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Romance scam letter(s) from Richard Carvalho to Sam (USA)
Letter 1

How are you? Hope you are having a wonderful weekend? Please reply me back if you receive this message and I will love you to tell me more about yourself. stay bless and hope to read from you soon

Richard
Letter 2

Hello My Special Friend.

Thanks so much for all the emails we have share it has really been a long time since I share my day with someone no matter what life brings to us we will be grateful we have the chance to know each other as a friend and I just have to keep my finger cross. I have to apologize when you don't hear from me early that does not mean I am Ignoring you, I am just busy rounding up all paper work and everything and I will be glad to finish and be able to write you more.

It is another nice day in Miami. I was suppose to take my daughter out to dinner last night, but I couldn't because I was so tired yesterday.I want you to know I grow to believe in having a soul mate and a life-long loving relationship. I really do want that and know it is possible. I just thought it was not available to me. You are a very special woman, very caring, very romantic. We share so many of the same values and dreams in life. I don’t ever want to hurt you or be hurt by you. I only want to experience the kind of sacrificial, unconditional love with any woman I am going to spend the rest of my life with that God meant for a man and a woman who love each other and put Him first in their lives. I believe love should grow and we should love each other more with each passing day, You can leard from me if you really want that I have no problem with that, also want you to know I accept Jesus when I was 16yrs old, I can speak little Italy My birthday is 19th September, about my Job I was working has Oil Rigger,petroleum Engineering as my Profession. I have worked for the following companies: Technips (Technique Pipeline- Spool Base –Manufacturing Pipe Stalks into one-mile lengths, the spool base minimizes the costly vessel tie-in time and maximizes efficiency. Chevron Refinery, Pascagoula, MS, Exxon Mobil Refinery, Theodore, AL –Petroleum –Gas Processing, and British Petroleum (BP) –Offshore Operations

May the peace of our Lord be with you guiding your path, giving you strategy to work smart achieving success with motivation and innovation each day.

1) What make you happy?
2) What days of the week you attend the service at church?
Do you have any ministry in the church or just a member?
3) I go to church every Sunday when I'm home. How often do you go to church?
4) Your likes and dislikes?
5) Do you have prayer time before going to bed?
6) Do you have a quiet time everyday? It's it in the morning, middle of the day, or at night?
7) Are you a morning person or night owl? Do you have a morning routine? Do you drink coffee?
8) Will we take a yearly vacation?
9) What kind of house do you want to live in?
10) Do you like to shower in the morning, at night or both?
11) Do you sleep on the right or left side of the bed?
12) What do you wear to bed?
13) What is your favorite thing to cook?
14) Do you have your own house or rent apartment
15) How do you want to handle disagreements? I don't like to fight. I prefer to let emotions rest. Then talk when we are calm so feelings don't get hurt and things don't get said that aren't really what we intend to say.

Lord, in Jesus name..I'd like to introduce you my friendship with Sam
in faith Sam, and ask you to be with us..where we can assist each other learn, care,support in prayers, share our happiness and staidness as well. Lord I don't want to hurt her feelings but just be helpful and bring good times when we talk..you know we are kilometers away...but the internet makes this way be short.Please bless her, open our spiritual eyes and ears,helps us be vigilant and honest with each other.That our friendship may grow big..with respect and agape love according to your wish.In Jesus name I already thank you for all your love and response to my prayer. Amem

I'm very interested in what you want in life. Please tell me. Please answer my questions. This is very important to me.

Lot of blessing,
Richard
Letter 3

Good Morning Sam,

Happy Easter

How are you doing? Hope you are having a wonderful day? Sam I want you to know when it come to the matter of the heart distance is not a problem I am ready to relocate to any where in the earth to find my heart desire also want you to know from the way you sounds I can see we have some many thing in common and I believe the conversation we leads to some thing great in future. stay bless and hope to read from you soon

Richard
Letter 4

How are you? Hope you are having a lovely weekend and I believe this week you are blessed with happiness, good health, prosperity, and the one you can not live without (smile). I was absorbed with your profile and I am happy I put up my profile on this site. I found you to be quite refreshing and very interesting. It would be great to learn more about you and get to know you more, so I think it would be best if I start by telling you about myself and then you can move on with yours, I was introduced to this by a friend who got his wife Christian mingle and they are happily married now. I am looking for a friend and a serious relationship that will lead us to marriage base on the giving law of marriage laid down by God, eternal marriage.

My name is Richard Mertinze. I was born in Italy, And I have been living in Miami since when I was 24 yrs old. I am the only child of my parents. My Dad passed away 2006 The death of my Dad was too hard for my mom to handle and she was getting high blood pressure regularly so she was spending most of her time in the hospital and she passed on 2009 the same year the mother of my Daughter die in a car accident though the marriage was blessed with a Daughter. Since the death of my wife have not gone into any relationship because it was very hard for me to handle loosing two people that are very close to me in one year it was terrible; and my Daughter who doesn't have a mom, I have a Professional degree in Business Administration and petroleum Engineering as my Profession, I'm a very passionate person and I have an insatiable appetite for life, to make my dream come true and creating a destiny that God is proud of. My dream in life is to be a loving husband and father, to be a role model for my family, friends and people around me, to make my wife and children feel safe, secure and respected and to show that I love them deeply whilst leading them to success and most of all having a partner that is my friend, lover, soul mate, someone that I can communicate with and share the good and bad times with - someone that encourage me to be my best and support my dreams.

It is hard to describe oneself but if I were to say a little about me then I would say comprehensively I am very romantic and I plan on enjoying life to it's fullest.I am very simple and I take life simple, I am looking for someone to grow old with and love me as my own partner. I have been through enough to know who I am as a person and what I am looking for in someone as a woman. I am a fun loving, gentle person with a loving heart and I am looking for someone I can share that with and also share with me all my sorrows and joys. I have a lot of old fashion values that are hard to find in others today. I am looking not only for a wonderful lover woman for life. Mind games and I don't click. Honesty is #1, communication & friendship. Life is to short, we never know what tomorrow will bring. Everyday is a fresh start to our lives and yesterday is water under a bridge. So let's live life!!!!!I would do anything to make my friends and family happy and secure. I am not one to make judgments of others and I would like to be treated the same way. I believe in the 'golden rule' and I try my best to live what I believe. I am attractive, successful very down to earth God fearing man. Who holds these words to be self evidence, that I am somebody. A Man whose mind is made up of what I am determined to do in life.I want someone who is ready to build a friendship and see what happen in the near future, I would be most happy if it leads to a serious relationship. I am independent, supportive, lovable, talented,Intelligent,sensational, Honest man , who is walking by faith and not by sight. I'm very trustworthy and I have come to realized that you are just as important as I am a Man who is willing to walk side by side with his future mate And give her 100% satisfaction of her needs and wants. As long as it is decent and in order...I don't mind the age difference, all I am looking for is a true love of my life. I love sport and enjoy meeting people. I am cool headed and easy going person and like to have a woman who is very responsible and understanding, mature reliable, someone I can really get along with all the time, though we can have our difference but with time we will live above it with the love of Christ. I wish to have a woman who will love me but above all that understand the will of God over us, that is love for man kind, Looking for someone that is the one I wake up and fall asleep thinking about, I am like everyone not perfect, have some flaws and always try to work better on myself and the way i react to people around me

I am 5.11 fit, my favorites; color is blue, I have a series of hobbies. I love to exercise, sing, act, write, watch and play sports. I am an expert in country music. Music is one of the most important things in my life. I am a guy that is filled with a love for life. I am filled with energy and passion for all the great things that life has to offer. I agree with the word that say - each day is a present. Each day is a wonderful gift. We should all be grateful for the beauty that surrounds our lives each day. I am a very affectionate, kindhearted, romantic and sentimental man. This means I like to do the simple things like open doors, send cards, flowers, little unexpected surprises - things along those lines - when I feel close to someone.! People call me "The Definitive Gentleman!

As I mentioned earlier, honesty - and being true to what you feel - is something I totally believe in.I hope we can continue to get to know each other! I also feel like we have a large amount of the same qualities! Simply put, our outlooks seem to be very much alike.I will be expecting your email and hope you find understanding reading about me, it would be a great start to a wonderful friendship.

Best Wishes,
Richard
Letter 5

Thanks for getting back at me again and want you to know that I am very delighted to hear from you I have enjoy having someone to wake up in the morning and write to. Starting a distance relationship, what I mean about a distance relationship it does not necessarily means two block away from me, as long as we share emails to communicate is distance relationship so don't quote me wrong....... It is not very difficult to build a relationship all it takes is the commitment and choice must be made and no mind games, and contact regularly. I know some time's it seem difficult to meet the right person you are compatible with, but there is something I believe, you can never meet a perfect match, you build your perfect relationship with time and commitment and honesty you can get the most wonderful relationship you never believe exist.I guess what you are looking for in a man is the same I'm looking for in a woman. I want love, kindness, friendship and great love as an adult you are suppose to know what I mean by great love...with the right one you should find it all. If you can't trust anyone, you never give yourself the ability to find the right one. You have to allow yourself to be open and even vulnerable and that should allow a nice man to be let into your life. been reflective really bring great friends and happiness. I am just an ordinary person like everyone else but I think i have a great personality, I Am funny, I love to do things and travel and I need to laugh a lot. I am very emotional and need that in my mate.

Your are amazing women, First and foremost, I'm a really nice guy, respectful of women. I'm kind caring, sensitive and strong, and am housebroken for the most part. I love to laugh. Music, good wine and good food are essential to my well being, and I'm a really good cook. I'm adventurous and lazy depending on my mood, and will try most anything at least once. My interests are mufti-faceted. I like to camp, hike, shop and do outdoor he man kinds of things, but also enjoy getting dressed up for a night at the theater. So...A typical evening with me would include lots of laughter, nice music, good food and good wine - either on the town or in the woods. If that appeals to you by all means let me know,I am who I say I am a creative, artistic, loving and affectionate man in search of a woman for a serious relationship which has actually lead to marriage,I Like to BBQ with friends over, I’m very good at entertaining, cuddling with wine by the fireplace, or looking at the stars at night or the sunrise, walks holding hands, looking into each other eyes, kissing for a long time, You would be so proud of me at social events on your arms, I have very good taste and high expectation in life, I’m very adaptable in many ways, run my bath when my spouse is tired or asleep and listen to how your day went, I would make sure that if you needed any assistant with anything I would make it and you my first priority, You are the Heart of the household and I hold down the fort, I keep a clean house and don’t mind your help.

I will cherish a long standing friendship with you, without predicting what it will lead to for now. It is just not possible to tell you everything about myself one day or in a single mail to you. I cherish the beginning of our conversation and I realize that love which begins as friendship is the sweetest of all. I was formally married to Michelle my later wife and she is the mother of my daughter but she died in 2009 a car accident I have a Daughter is 17 years old, I am self employed, my Daughter she will describe me as her hero.My areas of interests are football, skating, hiking, swimming, table-tennis, movies, shopping and traveling whenever I am chanced. based on the nature of my job. I very much enjoy my work, since it is what I have been doing for the past couple of years. My deepest regret is that I don't have any woman to share my life with; this is a problem I hope to solve soon once I can establish my company to a great standard.

My respect for women makes me go any length to spoil and pamper them to a fault, if that will make them happy and give me happiness. In all my endeavor in life I put God first who has really helped me and elevated me to the position I am today. By His grace, I can say that I am living fine and ok; this I do not take pride in, but pride myself in endearing myself closer to Him,I am a christian man and i take the word of God seriously, its my guiding light. I worship at the Assembly of God, I'd be deceiving myself if I said I weren't looking for my soul mate. Deep down I suppose we all are. I can also relate to the difficulty involved in this pursuit.

Here is a little Story of me and my later wife this is are it goes I have a lady from my church who is working with me in my office and she is a christian and we where living happily has one family in the body of Christ so people start saying to my wife that I am cheating on her with that lady and she start fighting accusing me for what I will never do to her, then I try to talking to her I am innocent I can never cheat on her she refuse to list to me then she call for divorce and we got divorce after two month time she find out I was innocent and call me one day to meet her in the lawyer office so we can talk things over, I was so happy that very day and I drive down to the lawyer office I waited all through the day she never show up so I have to go back home getting home I see some police men around my house with my daughter so they ask me to come with them that they I need me in the police station so I have to go with them, getting to the police station I saw my wife car and I ask them what happen and where is my wife they told me my wife had a accident today that she is in the hospital. I have to runs down to the hospital to see her, as soon I get there she was crying saying to me I am so sorry my husband for putting you through this situation that she find out that I was innocent that she allow the devil to control her and she asking me to forgive her, and she ask me just one question to promise her I am going to be there for our daughter I said to her yes after I answer that question she give up and die, and I want you to know since the death of my wife I have never been in any relationship I was just busy taking care of my daughter because she is the only family I have. so just few weeks ago my friend introduce me to christian mingle he melt a lovely lady there and they are both happily married now, I travel for my job.

So I need to know what you think about the question below this message,

Tell me little about your past relationship ?

What kind of relationship you looking for?

Best Wish
Richard
Letter 6

1) Refer to my answers listed on #1- A (Likes) & also = Receiving Communion My Salvation and the fact that I have been given the opportunity for another day. Prayer, My time with God, Family, Health, Good Food, Good Friends, Good Times, Good Clean Fun, Music, Dancing, A lot of Laughter, Playing in the Sunshine-Snow or Rain,Being in Love, That First Kiss - Unexpected and yet Wonderful, Excitement, Surprises,A Touch or a Certain Look from the One You Love, A Tender Kiss, A Passionate Kiss, Passion in each other, Communication, Honesty no matter how difficult to say. My Past and all it's pain-If I hadn't lived it I couldn't fully appreciate life's lessons. Scuba Diving and being with someone I Love who Loves me Back just as much.Baking & Cooking for others and having Holiday Traditions Old & New.

2) Likes ) Attending Church, learning from the Bible, singing in Church, Prayer, Volunteering,Missionary work of all kinds, Tithing, Flying any were, Family & Friends, Holidays(all of them)Cards, Board Games, Darts, Pool, BBQ, Friends, Gardening, Cleaning my home Most anything adventurous, Theme parks, Camping, Hiking, Bike Riding,laying in the Grass and watching the Clouds, staring up at the Stars, the changes in the Moon, Chocolate, Little Shops, Exploring, The Beach, Hot Air Balloon Rides, Traveling near or far, little Festival's, I adore Music, Dancing, & Scuba Diving. Going to a Ball Game/Football Game Watching Alabama Football (this and the Superbowl are all I really care for)Additional Training & Entertaining, Cruises, Vacations A Good Pizza and Salad, Having fun with others, Laughter, Love, Life Celebrations, Birthdays, So many more but far to many to list them all.

Dislikes ) Smoking, Drugs, individuals who constantly over indulge in Alcohol. Bungee Jumping, Rides that goes in circles, Blue Cheese, Excessive Cursing, Using the Lords Name in vein, Being lied to intentionally, Unfaithfulness, Someone without compassion, Arguments-Fighting Being forced to do something I really don't want to do Watching a Movie If I missed the beginning, can't hear what they are saying, or the bass is set to high I prefer to set in the back of the Theater because up close it causes my vision to blur.

3&4) Generally I attend church on Sunday's but sometimes in the Summer Our Church offers Saturday evening Church. I have just recently started attending Bible Study - Discipleship classes, on Wednesday. Usually my work schedule interferes with this. Our church doesn't offer Sunday evening or regular Wednesday evening classes. It is a big church and we hold 3 Services on Sunday Mornings. Furthermore the church is about 45 minutes from where I live but I do enjoy it. In the Winter time when the roads are really bad I will either watch on the internet or TV and sometimes I do visit the local Baptist church. I feel somewhat sluggish if I don't at least hear His Word some how some way so I do my best to get it however I can. I do try to attend every Sunday but it is not always possible and that is understandable but just because I am in service doesn't mean it isn't on my mind and I don't receive His Word. I also try to read "My Daily Bread" and I get a Bible Verse sent to my inbox each day! I am a Member at church as well as I do volunteer work when the opportunity and my schedule with work & or finances are available.Even when my budget is low I still believe in Tithing as much as I can. I try to set ruling of at least 10%.

5) Vacations are a must to regenerate. I feel anytime you have the opportunity to get away as a couple or as a family, if both time & money allow then go for it. Little Mini vacations are really nice, a 2 day getaway to do something fun and exciting or to go some where for quiet solitude is great for everyone. If time and money only allow for 1 vacation a year then so be it but a family or a couple can always find the time to go somewhere for a camping, or fishing adventure or take the day and go hiking or site seeing or even window shopping or burn out a tank of gas driving out of the city for the day and stopping off for an ice cream cone. It doesn't have to be extravagant, just spending the time together getting out of the house is a good thing for everyone.

6) I am more a Morning person than a Night owl. I can and do stay up late sometimes however I still get up early. I prefer not to waste my day in bed. Of course there are exceptions to that rule - like laying next to the one you love and not wanting to leave his arms, now then it would be more difficult to crawl out of bed. As far as my routine goes, I like making the bed within the first hour I am awake usually even sooner. I have to eat something as soon as I wake or generally I get up, eat, make the bed, get dressed, and tackle the day in whatever sequence it needs to go. As a single parent and one that almost always had to go off to work each day I got into the routine of cleaning the house

7&8) We had a sermon the 1st week of the year it was on learning to have quiet time with God. I listened to this very hard and I have been trying to set myself into this mode daily but it is difficult for I happen to have one of those brains that rarely ever shuts it's self down. Therefore i am always thinking and try as I may my thoughts rarely want to stop. I spoke to my Pastor about it and he has encouraged me to keep at it, eventually it will get easier. He said in the beginning the morning may be the best for the mind is most clear. For me though when I awake I immediately start to think about all the items that need attending in the day. I find at night my brain is still very active so I am a Lister. I write down the list of items I want to get accomplished or at least I want to remember to get done at some point in time and then I can feel free to erase them from my thoughts. this in turn allows me time to focus more on listening to The Voice Of God. I have actually fallen asleep before in the middle of my evening prayer due to being that tired. I am confident that the Lord understands this for he knows that he was the last thought on my mind. When I awaken in the morning I immediately ask for forgiveness as well. My Pastor also stated that sometimes just going into a dark closet and setting on the floor where no sounds or persons will bother you may help. So I am currently struggling but I know that eventually it will all come together. What I would like is Family Bible Discussion Time. Where we would all set together read from the Bible and then talk about it sharing our thoughts and understanding of what we just read together. I do get on my Knees and say my prayers every night before going to bed and I also thank God every morning for a new day. I pray at every meal and I do not care what others think about it. If I am in a restaurant or a picnic or someone else's home, I will speak up and ask if they would mind saying prayer or may I say it. I have yet to have anyone decline. If they were to decline I imagine I would go ahead and say a privet prayer myself to God in thanks for this meal.

9) One that puts God First !

10) Probably a roast or beans & ham but I really enjoy making many dishes and trying new recipes as well. I also enjoy baking.

11) I own my own home, and I pay it in Cash

12) I actually sleep on both sides of the bed. Since I am alone I do switch back and forth. I think as crazy as it sounds it allows me to feel less alone in a way and it also is better for the mattress. That way one side doesn't wear down more than the other side.

13) I have done both, either the morning or the evening. It really depends on my work schedule but generally at night. I sleep better I shower and evening shower, or right after work (depending on how bad the day was) . My Daughter always had a bath before bed each and every night, in my opinion it teaches better hygiene as well as it keeps them stress free in the mornings on the time factor. A child that bathes at night sleeps better and this allows them to be more prepared and productive for their next school day. When a child thinks they need a shower in the morning to wake up it is usually due to lake of restful sleep & or proper dieting.

14) I do like what you had to say about fighting. For me it must be talked out, discussed and resolved. No reason to scream and shot at one another. It is inevitable that disagreements will occur and I feel it is important that each one gives the other a chance to speak and be heard. Some times a cooling down period may be needed but just be sure that it is an unspoken rule that it will be discussed and not burred. Just walking away never solved anything and that can cause a major explosion in the future. Answer each others questions and listen to their words. Some of the best advice I ever received is this " You must agree that it is alright to Disagree!" No two people are going to agree on the same thing all the time. There will be times when opinions clash, that is okay for we are each unique in our own way and entitled to our own opinions. Talk it out and come to a happy medium, compromise is very important and each person must be willing to do this and share in it. Take turns with the situations where you would need to compromise, for it should never have to be one sided. It is not always as simple as just being Wrong or Right !

15) Okay now this one is a bit personal I sleep in Winter PJ's. I am a light sleeper so this allows me to go into a deeper sleep for better rest. I don't even believe in having a tv in the bedroom. I feel the bedroom is for 2 things, sharing time together as a couple - intimacy and sleeping.

Best Wish
Richard
Letter 7

Dearest Sam,

I am the most happiest man right now on the whole wide world, the reason I believe I am the most luckiest man, is because I have an angelic woman in my life and that is you. Beautiful in the inside and outside what more would I want to ask God for in life, I believe the bible say who ever findeth a wife, have found good thing and obtain favor from God. I am favor and this is my year of testimony. I believe everything God has done everything in time for me and I believe this is just the perfect timing for my favor from him, he has not just favor me with any woman, but he choose to favor me with a very special one, you are special to me and to the world in large. I have never experienced such endearments from any woman in my life...nor, have I ever felt any of these feelings that are stirring within my heart, spirit and soul... It is so awesome to me and so wonderful,So very glad to get your answers. Like I said in my email, seems we have so many things in common, I love to wear and my favorite is Jean and t-shirt also love going to the zoo with my daughter, I sleep 7 hour, Miami snow some time of the year, I drive ford mustang 2015

1) If you've had a rough hard day what can I do to make all your stress go away and make it the perfect evening?
2) What will our first date look like?
3) What does it mean to you to be a Christian and why is it important to you?
4) What is your favorite Bible story & why?
5) What is you favorite Bible verse & why?
6) What is your favorite color, food, season, holiday, flower, and candy?
7) Tell me about your job
8) What is your favorite childhood memory?
9) What is your worst bad habit? And what bad habit of others drives you crazy?
10) Where do you want to be in 1 year from now? In 5 years?

Sam, I have to admit that you are in my thoughts all day long. Every answer you give draws me closer to you. I know we each have a story that has made us the person that we are. We each have a past that created us.

God, I pray that you will use our friendship to build Sam, and me up, that we will be cautious not to hurt each other as we grow closer. That we will seek your will in all we do. Thank you for your blessings. Amen.

Can't wait for your next response,
Richard
Letter 8

1) I would say I have 3 actually, you can choose the worst. a) I tend to over load my plate in life and take charge of things. What I mean is that over the years I have been the only one I could count on to be there in time of need. I had to do it myself or it just didn't get done. I am a survivor, my life has been hard and there hasn't been time to wait for someone to rescue me. So I had to do things for myself and I got through it just fine with God's Grace. I have always tried to reach out and help others in need because I know how difficult things can be with no one to turn to. I often find that I tend to stretch myself to far and to thin. ( It may sound a bit selfish but the year 2016 I have decided to focus a bit more on myself and the things that I need to better myself and my life). I know that in order to do for others I must first get my own life in check & fulfill my needs (not to be confused with my wants). b) Punctuality - I usually have such a full plate that when my needs arrive I seem to run short on time. c) On occasion I tend to bite at my cuticles and sometimes my nails. As for bad habits of others ...... I can't handle someone who has bad hygiene habits and just don't care to take some sort of pride in their self. A person who is sloppy, disrespectful as well as inconsiderate of others and others belongings.

2) What is your favorite color, food, season, holiday, flower, and candy? blue, anything Italian, fall...it is the most romantic time of the year with all the beautiful colors, Christmas, yellow roses, dark chocolate

3) What is your favorite childhood memory? I guess it would be at Christmas. My aunt always came to our house and would bring us tons of gifts. My aunt and uncle never had any children of their own so they would spoil us. My mom didn't like it but we sure did!!

4) To find myself in a closer walk with God ( I think we should always strive to achieve a closer walk with Him each and every day ). To find my self with the woman God intended for me. I am ready for a new direction in my life and I hope to be at least heading that way with in the next year ( I have been searching for a new direction in my life love and geographical location. Within 5 yrs I pray this is all achieved and that I find myself and the one I am with to be very happy and pleased, and content with our life. I hope that we can be living the life that God has fully intended for us with each other. I picture us doing everything in our power to be living a good Christian life, one that others can see by our actions as well as, our feeling for each other and our love for Christ will always shine through. To be doing stronger Missionary work and helping others learn of Christ and his love. I also hope to experience many new things within this life over the next 5 yrs. I continuously wish to see and explore many new wonders of this world ( God's creations ). I also plan on being a lot more stress free by not stretching myself as thin. I have begun to de-clutter my life.

5) What is you favorite Bible verse & why? You are from God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world. 1 John 4:4 & why I love this verse is because God is IN you - not far off somewhere. Yes, God is in Heaven - but that is not the only place He is. By the Holy Spirit, God now has His dwelling place in you! You don't have to "try to reach God". He is right there! What you need to do is cultivate an awareness of His presence. This along with communication, is the only way to develop a closer relationship with God. . God, who, is within you, is greater. Greater than any problem. Greater than any difficulty. Greater than the devil. Greater than any addiction. Greater than anything you will ever face. Jeremiah 29: 11 For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord. thoughts and plans for welfare and peace and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome, Hebrews !3:5(ii) for He [God] Himself has said, I will not in any way fail you nor give you up nor leave you without support. Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Philipians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. Isaiah 40:31 But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

6) Keep the home front calm for me and understand that it has been a bad day. Some cuddle time would be nice as well as maybe a foot rub or other type of pampering. Kisses and hugs work real well though.

7) The story of the Red Sea and the parting of the waters. It shows us of both God's love and power and the wonderful Miracles that he can and does preform when one believes.

8) It means everything to me. It means my Eternity and that is truly the most important thing that there is. It is what God wants us all to strive for.

9) What will our first date look like?Well by the time we actually meet I would hope we would be very comfortable with one another. I would like to go to a nice little restaurant, sit and talk and hold hands

Dear Lord,

I pray that as Sam and I seek to know each other that you will help us always to be truthful above all else with each other so that we will have a good understanding of how each other feels about subjects that are important to our relationship. Help us to learn to trust each other and to be able to tell each other anything knowing that you will help us to deal with whatever happens in a way that lifts each other up and not tear each other down. Let us always strive to honor you in all that we do so that we might be an example to those around us in order to serve you better. I would pray that you would show us for your will concerning us in all things. That we might love and serve you for many years to come. I pray that you will help me to be the man you created me to be , a man of faith and virtue and a helpmate for my woman. Help us to always strive to be understanding and slow to anger and never keeping count of others wrong doings but building each other up in strength and faith to serve you all the days of our lives.

For it is in Jesus precious name that I ask it, Amen

Richard
Letter 9

I'm very happy to hear from you and I want you to know that am happy with our communication, Its a good thing for me to know that you are thinking the same way that am thinking and we communicate the same way to our Heavenly Father, My prayers to God is for Him to grant us our heart desires and for him to open our hearts fully to one another, For him to give us undoubting trust in all our communications and deeds, In all our actions, I want him to shine his light upon our lives and bless our relationship, I'm happy that the Lord is doing a good work on us right now but letting us open ourselves to one another and I'm happy about sharing my personal details with you as you are sharing yours with me, In all my recent days have never found this peace and happiness inside unlike I did with you, Communicating with you makes me happy and every now and then I keep checking my email to see if I get any messages from you and I believe that our Heavenly Father has a lot in store for us, All we need to do is to be there for one another and to honor,respect and support one another in everyday, This I promise you I would do always and I want you to know I am not after a woman that has money what I am after is a true heart of love.

I want you to know that am always confident and open in what ever I write to you and am not afraid to pour out my heart and emotions in my emails to you, I write to you what I feel and I want you to please do the same, I want you to always be confident in yourself because I believe in you We need to embrace what our heart feels and respect it, I seek a life time relationship and am willing to put all my life into making it work because am a hopeless romantic man and when I love its with all of my heart,body and soul, You are a very beautiful and brilliant woman and a woman after God's own heart and that is something very rear to find these days never forget that.

I want you to know that after writing back and forth to you I have felt something I no longer thought was in me and that made me realize God is pointing me to the right direction in life and i want you to know that my heart is ready to walk down this lane with you and I will do anything and everything to make it work. What I want in my life right now and forever is a woman I can love with all of my heart, respect, cherish, adore a woman I can spend the rest of my life in love with, a woman i can open up all of my heart to, a woman who will be there to support me physically, mentally, emotional, financially, spiritually and otherwise, a loving and ride or die wife and all this I will offer her in return twice, I want a woman who will love me with all her heart as I will love her unconditionally. Its bring me greater joy to know that you responded to my message on Christian Mingle and I want you to know that to show you that am serious about you and you alone, I am planing my profile off Christian Mingle and am giving this relationship all of my attention and my devotion, I'm a man who puts God first in my life and all I do I put in prayers to him first and I let him lead me, I know there are risks about finding love online but I believe so much in God's direction and also in my Heart because they have never failed me, I do not let my head think for me or lead me because that is why wrong decisions and advice comes from, I have been so lonely and alone for a long time and am willing to risk it all just to find real love and happiness,We both have so many the same qualities and quantities and I believe those are not just mere similarities its the Lord showing me that you are the one for me.

My Married was sweet and lovely also want you to know God was in the Center of my married and I love my wife so much and my daughter very much before the devil came in and destroy it and I want you to know Its was not my fault because I try to talk to my wife she refuse to listen to me, Sam I am ready to relocate to any where in the world to find my heart desire like what I told you early I am independent Contractor I can work from any where in the state also want you to know my daughter is in Support for me to get a new mom for her and I like the idea of us to meet I am going to check my schedule and let you know and I will love to come to Taxes to pay you a visit. please just sent me a text when you get home I am going to call you after work today.

Sam I am really surprised reading your words and your word they speak directly to me and also express how I feel and it got me thinking how do you see through me? because I do not know how you do it but just reading your words just makes me see myself writing the same things to you because you express my exact feelings with each mail you write to me and I want you to know that am a man who is not afraid to go after his heart desires and what makes him happy.

Best Wish
Richard
Letter 10

The Queen of my heart,

Sunshine, there is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this.

I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long. I want to see you and me chasing Serena and your grand kids around the house and me, all of us laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my hairy chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.

I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want to hold your hand and let you scream at me when we sleep at night. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time.

I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you" because you know it's coming from the heart. I want us to be sitting there and watching our gran kids. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.

I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I really am crazy about you, everything about you,

Richard

Letter 11

Hello Sunshine, How are you? Hope you have a lovely night rest? I have been thinking about you all through the night I have missed you a lot hope all is well if so glory be to God. I had a dream about you last night and I was very happy when I woke up because I have now understand what is takes me to keep the relationship moving and here are they (1)determination.........my determination in life is to treat you like a queen and take care of you and take you all around the world and make up a good family together.........(2)understanding.................I have understand love in a way that am going make you feel the real love of a man cos I understand a woman need to be treated with care and respect and that is what am going to do to you make you know that am the best man for you in the world and you are woman for me too..............(3) Gods favor...................I know now that our coming together is not just happening but its happening on a divine intervention God has a reason for we coming together and he is going to do more miracle in our lives and in this relationship for he is the only one that changes all thing for good and to be good ..................(4)courage..............courage is not something that comes to someones mind it take a man a very long time to think and understand before he can encourage someone to do something and it takes the grace of God for a man and I know this relationship is of God ......................... (5)sincerity ......................sincerity is something that build a relationship we will be for ever happy and there would be nothing we can,t face together because we have one mind that's the power of sincerity always........................(6)prayer...................prayer is the master key to all locked doors with prayers we can counter anything for the bible say pray without seasons and I believe with prayer this relationship will grow stronger like mountain Zion and like the singeing sun we would always smiles and leave happy for with all this we will, our love will last forever .....................I do cares for you and in this relationship and I will surrender all my life to me and open up my heart to understand the language of our heart.

Best Wish
Richard
Letter 12

Hello My Dearest Sam,

Sam with sincerity in my Heart and Love...... I must confess that your letter touched me deeply and I have been doing some thinking myself.. Reading your email made day, I have been hurt deeply in the past and after that I have vowed never to give my heart out to anyone as it would result to being hurt again... now with all of this that's happening with me am still surprised..... I have been doing some man to woman talking with my daughter she understands me and she said " Dad I want you to be happy again.

Sam I want you to know when it comes to matters of the Heart, Only God knows best and only he instructs and directs us to make the right decision... Whatsoever two people agrees upon God will surely make way for them to prosper... I want you to know that right now I do not have the slightest idea of what i'm going to do right now but all I know is that I do not wish to lose you, I want to always be with you... I want to always be there to support you, Love you, Hold you, Look into your eyes and let you know how much I feel about you....... I want you to understand that talking to you has made me come to understand that when we think that life is over its just beginning........

Sam You are the kind of woman I have always dreamed about, think about, you are the woman whom God has chosen for me and i'm so happy to met you... I want you to know that all I need now is for you to agree with me, i'm not forcing you, I'm only asking you to tell me how you feel about me deeply.... and I also want you to know that I have been doing a lot of prayers and asking God for directions about how I feel about you.... but when I sat down and talked about it..... Love is that feeling we cant control, understand, see but we know its there... Its not what makes us cry when we miss that special person but what makes us smile on the very thought of that person.... God Bless you.......

Please i need you to tell me what you think...

Richard
Letter 13

My Name is Serena my dad gave me your email to contact you and i will love you to tell me more about yourself and please don't be offended i am asking this and the reason i am asking i don't want my dad to get hurt because he is the only person I have in life and since my dad start talking to you i always see a smile on is face every morning and that really make me happy because for some year now I have never see him so happy and smile like this. once again thank you for bring my dad happiness back. please i we love to read from you Serena
Letter 14

i am so happy to see your message, hope are you doing ok? i have some few question for you. I want to know what do you like about my dad? your feeling toward my dad? are you a christian? what is your relationship with God? can i call you mom? tell me your plan towards my dad?

Please i am sorry for this too many question and the reason i am asking all this question, my dad told me a lot about you and i can see my dad is falling so fast for you because he is always happy for the past days now i don't know how you did that, all i want i just want my dad to be happy again, i have been praying day and night crying to God for the past years now for him to send my dad a good woman that we love him, i can see my prayer has been answer thank you very much to come into my dad life. i look forward to hearing from you again

Serena
Letter 15

Good Morning Sweetheart

How are you doing now, hope you having a wonderful time out there in work without any stress? was having a busy day in office but thank God every thing went according to as plans, In life I believe God is a master planner that is why is ways are different from our ways.. Meeting you is just like a mystery but I know heaven is aware about us, age is just a numbers Honey and distance is not a problem since we both want and love our self, I strongly believe that meeting you is a divine plan by God because I have always pray for a woman of your kind but thank God I found you..

Honey in life, we receive a wonderful opportunity and that is to love. Love comes in many forms. You love people in different ways and for different reasons, depending upon how they have touched your life. Love is a very powerful word and can describe a multitude of feelings, but its main context carries the same meaning.

I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms, only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything,you are everything to me.

You are everything I do you see and bring out the best in me you are the one I want to share everything with my thoughts, hopes and dreams thinking of you makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for me. I will forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life. So to repay you I promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my life.... do take very good care of your self for me, hope to read from you soon.

ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE MIGHTY HAND OF GOD,

Richard
Letter 16

Good Morning My Love,

Thank you for your message and I want you to know any time I get and email from you always make me happy and put smile on my face and also I want you to know that my heart belong to you. I made a vow to God that I will never hurt you and always stay by your side comes rain nor sun and l pledge to render my undying love to you just to prove my human dignity for my angel mama, Because you have show me that you a woman that I can trust and believe, the first day I read a letter from you my heart tell me that you are the woman I have been looking for and my feeling never lie to me, Heaven knows that someone like me needs someone like you to feel complete. What else can l say out of my modifies lips is nothing else but Daddy in heaven thank you for providing an earthly angel to me in a time like this, Sam I want you to have me in your heart. I really want to spend the rest of my life with you and I get married to you.

Sam listen you call me or text me anything time and l will answer you and l really need you in my life, I always think of you and miss you so much. I will always render my zeal and strength just to say your face smile. what do want from me? is not true love out from a man heart I strongly believe that when it comes to surrendering for an angel like you I am willing to drop my last drop of blood just to share the beautiful days with you. Whenever l look through my window when l woke up early in the morning the little bird that fly and the sweet breeze sipper a word in my hearing Do you know what they said? let my give you an clue the clue is that have you hear from your angel today and tell her you love her. Words can,t explain the gravity of love l fell for you and you are precious that any living thing l ever set my eyes on, what a wonder creature created by our maker I have lost in the past due to the afraid of love but God has answer my prayer for the wonder provider of an angel to my life. that is why the Hebrew call him JEHOVAH JIREL meaning GOD THE PROVIDER He has provide for me what no man can give to me, example of such item is you.

Sam do you want it take to fall into the ocean of love.if you don,t mine let me explain it for you in the midst of darkness in the ocean of the deep blue sea and in the avenue when you are be neglected to people around you due to an important item or commodity, you never gives up and you keep on moving persuading and looking ahead until you come to a point of destination.You are my destination.

Sam always imagine me when you are your bedside,on the road and at your office. loving you till eternity is my motto of the day.

Richard
Letter 17

A new day has just begun time to bask 'neath the sun yesterday is dead and gone to a new day that You belong rejoice and be glad there's no need to be sad; Leave your burdens behind allow only good feelings to fill your mind make the best of this new day because the best will come your way Today When the sun sets, I'll be right there next to you because You are my Queen and am your King to whisper how much I love and cherish you and treat you like the Queen that you are cause you are worth noting but the best.sorry i missed you on line yesterday was a little sick . hope to talk to you later today. call me when u can honey.hope u love the pics Just wanna say Good morning because I slept with you on my mind and woke up with a smile ummmmm.
You Are The Best!
Good Morning sunshine
I LOVE YOU
Letter 18

Hello My love,

How are you doing? Hope you are having a wonderful day? Sam from the very first moment I set my eye on your profile I knew that we were destined to be together. . I feel so happy when ever I talk to you. Your laughter fills me with joy, and your mere presence will warm heart. I have no doubt you are the woman Heaven has made especially for me.

Thank you for coming into my life . Most importantly, thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your husband. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship develops, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.

Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.

You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day.

Love Always
Richard
Letter 19

Good Morning My Love,

How are you? Hope you are having a lovely day? Sam I'm thinking about you every second of every day and cannot wait until I see you for the first. I miss you so much. I hope that I can see you soon but until I do I will keep you in my dreams and in my heart, and remember that I love you and I always will. We are the lucky ones because we found each other and we are able to love each other more than we ever have before. I'll be waiting to see you one day.I love you with all my heart.

It's the middle of the day and I was thinking about you, as usual. I want you to know how much I sincerely love the countless hours we spend talking. It means so much to me. It truly seems like I've known you forever and I honestly can't imagine life without you now. There will be no looking back, no second thoughts and no regrets. I love you and only you ... and that love will only grow stronger. Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All I can say is you're the best surprise life has given me and your capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I've truly been blessed by finding you and I'll never let you go.

Hey, Honey ... I miss you. I'm just here thinking about you, like I always do. I hope you're as happy as me,ever since the first time I heard you on the phone and heard your beautiful voice, I miss you every second of my life. I knew I found someone special. I will always remember how sweet you are and how every time my phone rang and I heard your sweet voice I would smile and I was happy from that point on....

Love always,
Richard
Letter 20

How are you this morning , I was missing you so much when I woke up this morning, For just a moment, I thought I was asleep, and dreaming. An Angel walked into the room, and kissed me on the cheek, and I felt a warmth spread throughout my body, and I was content and happy, and full and in an instant, I realized it was you, coming to bed, and letting me know I was no longer alone,and never would be again, and I was even more content than before, hope you had a good night rest . let me know how you feeling today ,you have a blessed and wonderful day at work will be missing you till I get to talk to you. I really will miss u till I talk to u again.I really want to know I love you so much.

Always Love
Richard
Letter 21

How are you doing today, hope all is fine with you in health, weather and family doing great, Sam I'm so sorry I keep you worry please find it in your heart to forgive me,thanks for your mails i see you so interesting to me the more for checking after me here to see if am ok.. I am doing fine by the grace of God... every thing went according to as plans.. Just thinking about you all through the day smile..

I know there's an ocean between us, and I wish that it weren't true, for every day when I arise, I yearn to be with you. Though a lot of distance lies between us, you'll always be in my mind, And every night beneath the stars, I pray for the day we'll never be part.

Every day I will be thinking about you my dear. When my eyes are closed, when I sing and dance to a love song, when I'm checking my email, I will be thinking about you. When I go to sleep in the loneliness of my room and give in to wonderful dreams I will definitely be thinking about you, favorable night by God, looking forward to read from you soon.

Always Love
Richard
Letter 22

Hello My love,

How are you doing? Hope you are having a lovely weekend? Sam I just wanted to do something simple to say I love you and to put that smile I love so much back on your face. I want everyone to know how much you mean to me. Ever since you have entered my life, I've been flying on Cloud 9 and I have not come down yet.

I tell you this everyday, but you are the most beautiful person I know, inside and out and I see that more clearly with each passing day. I love everything about you, about us. You do something to me that no other has, you have made me so happy, the happiest I've ever been. You give me the most amazing feelings inside, the feeling of being in love with you.

I still don't know what I did to be so lucky to have you in my life, my dream come true... I am so thankful though. In this short time that we've been together, we have grown so much and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us. I love you, Sam, with all my heart and soul, always and forever!

Always Love
Richard
Letter 23

Just as a poet needs inspiration to write a masterpiece
I need you ...

Just as an artist needs a subject for his work of art,
I need you ...

Just as a teacher needs a pupil to mold into greatness,
I need you .

Just as a composer needs a theme to create a timeless melody,

I need you ...
For without you, Sam my life would be empty of all inspiration. There will be no work of art for me to gaze at; no person of greatness before me; no timeless melody to listen to. My life will exist in shades of gray instead of vibrant colors, and I will be less than whole.

In the past, the proper words have escaped me, and my innermost feelings have been kept locked away in the depths of my heart. No more - for through this letter, I proclaim to you, Sam, my undying love and eternal devotion

Richard
Letter 24

Sam On this day of thanking God for you, I pray For His peace to encompass you And for the faith to believe In all the best that He will do.

Sam may you find the courage you need To rest in God's amazing grace, With a wondrous vision Of compassion on His gentle face.

Sam each morning as you wake, I pray You will see the beauty of His caring ways As He holds you to His heart to heal Any sadness born of yesterday.

Sam may you always feel protected Holding onto Jesus loving hand, As He leads you ever onward Into all He'd have you understand.

Sam Because the love that He has purposed For your future will come true, As you look to see beyond The eternity within you.

Sam I pray His special blessing Of loving friends forever near, To know the miracle of prayerful peace To take away all fear,

and may you know sweet angels hovering Protecting you, so near above, This is my prayer for you on your special day With everlasting love.

Your Husband Richard
Letter 25

You've been there
to laugh with me
to cry with me,
to be proud of me,
and to be happy for all
the good things in my life...

You've shared my disappointments
and listened and helped me
through difficult times.
You're

the most important part of my life...
and you always will be.

I give thanks to God always
for you...

I corinthians 1:4
Happy birthday darling
I Love you!!

Your Husband Richard
Created: 2016-11-02    Last updated: 2016-11-02    Views: 754
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