It is with appreciation writing this message after which we had a short conversation on the senior site “Ourtime” and exchanging contact details. As stated in the short letter I sent to you saying my subscription expires today and will be deactivating my account however I will like to stabilize communication with you via email, text, phone calls and see how things go between us. So here you go;
My name is Alexander and I am a business owner of over 24 years and widowed. I have lived my life between Los Angeles, NY, IL and currently living in Fairfax Virginia. I was born in Sep 25 1953 which makes me 63yrs. As adults, we have had our fair share in life, growing up, getting into business and living life to the fullest etc. I am 6’1ft, Caucasian, blue eyes and financially secured, romantic and totally understanding; I’m easy going, simple, kind, have a good sense of humor with a strong heart. I don’t like being idle, I fix things ranging from roofing to plumbing works, DIY in it totality. I’m very family oriented and generous. My life evolves round NFL, basketball, tennis, soccer & golf. I enjoy swimming, cycling, fishing, reading and go to the gym twice a week.
My reason for been on Ourtime is to find a lovely lady to spend the rest of my life with, spend quality time together, go on vacations, travel together and to always have a shoulder to lean on. I am an open book and a good listener. I enjoy staying at home when am off work. My son’s name is Mike and he lives over 50 miles away from me. He is quite independent and focusing more on his career at the moment. I should be telling you more about me in my next message if what you have heard so far sounds good to you.
I own my house and live with my dog but there is a huge space for the right woman and communication is an important part of a relationship and I believe if we can stabilize communication things will work out as planned. I always want to put a smile on someone’s face and I hope it is “YOU” time will tell.
My desires is to find my soul mate and dream mate, lover, and life companion, who is caring, matured minded, straight forward, honest and ready to be a good listener and a doer.
I hope I didn’t bore you with this long message and It will be a great to hear back from you soon with photos if you have any available to share. Feel free to ask me any question.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Good Morning Linda.....Hope you had a wonderful sleep and thank you for the openness in your last message. I am pleased to know what you have been through in life. You are a definition of a great partner and I could see that we are potential partner and I see a clear view of what this year have in store for both of us. I understand it has been a very busy period for both of us but we still dedicate time to get to know each other. I feel am getting so fond of reading and receiving messages from you.
Just want to touch on my educational background and what my job entails. I studied Petro-Chemical Engineering at the University and also have an Advance Degree in Project Management. I deliver projects all around the states; I construct and assemble Power Plants, Transformers, Bridges, Routers, Cells, Inverters, etc. I know in every business, there are ups and downs but i have been grateful in everything i do and to the success of my business. Basically what my company does is development of electrical power plants and also the designing solar panel. I have powered so many towns in the state with solar energy through private contracts and also govt contracts.
All the period that i have been single, i have learnt how to stay strong, never give up and always look above your shoulder regardless of the situation you are in. I have my own house in which i have my office based. I work most times on the field and also i have travelled several times outside the country for different types of contracts, meetings, project management and professional advices. I am having some meetings regarding some open contract s but will feed you more on that as time goes on.
I wouldn’t say am the best neither would i say i haven’t tried in what i do. I have been a good dad to my son and i will always be. I have been by myself for a long time and i have made up my mind to be happy once again. I have been looking forward to retirement, hopefully before the end of next year. Life has been a great lesson and it has really thought me how to treat people just the way i wished to be treated. ; I drink on occasion maybe once or twice a month
We all wish to have a perfect life but it is actually an impossible gesture. Life itself isn’t perfect neither can we live a perfect one. The only thing we should wish for is have a happy family around us, have good partner to be your crying shoulder and your smiley face when everything is good. I don’t want much in my life but good woman who will be my supporter in everything i do, someone who will see my business as hers.
Concerning sexuality and faithfulness, I am not a promiscuous guy; my desire is to be sexually faithful to my woman. If two people love each other, share their likes and dislikes about their sexual pattern/behaviour, lots of problems would be resolved. There’s nothing greater than loving and being loved again. I’m not into games. I have been patience and waited this long;
I believe I deserve a woman that is honest, caring and ready to share her all in a relationship. Someone who would reciprocate the love i have for her and not doubt me for any reason. You already make me feel like we are one. I love the feeling.
My hopes are not high but expecting to share my all with you. I know we are yet to meet in person but i just have a good feeling about us and i won’t throw that in the gutters. I will be waiting to hear from you soon and hope this give you a clear view of who i am and what I do. I would not mind if you can answer some of the questions i have for you.
What are your dreams and aspiration in the relationship we are building?
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others?
Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner?
Do you agree we are a good match?
Do you still talk to men from the site?
What are your expectations from me as your man?
If there is one thing you would change about yourself? What will it be?
Do you like public intimacy?
I really enjoyed reading your message and it has been an accomplishment having to have a wonderful lady to write and correspond with every now and then.
Thank you for taking time to answer my questions, I know it is quite much and now I am taking time to answer the same questions. I strongly believe i have great connection with you and from what we have shared so far, i feel we have so much in common and ready to paddle the same boat with you.
What are your dreams and aspiration in this relationship?
Even though we are new in the progression of our relationship, I can see light at the end of the tunnel. The first time I set my eyes on you on the site, I believed a new era is born. I really do believe in faith and possibilities. I really feel positive about what we share and us, I know we can always dream but it is another thing to make our dreams come to pass. I do look forward to joy, love, happiness, laughter and good things ahead as we move on. I see beauty in your through your words and what you have share with me.
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others?
People say I am very considerate and I believe I am very considerate and thoughtful of others. I wouldn’t see someone going through certain thing in life and not be in support in positive way. I love to see people smile and most especially my partner.
Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner?
I have never been unfaithful to my partner in any way or form. Honesty, transparency and faithfulness is very imperative in a relationship.
Do you agree we are a good match?
So far I believe we have so much in common and we trend on the same platform, I see great things happening as we grow to know each other.
Do you still talk to man from the site?
I am not talking to anyone on the site since we met, I am a one woman man.
What are your expectations from me as your man?
I will be there through the thick and thin of life, good or bad, I will be there when you need a shoulder to cry on and a chest to put your head when you lie down to sleep at night.
If there is one thing you would change about yourself?
I wouldn’t change anything but to have you as mine to love and cherish till death as my woman and my partner.
Do you like public intimacy?
I love public intimacy not to create scene in public but to show you to the world you are my woman and am yours. I love the world to see how much love we have and care. I want everyone to know we are a match made in heaven
You have really paid so much attention to us and i really like you and want to develop an iconic relationship with you, it is a great sign to me.
Good Afternoon my sweet Linda,
Its a pleasure to read from you and i understand it was a busy day for you yesterday and maybe today. I have a good feeling about you and i feel safe sharing things with you as you have done with me. Everyone wants something good for themselves, i wish myself well the reason i don’t want to be alone anymore. I am aware lots of guys would actually tell you they are loving. kind, honest, bla bla and when you meet them they are completely opposite lol, well i’m not a cliche, and would just have to show it.
I appreciate the simple things of life, sounds silly but placing a smile on peoples face no matter the situation is better than gold and silver to me. You can find the right person around the corner or across many miles, when this happens, doing the right thing is what matters. Sincere love doesn’t count miles, it’s measured by the heart, if distance were measured in terms of the heart we’d never be more than a minute apart’.
Life’s short, enjoy it; eat, love and pray. I hope to hear from you and also here is my phone number where you can call or text me any time you wish 757-632-7727.
I’m glad to know you are waiting for my next note and also you care so much for me as i do for you. Thank you for giving me all your love and you have mine too forever. this is more like a open heart message from me to you. All along i’ve been searching for you; the miracle of life shone in front of me when you entered my life. Nothing can be compared to filling up someones life. The excitement which tortures me while waiting for you to send me an email, the sweet emails that keep me awake even when i’m exhausted to death, because i don’t wanna miss a thing. The feeling that you know every corner of my heart, all these are the most beautiful signs of my love for you.
Every single word you say is a part of my soul,when i write to you; i am overwhelmed with joy, and when you write, you always make me feel needed. Most of all you make me feel safe emotionally and mentally, thank you for being part of my life. I’m very happy with you and i could not ask for a better woman than you. Thank you for being an exceptional woman - you are one of a kind.
There is so much i wanna tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I’m having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you would have to bare with me through this. I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it, i keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and i realize they go hand in hand, THIS RELATIONSHIP is my FUTURE; it’s what I want out of life.
Here are a few things i wish to do with you in this lifetime: I want to grow old with you, be your best friend, i want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, i want us to walk through new houses picking one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh at me like crazy when I do stupid stuff. Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic, spend my life making you happy, spend my life making our family happy. Feel your heartbeat, go roller/ice skating together, give you a backrub/massage. WE SHOULD ALWAYS be honest with each other, go hiking/camping together, have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond because we successfully weathered the storm - together. Laugh at someone together, share a plate of spaghetti, go on a fun family vacation and bring back kind memories of LOVE. Treat you like my QUEEN, envelope you in my soul,look over at you during a family/friends party and have you know without me saying a word - that “I love you”. I wanna be able to say “I love you” to YOU in 89 different ways; in 89 different countries. Hold you when you’re at your saddest moment and comfort you when you need it the most. Be the one to wipe away the days’ stress and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
We would stargaze on a clear night, Watch the sunset together, spend all day with you gardening or arranging the home, moonlight walks on the beach, Go on a carriage ride together through the park, or twilight horseback ride, do a crossword together, watch a bad movie together and when you scared you would feel safe in my arms and know i am right there to protect you. Spend the rest of my life with you, have our picture taken together, share ice cream with you, make love to you passionately, rub lotion all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile, fall asleep every night with you in my arms, and you too fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and knowing it beats for you. I want you to be the first thing i see when i wake up and the last i see when i go to sleep, i want to see your bad morning hair; think it would be so cute. I want to sit with you at the beach and watch the sunset, passers-by would envy our love. I want to walk down that isle holding your hand, and have your heart for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to sit talking to you for hours, never get bored or fed up, i’ld be your lover, your brother, a father to you and your best friend, we stare at each other realizing how lucky we are.
Lastly i want us to run out in the rain; act like total kids, getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, or study room, or arctic which ever one we feel like at the time, i want to take your breath away every time i say, “I love you” because you know it’s coming from the heart. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, well, I’d let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I can’t fully express in words what i feel for you right now so i decided to share SOME images and thoughts that have been running through my head with you. I want you to know i have never found someone i want to share the rest of my life with until i met you. I really am crazy about you, everything about you. Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you, hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I care about you.
Your Prince From The Castle in the Clouds.
Good Afternoon Sweetheart,
Just thinking out loud and thought i’d share more of my background, my job, my parent, my home and heart desire and how much our relationship means to me. I really don’t know where to begin with my life history at this point but would try and break it down. As a child I learnt to live outside my world. I like meeting new people who have the same goal, aim and objectives in life. My parent were so loving and good to me while I was growing up. I bought my first house when I was working for Hartford Textile Company in New York which was 28 yrs ago.
I started my own business with some friends but when it didn’t work we had to go our separate ways. I started on my own and I became better at what I do. I was lucky to have bought my home in 1999 and I have 5/6 of an acre on a city lot home, a two car garage detached garage in front and a two car garage at the back one that is built higher and has a nice big role up door.
I am a thoughtful, loving, and caring and a guy that is ready to spend the rest of my life with my woman. In regards to what I love to wear on me whenever I want to go out. I love wearing my suit and a French tie, either with a jean or lovely pant trouser. my cologne are Ralph Lauren, Kenneth Cole and Polo. My best spot in my town is a country restaurant, I love to take a glass of sharp man, red wine and brandy when socializing. I do keep it fit and healthy 3 times a week. I have a gym in my home, I love walking out. I go on a walk from 6-7 am and back home to take a hot bath, get dress and ready for work.
I leave home to the office 9 am and get back home 6pm Monday to Friday. Every weekend am always on my t-shirt, polo shirts and always on either short or blue jeans.
I don’t think there is anyone that is perfect; we are all trying our best to live life to the fullest. Life is too short to play around. I respect my emotions, my heart and feelings. I want to respect yours too. I have a large heart to accommodate you angel. Since you said i should tell you everything about me and that is what I am doing right now.
My job has been rewarding and challenging but I am waiting to retire with you. I want to handle my business with my you and to be involved with me.
I have visited couple of countries across the world. Right now i want to travel with you, I want to hold you and shout to the world how much I CARE for you. Mike is the only one in my life and YOU as well. I have worked for the government and private entities. What I do is to visit the site in which the power plants are going to be installed and it depends on how big the project is. I get to design the plan for the project and then the equipment would be moved to the site of work
You are so important to me now and I guess you understand me. You and I are going to be one soon. You, me and Mike and your family we are going to have a ONE BIG FAMILY. I’m sure we will be happy all our lives. I don’t mean to blab about my life or anything but just trying to be expressive so you can be sure who I am in every aspect of life.
I think have shared so much about my life….I want to trust you with my heart, love you forever, hold you close to my life, I will be so happy to always have you by my side. Where ever i go you are going to be my pride. I don’t like keeping my woman at home, I want to be everywhere with you honey because you are the source of my JOY
I never knew I could ever meet someone so nice and i feel so close to you like have known you forever. Thanks so much for giving us a chance and when you said you will love to make me happy now and forever gives me the best feeling and wanting you more every day.
Always in my thought,
Yours now and forever,
Hello My Love,
How are you doing my Sunshine and hope you had a wonderful sleep? I am writing this message in the middle of both happiness and depression. I am happy we got here safely and I am also happy that I have you in my life. On the other hand, I am depressed because I had to ship some equipment’s before leaving the state and the equipment’s were meant to be picked up while we were leaving the airport but I was told to come back and pick the equipment’s. All the equipment’s shipped are projected against the project that needs to be done. On getting to the airport to pick the equipment’s, I discovered that the snow was getting worse but we really can’t do anything but to keep loading and moving.
While on the way to the site where all equipment’s are to be offloaded, one of the trucks that was carrying some of the equipment’s got slipped on the way, few tyres got busted and the truck tumbled and caught fire but was really grateful to God that nothing happened to the either me nor driver. I feel so devastated at the time this happened, I don’t know what to do but fire services were called for emergency but before they got here, all equipment’s and the truck got burnt. Thought the equipment were insured but not insure for fire or accident only theft. This is the worst thing that has ever happened to me in a long time. I’m here in England with this huge problem. I can’t withstand the stress I was going through so I need to sort this out.
I spoke to the man that was assigned to me here and he told me we can find the burnt equipment’s in a company here. We went to the company’s warehouse and we found the equipment, but the problem is the cost compared to what I have. The price for the equipment is $49,999 and I only have $45,000 with me. Honey Right now I need to get $4,000 as soon as possible, I tried to use my cards here but it couldn’t work, I would have love to call my bank but my bank will never release any money from my account if I am not present in person. This is the problem that I have honey. I would love to explain this to the company that gave me the contract but this can affect my reputation as a project manager/contractor because it’s not presentable.
I am confused and you are the only person i can explain this to and the fund will be returned soon as i get half of the check. I know it is not right for me to tell you all this but it is my problem and you are the only one I can tell; i had to summon a lot of courage to do this. Honey, I know it’s wrong for me to ask you for assistance but i have no one else to turn to. Honey I don’t want you to feel bad about this i hope you can understand me. Darling i really need you to help me out so that I can finish up and come home however this is our issue not to be discussed with someone else love.
I will look up to read from you soon.
Just to let you know that I have had a discussion with the company that awarded the contract to me, I had to explain the whole situation to them and right about now, they would be sorting something out regarding some money for me to work with.
I told them I have you in the state to help me receive some of my money. Please can you do this for us? Below are the details they will need to put the money in your account on my behalf and I will let you know how to get it to me.
I do trust you with my heart and I have told you how much I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you.
I don’t want to loose you neither do I want to loose this contract as its means so much to me and you.
Details needed for the money to be deposited in your bank honey.
Account holder’s name:
Account holder’s address:
Holder’s Phone number:
Bank phone number:
I know how much you love me and you know I love you more than words can say. Please honey let’s do this together and things will be fine in couple of weeks and we will be together.
I love you so much and will be waiting to hear from you soon.