Romance scam letter(s) from James Chandler to Karin (South Africa)
Letter 1

Hello my dear, hope you are having a great day? thanks a lot for trusting your email with me, i must confess am really happy to communicate with you Via Email,,, I will cherish a long standing relationship with you without predicting what it will lead to for now. It is just not possible to tell you everything about myself in one day or in a single mail to you, I would like to get to know you better and also learn more about you and lets see how its goes,, first Let me start by given you a brief introduction of me,my names are, (JOHN J CATER,) A Canadian Citizen But Lives and work In South Africa on a Contract, White/Caucasian,6”2 height, 60 years old, widower for 8yrs now, I have come to the realization that life is short, we need to break the rules sometimes, forgive quickly, love truly and never regret anything that makes us smile, here is a brief of what I think my life revolves around at the moment;I am a God fearing, straight forward, honest, caring, loving, trustworthy and understanding man that loves to be around loved ones, I am a soft hearten man who loves to help people if i can and I’m also into charity, 10% of my annual income is been given to the orphanage home. I'm Self Employed Architect/Construction, I own my company 100%. I was born and brought up in Ontario Canada, My Dad is from Ontario, and my mum from Rotterdam Netherlands. I was married to a Spanish woman, lost my wife in a terrible car crash 8yrs ago back in Canada, My whole life crashed down when i lost her,we were married for 11 years and very much in love till the time she passed away. her death was really a devastating one which lead to my lost of appetite for woman,, i actually just wanna give the online thing a try because my friend met his partner online, Lol, and i think its time for me to move on now with my life as she is in a better place right now. I have a daughter ( Sophia) She 29years old, Married and and Happily living with her Husband,
I do want a serious relationship with an understanding woman because I’m not getting any younger, but getting older so I don't want to play games and I want a serious relationship with a woman who is willing to, I have not been in a relationship for long time now because I don’t enjoy playing around with emotional feelings, I don’t need that kind of thing in my life right now. I want a relationship that can lead to something great, my kind of work moves me around, so a right Any woman's location doesn't matter to me. As i'm ready to relocate for the right woman. After all if a man truly loves a woman nothing can stand in his way. I really think it's time to build a relationship for me and my partner. I am even surprised that I got to find you interesting when I saw your profile, I really hope I am not scaring you by all this I am saying,

I`m athletic build, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, a good listener, and a positive person, I am real easy person to talk to and a loving and outgoing father, My respect for women makes me go any length to spoil and pamper them to a fault, Lol, if that will make them happy and give me happiness In all my endeavor in life, I put God first in everything i do, who has really helped me and elevated me to the position I am today. By His grace, I can say that I am contented and financially secure; this I do not take pride in, but put myself in endearing myself closer to Him.. I enjoy playing sax and Guitar which i do often at my leisure time,, and enjoining watching soccer as well in a cozen evening in my setting room. I like going to the movies,or watching movies in my room . I like swimming,listening to music and dance to any kind of music,and also a good cook.I am a family oriented person,love children and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.

It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for that special person I hope to share my thoughts,feelings,experiences, dreams and fantasies with, and to offer the best opportunities for any kid that might be included in my life, both mine and that special person children, and that is my focus at this time and I also do enjoy my job,
I hope this friendship will lead into something great, I am not really looking for a woman to jump into bed with, but a woman that i will spend the rest of my life with, I don’t just want to rush into any relationship, which will not last long, I want a relationship that can lead to something great, I am ready to relocate for the right woman, I have had series of jobs in the past and I think it's time to build a relationship also.

I would like to know more about what makes you that special person you are today, I want to know more about your family,your background, your life experiences, past relationships, how long have you been on this online thing, where are you originally from, what you do for a living, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me. I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone!. come on and share it all with me, as I am not here to talk to you about general things such as cars golds, partying, the weather, sports, e.t.c. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. The friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance,quality,love,faithfulness honesty truth, care, support, trust, and potential.Hope i didn't write much of a novel? lol. I'll close this email now, and hope to hear from you soon, have a great day ahead.
Letter 2

Thank you so much my darling for the time you took in written me a long mail about you, and most importantly your honesty i saw on the mail,,Am really looking forward to a great Relationship with you!!! and am so happy to know that you are ready to move on with your life now,,, going back to your childhood So sorry to hear that,

More About Me

I am really going to put a lot of effort in writing you this letter to you,I hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today.
The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact I am a very straight forward kindhearted and God fearing man, so when I do, you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions, I have been into 2 relationships and these are also my only partners I have ever had since my wife's death. , but guess what? the relationships ended because of my partner's betrayal and infidelity (cheating) and the other 1 ended because the trust so the love was not there to grow. I know this might sounds strange to you, I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have sex with someone if I am not in love with her,, because i don;t just want to have sex i want to make love, more about my business ; I do travel within the world for contracts. This have made me travel a lot i have been to Europe Asia,, south America and have been to some other Africa countries, but first time in Africa, but planning to buy a house over here, and stay permanently after my Contract becauase i like here,

The reason I came on to the internet is to find that special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul,, and because I do not have the time to meet others in a public setting, the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone is through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise. The very reason I am interested in establishing a friendship with you, is because I feel I have a lot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a man of substance and I am very unique in today's society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a man of integrity and my word is my honor!. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others. For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, a trustworthy woman is all i need in my life now, a woman who is ready to stand by me without doubt in her heart, a woman who will not run at the sight of a little problem, and i would do same in return, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart..thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your,
Letter 3

Hello sweetheart,, hope you are having great day?? You Sounds very Nice and calm, and sorry for your experience with your ex, that was really bad,
Thanks for making me happy with your voice, from my heart i do appreciate cause am really enjoying communicating with you,i think its a way foward to a successful Relationship,, more about me. Like you know on my previous mail,, I was born in ontario Canada,, But obtained my degree in the university of Alicante In Spain,, you sound nice and cool to me, i haven't been telling any one about myself for a very long time now, am new to this and i need someone to trust in my life.

I am a generous, kind, financially and emotionally secure man. I am a confident and driven person who tries to enjoy life to the fullest. I enjoy setting/reaching goals both personally and professionally. I have been described as multi-faceted and well rounded with many interests. I enjoy staying fit and active with cycling and running. I also love a motorcycle ride on a nice summer day, Most importantly, I am secure with who I am. I try to always keep the work / personal balance in check. I have a sense of outdoor adventure and love to travel. Whether it is scuba diving in the Caribbean or losing myself on the streets of a new city, I enjoy taking in new cultures and seeing new places. I only wish I had more time to travel and check off more places on my "must see" list. I am a casual kind of guy, who would much rather like wearing Glasses dressed Casually , but I do enjoy dressing up for the right person and occasion. Laughter,, and a great conversation are key for me. I do enjoy some independence, but love spending time with people close to me

I am very open minded about" the woman of my dreams" Age, circumstances, distance are NOT important. You could be 25 or 81, live next door or 3000 miles away, a waitress or a millionaire, it makes no difference,
Can't wait to read from you .tell me what you do on your free time,, your favorites,, like colors, foods, Songs,, Movies ETC, and be of liberty to ask anything you would like to know about me,i am ready to give you an honest answers, have a great day ahead.
Letter 4

For i want in a Relationship.
Hello Darling Am really enjoying my Conversations with you all your dreams your aspirations and your compliment your wolds of encouragement,, it actually making my day!! you sound like all i want in a woman, like really you are my perfect match I think so, and i have gotten really used to you that without talk to you my day would never be complete, and want to meet with you in person, i love your honesty sense of humor,and i want to establish a lasting relations relationship it you, what a wonderful song

As for me, I want something long term, get to know each other and grow with each other. Be able to accept each other now and in the future as we change and continue to grow. Someone who will be there for me, and I for Her in difficult times, I get great pleasure out of the simple things in life. I want my girlfriend to see those simple things and enjoy them. I want to be the last person she thinks of before she goes to bed, and the first she thinks of when she wakes up in the morning,, I want a relationship that we can be the best of friends, and bring the best out in each other, I want a relationship with someone who I Can trust, and who is not going to run away at the first sign of trouble in that relationship, Someone who can help me and work harder with me when problems arise, A woman who will love me and my Daughter unconditionally and I the same for Her, An honest, trustful trustworthy and God fearing person, expressive woman, be able to communicate to me there feelings, fears, dislikes, wants and dreams. Call me in the middle of the day just to say hello, say I love you, or just to tell me something funny that happened, A relationship that we can build on and get married down the road and have our own family, Marriage isn't a must, but the commitment HAS to be there, A woman who will accept each others friends, I know that I am not flawless and don't expect my future girlfriend, or rather wife to be flawless either. But hopefully we can accept each others flaws and help each other work on them, I truly believe that we can reach this level, I don't expect completeness with each other in the beginning, but I SERIOUSLY believe that we can reach that level, I am adjustable and I am usually very happy at the moment for meeting you, I believe and sense that I can make you very happy and that you and I can be very happy together,,Bye for now and hope to wounderful day ahead,

Letter 5

IIts really nice to receiving your mail my dear, its really shows how matured and determined you are in the things of life, so I thought it would be helpful if I should also shared what are some of my interests are,, what some of my passions are and also what my likes and dislikes are. This will give you an idea about the man you are communicating with and probably spending the rest of your life with.

Interests: I tend to have a variety of interests, such as the following: I enjoy the outdoors, I love spending time by the water (lakes and oceans) as the water grounds me and provides me with inner peace. I too enjoy a nice sunset especially by the water (romantic).I enjoy walking, swimming, anything with outdoors involvement and playing like a kid when am with my partner. A swing is always lots of fun especially if someone is pushing you, I have a playful spirit. I enjoy quality time spent with my daughter, I enjoy a good movie, all types of music, reading, some sports, different types of foods. I am open to trying new things. The bottom line is I am active and have a tremendous amount of energy to expend.Lol

Passions: I have a few passions in my life and I would have to say that I am passionate about being a good father, about my career, about developing relationships (in general), and I really look forward to being passionate and having a passionate intimate relationship with you. I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to the heart, my heart. Generally, this is my love and passion for humanity and for who will come into my love life.and God brought you,

Likes: I like many things as I am open minded and flexible person. Generally, I like everything providing that there is no dislikes of mine infringing on the likes. Some of my favorite food (restaurants) consist of Chinese, Mexican, Italian with Jamaican sauce and rice being my favorite. I love red licorice and my favorite flowers are carnations. I do enjoy traveling and thanks to my job. I would like to see castles close up some day and stay in a beautiful hotel close to the sea. I am thinking about a holiday over at the Caribbean. Not sure where I would like to go for now with you after my retirement.

Dislikes: There is not a whole lot that I dislike, however; the things that I do dislike seem to be based on values and character, allow me to explain. There are certain things that I have no interest in, however; these are the things that I clearly dislike or choose not to tolerate are: disrespect, unfaithfulness, dishonesty, lying, cheating, mean spitefulness, being judgmental, callousness, harsh words, hurtful acts, insulting people, displaced anger, unfairness, injustice, selfishness, being inconsiderate, blaming, not taking responsibility, self-contentedness, rigidity and anything else that can cause damage or be damaging to another human being.

Let me see, what else can I share about me? I have a strong work ethic and I never give anything less than my absolute best.

I trust that you are having a lovely day, but if there is anything else you would love to know or share about likes, dislikes, passions, and interests, do not hold back, am glad we are having this better conversation.

i always look forward to your mail.much love from my heart.
Letter 6

Love heightens our emotions and awakens our senses. What we feel is sometimes sweet like the aroma of flowers and earth after a spring storm. Sometime it is stimulating like the first sip of coffee in the morning. It can feel heavy, drowning us in just a whisper. It will displace your reality. We begin to awaken each day with a ravenous hunger for our lovers touch and an insatiable thirst to caress them. The sight of that person and their scent send unspoken and yet shouted signals to our body. No wonder love is so powerfully addictive. kisses and much hugs
Letter 7

Good morning baby, thank you very much for making me happy.
How was your night my angel? I hope you slept beautifully like an angel. I did also because I am happy and believe I have met the most beautiful and lovable woman ever. my sleep was very sweet my dear. I am taking my morning coffee getting ready to go to out and all I am thinking of is you. I really do believe this is a dream Come true, because I have never felt so strongly about a relationship in a long time in my life. Something inside tells me this is it. This is the woman I have been waiting for. I just hope it is true, as I might be rusty in relationships considering the fact that I have not been dating anyone in a very long time,, Ever since, I have devoted my time totally in my job, and to bringing my little Girl up. I hope this will not be a problem for you. But I do assure you that I learn fast and I am totally ready to come out of my shell. (Smiles) I know you are sleeping soundly now and I wanted to quickly drop this short note letting you know you are in my thoughts and in my mind every second of the day. I am wearing a big smile now, something I haven’t done in a long while, all because of you.
Well, enough of all that my dear, I will go get somethings ready and iron my clothes for today's chores. We will chat much later when you are online hopefully. Please know that I want you so much and I am willing to go the extra mile to make it work.
stay blessed, kisses,
Letter 8

Open your life wide, and take me in forever. I will never be tired—I will never be noisy when you want to be still...nobody else will see me, but you—but that is enough—I shall not want any more, would always be there for you,

On my way to work today,
Letter 9

Hello my Darling thank you so very much for making your time to mail and call me,,, i really do appreciate and i know am in a safe hands with, but before i leave,,
I will share my prayer that I prayed this morning with you,, I asked that God Bless our Union together, That it be filled with Love, Peace and Happiness, That we would be Bless with a Long Life together with Good Health and financial security, I asked that our kids be Blessed with our Union, that we would be the best parents to them and provide all the Love and support that they will need to grow into healthy young adults, I asked that our family be Blessed, I asked that our extended family and friends be Blessed with our Union and that all that our life together will touch will know the presence of God,, have a blessed day ahead my love, kisses
Letter 10

i just want you to know that Ever since I laid eyes on your profile, and saw your photos and the personality you stated, I knew for a fact that this was a dream come true, Everything my heart desires, In one single go Fell into my lap which make my feeling for you grow each passing day... now I know now my life is complete. No more struggles Or battles to compete.

Letter 11

A very good evening to you honey, trust you having a wonderful evening? i thank you very much for the love and kindness you are shown to me over the period of time we have been together, and for the fact you have really brought joy happiness and value to my life, i blessed the day i met you, and would forever adore you, I will hold your hand! I will protect you and never let anyone disrespect you' you are the most important thing in my life, love you lot,
Created: 2017-12-29    Last updated: 2017-12-29    Views: 1555
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