonio

Hello Eliane, Thanks so much for taking your time to write back to me and giving me your number, Yes i do have WA on my phone dont know how to activate that i will call my daughter and ask her how because she was the one who download it on my phone, i will ask how how can i set it up, Eliane Its good to get an upfront and sincere response from you. We need time to talk to each other and get to know much more about each other, There are lot of things we need to know about each other and i am not a kind of man that rush into relationship or marriage. It takes time, time will tell and we have to wait for the lord timing,We have to be so sure and certain of ourself about making sure that this relationship is what we want out in life, We have to be sure and certain of ourself that this relationship is our future and everything. We dont just jump or rush into things anyhow. Everything in life happen for a reason, my being lonely for a very long time makes me want a companion and a woman to share my feelings with, I'm in search of a soulmate to spend the rest of our lifes together. No one is perfect and we could only give it a trial. Though it is right for us to learn from our mistakes. Which makes you resisting and having hard time trusting a man again in your life. A relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY and HONESTY, all this paramont fact must exist in a relationship before anything can work out of it. I'm a man of my word and will always stand by my word.I am a caring and loving man, Open minded and Upfront in every aspect of a relationship. Being scared wouldnt solve it. Your being scared will definately overcome you because you are being unfaithful and not being Trustworthy in the lord. Faith is the substance of things not seen, but the evidence of things being hoped for why not put your Faith and Trust in the Lord Hope your night was well splendid as i wish you a productive and pleasant moment Love always Hugs and kisses Antonio

Dear Eliane, Shadows of yesterday have faded away sun has reappeared it's a brand new day birds singing their song loud and clear announcing to the world a new day is here sun appears in the east has begun a new quest in the middle at noon and then sets in the west wishing you contentment and peace along the way Good morning to you have a nice day Eliane love and friendship is what I feel with you it is not just that we are lovers we are also friends and that is what makes our relationship much better. Yes I am for real .The greatest of lovers don't make the best of friends remember that, and when there comes a time when you feel that things can't get any worse, think of me for I can try my best to bring you all the happiness in the world. I want to grow to love you more and more everyday and i do not know right now what I would do without you. Sometimes i would like to think my love for you is like a great dream i don't want to wake up because i don't want to lose that love i will be by your side whenever you need me and I hope I am and always will be in your heart and in your dreams forever As i wish you a productive day Hugs and kisses Antonio

My dearest beloved Eliane, Thanks for getting back to me i really appreciate your effort toward your helping me out yesterday my love you are one in billion my love darling so sorry for getting my email so late i had been so busy with work going on, and when i get to my room at night i get so tired honey. Yes my love its a big mall that is the 1st face of it darling the second face will be opposite it my love i mean the second building my angel, I do both my angel supervision and build thou i do have a someone i hire here as my supervisor but still i still do the job and help in building as well my love. Yes i know you work with little one honey all is going to be alright my angel. My dear beloved wife non of us in this life needs to be alone honey we all deserve someone in our life to hold us, love us care for us, someone to make us feel so important, special in life and to be loved. Honey i could describe you with one word... delicious i dream of you here with me with nothing on but our imaginations i can almost feel you here.... caressing me... touching me you are the fire burning inside of me you are my passion for life.In the deep of the night i dream of your touch i am dying to feel your touch all over my body..i can feel the fiery passion of desire begging to be shared in a blissful night of paradise i love the way you love me i want to evoke such a passion within you that leaves us both breathless..You are the fire that burns the passion within my soul..Loving you makes me desire you even more did you dream of me touching you last night?The passion we share together just leaves me wanting one thing… more i want to make love to you every minute of every day.When you can count all the stars in the sky; that's when i will stop wanting you. Hope your day was good at work my angel today, Just got to my room not quite long decide to write you before i go fror my supper i will get back to you my empress. You are my forever Antonio

Dear beloved Eliane, I want you to know that you brighten my days and give me the strength to carry on, fighting everyday for you. You revealed the deepest emotions and feelings i have kept inside of me for so long. Feelings I didn't even suspect to be. But most of all you showed me the real taste of love. You are my best friend and the one i want for life, my yesterday my today and my tomorrow. You are the one i want everybody to know it! I haven't had a stronger feeling like this one i have now though i want to wake up with you.....Here it goes like a "Song'... I Want To Wake Up With You i wanna wake up with you i wanna be there when you open your eyes i want you to be The first thing that i see... I wanna lay by your side, Baby i wanna feel every beat of your heart and throughout the night i wanna hold you tight... All the love inside me has been sleeping Waiting till the right one came along You can share the love that i have been keeping. Baby You can put the music to my song i wanna wake up with you i wanna reach out and know that you are there i want you to be the first thing that i see i wanna wake up with you and throughout the night i wanna hold you tight i wanna wake up with you all the love inside me has been sleeping Waiting till the right one came along you can share the love that i have been keeping You can put the music to my song i wanna wake up with you i wanna reach out and know that you are there i want you to be the first thing that i see i wanna wake up with you i wanna lay by your side, baby i wanna feel every beat of your heart and throughout the night i wanna hold you tight i wanna wake up with you all the love inside me has been sleeping Waiting till the right one came along You can share the love that i have been keeping, Baby You can put the music to my song i wanna wake up with you i wanna reach out and know that you are there i want you to be the first thing that i see... I wanna wake up with you Wish you a great day with your grand children, with your sister and her hubby Love you my beloved empress Hugs and kisses Antonio

Dear beloved Eliane, Every day i wish you were here holding me tight in your strong arms with all what i am going through. Every night i lay in my bed dreaming of you, so sweet and peaceful. You're the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. Missing you so much is breaking my heart into many pieces. I wish you would come to me and make me feel so beloved and special to feel your arms on my body and tell me its all going to be okay, my love. I love you more then anything in this world.. I want to walk on the beach with you. It would be so peaceful and romantic as we sit and watch the sun as it sets.Being with you makes me happy. You keep me alive. I'm so lucky I found you, the woman of my dreams. I hope I never lose you, if i did then it would break my heart so badly.Thinking of you makes me smile 'cause knowing that you love me so much means the world to me. You're so sweet like the smell of roses and you're so romantic like the sunset. Your love is what's keeping me strong. I am so depressed right now and your love is all that is keeping me strong. I love you so much.I can wait to be with you physically one day and forever more Babe want to let you know last night that am still waiting for the guy to come back to his office Love always Antonio

Dear beloved Eliane I don't care how many men like you or how many women may like me to you will allways be the one i love at the end of the day, but if i ever think of the pain without you it just kills me because i never wanna be apart from you. You are my angel in my heart, you have brought me wings to fly. Why would i ever dream of being without you, belive when i say this i dont ever wanna forget your voice sounds. I need your voice to guide me through the day..If you wern't in my life i wounder where i would be right now. These words are all i have to prove that i love you so much more. Thanks so much for the wonderful pictures you sent to me you look so adorable and beautiful. Hugs and kisses Antonio