How are you doing, I hope you had a wonderful day?
Where do I start from? Really it is disturbing to come on seniorpeoplemeet to see how much people appreciate love, but yet we have to go the extra mile to get this great status.
Forgive my manners, I'm John like you already know I'm 6'3 height I have a lovely daughter 16 years old Jodie. She is friendly I was born in a home, by an Irish man and an American woman, I am loving, fun, caring, romantic, honest, faithful with great sense of humor and God fearing.
I am an engineer and I do basically oil rig well platform constructions and renovations. I think after getting all the wealth in pursuit, I have come to realize that we are nothing without a partner, someone who would stand by me no matter the situation. A woman who I can say, she alone has the right to be womanly irritating to me, lol. A witch who would protect me like a lioness would do her cub, lol. and I can promise to protect her beyond all vices. A woman who tells me, honey, you can do it, no matter what I want to do. I really worked hard the past 12 yrs to attain this height.
I have seen faces of women on this site, many of whom have been taken for granted, many of whom are not being reciprocated, but I have come with a good news and a bad news, the good news is I came here to pick my woman to make happy, my eight wonder, my best friend, my copilot, but the bad news is that I have only one woman to do this for. lol.
I'm talking about faith here when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. I am a total package, I only need someone who understands the value of a good smile.
Now tell me more about you....What do you do for a living? What do you do for fun? What is your best color? What is your best meal? e.t.c
I can't wait to hear back from you.
Have a wonderful night rest sweets.
Hope you had a wonderful night rest, it's so good to hear from you and I am also honored that you could share all you did with me, for a minute there I was scared that I would not hear from you again. I must say that I feel I can share anything with you already so am going to let the cat out of the bag.
I guess you should truly know who am, I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age I do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime, lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything and make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound.
To make you know more about me, I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study.
I was born to a loving couple, I was born in a home, by an Irish man and an American woman from OH. My father was an international business man who met this American orphan whose only family were close friends... She says there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist, sometimes she says she sees same in me, lol.
During my father's global movement, when I was twelve I left to study in Lethridge Alberta in Canada where I got the first degree in Civil Engineering and then I later moved on to join them back in the Ireland . My father died and she was left alone. I met my deceased wife in Ireland she's an Irish. she was a fashion model. Very good at heart.
Actually I could say I met her in a funny way, would explain that later.
My favorite color is Blue. I enjoy homemade food, seafood, sandwich, I like veggies too. I'm a friend of morning coffee I can definitely make one for you before you out bed in the morning.
I enjoy cooking so much in the kitchen, my crew do call me John the Chef.
I am a global contractor engineer. I do basically oil rig well constructions and renovations. We have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project here in Abu Dhabi ( Dubai Oil Rig Offshore) UAE, where am presently at with my working crew is my last project on the field and I shall quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field work site. I think I really have gotten to this height cos I embraced work for so long trying to get over my deceased wife, that I worked this hard, but I think I now realize I can move on I want to love and be happy again am ready for a committed serious relationship.
I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, I just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo,LOL.
Now tell me more about you...?e.t.c
I cant wait to hear back from you.
Have a nice day my ballerina girl
How are you doing today? I hope you had a wonderful weekend.
I'm glad to read your email and thank you for sharing more about you with me, this will give us more chance to get to know each other.
I did go to church this morning with my crew. Do you go to church today?
I hope to read back from you soon.
I really appreciate this communication and I will say it is a sign of will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead. Yes I do have internet over here.
I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,it is a place called joy and happiness. Really i just see in your face that I can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul.
As I could remember, as a kid I was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realize there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give you support.
There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love ,lol But sincerely that is the bitter truth. When i lost my deceased wife, he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better can't start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realize that let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my
wife, my best friend and co-pilot.
My usual saying, and i am known for it, is that, Life is simple, for those who take it simple. I don't like to complicate things,there is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from.
I am quitting field works. Any other job would only require my attention from my home office wherever i go. I want to spend the rest of my life having fun. I have a house in Ireland where i found my late wife and got married, while I have no home. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, I rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less.
I say, who says we cant design our own paradise together?
It is workable,just walk by my side.
Have a lovely day sweets
hello my wonderful one,
How are you today?
Why am I getting addicted to my email? lol. I get a good glow on my face just getting back from work to read from you. Wonderful. How was your night?
I knew something was missing since I haven't smiled all morning till now,lol. I I was almost late for my chopper in the morning, I woke up late, I think I am becoming restful again, Maybe i could sense something good ahead of us.
I would complete the project contract in 4 weeks and return back to the states.
What wouldn't i do to make my dreams some true. It is like a rigger waiting for a trigger. Would you be my trigger? lol. I just need a woman to hold me before i am old. Absolutely i have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. how much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? how much do we need for daily fun. excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As i always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. it can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books , but cant buy knowledge.. It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy love. That is why, I refuse to follow the crowd, so as my own man, i would give up all that can be bought for that which cant be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods, she can make me smile in all weather.
I am glad that i could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and i intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure, but i dont mind,lol. Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear. I will be waiting impatiently to hear from you.
Have a nice day and remain blessed.
How are you doing today?
Thank you for the wonderful email, you are so beautiful I love your smile. I love the pictures.
I went to church today, do you go to church there?
How is your day going and what are your plans?
I look forward to read back from you.
Hello My Wonder!
I hope you are feeling as happy and great as I am feeling after getting back from work and opening my email to see that there was something to read from you, I am so glad that you shared all you did with me,it is glaring that we are really heading in the right direction.
Who are you? A woman being a goddess? or a goddess pretending to be a woman? Whichever you are, you are doing something special to me. lol. I mean after all these years, i would have thought I might not have the possibilities again of having my dream woman, my partner, my best friend and co pilot. I'm talking about fate here - when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. I wouldn't be scared anyway, because truly, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how
much love you build till the end.The inevitable truth is , If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one.
I am always on the rig most times, we do work over night at times because this is a big project contract. I talk to my daughter and my mother on weekends.
I am on the offshore in Dubai Oil Rig Offshore UAE, I having to wake up every morning by 6 to catch up my chopper down here. Working from then till late at night, yet being able to be distracted by this woman(YOU). I have over 300 labors here, both skilled and locals, yet all could notice a new glow on my face. LOL. Bishop, Bruce and I have always stayed at Bruce's in his NY home, he just got married almost two years now. He found his woman on seniorpeoplemeet.com and to be sincere, he inspired us. I did not buy a house in the states yet because I would love to find my woman first, then building a home would start from there. I am being true to my feelings, as my old friend would say, Never question if you are in love or not, because if you were you wouldn't need to ask. So the best of men, would accept what they feel without questions, because truly, Love and death can't be escaped, no one can tell , when, how, or where. It is never too early or too late. LOL.
What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in an instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have.
I thank you for being so open minded and simple as me, I can promise you that the sky is the limit for us.
I am guessing you will be in bed right now or about to start your day so which ever ways do have the most pleasant day ahead okay.
I long to read from you much much much more............
Hello My Goddess,
How are you doing today? I am so so sorry for not writing you a note yesterday , I got home on the late side and was tired so off to bed I went, I did not even get to shower, (my bad).
Can you imagine how yesterday went. I was with the several of my colleagues at the quarters on the oil rig offshore. They are all close friends. They are my professional buddies. we work together, we have more of a friendship relationship than Employee employer relationship. When one of us has an occasion to grace, you would be thrilled. we could act much and make a crowd laugh out their stress. there is Bruce, Bishop, Owen, Chan, Lee, John, Brian, Nikky, and mike. Bruce met Debbie on seniorpeoplemeet.com while we were in Southern Asia and Iran, then we moved out after our project. After their marriage, we went to Qatar (Asia) to bid for a project on one of their oil platforms. I personally logged most of my funds in the bidding and so did many of us. It got to a point that we were knocked out by their local politics. It left us almost stranded,please don't laugh at us,lol. But somehow you wouldn't believe it , Debbie did most of the work of getting our naughty asses out of there. We were disappointed that we lost big, but as humans, we don't know God has a bigger plan for us. Just the week we got back to Europe, we got this biggest project of our career in Dubai, UAE.
We were bidding for a 7 million gain project and we got a gift of over 12 million, lol.
I'm willing to relocate and live where I found my woman, yes I will glad live in Catskills. I do not buy my home yet because I want to live where I found my love woman.
Most of my colleagues still have this envy in them, but as it is, I did not make myself but God did. When we were in the states to finalize Bruce's wedding, we met Debby's family. My dear, they had us for days and the old man did not want us to leave. They impacted so much into our lives. Even the man calls on us like a father time to time till now. What i know is that, we were able to get people's love , not because of wealth but because of our simplicity. That is one thing that can never be compromised in life. So yesterday, i gave them an exclusive on how I met this woman who has become a screen saver on my mind, and they were thrilled, saying they cant wait to meet her.
They promised they had a bet on who would be closer to her. can you believe that. They all said, Hey Randall ask her to come over.
I cant wait to finish this project in less than 4 more weeks so I can come show you how much I can steal your heart, Let us see if you can resist this Happy man! LOL.
The day was fun cos we left early. And i start visualizing how soon I can see my woman. I wish I could get a house ahead of time so that on arrival I wouldn't need a hotel,l ol. How did your day go? Do you think you have listened to your heart? listen to it and you will find out how much we stand to gain! I am just a man who wants my best friend with me. Someone i can look at and smile for no reason. Someone i cant wait to get home to be with you.
Someone to hold in my arms and whisper to her ears. someone to run my fingers through her hair. Someone who is never afraid of telling her deepest thoughts to me. Someone who sees me more as her twin.
What do you think?
I have not changed my mind about you, I am in your life to stay.
Hello My Sunshine,
Did you know why I call you sunshine? It's because I can't get the picture of you off my mind. I feel like giving you a kiss and a hug as I watch the sun rise from my balcony, lol. Just as the sun lights up the earth, thoughts of you also lights up my life. You are the only one I have met who has been able to capture my heart in so short a time and I know its because i sense a heart so bright and full of so much love to give. Just seems like yesterday, when you came into my life and changed my whole perception of life and love right away with your outstanding personality. The only reason this is possible is because you have portrayed yourself so well and you have been yourself and not a pretender, I appreciate your honesty in all our talks. I like that in you, because I'm not in love with your beauty but rather your bright mind and I sense a humble and gentle soul. I have fallen for that. If you remember, I said it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people. the answers are never there, trust me, the day relationships start failing is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other.
Life is boring when perfect. Life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything.
I always like to good in a beautiful cologne. Do you like to wear heels? I will like to see my woman in heels.
I believe the balance of life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed. The medical practitioners would run out of business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there are no offenders. If everyone were to be vegetarians, Oh my! guess how many people would not earn a living. White gained from black, blacks earn from white. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. who would do the laundry? who would drive the car? who would guard who? who would keep whose money? lol. The essence for this short word is that, if you can read the meaning in this. you are my woman for sure.
The moral of the speech is that We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we cant live without each other. The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we cant change. Because the only constant thing in life is CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you as I wake, brings out a part of me that loves life more,lol.
I have a proposal for you this wonderful day. Because i know you at least care about me, after all you talk to me even when you have to wait, that means a lot to me. So i want your help today. There is this woman whom i just met, and i am scared about how she has gotten my attention, but i would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that cannot be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, i am not known for fears. I am aware that a journey of a thousand years starts with the first step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! please tell her if she is willing, i would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing or everything. Once i have her hand, i can promise her forever. Tell her i know this is not going to be a child's play, tell her i know there are times we would argue in future. but tell her i would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands. because there are two sides to a coin. Tell her life is short, but we can make paradise out of it. Tell her, her worries have become mine, because i do not really know how she has done it. tell her that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was
by choice, but then falling for her is beyond my control.
I guess I have to give you directions on how to find her, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you,lol.
Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for me.
Darling I want to be a part of your daily existence as i want you to be mine, do not let this distance between us count for anything, we shall live as one from this day on, I pray we achieve all our expectations and more, i know it might sound like asking for too much but that's just how it has to be, I feel like my world would crashdrastically if I couldn't keep you, please we need to show each other regularly that we care in ways that we are supposed to. I am smitten by you. Didn't get much sleep but I don't need much anyway, I will talk with you when I get back, something came up and we have to move early, see you later and you can call me on my cell the number is: 516-200-8666 hope you find the time to call me, I will also glad if you can drop me your number and I will try to call you.
Bye for now my sweetest heart, really sorry I couldn't wait but we can do that later, or on the phone.
I wish you were here! (sighs), MISSING YOU ALREADY!!!
Hello my angel,
Good morning sweetie, how was your night hope you had a great day yesterday I am glad to read your email so sweet and reminding. I don't know what i have done that I deserve a second chance. I lost one and yet I found another angel. How did I become so lucky. I trusted my instincts and got only you from that market and you turned gold. My instincts still direct me, move ahead with her in my journey.
I really thank my God. I mean i ask for something good and he gives me the best.
Hiding from the whole past, rains and snow, for i may be reminded of some memories, trying to forget yet i wont let go.Walking through a crowded street, i could still hear my own heartbeat..So many people around this world my dear, tell me, where do i find someone like you?lol
Please take me to your heart, take me to your soul, show me that wonders can be true. They say, nothing lasts forever, we are only here today, Love is now or never, Please bring me far away! give me your hand and hold me, show me what love is, maybe I haven't got a clue, be my guardian star. take my hands before I am too old,lol. I could go be with some friends to have fun, but they don't really comprehend. I don;t need too much talking , without saying anything, all i need is some one who makes me want to sing. And you do a great job on that. I have written a song i would sing for you when I get to you. In less than few weeks i would handover and come see you. Would you mind picking this old man from the airport? lol.
Have you ever danced in a rain? give it a trial and see how free your soul really is. We should really take this to another level. let me hear the voice of an angel. Be warned i have been told i have an unsorted accent, but sexy, lol. When could we probably have a chance to talk on phone now I can hardly get you out of my mind.
I am getting ready to leave house have lots to do today and the workers already waiting for me to be at site to give the point to be installed today, sweetie can't wait to read back from you when I get back hope we will chat today later for now my sunshine.
Hello My Forever Queen Love
How are you today my eight wonder? I hope you had the most wonderful day yesterday.
Thank you for the beautiful pictures.
You know, God gave us two arms, two legs, two eyes, two ears, but only one heart so we can find the other pair lol. And as I have learnt that Love is the soul recognition of it's counterpart in someone else. I loved the fact that I got this much mails from you I feel special.
You do not need worry about me, what she has always wanted for me is what i am having right now, trust me, I am a warrior.
What a wonderful way of life it is to find joy and happiness in someone else. I would ask you some few questions which requires a min before you answer each.
Do you believe in Love, even amidst this crazy world we find ourselves in?
Do you believe that happiness has value more than every material things we may get in life?
Do you believe that you have a good heart ton care for people unconditionally?
If you found a hundred dollar bill on the road and see a hungry orphan, would you feed him?
If you get into an argument with me, and i pull you close to kiss you, would you still kiss me back?
Would you love those close to me as I would love all those who matter to you?
If i bring you breakfast to your bed would you kiss after saying thanks?
Do you love to run away with me sometimes where we would be out of business environment to spend quality time together?
Do you believe the world should concentrate more on peace projects than war funding?
Do you have faith that every man is the architect of his own destiny?
Do you believe that Life without Love is like a harp without strings?
Do you know that, You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth?
If God is the DJ, then Life is the dance floor; Love is the rhythm, and You might be my rythm?
If you have said yes to all these and you say no to my next question then you might not really know what you want then,lol.
WOULD YOU BE MINE TODAY , TOMORROW AND TILL END OF TIME?
I know the possibility of thinking, this man I haven't met, how can there be these feelings? what does he know about me? But I can tell you the truth about life. The people you have met and probably fallen in love with them, what do they know about you that you think I dont know? probably, just some physical things, like smell, sense of touch, and body physics, and that is all. But these few things are the least things to love for. These are just sentimental values that are found in many at good lenght. The main things to love for are the abilities to agree on phenomena, and sense of directions. The unexplained attraction to someone's words which is life itself. These are the only things that matters deep down. How best can one get these things better than meeting in writing? where you can escape the sentimental factors i mentioned earlier and once we meet, the biggest sentiments is there and one wouldnt be able to help but start the feelings from there. I can tell you that internet is the best and also the worst way of meeting people. In the sense that it is the best if two people meet and are as open as a book with each other with no lies. I promise it cant fail . The worst in the sense that if these two met and there is even a single atom of lie in between, there comes disappointments, which is like a small stone that can bring down a big wall. Did you ever lie to me? cos I wouldnt ever lie for anything. My ma brought up a better man than that.LOL.
Go and do the research about what i just said and you will find out whether the maths is good or not
As food is needed for the body, the same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love. I will never give up the fight and will of love. We did cruise a boat, and we laughed so much as usual. We all cant wait to be out of here for a longer vacation.
Love is a noble act of self-giving,offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones. I do cherish your presence in me.
Please take good care of yourself dearest wonder.