Scam Email(s) from Bryan Harts to Eleanor (South Africa)

 

Letter 1

Hello

Thanks for sharing your email address with me on the dating site and i am sorry i am just writing to you, work has been really hectic. I am just a decent man that is hoping and praying to find love and happiness once again someone to share the rest of my life with and grow old with. Someone to share my dreams my love my deepest secrets my fears my whole life with.

I was invited for dinner by a couple It makes me imagine how much I want a home where as couples we invite friends over and not always being invited. I know that there are many differences between men, but ultimately I think we all need someone to hug and cuddle and love, don’t we?

As great and gifted as some men can be, they all need the influence of a great woman in their homes. It just provides balance, stability.

To have someone to come home to make meals together share the evenings together next to the fireplace when it's cold snuggle and cuddle together and share the days events. To say goodnight to and wake up to each morning.

Someone to go on holiday with. Sit on the beach dig our feet in the sand and listen to the crashing waves. I am an extremely romantic man with an abundance of love to share with that special woman and I know she is out there .

I don't believe God made man and woman to live alone. It's my first time on a dating site, I am still trying to find my way around . How long have you been on the dating site. Have you met or dated anyone online ?

I have two beautiful daughters Harper 23 and Zara 21. They certainly brighten my day and keep me going. I work in construction management for Public Agencies. I help hire designers for their project, and then help hire a contractor to build the project. So I manage both the design team and the construction contractor. I help agencies build roads, pipelines, buildings, and treatment plants.

My passions cooking walking and to travel both locally and abroad but hate traveling solo. I love children, animals, listening to my music. I have a warm loving heart with internal beauty and I look for the same in a woman .

I was happily married for 19 years before she died of breast cancer, she was a dear friend as well as a mother to our beautiful children I have moved on. I have packed all the beautiful love and memories in my heart where they will stay forever. Initially I was very angry with God for taking her but now i realize who are we to question God as he obviously has greater plans.

My plan is to find my soul mate love and happiness once more. To live and enjoy life. To smell the roses along the way.

And just imagine how nice it would be if a real special someone in your life can push your wheelchair when you get old Hopefully that brought a smile to your face

Love and Blessings. Bryan

Letter 2

Hello Eleanor

Hope you had a lovely day? I am glad you could relate with my message. You have a lovely boy, i can sense the close between you in the photo.Lets communicate and get to know each other then we arrange to meet.

Nothing is more beautiful than two people connected and bonded in sincere love fairy tale endings I still belief do exist but the fairies have lost my address a long time ago, but I am helping them now, so perhaps who knows. Shared moments don't always have to be something drastic It can be in a glance a quiet moment each one enjoying what makes them happy and always appreciating your partner’s dreams Care and comfort each other that is what friendship is all about.

Feeling comfortable with each other without looking for reasons why. Having time to listen to what is said not what you think is said. Real communication not just kids, work and Trivial things.

I put aside my feelings for the right moment and try to know when the one I care about is upset. Genuine affection between lovers makes one know what is happening in her/his life, because love has placed both in the position to be the first to know whenever anything happens in our everyday life.

I am not good with false pretense or how it is suppose to work according to the books. I hate to walk away from a problem. I face the music and get it over with.Its my very first time trying to date again after my wife died, and putting a profile on the dating site was not an easy decision, but i am glad i did.

Trust, respect and honesty is major with me. I like to know where I stand and if told a lie it makes me mad. Not because of the lie but because the person telling it must think I'm stupid.

I am not good at being a nuisance or irritating. Tell me I'll go away that to me save us a lot of time as time is of importance.

The word love is a whole lot and most people abuse it, to me, it is loyal, Respectful and should be regarded, love is an oath and it end result should be forever. Maybe I had too much time to think about all this.

I like to reach for the stars, and if I find someone that reaches with me the chances are better. I have many flaws and make mistakes daily - nobody is perfect. But one thing I can say is I am sorry I was wrong. Never lost anything by doing that except losing the fight which is better . I belief in God and am grateful for my blessings. Revenge and hate is a waste of time.

Breakfast is my main meal Whatever I fancy. I usually make a decision the night before, or whilst I'm doing my early morning walk. I love Apple pie's . Cooking is something i enjoy when i am with someone i love, even now i still make pretty good meal when my daughters are around.

I was once told that marriage and relationship is a continuous process of learning and what we don't share in common now as we grow we find our self loving and doing similar things.

Blue is my favorite color, and black in winter. Sunsets are my favorite time of the day. Love the newness of mornings Such blessed joy, The fact that we've been graced and blessed with another day.

I did a lot of trip and philanthropic ventures after my wife passed.During this period I sought a deeper meaning to life and subsequently became involved in social- and rehabilitation work in all spheres of society nationally and internationally.

I spent three months in the Amazonas Jungle in South America (Manaus, Boa Vista, and Venezuela (Santa Helena and the Gran Sabana) among the poorest of poor whose habitation were the streets and rubbish dumps as well as the prostitutes and the cast outs of society. I was in Venezuela during which period I lived among the diamond diggers stemming from the Rocky Mountains of Canada in true 1930’s style. I was the only foreigner in their midst and was able to see how they did trading of diamonds and gold. They are tough men yet true to their nature of loyalty, kindness and compassion. They've treated me with utmost respect and I came to revere them immensely. But in recent years my work has been more of what I do and giving my children the best Possible.

Have a lovely day with a smile. Bryan

Letter 3

Hello Dear, I really enjoy speaking with you yesterday. How is your day going? Mine is quite hectic but i told myself i will make out time to drop you a mail, i am sure there is reason why our path crossed.You are an A student i am impressed with your response, thanks for taking out time to respond to my long and endless questions.lol

I am a very strong person and I am very supportive I will rally behind my partner. I am not jealous and I will go to the ends of the earth for my partner. I am also a toughie even though my nature is soft and gentle . I am not a sissy if I have to get down and dirty to help out I will. I can laugh at my self when I make a mistakes. I am far from perfect I have made really bad decisions in my life. I try my damnest to make sure that my partner is happy, my mum used to say a happy wife makes a happy home. I exercise and keep in shape and walk and I always make sure that I look nice. I am also a very humble person like the small things in life. My policy in life is to treat people how I would like to me treated no matter what their color or creed or religion. I get on with most people even difficult ones and from all walks of life I like to see people happy. And that is me in a nut shell.

Needless to say I woke up with a huge smile on my face thinking about you

I hope that you have an amazing day with gladness of heart.My prayer for you today

You are the God who creates wonderful friendships. Thank you for my friendship with Eleanor

I pray for my treasured friend. She has been such a blessing to her family and those around her.

I am excited about the incredible things you are doing for her and through her each day.

Thank you for molding her, preparing her, and positioning her to fulfill her destiny.

Thank you for teaching her and counseling her so that she may walk in obedience to your calling on her life.

Thank you for your comfort that she may be refreshed and strengthened.

Thank you for your personal ministry to her past emotional wounds that they may be totally healed.

Thank you for your promise that goodness and mercy will follow her all the days of her life.

May she more fully receive your peace for daily life into her heart each day.

Amen

You must have a blessed day and smile .Bryan

Letter 4

Hi Eleanor

I guess i don't need any introduction at this stage but to be formal i think i should. My name is Zara, i am the youngest daughter of Mr Bryan Harts you are friends with my father and he has told me and my sister so much about you, i love my dad so much and always wants his happiness just as he has always been our strength growing up,i am so happy he finally met a wonderful woman that could make him this excited, never seen or heard my dad so happy in 8 years. I guess you must be a wonderful person he's been so stiff about relationships before know and said he thinks he will be fine alone. He does anything to please those he love and truly care about even though he is not too comfortable with it. Like he always told me your passion drives you to your success don't let anybody make you think otherwise. He will always tell me an attitude of gratitude brings about blessing .I guess all these guided us into becoming what we are today. I saw the photo of you and your son really lovely.

I am a social worker and i work with Child Nutritionist in several school district and run 5 food programs to feed 9,000 kids a day. These children live in high poverty and I love giving these children fresh fruits/vegetables and good food, it's definitely my calling and passion

I am so glad that you are in my father life because this past years he went through a lot after my mom died he was broken in pieces he refused to date or see any woman all this time. He deserves to be happy and as his Daughter i want to see him always happy . My dad is the most precious pearl I have on earth, he is kind and understanding.

I have notice my dad is so happy when we talk he can't stop speaking about you. Please i want to ask you to be honest with him all the time because he is a good man. He as I mentioned deserves to be happy and i am sure you will have a good life together.Do i call you mom ? maybe it is too early for that now i have missed that so much.Have A lovely holiday looking forward to meeting you. I will prefer we talk on email at this stage till i meet you in person. I hope you don't mind.

Regards

Zara

Letter 5

Honey i attached both my ID and an acknowledgement of debt. I just finished from here will wait to hear from you my Lulu

Letter 6

Lulu Precious

When I'm with you,
Eternity is a step away,
My love continues to grow,
With each passing day.

This treasure of love,
I cherish within my soul,
How much I love you...
You'll never really know.

You bring a joy to my heart,
I've never felt before,
With each sound of your voice,and the longing for your touch.
I love you more and more.

Though we are apart,
Know I hold you dearly,
Deep inside my heart.

So these seven words,
I pray you hold true
"Forever" and Always,
I will love you"

Love and miss you, my Lulu.
xxx

Letter 7

My Lulu
My hands are shaking as i write this mail to you.I have not seen so much blood in my whole life.There was an accident here at the site. The crane lifting the slabs fell from the top of the building landed on the lower part of the building and crashed on the floor.It injured three workers and one is dead already.The whole place was in serious confusion.I am so surprised as this has never happened in any job that i have done in the past, not to talk about about a job that is almost done.I am shaking bitterly.I am so afraid as i am alone here.The other workers are all running up and down.I am at the hospital will be going to the police station with the cops to write statement about what happened.Please honey call me as soon as you get this mail.Your voice will calm my nerves.I have not seen so much blood in my whole life.I am so scared.xx

Letter 8

My gorgeous wife.


Though you are reading this before you meet me, I want you to know a few things.

The reason I am writing this today is because I can't stop thinking about you, and I can't stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you.

I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment together, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with you.

Those around me are a continuous source of education and inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today,

I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises.
Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when you smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of your smile.

I promise I will always look at you with the same adoration as I did the moment I realized I loved you. I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you're surprised, inspired, motivated or when you are about to lean in to kiss me.

I promise to hold your hand when we're 80 years old with the same liveliness that I did when I crossed that line to hold yours for the first time. I vow never to let the excitement of dating me die down, I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself.

I promise to keep you guessing where we're going next. I promise to do my best always to interest you. I will keep reinventing myself, gaining new hobbies, new knowledge and new interests to keep you — and myself — entertained.

I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I'll retell the best ones again if you insist. Our friendship will continue to grow over the years.

I promise to try to feed off of your illuminating energy that will inspire me to do the same with myself. I will do my best to ensure that being bored never crosses your mind.

Even in grief and darkness, I promise to show you the different shades of the dark, and to help you find the tiny rays of light that are always there if you seek them. After all, there's always worse than worst and better than best; everything is relative.

I promise to kiss you throughout our life together, with the same passion I had the first time I felt my lips on yours. When we kiss, I want it to slow down time — just you and me engulfed in our feelings.

I promise to play the games you like to play. I promise to do my best to remain physically attractive for you, and I will do my best to be healthy in order to keep up with our children and grandchildren.

I promise to help you to be healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us. I can't give all the secrets out.

I promise to strive to be a role model for our children. I want both you and them to see me as a source of motivation. I want to inspire them.

I promise to do my best to love your family as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours.

I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard; when you want someone to vent to about something or when you want advice.

I will listen to you especially when you don't feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else, and to the things you try to tell me when you're not even speaking. I promise to always listen.

During our life together, I promise to make sure that you feel as though you are the center of the household — I know you will be — and I will always try to show my appreciation for you because of that. Being the man of the house is nothing without a woman.

I promise never to let my guard down in taking care of us. I promise to do everything that I can for you without taking away from your independence physically, intellectually or emotionally.

I promise to create family traditions and to make sure that your legacy lives forever through our children.

I promise to encapsulate the moment when I realize that I am in the most magnetic, amorous and erotic love with you, not to let that feeling dissipate to the best of my ability and to relive it with you constantly, always.

Sincerely, Your Husband.