Hello Nikki ,
Well it's a pleasure meeting you , I'm sorry for the late response but I couldn't logon to the site again while I was working today. I just managed to login in now and had to search for your email as I was really tired last night. Let me try to give you a big picture of who I am and what my life has been like. I always express and communicate from the heart such that you can understand very clearly what I'm looking for. I grew up on a 162 acre farm , used to love taking care of all the animals, especially feeding them and seeing them give birth. My dad was an electrician not a farmer though. I think I still have some old fashioned country style in me. My mom stayed home to care for the farm and I. I have dual nationality ! My Parents were originally from Hungary , we moved when I was about 4 years old. I lost my parents and the mother of my 4 year old son in an auto crash some years back , that was a turning point in my life and it made me see life from another humane perspective , I don't like to talk about that much now ... I'm sure you understand. I have been single the unfortunate auto crash and almost decided not to date again. However I have been lonely and in need of emotional companionship also I have put all that sad incident fully behind me now I thought I should give the on-line world a try and hence joined the dating site. I enjoy my work , I tend to travel a lot for work. I'm a engineer, my specialization is computer aided design and drafting , which can be applied to almost all areas of core engineering including civil/electrical and even oil rigs piping. Let me not bore you with details of my work LOL ... I would like for my future woman to just be loving ... I have seen too much wars and hatred and all I need now is just love , true love in its purest form. Once I get that woman , I will really make that special one have the taste of my true love, I'm seriously looking for my soul mate. I am looking for a responsible lady with the warm family attributes, sincerity, and mutual respect, internal beauty of the person is very important for me too. I admire a great sense of humor and a sense of adventure too in my woman. Being attracted to someone is important but I think confidence is the key, I want to meet someone to go out and have fun with but that also is not afraid to attend family functions once in a while. I am looking for someone who has an open mind and likes to try new things. To sum it up, I would like to meet some new people and maybe form some new friendships that may (or may not) lead to more. I love being around my woman because she should be my closest companion. Fidelity and honesty are tops on my list of what I expect from my partner, someone who will never lie to me someone who will never cheat on me. I'm very easy to get along with ... I've been told that I'm a classy man with a big heart ... I always have a smile on my face. I consider myself to be , romantic, caring, open minded and strong too LOL , I will always protect my lady every time the need arises. I never make wrong assumptions about people , I have learned to always give people the chance to show their character. I am passionate about everything I do and that includes loving the right woman with my entire heart and soul. I want you to tell me more about yourself and about your past. Take your time to write me about all you have been through in life especially as regards relationships and send some pictures too.
Hello Nicola ,
It's my very good pleasure to read from you again ! I am very happy you are the first person that has created a good impression on me on that site. My day was great ! and it gets better now as I'm reading from you . My son is 4 years old now and the accident happened when he was just 1 year old . I have had to employ nannies to take care of him ever since .I am just a normal man that as feelings and desires like every other man , I am ready to tell you everything about me ... so you will know whether to move on or not. You sound like a happy woman despite the tough times you seem to have passed through. I will like to let you know , I will accept you and everything you love and care for . I think you are an amazing woman and I admire your strengths and I can relate with you in so many ways because we do have a lot in common. My interests include , reading ,traveling and hiking. I like being very honest and open minded even though It's a shame what some people do in relationships ... I will like to ask you some questions to:
1..what else do you like in a man?
2..What do you feel about another marriage ?
3..Do you enjoy what you do for a living ?
4..what do u do for fun and in your free time ?
I hope to find a woman that I could possibly have a new life with. I'm still searching for a woman who will make me happy till the end of my life who I can spend the rest of my life with. I am looking for love and a loving relationship, I don't know if its you? I value and appreciate friendship too that's why I am not desperate and will never be ! I hope I have not embarrassed you with my questions. One thing you should know about me is that I am fiercely loyal to those that I love. I would stand beside you through every situation and you would never need to worry if I would have your back. It's just the way I am and you will see that you never need to doubt my actions. I am trustworthy to a fault, always look for the best in others, and see life with a cheery outlook. I'm very positive in how I approach challenges and don't do well around negative people. I absolutely believe you can choose how you respond to any situation, that we don't let circumstances dictate how we act but can choose to be pro-active and not defeated. Kindly get back to me if you're still interested and remember to send your pictures . xoxox
Hello Nicola ,
It's great to read from you again ! its a great pleasure actually :-) You really made my day with the way you answered my questions too , I love the pictures you sent ! I'm convinced we are going to great heights together .I live in Catford and yes my work takes me out of the country sometimes. My Nanny lives with us , I have another one that comes on weekends and sometimes I still employ a babysitter too. Personally, I like going to beaches, watching, movies shows, musical concerts and sometime go for dinners and taste a little wine too. Fun really is a state of mind and I think pretty much anything can be fun. From playing cards, listening to different types of music, dancing, playing ping pong, swimming, sailing, traveling, meeting new and interesting people, comedy clubs...the list goes on and on. I like going out, but honestly I am just as happy at home. In a woman , I appreciate a sense of humor, understanding, honesty, trust, respect, tenderness and a loving heart ! I love when a woman is able to talk about her feelings and the ability to show it too ! I guess my first mail as answered a lot of my questions too ... Well, relationship can mean two things:1) it can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists ( It feels good !)2) Relationship also means to be romantically and sexually involved and I think we aren't at that level (hopefully it will change soon) So, I think at this point, given the amount of time we have e-mailed one another, we definitely have a friendship forming based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant. I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated. In fact, many times I felt I was taken advantage of and that hurts. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for her and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my woman, she could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss. Or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and will reward them in my own little ways. To me, it's the little things that mean a great deal to me. What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a woman who can display her affections for me any time and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate. This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many women out there that are "set" in their ways. They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advice Stubborn women are a major turn off for me. I like a woman who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded. I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well. A woman who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with.I would say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring. If I'm sad, I'd like for her to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. She doesn't has to do much, but just knowing that she's there solacing me is more than good enough. Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once knew wouldn't not stand up for me, even after she told me she loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my girlfriend or my wife, and I would always stand up for her. One thing I will always do for my woman is to protect her. Well , I cant wait to hear from you soon. Hope you are thinking about me ? I have to admit you're beginning to have a great effect on me ... I truly care.
Hello Nicola ,
It's always a good feeling when I see your mails. I am happy with our correspondence ! Please afford me the opportunity to know you even more too. You must have forgot that I already told you what I do for a living in my first email message to you . Also I do not use WhatsApp but prefer Telegram ... you should download the app on your phone, you would love it ! Nikki ,I would like to be the love you are looking for and you be the one that I am looking for too. Your beauty and sweetness captured my heart,I believe a lot can be sensed about a person just from their eyes , words and smile! Only God's creations can compare to the beauty that I see in you. The greatest gift to my eyesight is having my eyes set on you , I'm an observer of people, I like to figure people out. I like to notice the small detail about people. I like to know what makes them tick and what excites them. I like to know how to make them happy, how to make them feel special. I love the fact that you have a good heart and like to help others , that is just so like me ! I can be really romantic too. With my woman I like to surprise her by doing special things. Like leave a flower on their car windscreen. Leave a card for them at their favorite shop for the shop worker to give to them. I like to send flowers when she's feeling down. I prefer private dates, with my woman and myself alone. I guess i like the private moments when we can share intimate things. Talk about plans, desires ,feelings, I'm quite physical. I have traveled wide and far though I have very few close family members. I believe in hard work and try my best to maintain my high standard of living , the only thing I basically need now in my life is love ... love from a woman . A woman that will love me just for being me , not because she knows my account balance or because she knows my financial standing. You don't have to worry about me not being faithful or honest with you, I think I may be of great help to you as long as you prove to me you really love me and you show your commitment with little kind gestures. I'm very passionate and emotional , when I'm in love I give everything !!! I love to hug and touch and be touched. I love to show affection to my woman and i love it when she's very affectionate with me. I long to be very intimate only with my future wife so that we could be able to give unbridled passion. When i find the woman who i feel is my soul mate I look forward to when we can spend time alone, cuddling on the sofa ,watching tv/films , making out, caressing and kissing.... I can't wait to see you , because I believe now that you are all I need. I am a sexual person and I love the thought of being intimate with her in every way. I want a woman who feels the same way. Who has the same sexual appetite as i do and desires to be as intimate as i do. But all of this must be within the context of an exclusive relationship. So i will protect the sanctity of my future marriage. It doesn't matter to me if my woman has a "bad" sexual/marriage history. As far as I'm concerned, when we marry we start from fresh. I will keep in touch and hope you will do same , have a great night filled with sweet dreams ... Love always ...xoxoxoxox
Hi Love ,
From the first day you mailed me Nikki, I knew that you would hold my heart in your hands and you more than do that now ... you completely own me now and every part of me. I will look forward to that first kiss hopefully it wont end right there LOL. Have I mentioned that I am really getting into you ... You got me thinking of you a lot everyday too. When I think of you, my heart is full of love and passion for you that I can hardly contain myself. I think of spending every minute of every day with you and holding you so close to me. But then I wonder if you feel the same way ... I wonder why my heart yearns for you. I wanted love and friendship and I'm amazed that I seem to have found both in you sooner than I have anticipated . I reminisce on the past and pray that I will have a better future with you but then I say to myself I hope I'm not rushing things , I mean I hope I am not rushing you into a relationship with me. Whenever you think of me, please know that no matter how many miles separate us or how much of our lives comes between us, you are and always will be the love of my life and I don't think I will ever love anyone as much again. I thank God everyday for letting me meet you, I'v been hurt, yes ... but I know deep inside you will not hurt me , I can only imagine good things that will happen to us both . I think I need to make arrangements on coming to visit you soon, even though we communicate everyday now , I still believe I need to make the move to see you in person so I can satisfy my eyes and heart ... I wonder how I will feel though. Do you know ,I love cooking ? Haha, cooking for others is fun especially when they make lovely comments about my cooking ! My fav, dishes em ... lobsters , steak .. sounds kinda odd but that's what I love eating. I will keep my fingers crossed and eagerly await your reply. I need to go now , I'm preparing for a trip and should be on my way to the USA later in the day, I am required to execute some pending contracts. Did you eventually download the Telegram app ? I will love to keep in touch with you , please do same okay ! I love you so much and know you feel the same way about me too , have a great day ... you're special !
Hello Nicola ,
Please pardon me . I am having some serious issues here that is why I stopped mailing you . I really do care about you and believe you care about me too . I just need some time to settle my issues okay . I appreciate your email , it means a lot to me ! Thanks . xoxox
How are you doing? Well I have heard you and i will like to explain myself clearly to you before we can move on ... I'm just sitting here thinking of nothing but the huge challenge I'm facing now. According to my plans I should be leaving this country early today but I got to the airport and was about to check in when I was called by customs officials. I thought it was normal routine that wont take time only to be amazed when I was told that my luggage must be delayed, they mentioned a lot of trash which I couldn't understand but the bottom line is that I was required to pay some money before I can commence traveling. I've even threatened to sue this people here and they don't seem moved at all , they insist its government policy and there is nothing anybody can do about it ...its so frustrating.
How I want you to help me ? The truth is I have some money in the cargo which I tried exporting out with my goods , instead of doing a wire transfer. I never knew it was against the laws here I would have used the banks instead of trying to take the cash out myself. But, I was scared I might get setup if people around knew I had such huge amount of money ($2,050,000). The only issue I have now is that the cargo was intercepted by the customs here and they are asking me to pay a fine which I don't have and I know I can't do this alone anymore. I have less than $500 with me in cash now ... Please I need to know how much you can send to me so I can leave here asap. There is a little urgency as they have given me a deadline of 7 working days. I'm ready to remit 5% of the money to you, if you help me come up with the fine. I will appreciate your trust towards this and hoping to hear from you and to meet you in person. So right now i don't know whether i should smile yet or not because i don't even know what you would say, i would be online most of the day since there is really nothing else to do. I hate to put this kind of issue between us but i think it's better asking you for a loan than losing all that money, I am really waiting for you to reply my email, i am dying of impatience. Nicola , please give me a reason to smile. I will be waiting to read from you.