Romance scam letter(s) from David Lopez to Constanze (Germany)
Guten morgen Dort, ich hoffe, diese Nachricht findet dich in der besten Gesundheit, wie es bei mir ist. Vielen Dank fur den Vorschlag, unsere Kommunikation durch unsere personlichen E-Mail-Adressen zu fordern und danke auch dafur, dass ich mir die Chance gegeben habe, mehr uber dich zu erfahren. Ich bin sehr hoffnungsvoll, dass wir viel voneinander lernen werden, wenn wir dieser Kommunikation die Chance geben, zu wachsen. Ich habe uberhaupt kein Problem mit der Distanz zwischen uns jetzt, weil es hei?t, dass die Distanz nicht fur die Angst ist, es ist fur die Kuhne ... Es ist fur diejenigen, die bereit sind, viel Zeit allein im Austausch zu verbringen Fur eine kleine Zeit mit dem, den sie lieben ... Es ist fur diejenigen, die eine gute Sache wissen, wenn sie es sehen, auch wenn sie es nicht fast genug sehen.
Bitte rufen Sie mich bitte zuruck, sobald Sie mich so aufmerksam machen konnen, dass die E-Mail funktioniert, damit wir unsere Aufmerksamkeit hier lieber ziehen konnen, au?er dass wir uns in das Dating-Forum einloggen, bevor wir Nachrichten senden. Auch ich denke mit unseren personlichen E-Mails kann es eine Menge von Nachrichten enthalten und es wird jedem von uns die Plattform geben, um viel mehr uber uns auszudrucken.
Bitte verzeihen Sie mir fur meinen Akzent, ich bin nicht allzu vertraut mit den deutschen Wortern, aber ich habe von Ihnen Profil gelesen, dass Sie lesen und schreiben konnen einige Englisch und ich werde froh sein, wenn wir interagieren konnen oder schalten Sie die Konversation auf Englisch, so dass ich Kann mich viel besser ausdrucken konnen.
Noch einmal danke fur diese Gelegenheit, dich zu kennen, ich werde geduldig warten, um auch etwas von dir zu lesen. Ich wunsche Ihnen einen sehr schonen und gesegneten sonnigen Tag.
Liebe Gru?e, Lukas
I hope you are doing good now and having a pleasant time now.Thanks once again for your contact from Finya and i am also impress to have such kind of communication with you and i can see that we both have met on fate and i am taking this opportunity to tell you something about me as we are both behind the screen trying to know more about each other ....
My name is Lukas Lopez....,and as i have already told you, I am a soldier from the U.S.A army but i am now in Syria for peace keeping and will be coming home in a month time. I have been a widower for 6 years now and i am having one son who is 15 years and i came to the Finya.de which happens to be a dating site to look for someone that i can continue the life with no matter how the distance is because distance doesn't matter when love finds itself and i believe distance is just a mile and it can be closed within a twinkle of an eye by two hearts that have accepted to be together...
Talking about my self,I love friends and family, I am a fun person and make friends easily. I love life, love my family and still have some love to share with a special lady. Life can be lonely without someone...
I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and its' issues. Am honest,kind caring,affectionate,good sense of humor,easy going,free thinker,trustworthy and respect the lives of other people.....
I'm a man who lives life as it comes to me. I don't worry about tomorrow, for it will be here no matter what I do.The best days of my life are yet to come and i am looking for someone who will love and care about me for a long time relationship that can lead to marriage. Although I would consider myself be a romantic, I don't believe that life is about the 'grand passion.' In reality it is more about comfortable comrade. I am really a fun person who loves people,loves to laugh, I am very caring,love music, dancing, singing ( in my car) ! Love the church...am a devoted friend. I like to have fun,I have strong moral values with honesty and integrity being the core of my personality, am very cool, i respect my dignity....
I'm excited to see new places, meet new people and do new things.I'm not a fighter and I don't argue, life's too short but I do value friendship and intimacy.Respect is one of the most important requisites in a relationship, as are honesty and commitment.
I enjoy going out to dinner, movies, walks,and quiet times. I love nature, enjoy learning, and have a deep respect and love for children. I'm fascinated with the world and different cultures and would enjoy learning more about them....I love to laugh and like being around people with a good sense of humor. I also appreciate people who are different and even quirky.
Love Greetings, Lukas
Good evening and how are you doing? I have not heard from you today, I hope all is well?
Have a nice evening and i hope to read from you soon
Good morning to you and thanks a lot for the beautiful lines you wrote to me. I will like to move to Zorbig to look for my late mother's root. I want to know if my mother still has some family left behind because I left Germany very early at the age of 6 and I have not known or heard of any family member of my mom. I was actually raised by my aunt the sister to my late father and she is no more. She is also dead which was why i found it very difficult to know more about my mother's background. But i believe i can still find my mother's root which is why i deliberately joined the dating page so that i can have a nice contact with a woman who really knows what she want, anyway i am already glad that you want to assist me on that.
However I also want to spend the rest of my life after my service here in Syria with my soul-related person which is why i gave a try on the dating media and so luckily for me i met you there. I can already say that i enjoy the conversation with you and i want us both to take it more seriously and see how best it can lead us. I will be glad if we can both stay more focus to each other to promote this conversation to the next level. Also i will be glad if you can get yourself Skype so that we can schedule the time and always meet each other online to have some conversation and ask each other more directly of any question in case we do not understand something about ourselves Ok.
Furthermore, I am a cute caring lovable man who is into anything really at this point in my life, whether it be a serious relationship or just Dating, but know my ultimate goal is to find a mate though........My rank in the army is E-6 Staff Sergeant and i have been serving here in Syria for 4 years now but i have also been in different series of war. Actually this is my last mission and i am looking forward to come on retirement and have more time for my son and meet my soul mate and finally since i don't want to lazy about i want to set some little business. Yes it is dangerous over here in Syria and also very boredom
I really want to enjoy this phase of my life in my search and if my future mate happens to show up in front of me, I will not let her go.. My passions are meeting my future soul-mate/partner.. I believe I am a very good man with a very big heart with modern qualities.. I'm pretty laid back, down to earth, a very positive person, enjoy the simple things in life.. I'm told that I am kind, caring, generous, thoughtful, opinionated, handsome, and intelligent and have many lovable qualities.. I try to allow life itself not to stress me out and remain a happy go lucky person.. Love to kiss and hug.. I think one of my biggest flaws is being too nice and loyal to people in my life, but it is just the right thing we should all do, but in general, good always outweighs the bad.. I'm very responsible but still let the inner boy in me come out at times, OK maybe sometimes too much..
I'm very flexible in things I like to do, whether it's going out dinning or just hanging home eating pizza and putting in a DVD.. I love the monsoon season and the lightning it brings.. I'm very thought full of others and always make the best of a bad situation.. I am a widower after some years of faithfulness and love and was put out because I lost her in an accident.. I am looking for someone to spend time with and lead into a lasting long term, rest of my life type of relationship or just a now thing, I will not discount anything right now..
Someone to laugh with and try new things with and make new memories with together, hold each others for hours and hours.. To be able to have fun no matter what we're doing, as long as it is together.. I really enjoy the act of making love and/or sex and the comfort that comes with it, when the two actually make love just from the act of holding each other sometimes.. Looking so forward to meeting someone for any type of relationship at this point in my life, whatever the situation brings.. I am a caring man that loves companionship and if I am loved, I will love back as much if not more and treat a woman as God expects man to treat them.. I hope to find a woman that needs me to love her and take care of her, as I want her to love and take care of me as well..
Have a wonderful day and i really look forward to read something more from you.
Love Greetings, Lukas
Good evening and thanks for your message, I have been busy the whole of today and now that i have got some time to reply to your mail. Of course i will correct you when you make mistakes so that you can quickly improve upon your English. However i look forward to read something of you as you have written that you'll answer me soon. Have a beautiful evening and i look forward to read something of you soon.
Good morning and I hope this message finds you in the best health as it is with me now. Anyway thanks for your beautiful lines. I am so much enthusiastic about your wonderful grammar, Your words are very perfect and correct. Once again i am glad that you've gathered the necessary words in English to construct this beautiful and meaningful sentence. My son is at the moment in a boarding school in the USA and anytime he goes home on vacation, I have got a nanny who normally takes good care of him and my entire household including max my pet. I live in Virginia in the USA. In this sentence “… in case we do not understand something about ourselves Ok.” I made a mistake, I had wanted to write that, we should both feel free and ask each other any questions about our personal lives in case we do not understand something. For example; just like how you didn't understand how my son lives while i am in the service and i just explained to you. You can ask me anything at anytime and i will make sure i will provide you an answer because we have started this relationship as friends but that is not how it will end us. Instead, it will end us as lovers if we enforce much efforts and seriousness into this communication.
However i already enjoy the all the efforts you're already putting up in this communication which tells me about how serious you are and i am glad i met you from the dating site.
Indeed the internet has made the world a global village whereby you can communicate with some from a different country. I am very happy about our communication and i feel you very close to me communicating with you. I don't even know how to express the excitement that is going through my body with words but i can say i am very happy i met you there and i hope this communication can carry us both far.....
I'm E-6 Staff Sergeant Lukas Lopez, Professionally I am a mechanical Engineer, but you can call me Lopez if you like because that is what most of my colleagues call me by. I'm 181 cm tall; I weigh 90 kg, average body size, black hair & brown eyes... I have been on my own since quite a while now and I hate been on my own because Life is a short trip and too short to be alone. I hate talking about my past because I grew up as a SURVIVAL My time today is full of choices, finding myself, devotion to motherhood, my career and based on friends, making new ones, counting my blessings and challenges that life presented! What I'm Like?. My son would say am the best dad on this planet, my friends might say, A true friend, lovely and a kind gentleman, I would say. My friends say that I am 3 "G's", Generous, Gregarious and Glamorous!! I don't tell lies and I hate Lairs, I do my best to attend services Sunday and try to pray every morning and every night before I lay down in bed.
I'm level headed, realistic and optimist! I do not think to enter anything unless I think it's right and if I can give at least 100% to it. Since my widow time seemed to be right for me to enter a stable relationship as such, coupled with not yet to meet anyone I want to be with the long term. But with the weather changing and now I have more time to give 'me' and things I do is the right time for me to share with someone special meaning a woman with a slow hand''(as The Pointer Sisters sang) it would be a bonus.
For now meet my soul mate would only 'perfect'.
I am very proud father of one lovely son called Larry, who is 15yrs & I don't wanna be with someone for the sake of having someone if you know what I mean? Larry lives with me but he is currently in the boarding school until am back home from my military assignment. I was born on 14-June-1967(Germini, Twins) Zorbig Germany. My mom was German and my Dad was a Spaniard-American. I was the only child of my late parents. I'm left alone with my son alone who has been my source of happiness since my widow time. I was educated in the States and has always had high hopes of state and top military faces ever. I was been successful in my application and almost signed. I was a West Point graduate who rose to the rank of Sergeant Major and I have served in many wars (the Iraq War, Afghanistan War, Iran etc and now in Syria ).
I am a military brat, grew up on Army posts in the U.S. After high school, I earned my degree in international relations at Georgetown University's Edmund A. Walsh School of Foreign Service and received my Master of Arts in International Relations at the Josef Korbel School of International Studies at the University of Denver.... As a field grade officer, I ordered two companies of cadets and taught tactics at The Basic School, I have also served as operations officer for the 32st Marine Amphibious Unit to emergency operations off Beirut, Lebanon, and as Assistant Chairman, Joint Chiefs of Staff. Promoted to lieutenant colonel, he was reassigned to the 3rd Marine Division as Division G-3 Operations Officer before assuming command of 3rd Battalion, 3rd Marines in January 2001.I graduated with honors from The Basic School, the U.S. Army infantry officers advanced course, the Marine Corps Command and Staff College and Air War College. I have commanded Battalion Landing Team 3 / 2 during Operations Desert Shield and Desert Storm.
Now, I like most things, especially travel: United Kingdom, Europe and around the world, learn the culture of different countries. I've visited Canada, Japan, Morocco, Hong Kong, Cyprus, Bahamas, Turkey, Portugal, Greece, Belgium, France and Holland. It was an experience on the highways...Over the years I have enjoyed meeting people from around the world and making new friends, and I also enjoy things like interior design, photography, swimming, music, cinema, theater, guidance, and any other thing 'is or sounds' as fun, pleasure, an experience or even .... giggles!
I also enjoy DIY, gardening, cooking and spending time at home the comfort of my home.
In general I am a different company, a creative person, spontaneous, and tactile and even though I like the finer things in life, I am not materialistic, I worked very hard for what I have and appreciate it. I hate to offend, cannot satisfy the hypocrisy, racism and people are nice titling other in public. I do not like conflict or relationships be affected, but would have preferred a 'mutual understanding and respect' for each other. I do not mind constructive criticism and I believe in total honesty.
I'm a down to earth, caring, love, and loyal person with morals and virtues of my own, but rather open-minded, fairly easy going, witty, intelligent, and rather irreverent, sometimes ..... I'm quite humble and appreciate the little things in life that people do to me and that I am capable of doing for others. Nothing would give me greater pleasure than to make someone feel special, loved, wanted and cared for. For the right woman I would have given my all. I tend to not ask for much, circumstances have made me very independent and proud, therefore, are not too hard to please! Surprisingly, most of them are pretty conventional too, and surprisingly I did not land in my area since the time I was alone, maybe because I like to share, enjoy the people and continue to believe that there is someone out there that I should be sharing rest of my life.
I try to cherish every moment of whatever I do, wherever I am, that never is with the value & everything I have. I'm a man who lives life as it comes to me. I do not worry about tomorrow because it will be here no matter what I do. The best days of my life are still yet to come when I meet a special woman. I cannot afford to play mind games because it hurts me really a lot! Be through the worst pain in the report is not all that easy sharing with people simply because it hurts.
Music: I like the soul, soft jazz, reggae, R & B, smooth groves, some country and some rock (not much tho '). My all time favorite artists are Arron Neville, Kenny G, Luther Van dross and Diana Ross. I, like so many of his difficult to choose. Fav Songs Theme from Mahogany & Strangers on the Shore
Movies: Action, thrillers and some comedies. I watch television every day rarely. My favorite actors. Hmmm ..... I like Wesley Snipes, Kevin Costner, John Travolta, Julie Walters, Sandra Bullock, Robert de Niro, Denzyl Washington, Samuel L Jackson. Fav movie Body Guard
Food: I can not say that there is something I like but if I had to choose something that would be seafood, I'm not sorry for fishing alone! I like trying new recipes and flavors so I can cook anything and like to experiment, but my best is steaks, roast dinner on Christmas Dinner sand I guess. I have a sweet tooth, I prefer salted, cheese, etc., but have a desert on rare occasions.
Fitness: Hmmm, I'm too heavy! I like to swim and cycle. (Once I had the hope of entering the London to Brighton race).
Books I'm reading - I've been reading a series of books over the last while by Jacqueline Carey, 'Kushiel's Trilogy', except there are more books now than just the three! I love fantasy and science fiction but these days probably more fantasy than anything else. I used to read Arthur C Clarke when I was growing up, H.G. Wells, Isaac Asimov, and many more. After reading Tolkein's 'Lord of the Rings' over 30 years ago, fantasy seemed to really open up and it's my favourite switch off these days. Have read so many authors, it's hard to remember them all. Have read all of Jean Auel's novels (set in a pre-historic world), Anne McCaffrey, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Janny Wurst, David Eddings, to name a tiny, tiny few. When I was growing up, I was always allowed to read for half and hour after I went to bed, so my love of reading stems from there. Did the same with Larry and certainly Larry has blossomed from this. He read his first novel by Rudyard Kipling when he was only 6 and read it in 10 days! He's never stopped since! He's also written his first book and is hoping to publish, so am keeping my fingers crossed. I like to write poetry and had a publication, I have a collection that should be collected in a book published .... and maybe one day?
Financially; I'm stable and independent. I always provide everything for my son that he needs in life to be what he wants to be. Luckily, I have my own fully furnish 5 bedroom house and two luxurious cars... so life is good. I feel like I've accomplished a lot with my time on this planet, but still see that life without someone special to spend with is sometimes boring.
Faith; I was brought up as a Catholic and went to church every week until I was 13 years old when I was allowed to choose for myself so I chose not to attend church due to some personal reasons. I believe in the Holy Trinity and I believe in the Word of God. I always allow God to be the first and last in everything I do, because that's how I was raised. I sometimes take my son to church so that he can at least experience some of the "ritual" and gain an understanding of the church, etc.I am NOT a racist and I wouldn't mind if you share with me about your believe. You can also tell me about your religion and the culture of your country.
Honestly, I have what it takes to be a man, I really don't need something from my partner perhaps in terms of circumstances, there may some kind of help from each other helps to make things right.
I would like someone to love and respect me for who I am, who loves to take my hand and surprise me with a kiss when they least expect it, or give me a wink across the room to make me I know she's thinking or give me a call just to tell me she's thinking of me ... Because I want to do the same thing ... I'd like someone who is fun to be around, likes to laugh, joke, enjoy the great outdoors by going for long romantic walks, enjoy watching the stars at night and watching the sun rise over the ocean.
I am looking for someone who enjoys the simple things in life, just as I do. I would meet someone special that I can grow old with, and you can always look in the eye and know that the love between us is just as wonderful and exciting as the day we met. I'd like to meet someone of my type, who loves to laugh and take things as they are fun loving person, caring, romantic, someone you can share good and bad together and run it out, someone to love for the rest of my life and live happily as a big beautiful family. One i can share my dreams and ambitions with. someone can give me love and get back in return, which is the greatest happiness of existence.
I'm in the military and have been working in the Army for 30years and I'm currently deployed in Syria for Peace-Keeping, It's my last Mission here and will be getting ready for my retirement .I have been here for 4 years now and I'm now looking forward to return home very soon and peacefully.
My woman ... I would love to have a woman in my life all the parties, with, for being my friend, lover, companion, confidant ... my everything and return ...I do not care about the distance nor age, because the distance is one way and age is also a number . All is about who can make me happy and also trust her in all things and treat her like a queen and also make sure she becomes the Happiest woman Alive!
Finally, I know my past, I do not quite understand this .... but I have enough faith to continue to speed toward the future----I think I'm writing too much eh! Take care of yourself and I could be very glad if you tell me more about yourself as I have nothing to hide from you. Should you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask.
Thank You & Look Forward Hearing From You As Soon As You Can..
Hi Constanze, Happy New Month!!!
Thanks for your lines, I hope this message finds you in the best of health as it is with me. It is crazy that we have so much in common, Many thanks for the wonderful message you sent to me that showed me how serious you are, as far as this communication is concern. I really appreciate all the effort you are putting into this communication and I love everything you have already shared with me about yourself and I believe you can open up and tell me more about you. I can feel your sense of humor in everything you shared with me about yourself and I know we have a lot in common.
And now to answer your questions; It is not as if i want you to know that there are no suitable women in Virginia , NO!. Ever since i was a kind i have always made up my mind to one day settle in Germany and now that i am about to end my services soon and i also want to stay in Germany, I thought of joining a German dating platform so that i can have a nice conversation with a woman who really knows waht she want in life and also accept me of who i am so that when i come to Germany i can spend the rest of my life with her. And i can boldly say that i already enjoy the communication we are both having as at now and i really look forward to meet you soon once i am out of here. Mostly women in the states always want to have their husbands close to them and they won't agree if their husbands keeps so long outside in a foreign country and also they don't like to move to different countries. I have noticed these habbits from most of the women in the states and i didn't want to wast my time to join a dating platoform whereby i will meet someone and if i fall in love with her and later i want to move together with her to Germany then she will say NO!. I am a man full of destiny and i really know what i want in this life. I want to know more about my later mother's root and also settle in the country i was born. However i still have a German blood in me nevertheless the number of years i have spend my life in USA. And the reason why i say i am an “Army brat” is that, when i moved to the USA, i stayed with my aunt and her husband was a soldier. I really admired him of his carrer and i told him i wanted to join the army one after i have finished school. He encouraged me a lot and most of the time when i have school holidays i take me to their camp. I made friends with a lot of soldiers which equipped me to have the desire to become whom i am today.
Constanze, I really want us to continue this communication and get to know each other better because it always fills my heart with joy each time that I have the opportunity to stay in touch with you. I firmly believe in giving time and a natural course to a person. When you admire someone and you do not want to hurt that person, then you need to ensure that there is understanding between the two of you all the time... and always happiness with these, I think you can get very far. You don't need to be judgmental or cruel, and most important in a relationship; there must be trust and loyalty within the two people involved.
Now let me share with you some of my likes and dislikes, and what I look at my partner.
I like affection (giving and receiving).
I like public affections.
I like good communication.
I like to eat popcorn and curl up with a good movie.
I always want to put a smile on my companion's face and make sure she is always happy.
I like intimate conversations.
I like music and nature. I love singing, even when I'm working.
I like theatrical play.
I like comedy club.
I like long walks.
I like shopping with my partner.
I like taking slow country drives.
I like cooking with my partner.
I like self-worth and dignity.
I like sense of integrity.
I like the simplicity in life, like watching movie, a candle-light dinner together, adventure, romance, traveling, camping, visiting the beach, sitting by the fire and watching the sunset. I like playing video game with my son when I'm less busy during my off days. I love to laugh a lot even when am in a sad mood but I get serious when necessary.
I dislike being treated like I am not the body when in public with my partner.
I dislike people who are unreliable and very lazy.
I dislike people who do not believe in themselves.
I dislike people with infantile form and take it serious as jokes.
I dislike negativity.
I dislike disrespectful people.
I don't like people who cheat or lies.
I dislike Gossiping about others all the time.
I dislike intolerant.
I don't like dwelling on the past all the time.
I dislike rudeness.
My personality; I'm patient, calm and very thoughtful. I have a good sense of humor and I am also easy to laugh. I'm always positive in everything I do and I follow what my hearts direct me to do but I sometimes share my ideas when I feel like sharing. I'm sometimes quiet and care free. I love children very much... My heart melts when I see my little son, smiling, and He's like an angel to me. I don't mind if my partner has male friends. I don't get jealous in my relationship and I don't like interfering in my partner's private affairs, if only she will not abuse it. And I'm ever ready to accept my partner's family and friends if only she will feel comfortable about it.
My perfect date would be a quiet, rainy day. Rain always soothes me and leaves me feeling tranquil. I sometimes like to spend some good time alone in the room reading a novel book, watching a good movie, playing tennis with my son, and playing my mouth organ. My life gets so hectic sometimes that it's hard to just make time to relax, think, and spend time with my family. Another perfect day would be planning to go on a business trip. I love the day before going somewhere big because I like packing and organizing and imagining what I'm going to do once I get there. And the anticipation of seeing new sites and places always leaves me feeling renewed and happy... All in all, the best days in life are those when you can spend time doing what you really want to do, instead of what you have to do. We take for granted little things like conversations with our dear ones, children, or spouses, and enjoying our surroundings. In actuality, those are the things that matter most in life.
Just a piece of advice:
When you set your determination, everything else begins to move in the direction you desire. The moment you resolve to conquer the hearts of others, every fiber of your being immediately orient toward this goal. On the other hand, if you think 'this is never going to work out' every cell in your being will be deflated, giving up the fight. This is the subtle workings of the mind. How you guide your mind influences both you and that person. We humans write and perform the script of our own lives. We shape our future. So we must have the courage to do what we think is best for us and we should enjoy life to the fullest because this course of life will not repeat, is precious and irreplaceable and I would like to share my happiness in the second half of our century with the woman I love.
When you decided not to give love the chance to grow because of past experience or when you try to protect yourself against future emotional pain, you end up hurting yourself worse. You may not get hurt the way you were trying to avoid, but someone will definitely end up getting hurt, and it's usually you.
Love is learning to trust someone else with your true inner feelings. Yes, they can do things that can cause immense pain, but real love is about trusting them not to. The whole experience, whether it's good or bad, is about learning more about yourself and what you are capable of handling. You grow in ways you wouldn't know were possible because of your involvement in that person's life.
You can try to protect yourself forever, but you aren't doing yourself any favors. Life can't be experienced to its fullest potential when you continually shut the doors its opening for you. You may both have a similar background; maybe that will help you both get past your past or your emotional pain. It's possible that you've both gone through what you did, just so you could be together. If you don't at least give it a try, how will you know?
Constanze, I want you to know that there's a big difference between love and like, because we are starting this wonderful relationship as friends, but that's not how it will end because the feeling that am having for you is getting very strong, so I'd like us to give this relationship a chance to develop into something wonderful. I will stop here for just now so that I can get to back to work before is too late, but I'll be waiting patiently to hear from you soon. I wish you a lovely day. I send you many hugs and kisses from me to you...
Good day and I hope you are doing well and also have slept well for me as I did...I am in the office now working on some files and documents and I thank you so much for your email once again for letting me know more about you and your past too.....I am missing and thinking of you my dear and you have been on my mind and thoughts all this while my dear and my feelings for you seems to be stronger as i just cannot stop thinking of you and being together with you. I think we have told each other more about ourselves and its been such a great pleasure to share a lot with you this way , I really appreciate it. It seems like we have a lot in common and looking for the same in a relationship...LOL....You're such a great and a nice woman and I really admire that.
Although we've never met, I feel as if I've known you well. I knew from the start that there was something special about you; You've touched my heart and wouldn't let go. I'm pretty much a trusting person, for the most part, however, I have found myself to have people abuse that and make a fool of me... However, I believe each person deserves their own chance and don't judge anyone.....For your information I am no more on the dating site, I took my profile since I have told you it is not allowed in our rules here but I took a risk the other time to try my luck and so luckily for me i met you over there and I can boldly say I really enjoy the communication i am having now with you and i really look forward to meet you soon once i am out of here. I hope you can also try as much as possible to delete your profile from the dating site so that all our concentration can be on each other as i already did. And one more thing my dear. I will be glad if you can install Skype on so that we can schedule the time among us and at least have some chat in the evening before we all go to bed. I really have enough time in the evening because I don't sleep. I have to go to night patrol at 11:30PM and so therefore i can always be on Skype any moment in the evening. Also i have checked the time difference between Syria and Germany and I think we of the same time zone and so therefore we can equally plan the time to meet each other in the evening online at Skype so that we can have some instant chat. Trust me your mails really touches my heart and I want to take it more seriously with you and see how best this can lead us since no one really knows what the future holds.
I believe in ROMANCE! I love romance and being romantic, I'm a true romantic, I love to hold my woman's face and her hands when kisses her (just like in the movies), holding hands, snuggling on a rainy day, writing a message on the bathroom mirror when it's all steamed up from a hot shower, or a text message just to say hello, I was thinking about you, and candlelight bubble baths with Nora Jones playing on the radio. I enjoy pampering my woman (when I have one that is)... I tend to be silly, but when needed, I do have a serious side. Larry means the world to me and have been my focus since I lost his mom... I do not seek a replacement mother for my son... Rather, I seek one amazing woman who not only accepts my relationship with my son but won't feel threatened by nor jealous of this relationship and who can meld seamlessly into our family unit.....Of course I have spoken to Larry about our move to Germany on my retirement and he totally has no problem with that. I also asked him the same question which you asked me in the mail about how is going to loose all of his friends. " He told me there are so many social media where he can always reach his friends. He had a very good friend who's parents moved together with him to London and he tell me he always communicate with him. Larry is a smart boy and i think when he makes a decision he really mean it. You know what i didn't have doubt when he said he want to stay in Germany because i have always known Larry to enjoy European football so it might probably be the reason why. However i think he is going to also enjoy it in Germany and also make new friends because this is the case i can always be around him since i am no longer going into the service...lol.
The reality is that I truly do seek a lasting relationship... For this to happen we should be compatible, emotionally, intellectually, socially, spiritually, physically (call me shallow but looks do matter) and, yes, sexually... Even with all this, love must exist and there must be that ever-elusive "spark...In essence, I seek the proverbial "Total Package...Rather than "settling" for someone I could be happy with, I seek someone I cannot imagine living without (a subtle yet important distinction) for a lifetime together filled with passion (both in and outside the bedroom), intensity and bliss. I guess I'm looking for a woman who can love me as I am (good, bad or ugly)... Someone who can relate about life and its ups and downs and will want to share them... I want my partner to be able to work together to obtain goals that we've both set.....I'd like us to be able to grow as individuals as well as a couple... I'd want our relationship to be secure so that we could feel comfortable and trust each other completely without question!
I would want to be her everything and she mine... I want the whole package... A friendship that grows into the ultimate loving/caring/passionate relationship that one only dreams of... I don't want to just live with someone; I want someone I can't imagine living without... I hope that makes sense... I guess I'm searching for my missing piece to my puzzle....I am at a great place in my life now and want to share it with a partner on all levels.. I agree there must be a physical attraction as well... I always say that it's what on the inside that counts and that always makes a person attractive on the outside as well... I want to be with someone that I miss when we are not together and I can feel the electricity running through our body when we touch... Someone who likes to cuddle (I know this probably sounds corny), hold hands, hug, kiss for no reason, I want to be the couple when were 80 walking down the street and holding hands... I just love that when I see it... Like you I just won't settle...
I do not have a particular physical "type" that appeals to me... Rather, I tend to look at the entire package, especially personality... I am not the jealous type by any means... I believe that in a relationship you have to be a family regardless if the children are not biologically yours; a family is a family no matter what! I would never try to be a replacement father it just can't be done, but to be there for that child and support them and be a part of their life is an important thing!...I hope that I haven't bore you with all this information... I do know what I want... I did not date for some years after my wife's death all because I wanted to make sure that I knew what I want and that I was in a good place in my life and ready to share it with a partner.. I am at that place! ... LOL... on a more serious side, I am not about having sex with just anyone... I must have feelings for the person and she for me... There must be that deep seeded trust before it would move to the sexual phase... There are just too many diseases out there and to be honest, I've seen what they can do to a life if you're careless sexually... I wouldn't want that for anyone I know or care about... Don't get me wrong though, if the relationship were to get to that phase, I am completely into pleasing my woman.... COMPLETELY!.....
Kindly take care for me as i end here and continue with my work and hope we can pleasurably chat on Skype one day. Also about my daily routine I will write it to you in my next mail because it is a broad topic on it's own....lol. Have a nice day, kisses and hugs....
Thank you for your lovely reply. I appreciate all you have said and I'm prepared to take it into my heart and perhaps more importantly, act upon what you have said. I have made a concious effort to take the steps I need to be able to look to a positive future with someone and not be reminded of my past disappointments. I realized a long while ago that I choose the journey and create my own view and whilst I am shaped by lessons I learn in good and bad times . I'm not going to remain static and I've taken another path in looking for love - the real thing - second time around. I hope that I have cleared that up a bit, it felt a little foggy maybe? I'm trying not to get over-excited at too early a stage in this process, because I naturally don't want to get hurt, and in the same way don't wish to hurt anyone else, and that's something you may also sense... I believe we create our own luck in the responses we make to things in life - so it feels absolutely right. I can say that I am already excited to be communicating with you and I'm looking forward to the journey, wherever it may take us. (The first thing I did this morning when i came back from patrol was check my e-mails, and I'm excited you replied.) I have added you on Skype and i will be waiting to meet you online tonight at 10:00PM.
The way that you write is so open and I have a real sense of the kind and affectionate, gentle woman that comes across so well. It brought a tear to my eyes and joy to my heart to hear you say the things you say - I'd like to get used to that! I am a real romantic at heart and I'd love to be with someone who is able to reciprocate that, and treat me with the same love and respect that is in my nature to offer. I am considerate, a good communicator and a good listener, so much so that strangers in the supermarket que often end up telling me their life stories for some reason - and I never mind at all, it's what made me go into counselling I think. I'm not afraid to be intimate and I will always be sincere and honest - it's a matter of integrity, and I value that highly in myself and in other people. I consider myself to be warm and very affectionate, & my friends and family confirm that is the case. I'm not afraid to demonstrate my feelings in private or in public and I love to catch up by the fire on cold winter evenings.
Professionally I am a mechanical Engineer. So basically I work and supervise the maintenance of the jeeps and cars here, I have an idea about guns and explosives too so I train soldiers especially the younger troops here about how to go about such things, I keep them fit, I am a senior Officer I go on night patrols with my own patrol team and supervise check points at nights as well and that's the most dangerous part of all, I have lost some colleagues here...As a Senior Officer ,I seek to it that all the requirement and necessities of the soldiers are provided, I listen to their problems and share ideas with them, A Senior officer is a leader of a Patrol team.
Patrols, particularly at night, seem to be the most dangerous things - certainly we have lost a lot of troops that way. It's very hard to lose a comrade or friend and still keep going..
I'm just a ordinary father and take people for who they are as a person ,not what they have or can give me, i'm not into material things, i have what i need & never envy other people, Larry is a true gentleman, he enjoys art, drama, English, Spanish and French, and can be a little shy and reserved, but has a good heart, and I love him more than life itself. I love my child to pieces, and He know that he makes me proud to be his daddy just by being hisself - He don't need to earn it, it's a given as far as I'm concerned. He's a great young man, and I'm very happy about that cus I treat him with the love and affection, and respect, that he deserve! Time is the most important nourishment I can give him and it's great I play video games with him when you can ----I'm going to have to finish up soon as I have an appointment to go to. I just wanted to get back to you without too much delay and say that I'm very glad that we've started this process of getting to know each other more intimately and I'm looking forward to what follows. I am happy and willing to commit to the process - and I think that you may need to hear me say that - and mean it most sincerely. I am ready to find love again, but more than that, I want to find it and with the right person. It feels that we share so much in common in what we want in a partner - I'm not great Skype (my son usually Skypes me, I don't even know, So hopefully you can chat on Skype tonight!), not fantastic with computers at all really, but I'm willing to give it a go. I like to talk - can chat all day about nothing. Communication is the key to successful relationships. It is nice that you have so many interests and you are enthusiastic about them and everything else.
For now, I hope everything is well with you, keep safe and I'll be in touch soon.
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NAME: LUKAS LOPEZ
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