Its good to hear from you. How are you and how was your night? I like what you said about your self on your profile and you sound like a nice person i would like to learn more about you. Its really nice to see how this online dating service works, and see how people get to meet each other for date and all. I can also see we have a lot in common and i hope that will make a good connection for us to get along pretty well. I will be glad to tell you about my self with all trust and honesty. I have a daughter who is 8years old, her name is Melita. I'm into commercial building construction, am originally from Greece, I have been a widow for 4years and i thought i cant live a life all alone without a woman in my life and also my daughter need someone in her life who she can call a mother. I don't mean i need a woman to take care of my daughter, I have done a lot for her already and i believe i can take care of my daughter all by my self but i believe it takes two to tangle. I hope my thought of going into a relationship is a good idea.
I'm very loving, Caring , Passionate compassionate and affection man , I have a soft heart, I can easily get hurt, I love with all my heart. I believe in honesty trust and communications. I feel I am quite open minded, accepting and fully in touch with my emotional side. I love meeting new people, going new places, learning new cultures and customs. One of my favorite dates is simply a walk on the beach,the beauty of the ocean,the sound of the surf the sharing of that moment with someone special. I love to collect books all summer to read all winter. I love to crochet and am learning to knit. I love to do crafts and tend to be quite creative. I like classy things. I am tone deaf and can't sing. But do anyway, loud and brassy. I am my own party. I almost always have a good time. I love to dance, Slow and fast.
I'm a romantic at heart, but try to be logical too. I'm looking for a woman to love and grow old with ,someone to love unconditionally a lifetime, To have someone who will love me back in return ,someone who will never let go of me, someone to spend the good and bad time with, My dream is to Love her and cherish every moment we spend together, To fly with her and making love , to die from her touch , to burn from Her kiss, to melt when she will be looking at me , to love her for the rest of my entire life, I really want someone who has a kind spirit, a warm heart, and who wears a smile 51% of the time , A special woman that has a kind heart to give as I can give. I want to be the hero of my woman, I want to be the one to take away her pains, Put a millions smile on her face, Love her more than she could ever imagine, Cherish every moment we spend together. To love her deeply with all my heart, Someone to wake up each day telling her how much i truly love her. Tell me more about your self. I have few questions for you though.
What do you do for a living? Are you willing to get married? How would you like your perfect match to be like? Are you ready for a long term relationship? have you been seeing anyone on the dating site lately? is there anything interesting on the dating site? Well am new to this online dating thing as you know and I'm looking forward in meeting my perfect match, i know no one is 100% perfect but i need the right woman who will love me for me.
WOW, I guess i have said so much about my self in just one email well i feel i should be open enough to tell you as much as i can about my self. I hope to hear from you again and learn more about you.
Have a great day.
Good Morning Carole,
How are you doing and how was your night? Its really nice to learn more about you. We really do have a lot in common you know? as you know i'm new on the dating scene as well and i have not had any experience maybe it would be nice to have the experience together or we might just be perfect for each other who knows? lol. I am rather attracted to your honesty, I don't know what to say this morning lol, but tell you another thing about me, it is an important twin question.
1) Do you know what your purpose here on this earth is?
Why are you alive?
2) What is the purpose of having a life with someone...having a mate?
These are questions any good living person must have answers to, I do not know about perfection or hundred percent righteousness but in an old article i remember very well, it reads, What is the use of a bitter nut, which we eat and it is bitter, yet it has no segment, the writer said, what is the use of life without happiness? It is the duty of ground hornbies to devour corpse , the duty of vultures to devour road kills, it is the duty of humans to be humans, but we barely do our job, we do not even know our purpose anymore, It cost way less to feed some hungry people and more to buy a car, but the true joy and peace you feel when you feed a needy is far greater than that of a new car, We have been misled my a mistructured society and most people think being alive is about finding wealth, when the true wealth is in how less we need, not how much we get. LOL.
Now what is the purpose of having a life partner, Because one can never make sense, but two can surely tangle, You will only know the worth when there is someone you know you cant live without. someone you 'd trade your life for without regrets,. Seriously there is a big difference between thinking you are good and really knowing you are good.Now we live in a world where men are becoming animals in war and politics, but i refuse to follow the crowd, I can lead a good life.
I don't know if you can show me that wonders can be true but if there is ever a day you think of me for a sec out of the blue and a smile escapes from the corner of your mouth, then you must question what it means lol. My mother told me there was something about my father she thinks no woman can ever resist him, sometimes she says she sees that in me lol. She died at the age of 76, she was very active and being an only child i was like her source of joy, She would wonder in past years when the time will come that i will become a complete man, so i tell her not to worry, when the time comes i will find love and all other good things will follow. but i didn't know she was going to leave me so soon. that was a sad one there. My little girl is smart, she would never argue with you, she says sometimes same points have different views and no matter how dumb a person is, if we give him a chance to express some of his ideas, we may in a strange way still learn something from him lol.
I don't know how tomorrow will be , but what i know is that, If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one.lol
What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in an instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have.
thanks for communicating with me and building a chance here. Have a wonderful night.
Please write soon,
Good Morning Carole,
How are you and how was your night? Now i am having an affair with my computer lol, I go to work looking at it and come to run to it,lol, how soon shall my love come take over? hehehe. When i run to the pc and finally see your name on it, a big smile escapes my mouth and i feel yeah i have another chance to to build the dream life and yeah it seem started lol! There is no mission without a vision, so the dream here is what we have in common, maybe i should just tell you how a typical day in the dream life looks like for a picture here, .
I wake up to her fresh breathe on my neck, make her breakfast and bring to bed so i can get paid with a kiss early in the morning lol, we probably go in shower together, i would love to drop her at work myself , while i return to my home office, i would love her to distract me most of the time while i work, i can chase her round the house, in fact a good ip in the pool at midnight would be fun. But who says such life cant be anymore? it takes will and zeal above all things. Who says i cant have the good life, i know i want it and would get it. After all people do almost anything for money, but for me, i will do everything for love, it is about compromises , sacrifices and forgiveness, how hard could that be, you only need to remember everyday that if you cant forgive her, you dont deserve her lol. I think Life can be sweet if you really want it to. I am still lucky to get your attention.
When you feel it , you can know it, for Love needs no map, for it can find it's way blindfolded. I just want to make my way to the depth of your heart first and see what it feels like, Guys always seem to wonder what it takes to get a girl. Like, what do they have to do to make a girl notice them? Guys have to realize that they have to be sweet, caring, gentle, honest and still have that sweet little thing about them that drives any girl crazy: and that's reaching her heart. No matter how much you try, if you don't reach her heart, it won't ever be worth-while lol. Yes my daughter speaks Greek and French
I am working on a project out of the state right now. am building a church but i should be back home in 10days.
You would be the first person i see once i am off sea lol, but before then, everyday i shall send my thoughts your way until i can behold and stare in those sincere eyes, but i think more luck is this opportunity to know indepth about you so when we finally meet i dont think we would be strangers lol.
i will be waiting impatiently for your next note, . My daughter is here with me,You will like Melita, she looks much like her mom and everybody says she is the sweetest lol.
Have a wonderful day, write soon.
Your new friend,
Good morning my dear Carole,
How was your day yesterday? I trust you had a swell time lol. I always enjoy reading your emails. I don't know how to explain this, but i know if i don't get a message from you i will feel bad, i know i do think about you momentarily and i find myself smiling for no reason, then i look in the direction where you are wondering if you can see the same sun, moon and stars as i do lol. Yesterday was fun for us too, we were at the site working and trying to finish up the out side part of the building, the workers i employed here are so friend and i have a team that we really do work together over and i call it the whole ten men crew, The Musketeers lol. Tokunba, Adigun, Ian, Mafoose, Walsh, Chan, Paul, Izaak, Zaid and I, lol, most of them are French nationality, .They are my men at work but we are more of friends since i have been here over 6months ago, we have come a long way, these men are expert at work, very professional, but they play real hard too, I told them how i have become entrapped in a journey with a woman i just met and yeah now they have seen picture and they still want to hear more time over time about you.
they see me as not only an employer or friend but as a father figure too. I try to make sure my men are alright. I am one who would never make you cry, for all my life i have giving nothing but Joy to people around me. I have seen some pain in life, i have seen the goodness in people, i have been rescued by strangers, hurt by friends, i have seen that life is what we choose to make of it.
I want to give all of myself to you , i can feel fear for being hurt , but that is normal to feel, but as i am a man of God i know Fear is not of the lord so i will not give in to it, i can see this journey of ours is going well , perhaps some forces making the journey smooth lol. I will sure follow my heart all the time and i am holding your hands strong and firmly. I am one who gives nothing or i give everything, once you got me, you got all of me lol. The cat is here with us.
I am a man who is known to have no fear, a high risk taker on business but everyday in our lives actually goes through risk. I have shown you all i am, i will never pretend to win your heart, i will never hide a part of me from you. I took my last contract which is the biggest peak of anyone in my field, it cost me all and even loans to finance since it is my duty to handle local expenses till the end of the job so we get paid fully, so if i did not take such risk how can i get high gain? such is the life we live my dear, . I know i can be comfortable looking at your eyes everyday of my life, what do we call that? lol I only want someone i cant wait to get home to be with, someone who calls even when she is busy , lol, someone to come into my arms and i hold into my strong arms and whisper my wish to her ears and look lovingly into her eyes. Life isn't hard please go here with me lol.
I got to go now my dear, please write me soon ok? i will be thinking of you all day. Have a wonderful weekend.
I'm glad you think about me and also happy you feel the same way i feel for you when i get your email. My heart is full of joy. It would be nice to go and visit your sister in Germany sometime, well that means if we get along pretty well and we finally meet in person. I'm sure we are getting along well and i want the feeling to continue. I do speak a bit of French but i have some of my men that understand English.
Don't worry you are not alone in this i feel exactly the same way you feel, I have left my email open to see if i get any message from you. You have been a great part of the smile that comes to my face, each time i think about you i giggle lol. The feeling is fresh and wonderful. I just want to be happy and make you happy too.
I don't have any brother or sister, I'm the only child of my parents and i was spoil when i was growing up but did take advantage of that. I have choose to live in Warrenton because of the historical of the architecture of the city, they do have nice structure around and the construction business was really good here before. No i don't frequently travel for work i took this contract because the construction business has been really slow in US and this contract pay was attractive also would worth the journey and the stress and it would also be nice to use the opportunity to see some part of the world. It has been a great experience coming down here.
Well i have always been an happy person it take a lot to make me sad but one thing that could make me sad easily is when someone lie to me.
I believe the relationship we are building is real and our feelings are mutual, I want to be with someone that would love me for me and i would do the same in return.
I'm a very relax man and i know how to treat my woman just right, don't get me wrong i'm not perfect and i know no one is perfect but i believe if I'm in a relationship with someone I should treat her with some respect and make her feel special, I have learnt to never make my woman feel worthless and if anyone would do that to any woman i would tell you now they don't deserve any woman because that's what they would do to every woman they mean, in my case i have learn to be real and be real with my woman, love her like she's the only woman on earth because when you show how much you care for a woman you will find all the beautiful in her.
I'm not someone that judge anyone i'm someone that believe in fixing any problem no matter how hard it might be or look like.
Would you like to talk on the phone? I can give you a call if you want.. Also can you download yahoo messenger so we can have an instant chat and get to know more about each other. You can download the messenger from www.yahoomessenger.com My id is jamesavm61 add me or email me to let me know.
I hope you are having a relaxing weekend. Take care and i look forward to your next email.
its was nice chatting with you tonight, I have been thinking about you more now. I thought i share some of my pictures with you. I hope you like them. I would write more in the morning. Have a lovely night.
Good Morning my dear Carole,
How are you and how was your night? I hope you had a good night sleep because i did with lot of your thoughts on my mind while i was in bed. I hope you don't mind me day dreaming about us. I think i could be very flexible in lot of way because i have always been a very considerate man and i like to talk things through with my partner before making decision. Like i said yesterday on the yahoo chat, I believe in communication, when i say i communication, it means so many things not just keeping in touch with your partner that means communicating No its to be able to talk about your worries and concern in every aspect of your life and your daily activity, if we are in a relationship i would want an open relationship where we get to communicate about every little thing that happen in our daily life and be able to be each others best friend in helping with any good or bad situation we might be. My relationship with God is very strong and I have been more closer to him since i lost my wife, I pray every time for her and I pray for God to lead me through the right way to meet my soul mate again, someone that can be proud of me and someone i can talk to about everything, I had a good and successful relationship with my wife but i didn't think i tell her everything because she worries a lot and i get scared when she's not eating or worrying about me. Well i have learnt from that and i have decided not to hold anything back and just say it like its, believe that's another thing i have learnt. I promise you i wont hold anything back to share, i will tell you everything the way they are. I believe partners should be able to support and encourage each other.
Did you ever think of me out of the blues? lol. I wake up this days to another tune of life i feel i should write a second time, You know i am always smiling but i discovered my heart just had a true smile for the first time in these few days i started writing you, So will you tell me the truth? Are you the angel? Did God hear my cry and decided to send one of his best angels to come be my guardian? whatever it is, i don't want to stop feeling this way. Charisa once said, When it rains, look for the rainbow." so when life gives me this kind pof opportunity i seek the climax really. I think the reason i have been able to open up in speech and expression with you is not just usual, but before, The beating of my heart is a drum, and it's lost, and it's looking for a rhythm like you. So the compliments is what brings the best out of me lol.
My present and last contract is this church am building here now and when i'm back home i would like to start up my own construction company and just work local. I want to give Melita a stable life and i want to be able to be closer with my partner hopeful (YOU) I have worked so hard in my life to be able to finance and start my own construction company but what's life with a man without a loving and caring woman? to call a (WIFE) I have been looking for you and i have found you, i want to live my life with you, be happy together and plan our future together if you would want the same thing. You have captured my interest just because you are being true to yourself, well, that is something good, as they say, We attract love by the emotions we display; we retain love by the emotions we possess. and if i am able to finally fall in love with you for being you, it means unbreakable because that is one thing no one else can never be. YOU! There are two things we can never escape in life, and we can never tell how , when or where it happens, and it is LOVE and DEATH!
I pray to God that i may have found my chance and i will do everything to make the dream come true.I don't need anyone to take advantage of my weaknesses or my strengths, I need someone who will appreciate me for everything that I am. and if in this pure way you can feel sentiments for me, then it is a point to prove that. I hope you had a good night sleep honey. Have a great Sunday and I look forward to talk to you later today.
Blessing from the Lord guide and protect you for me honey
Good morning sweetie,
My own Carole, How was your night? Did you dream of us?
You are my ray of hope, just like sunshine, brightening my world, I just cant get my eyes off of your picture.
It only seemed like yesterday you came my way like an angel without wings to rock my world. To give meaning to the beautiful life i had that had no meaning and essence of family, Only because of you, I feel the presence and will of family like i said i am nit God so i dont know how tomorrow will be for us, but i said, we are only here today and my feelings are thus! Without fear or remorse i have embraced you, and i can tell you, i will not only love you, but also love those you love as if they were my own. I am an instinctive person my dear and i get this gut feeling that you have been the one taking care of people around you but i know it is time for you to be taken care of, so please give me the job lol, I want to have the best job in this world which is to put a permanent smile on your face,lol. Since the Lord says as a man thinks, so he is, so put our trust in motion and leave the rest to heaven. Like i say, you win me only because you have always been you, I mean if i fell in love with you for beauty,m how long shall i travel to see more beauty? if i did for smiles i would still see more but if i do for you being you, then no worries as that is who no one else can ever be lol. Seriously i think we are lucky to have this medium to explore each other's mind here. Though i still can never resist your sincere smile.
We all fight in this world, go to war and have condemnation hence we forget that we can never leave without each other, seriously if we think it deep down the we will know and remember our purposes, i mean what would a police man do without criminals? What would the rich do without the poor? what would the Christians do without the Muslims or Jews? what would the white do without the blacks? We were all created for each other and that is one way to realize God himself wants a balance here lol. We had better be wise to quickly change what we can, and accept what we cant, and pray for serenity to know the difference for the only constant thing in life is change.
I told Melita About you and she was like, "Dad, i did not know you still have it in you, so you got good taste" now she has been another factor who pushed me to date again,she promised me she did not need me to be un married to care for her, sshe always said he wanted someone to look up to as a mother since her mother died when she was too young, She also said only if i knew she would leave me one day for her own family so i should be smart enough and get myself a life partner according to her. She is a sweet Girl, she talks so funny and like a 40 year old too.
Now i want to beg you for a favor, can you help me tell a woman how i feel about her? I want you to help me as you have become my friend please, tell her i could be scared about how she won my heart so soon but i chose to see the goodness in it,. Tell her to not let go of my strong hands in the journey we take. Tell her, I lie on my bed and stare at the ceiling. My thoughts - all about her, gives me a lovely feeling! Tell her If today, a smile should appear on Her face, it's because at this very minute, I am thinking of her and I am smiling too, tell her i heard, we'll never know love until we surrender to it. Tell her i am giving her my hands which equals all of me, and i know we can have a common dream and work towards the dream and live the dream life if we are determined to, love is that simple for two loving hearts. You know where to find her, go to your dressing mirror and she will be there waiting and looking back at you lol. I hope you had a wonderful night and my email makes your morning Monday morning better.
Please take good care of yourself and have a wonderful Monday honey, i will be thinking of you. Blesses
Here's my answer to your questions.
Questions and Answers
1 – What is your full name? (and no, I won’t google it)
James Alek Abraham... The way we pronounce Abraham in Greece is Avraham so that's why i have it on my yahoo email because that's how its originally pronounced.
2 – What city did you grow up in? Was it rural or the city? I group up in Pireas Greece, very close to the beach. and later moved to Athens when i got married.
3 – What is your favorite food to eat? Mashed Potato, Lamp chops and Vegetable.
4 – What do you like to do in your spare time? The first thing you would do if you could do anything (other than sex)? I do like to read in my spare time, Go for a long walk, Go to the park with my daughter. I do have a lot i do on my spare time depend on the weather and who i'm with.
5 – When did you come to the States? I came to the States 3 years ago
6 – How old were you when you first married? 31
7 – If you had all the money in the world and could do anything you wanted to do, what would it be? Help the need
8 – What are your hopes and dreams for Melita? I want her to grow and be a successful lady/woman
9 – When you think, “gee, I want to have fun” what is it? What is fun to you? I love the beach, i love going to the cinemas, I love going into a nice restaurant. and lot more
10 – What is your favorite song and why? I love country songs and some classic songs because i have always grow up listening to country songs.
I hope that give you some insight about me and if you do want to know more just go ahead and ask me. I would answer all your questions with honesty.
Questions and Answers
Will you tell me what you do in the field there? I work with a group of laborer and we all do the heavy fixing including the bricks laying, the pillars, Roofing, anything you can imagine in a building i do it except for the wiring, we have a specialist for that. I know you're in construction and on a contract building a church but are you doing the hammering? Yes i use that too but no so much because i have people that work with me that would rather do the hammering work. What kind of church? Its a Catholic Church What is it made of? Its made of brinks and Concretes I've never been to Africa so I have no idea what it's like. One of my friends went on a missions trip to one of the countries on the African continent but I never saw any pictures. Since you've been in Africa, have you seen any wild animals?
LOL I have not seen any wild Animal and I dont think Africa is how most people look at it because I'm in the major city of Benin which is Cotonou and you would see a lot of nice houses and nice places, their beaches are really nice though I enjoy going there. I've heard that the water isn't safe to drink there, is that true? No the water is not safe so i buy bottle water. You've been there 6 months, what's the most exciting thing you've seen there? How the people live their lives here, the Zoo and the beaches around. I want to be able to see it in my mind through your descriptions. I may never be able to go there. Have you taken any pictures? Yes i have lot of Pictures in my Camera Would you mind sending me some? I don't know how to get them of my camera maybe i should wait till i get home so i can take it to the studio and get it printed out. I'd love to see it!
Is Melita excited to get back home or would she rather stay there? Yes's very excited going back home and she can't wait to see her friends again Or would she rather be anywhere Dad is? :) lol She's a loving daughter and she would always want to be around her dad as much as she can
Are y'all super close? Yes very close Does she ever ask you for a brother or sister? No. I would have loved to have my dad to myself sometime. With 5 kids around, he was fairly busy. He was a chemical engineer in a manufacturing company and traveled a bit but his hobby was fixing old cars so my favorite times with him were when he needed help with the cars (sitting in it and revving the engine, hitting the brakes, getting him the tools). I only tell you that because I would think she really loves being wherever you are. What does she like to do (other than shopping)? I know she's important to you so I would like to know more about her. She likes swimming as you know, she like going to the theater to watch Lion King, she does like quite a lot of out door activities for the kids
I can't wait to hear more. I want to know everything about you and I want to hear about all 50 years. :) LOL, I will need to write a book if i have to tell you about the whole 50 years of my life lol
Now its my turn. You actually refused to leave my mind.
What you have done with my heart, you got no idea. You actually make me want to sing lol. Ok i got this questions for you too, breathe deep inside and out then answer after thoughts.
Do you have believe that magical love still exists even in this odd times we live in?
If you were to choose between your family and all wealth in life , what would you choose?
If i ever for any reason have tears in my eyes , what would you do?
If i kiss your neck for so long in the middle of the night while you sleep, what would you do?
If i brought you breakfast in bed will you pay with a kiss?
Would you rather buy a thousand dollar wrist watch than give a hundred to someone in need?
Have you won the first and best victory which is over yourself?
Do you love yourself enough to know why you deserve love from others?
Would you leave business environment with me from time to time so we can run away for vacation, just the two of us?
Do you believe a man is truly in happiness without love?
and now without fear, my last question, Would you be mine today , tomorrow and forever? They say, Guys have to realize that they have to be sweet, caring, gentle, honest and still have that sweet little thing about them that drives any girl crazy: and that's reaching her heart. No matter how much you try, if you don't reach her heart, it won't ever be worth-while. well, with luck and chance, this medium did let me know your heart and reach it lol. The only odds i see possible is if we ever lied to each other and i know i will never do that in my life, i can never build a relationship on lies , and i know for sure you can never lie to me, if so then meeting will only be a compliment my sweetheart.
So while we were on the usual cruise on boat while not working, yeah i really imagined you on the boat with me, and your head on my chest lol.
Be sure to take good care of yourself for me my love, till i can come do it myself hehehe. Have a great day honey. I need to get back to work now.
Hugs and kisses
Good Morning My Angel,
How was your night? Did you sleep well? Did you dream of us? I don't know how to say this but you have totally refused to leave my mind and I'm loving every bit of it.
I can't wait for that day i will be able to look into your eyes and tell you i much i want to be part of your life and i want you to be part of my life. My feelings are firm and strong since i know there has been no pretense between us and this is a good step to a new beginning of a new life.
Grab love while you can lol, Love is like swallowing hot chocolate before it has cooled off. It takes you by surprise at first, but keeps you warm for a long time.
As food is needed for the body, them same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love ,. I remember a quote that says Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones. hehehe.
What kind of work did you do in Greece? I have been doing construction all my life, its more of a family business.
Do you have a hairy body? Yes i do mostly on my Chest, hands and legs.
Where do you like to be kissed? Your neck? Or?? Yes my neck and my lips off course. also anywhere else you would like to kiss. *wink*
I hope you had a wonderful night sweetheart. Have a lovely day honey.