Good Morning DeeDee ,
Thanks for giving me your email address. I have really enjoyed getting to kno you and want to know more . Well let me tell you about the things i enjoy . I enjoy the simple things of life and here are some of the thing i enjoy .I love Fine Dining, Slow Dancing, Movies in or out, Comedy Clubs, a Play once in a while, Weekend Getaways, Classic Car Shows, Antiques, Garage and Estate Sales, Picnics and BBQ's, Long Walks and Talks, beach and so much more!!!
I usually listen to R&B, Jazz , soft rock and a little bit of country .I love all kinds of movies. (except Science Fiction and Fantasy) I like to keep it real...I love the show two and a half men and Oprah. I like reality shows like American Idol, Big bang theory, friends, and lots more.I have not fished in a very long time, but I think that would be a great family thing to do. I also enjoy camping, but have not gone in many many years. What are the things you enjoy ?
I think i should tell you something first about the woman I like and you can do same. She should be my best friend, loving,caring, considerate,romantic,thoughtful and she should have to accept me for the person I am. I am very much a people person, I like to help people..Yes I like to be cared, I love to hold hands, when I am walking with that special woman .I am an easy going person, i like out door .As I get older material things mean less to me, relationships and the quality of giving and receiving on an emotional level bring the greatest joy. It is like the old saying Say's money cannot buy you love.
Now your turn ? What do you enjoy doing ?What are the qualities you want in man ? What are you interest, values and goals ? Have a nice evening and hope to hear from you soon .
It's so good to hear back from you. Am having a good day and better now that I get a response from you.We have so much in common and want same thing out of a relationship.
I am a very old fashioned man and believe in things.. Like opening the door and pulling out chairs for my lady.
Communication is a key factor that is usually overlooked in a friendship but only if the world knew and understood how wonderful it would be if people could relate freely with open minds and hearts.What the world has turned into today , we do not know and what tomorrow holds for us, we still do not know what the future holds, but I believe in making the best out of our today so that we can have a reason to smile at the close of the day..
Life is about building stepping stones to success and these stepping stones can be built first of all by us and a dedicated partner.Someone who would take our wishies and dreams like it were their own and you would do the same for them. A person who would elevate your desires and aspirations straight right up to the skies with out looking back.
The best relationship that can be found is one that is stress free , where you dont have to think or select your words carefully before you talk, that is what I want for myself and i guest that is what you want too. The best thing that can happen is being able to tease one another and laugh over misunderstandings.. Thats fun too
I am not kind about looks,because most of the time good looks make us make wrong choices in our lives but a beautiful soul gives us a perfect happiness that we always long for.
Do you text ? I think it will be easier and better to chat that way .Please drop me your number and I will do same ..I would be looking forward to a message from you.Have a good evening and look forward to hearing from you soonest.
I have been thinking about you, and I want you to know I appreciate the opportunity given to me to get to know you, I appreciate every second and every minute of it, and I would do the best I can to see that I make the most of this opportunity you have given to me.
I really was hoping you love the things I love because personally I love to have fun with that special someone that is close to me. I am a kind of man that would come into the kitchen if you were making dinner and tickle you from behind then take off, so you have no choice but to chase me and when you catch me I would plead and say am sorry, but as soon as you turn to get going, I would tickle you again and still take off.... haha
If we were watching tv together and you were eating a cookie , I would say "Honey look at the that on tv" the moment you attention is off the cookie I will grab it and put it in my mouth...lol.. Thats naughty right..but thats just the way I love to live my life. My idea of a relationship is about having fun with that your special someone.
Its about being able to hide your purse when you wanted to go somewhere and tell you to stay with me at home....lol then I'll make you say please then I'll make you peck my left cheek , then you might ask : "can i have my purse now ?" I would turn the right cheek for you to peck again, next will be my forehead then I'll give you your purse , give you a kiss and tell you not to stay out long or I'll send a search team to come get you....lol
I could call you on the phone while you are at work and say "Sweetie, guess what? when you ask me what? I'll say" My name is Michael" then i'll tell you I just wanted to hear your voice.... haha
Now here's what i like to do often, I would buy a drink I know you love and bring it home, I'll open in front of you like I wanted to drink it and ask you if you want some, definitely you'll say yes then I'll just hand it over to you and say you can have it. Of course you would ask me if I am sure , i would say "YES" I got it for you anyway....lol .For me those are the kind of things I would do , if I had that special someone, I love to laugh, have fun all time even when there are sad moments I just remember good times and funny events and laugh it off.
Its great to be alive so why mourn over it, thats the reason I go ahead with my life with a smile on my face and try to put a smile on the face of people around me... Hope i put a smile on yours..
Life is beautiful with someone who is honest ,trustworthy and has a great sense of humor.Everyone wants to be happy , no one wishes to build castles in the air but the key to our desires is in our hearts and our ability to take a chance . Looking for talking more with you.
I just got back home from work and had a great day today because someone special sent me a wonderful email. I couldn't concentrate all day but I managed to accomplish a lot.I don't really know how I can express my feelings to you because I wasn't myself the first time I set my eyes on you. I have seen and met great beauties, I have also learnt how I gaze at them but for once, and with you only, I lost control of it.I printed your pictures and have one on my bedside and another in my wallet.. I want to be able to see you whenever i miss.. I want to smile at your face whenever i have the chance to.
I believe through this epistle you will understand me. I want to take you as a flower in my hand with which I'm charged with for responsibility to look ever after and to keep fresh. Next to you is like being next to paradise.I didn't have the courage to tell you more about the growing desire to be closer to you that i feel inside of me but i have decided not to be a coward anymore. I have so much inside my heart that it keeps me from breathing sometimes. I know we just met but these feelings that I have for you keep glowing and growing every day. Now i need to hold unto it because this feelings are rare to come by, I sleep thinking about you and the next morning I wake up smiling.
It's amazing how you got me and trapped me. I never thought we will get this close but I was so wrong. I just thank God for having you. We are meant for each other and no one can change that.I would give us a big chance to grow and I guess feel same.
I miss you so much and looking forward to the day when I will send my eyes on you!..
I just finished work and as usual you have been on mymind all day. Thanks for the email and i feel blessed that i am the chosen one for you. I am really sorry for all you went through. I have been thinking very much about you and about us...I think that all the time I am thinking of you, when I sleep, when I'm awake, when I'm driving, when I hear a romantic song. I am not trying to be on the fast lane but to let you know how I feel and what I feel and equally how a good relationship ought to be.I know that so much has not been said but so much has been thought about concerning us.
I am being honest here pouring down all my heart just for you.I am also making use of this precious moment to thank you for always checking on me,spending time talking to me texting and making me laugh..
I believe people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed..She has come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.She may seem like a godsend and she is.She is there for the reason you need her to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes he die. Sometimes she walk away. Sometimes she acts up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled,his work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.But i am a man who has come to be there for a lifetime in who ever accepts to be mine DeeDee.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.So i want u to have the fun for a life time and that's why i believe God has made me who i am.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons though things may seem some hard at the beginning but learn to endure because life is all about endurance, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life because who ever chooses to be my friend is a part of my life but you are more than a friend,you will be my wife in near time.
I'm not a materialistic individual or vain. I respect this world as I know it, realizing that I'm called to be a citizen in the kingdom to come. I'm just trying to gain eternal life. I understand that ones possessions do not determine the individual. So I don't seek someone because they have neither do I avoid someone because they don't have.I am a helping one.
I'm just seeking someone who believes in unity, co-operation, truth, love, dedication, partnership, trust ( in me ). Someone who knows love and is able to recognize it when it's present. Someone who is not caught up in believe of people but in the believe of God. Hope i did not bore you with my email. I really loved your email this morning and now i decided to pour my heart to you. So here is it . Thank you for being in my bestfriend.. You are so special.
Good Morning Sweetie,
How are you this morning my darling..I really enjoyed our conversation last night.. I didn't really have good sleep..I guess it's because of my trip later today or perhaps am excited about us .. Any i was thinking about you while tossing from one end of the bed to the other..Baby i know we have said a lot and we have so much feelings building up already. I want to share my opinion on how a loving committed relationship should be.
Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are committed you will always find a way to work things out Communication.. talking and open honest communication about how you feel. What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they can't do what makes you happy and vice versa The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive. But if it's with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will receive... EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into commitment, I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance. When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this.
I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for...yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy, Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for?(like my past experiences in the past) I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow.
For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life.Not expecting your partner to think and react to things the way you do. Resolving any conflict in your relationship depends on this. It's important to respect your partner's feelings, even if they are different from your own. If you and your partner both do this you can usually resolve bad situations I think a good relationship requires being each other's best friend, and trusting one another. I think each should respect the others opinion and that stupid arguments over stupid things are healthy, as long as they are not taken too far Good communication. Never being ashamed of each other for any reason. On occasion surprising your mate with a nice romantic date or evening together and telling each other I love you.. There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship.. There has to be love in order for a relationship to work, A good relationship is when your partner is more than just a partner... they should be your best friend, A good relationship is when two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for each other and they respect one another, A good relationship is one purely based on trust, if nothing else. Being able to be miles apart yet never worrying a minute about what they're doing. Communication at all times is so important, and most importantly, respect for each other and their need for alone time as well as together time Two people trusting each other fully, not being afraid to tell the other what one thinks, whether it's good or bad, and the other respecting their opinion. Being able to enjoy the same things with each other, enjoying each other, and being able to take their separate lives and smoothly combine their lifestyles into a couple's lifestyle...A good relationship exists when either individual has the freedom to leave but neither wants to.. I honestly think that a good relationship is one where there are no secrets You are completely open with each other. But the biggest key is that the other person knows the worst possible thing about you and they love you even more for it. On top of that you have to have faith and trust. So that when your love goes anywhere without you, you will know that no matter what someone may do, say, or try to tempt them... you can completely trust them and know that no matter what happens, she will always come home to you. I know it may not seem like much but as long as you have that and love, you are in a wonderful relationship..
I define a good relationship by the way you treat each other. You could hold them and run your fingers down the side of their face. Feel comfortable you know. And you can also define it with fighting. Fighting or Arguing is not my favorite thing to do with my Partner. But it needs to be done.lol... It's not a real relationship until you do Argue I would have to say good communication! Equality, LOVE, not just lust, and most of all, friendship is needed For me, a good relationship is being able to open up to each other even about the simple things in life. A relationship between two people cannot grow without trust. Loving a person is not enough, because if you've got doubts building up inside then your relationship won't work. A good relationship is when the two of you can actually feel better about your relationship after an argument.. it's when you can really respect each others differences and openly discuss feelings at all times. You have good relationship where there is compromise, honesty, sensitivity, and a feel for the needs and wants of the other person and yourself When the couple listens and doesn't interrupt when they're trying to work out a fight. They care for each other deeply. They share similar interests.. A good relationship is when both parties can freely express themselves with one another and to have that open connection to be able to say anything to each other. To have trust and faith in one another.. Basically a honest, trusting, loving and open relationship, A good relationship is frankness and open-minded communication between friends. It is a two-way communication without dominance and/or hypocrisy in it.. A good relationship isn't necessarily flawless, because human beings aren't flawless. It's more important that you can grow with the person you love. If you can learn and grow each day with your best friend standing by you in body and in spirit-then you have a good relationship.When you can feel comfortable about everything together. Always being able to talk, joke. Taking your commitment seriously with one another and never taking each other for granted ...A good relationship must be a give and take basis, in order for you to understand each other. Never fail to listen and understand the situation your in to. Be open minded and be ready to any obstacle that will come in you're way. A good relationship is when both members fully trust each other and can have a blast with each other, knowing how to laugh and be there for each other It's something divine. Where the understanding between the two partners is mutual. No talking required, but it's something you can just feel, something special. Where you can just believe in each other, really believe. How there is a difference between saying it and actually feeling it so this is my opinion towards a loving committed relationship..
I have been up for a couple of hours now and i guess i have written a little book.. Are you bored yet ? So I would like to sum this up by saying this.....Dawn I want to be your Best-friend, your partner, the person who believes in you, the person who is committed to you, the person who puts his trust in you, the person that wants to be your reason, your season and your lifetime.
I miss you babe...