I see what we both are looking for in a relationship..a partner..a friend ..most of all the truth...Seems so simple but not for most ..they tell you what you want to hear. My motto is I would rather have you hurt my feeling with truth than to spare my feeling with a lie.....I treat people with the up most respect ,and expect the same back..I learned because of my long term commitment to my ex-wife it was about wanting to be with that person in good times and to get through the bad times. Its about being together because you want to, not because you have to. This is not about being with someone just for now or until something better comes along..I go for long road not the short ride....I have high expectations for my self and any one in my life ...This isn't about material things or money ..that doesn't buy you real love or happiness...I have always been independent even when married..no one person should be responsible for another persons happiness ,I believe it's up to yourself to make that happen...I'm looking for that love and won't settle for less..I know what real love is ..I'm not going to play games with your feelings or mine ..We have our family's which is part of us and they are just as important when someone comes into my life..I hope you can feel in my words about trust....and truth..they go hand in hand.......I hope you understand me...I think we both have come across with our wants and needs in a relationship, I think we are on the same page...this seems to be a good start..we can build from here...a good foundation starts a good relationship...Still interested....????
hope so..lol

Darling I really have taken a serious liking to you with all my heart, today I was just thinking about you and the thought of you is making me very happy .
Honey you have brought joy and Happiness to my life, My daughter and son is very happy now because I have found some one and she keeps asking me what is going on....lol. Children can be pests sometimes, she keeps invading my privacy.
I jokingly told her that she has a new mother...lol
But seriously, that loneliness and motherly Vacuums is beginning to close right now and Happiness is gradually returning to me again.
Darling I am a humble man, but i am quite comfortable financially, I have a house here in the UK, but my daughter and I are pretty lonely in the house, but most times we act as a tag team, she acts like my wife and i become her mother, not quite sure its working that well....lol.
Honey I need love and my precious Desiree needs a mother,Somehow i hope it is you dear.
I just got back from work now, going to fix myself a cup of coffee soon, then i have to get some documents prepared but I will write you again soon dear. Darling i hope you have you deleted your profile from the dating site.honey you can add me on Facebook so that we can keep in touch always ok just search for me by my email address: shafferdavid1@outlook.com
sorry i have to run I love you dear David I wrote you a simple poem for you yesterday... I hope you like it. As far as the ocean is wide
through miles and miles of sea;
You will be someone special
a true miracle to me. As high upon the mountain tops
as high as one can climb;
You will be so dear to me
the best friend I can find. As many stars that twinkle
throughout the heavens above;
You will be a bright reminder
of what it means to love

Hi How are you and how is your ..... going? hope you are having a very good time. I loved reading your emails, I cannot keep my thought from wandering to you. I want to know everything about you. Your favorite color, your favorite beach, your favorite song, your favorite drink, your favorites... I want to see you, to touch you, and feel your realness. Thought I would share my "top ten" list. This is a list of qualities I came up with to measure a woman. They are a list of values I want in my partner. Here goes: 1. Freedom - I need someone that enjoys freedom, that has interests of their own and allows freedom in another. 2. Compassion/Kindness - The Dalia Lama says that compassion is the greatest power. So true.. 3. Spontaneity - I love being spur of the moment, living in the moment. Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery, and today a gift. That's why they call it the present. 4. Responsibility/Stability - I need to rely on the other person to be there for me and to have our life together. 5. Healthy - Body, mind and spirit. 6. Humorous - If you cannot find the humor in life, then what is the point? 7. Spirituality - My partner must think on a different level and I am not talking about religion. 8. Intelligence - Must I say more? 9. Passionate - I love a woman that is passionate about life, about the little things, about love. 10. Respectful - One must show respect for their partner. I came up with this over 10 years ago. Still looking for the person to fill all of these traits. I see so much of these qualities in you and want to know if you agree. Have a lovely day and hope to read from you soon. Warm Regards,

My queen ! I just got to the office this morning. I slept quite late yesterday and I have a slight headache.
Honey, it's very important for me to express how much you really mean to me . I wish I could do it in person while lying in his arms and looking into his eyes. But since we are physically separated by miles of emptiness, this expression must come in the form of letters like this . My Darling, I love you very much even though we have not seen each other physically. I think of nothing but you . I think of you with every breath and every blink of an eye . I could not live without you in my life. You know the old adage that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all , that person never knew you could never love again without you. 're Part of me , the second piece of my heart, the rain on my lips , the wind cools me from the summer day , the blanket that warms me on cold nights , the morning sun , honey 'm looking and am interested in a long term relationship with a woman. By nature, I am kind, romantic , very caring , understanding and very passionate and in intimacy I enjoy giving and receiving affection , and am very open and adventurous mind also . I am a professional who works well educated. I like reading, dancing, walking on the beach , fishing, going to the movies , hang out, and other fun stuff . I'm very honest and I enjoy a true romantic and fulfilling relationship . I'm also down to earth, honest , I do not judge at all, and very generous in a relationship and intimacy.
I am a gentle man with big heart and beautiful personality! I am the type of caregiver.
When you are on the side of the road with a flat, I'm the guy to stop. When you come through the door, I 'm the guy who has for you and gives you a humble smile and a soft greeting. I work a lot with my mind and my hands and I am more " in tune" with life than most people . well educated professional man , I'm a cool , respectful and understanding person.Who really want to experience love in its full sense.I am very social , an outgoing person . I am well balanced in my life. I am a man of true character who believes in giving everyone a fair chance.
I have set some career goals very well thought out with a clear path and a plan for success that is controlling my own destiny and not all the money in the world. I have to credit my Christian my life , attitude and success faith , however , I do not use God's name to attract women for my character speaks for itself . I'm not the kind of man who is totally self-centered .
In the world there are givers and takers , but unfortunately many of us have experienced people who take more than they give . Ask yourself a question: What can I give to another person in a relationship besides money and sex .. I'm a good guy looking for a virtuous woman .. like the virtuous woman in Proverbs ... 31. I hope my post is not too long , so I just can not resist openly express my lady me.Honey tell the world I wish to see you soon and here is my cell phone number +447477750058 ...one quick question hope you have deleted your self from the site ?
I do not know if this can be described as a poem I just wrote hastily ..... but somehow express what I feel now . I wish you a beautiful week ahead dear I was not sure I believed in love
Then I met
I was not sure I could make love last
Then I fell for you
I was not sure who I was
What I wanted from life
But now I do
I thank
From the bottom of my heart
For loving to the core

My Sweet Love Today I thought i should tell you things about my history which I have never told any woman before about what happened between me and my ex-wife but somehow I just believe you are the right person to relate my personal history with, I have been composing it since the day i met you because of my work and other activities I have been unable to round up on time,i am telling you this so that you will not allow distance to separate us, I promise because of the feeling I have for you I will visit your Country very soon and i told you that when Desiree and Dante saw your picture she instantly said she liked you. Nevertheless there is still need for me to tell you my history because i have really taken time to compose it so as to share with you, there is so much to write about myself but few has to be stated first, maybe later on when we meet i would relate the others to you in your ears while we lie side by side.
i got married to Elizabeth, which complicated my life. Well now I don't call it complications because I have Desiree and dnate from it. At first Elizabeth was very kind and loving but she later developed a bad attitude, At the outset, she got pregnant for me and things started going on smoothly, at the long run my ex put to bed and we got desiree and I was very happy because I was a father after many years of suffering trying to make a child.
I found out things where not really doing well because I was really going through a lot, I had to go back to university and study construction/consultant engineer and creative art which lasted for about 2 years and gained my master degree, but my ex-wife was not in support of the course and we always had problems in my home though it was really difficult. At first she decided to divorce me after having Dante, but my friends and I pleaded and she decided to stay back, after some time I rounded up my course and began to search for a job. It wasn't really easy getting my kind of job that really suited my profession but was still working and earning monthly income, at a time I decided to embark on the business of selling Art design since I was used to the business before and I started traveling to Africa to purchase the design at first it was really difficult because I invested the little I saved on the business. My wife began to act funny because she saw things were going down. On that fateful day I traveled out to buy some design for sale because I did not have a gallery of my own at that time, I was suppose to return in about 5 days interval but the art makers where not having much to sell so I decided to come back home and make arrangement for another trip, to my greatest surprise I met my ex-wife and my best friend having sex on our matrimonial bed. I wanted the world to immediately come to an end because I was suffering for her sake but still she went ahead sleeping around behind my back. So then I had no option but to sue for a divorce and swore not to have anything to do with women again, and she sued me by saying she needed some part of my savings and the British high court instructed me to do as she have desired, But I fought for the custody of my daughter and son and providence smiled on me and I got them for myself and my wife never really bothered about kids anymore.
I have taken took good care of Desiree and Dante ever since and they have been my only company in lonely times and a big inspiration as well as a blessing to me too. I was called for an interview in westgate resource Building Services Company and I performed excellently and they tested my field construction ability and I was successful. so I was offered a space in the company, within a year I was promoted to field manager and I began to earn good income. I opened a gallery of my own after some time and since has been making a lot of money. I now own a nice house and all the luxuries I ever wished for. I was very happy and everyone called to congratulate me,it was my most glorious moment in life.
Now I feel loneliness and my Desiree and Dante wants someone to call mother. I was already feeling the impact of settling down with someone but not from England and I got the idea from my counselor that I can meet someone really special on the internet because his friends got married and settle down with someone from the site and they both live happily in Australia at present and I was interested and he directed me on how to go about it but to my greatest surprise I had not spent up to a week and I already found a woman who has the quality of a real woman which ended up to be you and I keep praying to God that you should love me with all your heart and do not have double mind for our relationship.pleas am begging you in the name of GOD pleas if you know you cant take me serious or this relationship serious pleas just let me know am begging you in the name of GOD in heaven pleas?pleas just tell me deep down inside your heart do you really have feeling me ?
I hope i have not bored you with my long story.
You shall find out more that was not included on this story when i visit. Desiree and Dante sends their greetings
I adore you and love you...... here is another poem for you my love, LOVE YOU SO MUCH
Love david Love is a precious thing
It is a feeling that
makes your heart sing.
Whether you are far or near
it is like whispering in my ear.
When you find true love
it is something you
keep within your heart.

honey i know you would love to know more about my work, i work at westgate resource.with over 20 years experience westgate resources corp ltd. is leading the industry with 21 years of experience in, building/construction: roofing sheets, ceilings, building materials,building/construction of houses(personal/public housing) and offices. import and export:general merchandise, including palm oil. vegetable oil, sunflower oil, freight services,haulage service,mining and crude oils. westgate has become a leader in the area of the above listed as we have dedicated staffs, up to date technological facilities to keep up with the trend of manufacturing and export/import of raw material when and where needed at the appropriate time. how head office is located at 1334E 79th St, Chicago, IL 60619,USA. as the chief constrictor engineer my goal is to open a new branch out here in the UK,honey lol i know have been talking too much i love my job that's why am so proud to talk about it. can you check how official site if you want to know much about what i do http://westgateresource.com/ ...if you check the site you could see some of my hand works,if you got any question feel free to ask me my love .honey i just feel its best for you to know every tin you need to know about me and i hope how love,friendship works out.i just believe time will tell and i promise you i will try my possible best to come visit you when ever am free,hopefully this holiday if i don't have any work at hand .stay blessed my love

What I am about to say to you is important for both of us. Knowing and realizing that there is still a lot to unfold, I am willing to go forward if you are. Something shifted in me today, not sure what or why, but it did. I am Surrendering my HEART to you. I am going to trust, that what is happening between us, is of GOD. I am going to try to put all my fears aside and go with what my heart has been telling me. I take your Heart in my Hands with all the gentleness, kindness and love that I can possibly hold in my Soul I ask you to do the same.
I came back from church, I prayed for us...I will share my prayer that I prayed. I asked that God Bless our friendship together. That it be filled with Love, Peace and Happiness. That we would be Bless with a Long Life together with Good Health and financial security.

Good day My Queen! i dreamt of you last night....and i am very serious!
I don't know if i can stop thinking about what my life has become since when you became a part of it. Waiting and wanting you has been the focus of my thoughts these days, knowing that one day, all that I have envisioned of us being together will finally happen and you will be my wife . You give me reason to wake up in the morning and smile. Just smile for no particular reason except the fact that you are there for me. As days go by I feel myself growing closer and closer and my heart is suddenly coming out of its shy spot and wanting to feel what it feels like to be loved again. I don't ever want to lose this feeling. I don't ever want to lose you.
Still, I just want you to know that wherever this road may take us, and how far it may be to finally get where we want to go, always know you are in my heart and in my heart is where you'll always be. Life hasn't been this grateful to me, until you came .
Thank you for being you. What I'd like to say next, I'd like to say to you personally. Until then....HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON Love you always and God bless you From the moment I wake up
ti'll the time I go to sleep.
Even in my dreams
my love for you runs deep. It runs deeper than the ocean
It runs deeper than the sea.
Each day that I miss
I will make it up time three. If it takes my whole life
ti'll the day I pass away.
I'll make sure to keep you happy
each and every day. When I finally get to see you
your beautiful face aglow.
I'm going to hold you in my arms
and never let you go. The day I get back home
I won't know what to do.
But one thing I do know
Im still "Deeply In Love "with you.

Hey darling,
How are you? So i guess you would want to know more about me darling....here i am on a slightly broader sheet
I'm originally from Midland Georgia in America, but i moved to the UK a couple of years back and have almost become one of them.... Of course i haven't forgotten they were once our colonialists....lol
Honey please make sure you always read my mail and understand me very well, I am certain that this will strengthen our relationship.
Truthfully, I never wanted to go into any relationship until I was introduced to online dating by a marriage counselor, and a few hours into our bonding i am beginning to sense something here.... I can't particularly place my finger on it though.
I am contractor mostly into building and real estate I am a Christian (Catholic) and a God fearing man, and i do believe He plays a very important part in every single thing that happens to us every single day.
Without blowing my trumpet and with all humility i am a very ambitious person, optimistic, playful, hard working, devoted, intelligent, trusting, genuine, honest, sincere and easy going man with lots of joy, love and happiness to offer to my true love and Mrs. right. I'm very passionate and emotional in all areas of my life. I am very responsible and try to eat right; hence I make sure that I keep fit so I don’t get a pot belly .
I have always believed in a healthy relationship though I have not had one in a long time, It is important to be passionate, romantic, caring, with lots of laughter to keep the body and soul going.
Please darling if you know you are interested in me please I will like you to remove your profile from the Dating site so that we can concentrate on each other and avoid distractions, I have deleted my profile.
I will also like you to snap some photos and send to me Hope to hear from you soon. I wrote you a short poem dear... I hope you like it Love My heart is empty without love
I am waiting for my Love
When she comes into my life
That day is the beautiful day of my life
Today I just imagine about her
A shadow of her is sometimes
Come in my eyes
At that time my heartbeat is going on high level
But I don’t recognize her picture
I don’t understand how she comes in my life
How I get my Love
But one thing is sure
She come in my life and Love me
I am just waiting for my Love

Good news my darling,
Good day my honey, hope you are having a good time over there and how is your week going ,hope everything is fine and i really want to thank you for the love and care.You have indeed brought good fortunes, happiness, love and hope to my life, I get surprised daily by the graciousness that comes upon me since you came into my life, You are indeed God sent.
I truly love and cherish you.
Thank you so much for the wonderful words of encouragement so far.The good news is that,i just received a call this morning that the contract I bid for in south Africa couple of months ago has just been approved, they want me really badly. Although I had other jobs in Asia I was suppose to do, I have decided to take the job in south Africa because the period at which the job will be done is very short compare to the job in Asia and besides, my proceeds from this contract will be enough for me to start a buying and selling of property business here in UK and in your country when i finally come to you as my age requires me to settle down with my loved once, should my schedule permits me, i will like to meet you ?mean while i just have at last 2 to 3 days to stay there so I still have fresh 2weeks so I was thinking if it will be possible to visit you and spend about a week and some days with you, and then go back to my base and try to arrange my the equipment i will need for the job .at list this will also create an opportunity for us to discuss and know each other more.

I want you to inform me if it is possible to come visiting you this time, I will have to come over with Desiree and Dante because they are going with me to south Africa you know i can't leave them alone here.Desiree will want to come visit you also, she has been dying to meet you.but first i need to go to the bank this morning to take a loan of 20million dollar because that is were the contract biding starts from and i need to also purchase some equipment's from china i will need for the job. I do want you to understand that I will be able to take care of all expenses during our stay and I want you to inform me where we can locate a nice and suitable hotel that is not very far from your place of resident.
Honey, I do believe you are ready to meet me and you can't wait to hold me tight in your arms because I feel the same way here, I will have to go and purchase our ticket today because I intend leaving tomorrow morning to south Africa so that we can meet up with the other contractors .
Honey I shall await your swift response soonest. Please darling I don't want you to be nervous with this news, just be calm and be yourself. You don't have to go to the best hairstylist to make your hair or go to the best beautician to look nice for me. I love you the way you are. Remember what we both care for, the inner beauty we share.
I love you and I will forever cherish you and distance can't be a barrier if you really love me. Please reply this mail immediately so I can start making plans.honey am kind of scared because this is my first of going to a place like this,i have heard bad story about Africa but this contract is good for us and pay is very good your forever-loving How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace. I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise. I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,--I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!--and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.