Romance scam letter(s) from Joseph Adam to Alexandra (Singapore)
Letter 1

Hello :) Please pardon my late reply, the connection here is fluctuating because I am on data roaming. So what are you expectations on tinder? I hope we are on the same page :) By the way, I am Joseph Fernando Adam. It's a pleasure to meet you. I am in Argentina now. Have a good day Bella, and I hope to read from you soon. Keep in touch. Hugs
Letter 2

Thank you very much for your email and forgive my late reply,it’s just temporary. It's really nice to connect with you here :) I am expecting to meet someone special on Tinder..All I want is a honest lady to have a conversation with and see how it goes. It's been a while I haven't done this (Chatting with a lady), so pardon my little mistakes and feel free to correct me anytime :) Anyways, I enjoy traveling and I have been to so many countries in Asia, South America, Africa & OZ. My job requires me to travel a lot.I miss traveling with my partner and I miss having someone to welcome me home, after a hectic Days/Weeks/Months of sailing or work trip. I will travel to Germany tomorrow morning and I will be back after my trip. Honestly, I have a positive feeling about meeting you and I wish it's mutual.I admire your positive energy. Have a nice day and I will be waiting to read from you again. What are you up to tonight? Can we catch up for a drink? I'd be pleased. May I please have a photo?
Best regards
Letter 3

Hi Alex,

It's beautiful to read from you again my dear. You are truly a sweetheart :) I would have loved to meet you if I had enough time. I very much enjoy seeing your message in my inbox. You make me feel happy, this is the first time I have decided to open my heart for someone special to come in after I lost my wife.

One thing you have to know about me is that I am always on the sea. I guess that's why am still single till now because no woman would want to spend the rest of her life with a man like me. I chose to work on the sea because there's nobody on land for me except my dogs and goddaughter but I can stop working on the sea if I meet a lady that can wipe me off my feet.. Can you be that woman? Please send me more photos :) Oh one thing, sometimes I look serious but please don't mind the face.. Lol.. My heart is made of gold.

I am sailing on an official duty to the Sea of Norway from Hamburg. My responses might be a little bit slower due to bad connection. So please bare with me. I love keeping in touch with you and I promise to reply you as soon as I can.

Speak to you soon.
Letter 4

Thank you very much for your email and forgive my late reply,it’s just temporary. It's really nice to connect with you here :) I am expecting to meet someone special on Tinder..All I want is a honest lady to have a conversation with and see how it goes. It's been a while I haven't done this (Chatting with a lady), so pardon my little mistakes and feel free to correct me anytime :) Anyways, I enjoy traveling and I have been to so many countries in Asia, South America, Africa & OZ. My job requires me to travel a lot.I miss traveling with my partner and I miss having someone to welcome me home, after a hectic Days/Weeks/Months of sailing or work trip. I will travel to Germany tomorrow morning and I will be back after my trip. Honestly, I have a positive feeling about meeting you and I wish it's mutual.I admire your positive energy. Have a nice day and I will be waiting to read from you again. What are you up to tonight? Can we catch up for a drink? I'd be pleased. May I please have a photo?
Best regards
Letter 5

Are you too busy to reply? Just want to let you know that I always have you on mind and I wish for this conversation to last until the day we meet in person.
Can you help me make that happen?
Letter 6

After hearing your voice, I had this feeling that there's something very spectacular about you, which I am yet to discovery, I am an Archaeologist and discovering things is my area of specialty.. Lol.. Just kidding. It was really nice to hear your voice.Do you have any religion? Hope you don't mind if I am a bit inquisitive. I asked a lot of questions when I find someone fascinating and please do not hesitate to ask me any question. I am very easy going, open-minded and understanding.. Did I mention to you that I enjoy horse riding, Golf and footfall? Am a Chelsae fan, of course.. Lol .... What's your favorite sport, where's your favorite country or city and where would you love to visit most?

Keep in touch Hun.
Letter 7

Hahah!! I know I am always serious but that's me. What bring me joy is peace & harmony, and what makes me smile is seeing happy faces. You? I'm a catholic by birth but I am not religious. I have seen so many unbelievable things in my life and I begin to have a lot of doubts but one thing I know for sure is that there's God and I believe in him. Anyways, different people, different believe. The most important thing is humanity. we are losing it, the world is becoming a disaster. War in the Middle east, religious crisis in Africa & it's now increasing in Europe, ramped rape cases in India. Police shouting unarmed civilian in U.S and so many to list. So life is too short to be drinking bad wine :) Haha..Speaking of wine, I enjoy drink red wine. We should go on a cruise date when I get back my dear.

My parent are late.

You make me a happy man, That's reminds me.. Sorry for my previous typo, I meant "football" not "footfall" Lol..

Letter 8

I felt so bad that the network wasn't good enough for us to talk to each other. I will keep trying until I get you. We're team of 5 and 10 sailors on board. Do you believe in horoscope? Where would like to see yourself in 5 years? I have to admit that I enjoy reading every bit of your messages. There's definitely hope in this conversation :) You're a beautiful lady, and I keep asking myself the same question. “Why is such a good looking & ambitious lady like you still single?” I used to think that the good ones were taken but you've surely proven me wrong. There's someone out there with a large heart waiting for you. That's what I believe. With no single doubt, you seem like a wonderful lady.. I'd love to meet you in person if I have the chance, maybe after this trip. I have 2 questions for you Hun, do you still believe in love and can you have a relationship with a foreigner like me? Have a beautiful day ahead. You're adorable. Please share more photos with me :) I like your picture a lot :) Hugs and kisses.
Letter 9

Apologies for my late reply. The connection on board is horrible. It's not too long ago the internet got restored and I had to rush to the lower deck to send you this message before it goes of again. :) Nowadays, I find myself itching to read your message.. Why do I feel this towards someone I've never met? I have no idea.. To be honestly with you,I miss having a woman by my side. I know you've gone through tough times but will you be my best friend if I offer you my heart? If you find true love, are you willing to relocate to another country? (Not a must)

So, today we're not doing anything, literally enjoying the sailing but we have a lot of diving starting from tomorrow. I'm studying a site 2,566 feet below sea level and trying to work out what happened there a long time ago. It indicated in my Remotely Operated Vehicle that there are wrecks and other objects below and if am able to discover what I think it's down there. I will make history :) In 5 years, I will be living in my dream house with my partner, I always wanted to live in a house close to the sea or beach and Yes, I so much believe in love. It will be beautiful to fall in love again.

You really got me thinking of you and I like the positive vibe you give me.

Kisses and hugs
Letter 10

Please pardon my late reply again; the Internet is not helping our conversation. I guess you now understand why I said that it's not easy to find a woman that will stay with a busy man like me but so far, you're really coping well :) Impressive... Please stick with me, do not go anywhere and I promise to always keep in touch with you at least once a day, but my thought never leaves you for a minute. I like the way you make me feel these days.

Hun, as an Independent Maritime archaeologist, my job is all about human interaction with the seas, lakes and rivers. I always dive in search of physical remains; be they vessels, shore side facilities, port-related structures, cargoes, human remains and submerged landscapes. To make it sound simple, it is my duty to find anything that was lost underwater decades ago. Is that easy enough? Haha, you need to know more about what I do :)
So tell me more about your family.. My dad gave up the ghost when I was 30 years old and I never got to know my mother. My childhood wasn't the best but I am proud of who I am today. I studied in England and live there for 30 years. I have no sibling or extended family; my only family is my colleagues because we all work together. I will like to look into your eyes and tell you about my life story when we meet. Thank you very much for accepting to be my best friend, I feel love and care from you. Tell me, how can I make a lovely lady like you happy and how can I win your heart?
Do you prefer dogs to cats; or cats or dogs?

Bella, I want to say you're beautiful to me, on the inside and out. Regarding my photos, they were taken particularly for you (The lady I will meet on tinder) My friends helped me set up that tinder account after he got married to the lady he met on tinder. So he took those shots for me before I even met you.. Hahha. Is that weird? Hope not but yeah. Lol. I always wanted to be a model during my youthful days. So I guess I still have that modelling vibe. ;) I am not expecting you to reciprocate and wouldn't reject if you want to. :)

Hope to hear from you soon and please send more pictures. Oh I deleted my tinder account after I found you. Sorry I didn't tell you.

Hugs & kisses

Letter 11

I miss hearing your voice. I could feel the calmness and love in your voice. The kind of voice I will love to be hearing every day.. Yes, my dad lost his life at a youthful age.I am a family oriented person,love children and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself :) It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for the special person I hope to share my thoughts,feelings,experiences, dreams and fantasies with,and to offer the best opportunities for any kid that might be included in my life,both mine and that special person's children, and that is my focus at this time.I also do enjoy my job though risky because we are always on the high sea.I shall take a very long holiday upon my successful trip. I am really interested in you and I want you to know that I am not here for games or play because i am a 1 woman Man......

I have been single because I wasn't ready to date then but now I am :) I am really interested to know what makes you the special person you are today, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you would want to share me. I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone :) . So come on and share it all with me, as I am not here to talk to you about general things such as partying, the weather, sports,e.t.c. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul,as the friendship I want to build with you; I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced.It will be filled with substance,quality,spirituality,love,faithfulness and potentials.

My birthday is on the 25th of next month and I would love to celebrate it with you, if I have the chance :) Thanks foro your lovely photo. You've got that gorgeous smile, Please send more :) Kisses and hugs.
Letter 12

Hello Hun, I just got out of the sea and I am glad to inform you tha we found some fascinating remains today. Did I tell you that it is my 57th visit to this site? and I always find more evidence that pulls me closer to achieving my goal. Mi Amore, I am very genuine person, I don't play with other people's feeling and I wouldn't like it if I am being played. I feel so comfortable talking to you about anything and everything. I guess you easily brought down my barrier and I am glad you did it. So here are some questions for your Hun :) Milk or dark chocolate?
Eating out or eating in?
Skiing or sunshine holiday?
Wearing jeans or formal?
Wine or beer?
Your most favorite town/country?
Going for a walk or going to the gym? My answers would be: Milk or dark chocolate? Milk
Eating out or eating in? I enjoy cooking, so eating in and occasionally outside
Skiing or sunshine holiday? Sunshine Holiday Hun :)
Wearing jeans or very formal? It depends on the occasion, but am more of a jeans person
Wine or beer? I love my wine
Your most favorite towns/countries? Athens, Bahamas, Paris
Going for a walk or going to the gym? Meet me at the gym.. :) Hope to hear your sweet voice soon.

Thanks for the lovely photos. Kisses and hugs
Letter 13

Thanks for answering my questions Hun.. I miss you so much and it hurts. I need someone like you in my life like never before. We couldn't dive this morning due to the stormy weather which is very boring but the thought of you keeps me calm. Honestly, I can't wait to meet you, you've captured my thoughts.. Are you an emotional person? Because I sometimes get a little emotional.

I have more questions for you Hun, I want to know about you as much as I can, so it will be very easy for us to get along when I am there with you. Hope you don't mind.

Favorite food?
Favorite car?

I love holding hands and lots of cuddles when I'm out with the woman I love. Are you also into Public affection? Do you like driving? I love driving

Speak to you soon Mi Amore. Pls don't be too busy for me, I am extremely busy but I won't that as an excuse not to reply you, because I feel happy keeping in touch with you and I hope it remains that way until I am back on land. As for your question if we come back on land for break, the answer is no. When we start sailing, we are not touching dry land until the end of our sailing.

Kisses and hugs.
Letter 14

Queen Alexandra the great :) I have been replying you very late these fews day due to network fluctuation. I do not know how long I will keep apologising to you but I hope you understand. I miss you and my thoughts for you remains. You're the first thing that crosses my heart in the morning and the last at night. I like the way you make me feel. Thanks you very much Amor.

What turns you on and off in a man? What turns me on in a woman is her personality and good smell.. What turns me off, bad breath and body odour. Do you have any favourite/weak spot in your body or you want me to find it out for myself? ;)

I know you must have wondered why I became an Archaeologist. Well, I became an archaeologist because I like traveling, adventure and am always so curious, so I like digging into things to find the root. I do it for the outreach as well, I’ll never forget the moment I first found a pottery jar in a hard-to-reach niche of a remote Island. It probably hadn’t been seen in a thousand years. That feeling—the thrill of discovery—motivates me to educate the public about why it’s important to protect artefacts and archaeological sites for future generations to treasure and explore. I do it for the love of history and of course the glory :) When I am not diving, I am making research and studying the ocean.

You are the queen of my heart and I will always cherish you as long as you stick with me. I love seafood and vege too :) Hmm we've got that in common.

Can't wait to wrap my arms around you one day. I hope that day come faster.

Much love
Letter 15

Car for each week? ahah. I wish.This whole thing makes me crazy and It feels like we have known each other for a long time because I'm so comfortable with you. I lost interest and faith on On-line dating and everything changed after we started keeping in touch.. I hope that this conversation last for a life time and may we continue to build this relationship and make it stronger.. I'm looking for someone who is honest and ready to have a good time getting to know each other.Someone who is respectful, opinionated,and competent to be able to have discussions with.

I have more questions sweetheart ;)

Do you have any addictions?
Do you believe in ghosts?
Any regrets?
What would you say is your greatest achievement?
If you could be any famous person (someone you look up to), who would it be?
What is the wildest thing you've ever done?

Do you have any addictions? If traveling is an addiction, then yes i have an addiction
Do you believe in ghosts? No, I don't believe in ghost
Any regrets? That I wasn't with her when she passed away.
What would you say is your greatest achievement? When I discovered a "Ghost ship", that was missing for more than 60 years and it was discovered in an Island in Hawaii. 2) Discovering a 2000-year-old submerged shipping vessel which sank off the coast of Tuscany.
If you could be any famous person (someone you look up to), who would it be? I am not looking up to anybody, only me. :)
What is the wildest thing you've ever done? Having sex in an Airplane with my late wife of course Lol

Your turn :)
Letter 16

Hun, I am still baffled that you didn't find someone on the app we met in. Maybe it was destined for us to meet. I travel a lot and I met different people but I have never shown interest to any lady. I guess I was too busy with my job. Honestly, I didn't expect your very first reply, and I was blown away when I first heard your voice. :) I like people that are open minded,non-judgmentally, goal-driven,and ambitious but grounded.Someone that can handle my incredibly playful side and joke around with me and also knows how and when to be serious.More than anything someone that is willing to communicate and share herself with me.I'm always up for a good spades tournament with margaritas or taking a midnight walk.I want a woman that is caring and would love and accept me for who I am. Hope it's not too much to ask.

Speak to you soon and pls send me more photos :)

Am I allow to meet your boys when I am there?
Letter 17

My dearest Shasa,

I am not expecting much from you, just be yourself,love,care and respect me, I will gladly reciprocate. I didn't wanna get married again after she kicked the bucket but life is too boring without whom to love me. I have been in love all my life and I am used to that beautiful love feeling.. This fairly recent relationship is something I consider to be sacred already. It makes me have faith again in some simple but fundamental human values which sometimes; for the lack of practice, we swipe under the carpets of our memories and of our hearts.For me, this new relationship is precious and that is why I intend to keep it for as long as it last, maybe for ever. I believe we can achieve that, because I have faith in you and I have more faith in life and in the future. A man with a lady like you beside him fear nothing. Always bear in mind that my affection and true love will be yours forever. Hun.. Pls do not hesitate to ask me any question. I will love to answer all your questions.

Ciao belle .. xxxoxo
Letter 18

Hey Hun, I just finished diving and I finally have some good news to share with you. I discovered the missing ship that I have been searching for the past 7 years but the contain of the ship is the main reason why we are here. We will conduct a thorough search tomorrow. We've got lots of digging, cutting and drilling to do underwater. It will be much easier to find it because we already found the vessel. Anyways, Mi Amor,you are my precious gift. Nowadays, you give me every reason to wake up with a smile on my face. My colleagues notice that something changed in me, they said I feel so excited for the past few weeks.. That's so true. :) I'm writing this letter to explain to you how I feel. I am starting to fall for you, and it is driving me crazy, because I can't seem to tell you how I really feel. Hearing your voice makes me really excited. I need to know where I stand in your life and if it could ever be more than what we are now. I'm starting to develop strong feelings towards you, and I don't know why. It wasn't supposed to be like this, but I got sprung! And it is you my heart's sprung on. I love your eyes, your smile, your body, and your voice, damn that voice, it drives me off the wall. Damn, babe, I am crazy about you. What am I going to do?

Nobody made me who I am today, I made myself. My only inspiration is my late father.
Letter 19

Mi amor,I want to be able to say that you're my woman, I want to love you more than forever because even eternity is not enough time for me to express my desire for you. What I feel for you knows no bounds, its timeless and endless. You can enrich my life in more ways then I can ever express in words. I felt strongly connected to you the moment I heard your voice. I was drawn to your soul in a way I couldn't comprehend. You are the only one that can see the door to my soul and I enjoy hearing those sweet words from you. Thanks for coming into my life.

I'm ready to totally surrender my heart to you.
Hope you enjoy the song Sweetheart.

I needyou sooooooo muccchh!!
Letter 20

Thanks for adding more sparks to my day. Yesterday wasn't a fruitful dive, let's hope for the best today. Sometimes I want to say the three little word to you but, don't seem like enough to express my feelings. For someone whose voice brightens my day, whose thought can make me forget the rest of world, They don't seem like enough, for someone who make me feel this way. But even though I admire you, Can't express the depth of my feelings for you. I hope you know what's in my heart, Because having you is one of the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am getting very close to finding what I have been searching for. The reading on my ROV (Remotely Operated Vehicle) shows something magnificent. So today will be another hectic day for me. I miss your voice so much. You've made me so crazy about you up to the extend that I think of you even when am diving. Hope the mermaids do get jealous when they read my thoughts.. Haha Do you like dancing? because I love to dance :) Kisses to you darling
Letter 21

Dearest Alexandra, I don't really know how I can express my feelings to you because I wasn't myself the first time I set my eyes on your profile. I have seen and met great beauties, I have also learn how I gaze at them but for once, and with you only, I lost control of it. I believe through this epistle you will understand me. I want to take you as a flower in my hand with which I'm charged with for responsibility to look ever after and to keep fresh. Having you is like owning a paradise, for real.

Hope to hear your voice today.. Kisses snd hugs
Letter 22

Hun, I will so much appreciate it if you are mine and mine only. That reminds me, where will I stay when I come to visit you? In your house or a hotel or guest house or something? I've always wanted to ask, do you have a dream house? I wish to own a house by the beach :) and I wish to see it happen when I finally find someone that will be willing to spend the rest of her life with me. Getting to know you better gives me hope..I now know I am in a place I wanted to be and I'm glad I found you. Hold my hands lets take this lovely journey together.

I need more of your photos, Attached are some of my old school photos. Hope you enjoy looking at them :)

Have a great day my lady.

Much love.
Letter 23

Sweetie, I want to tell you that I finally found some of what I have been searching for (Medallions) It's suppose to be 5 in total but we only found 3.We will continue searching until we find the last one. Let this information be classified until it is published on the media. I had to share this good news with you because I promised to tell you and couldn't handle being excited alone. Nothing will ever change the sky from blue, just as nothing will ever change my desire for you. I am glad I found you Hun..

Letter 24

My dearest ..I'm so excited to see you soon.How are you doing today? I miss hearing your voice and it hurts. It seems hard to believe, but we've been together for few weeks now. That's not very long in the grand scheme of things, but it's long enough for me to know how strong my feelings for you increases daily . I remember (but only vaguely now!) how my life was before I met you and I never want to go back to that dreary existence again. That was when I had nothing much to look forward to except my job, nothing much to get up for in the morning except a day at work. When I lost my wife, I was becoming something of a hermit; sure I never wanted to get involved with anyone again. I was to the point where I believed that no one could make me fall in love again but all that changed after I met you. I can't wait to see you soon. The Medallions are not that big, can fit in your palm, I have no other purpose for it other than selling them or keep it as one of my collections. 1 Medallions worth millions of pounds :) Thinking of you always.
Letter 25

I started diving at the age of 15, diving is like a part of me if I may put it that way. The Sg government signed a contract with me because my system of work is dynamic. They contacted me via EAA (Europe Association of Archaeologist). Yes, I have collections of my own and I will show them to you when I completely move to SG.

My late wife was my high school lover, so we grew up together. 6.2ft tall. My dearest Shasa,You've brought me so much happiness and joy that I can scarcely contain it all. I'm sure beams of light radiate from me wherever I go. I noticed a few raised eyebrows at work when I started coming in bright, smiling and energized, humming some love.. My colleagues wanted to know why I've been so delighted for the past few weeks, and I told them that I am counting days to be with you. Could you be her; “the one” for the rest of my life? Why do I feel this strong pull towards you my love? I am enticed by simply the possibility. Just looking at your photo I find magic in your smile and adventure in your voice. In a moment I was changed and can never be the same again. Now I know you really exist; the one who made my heart jump the first time I saw her lovely photo. I’m excited. I’m scared. I’m thrilled. I’m afraid. But most of all I am grateful. I found you and I will never let go.

Hope to see you soon. I can't express how excited I am to have you.
Letter 26

Dearest Sasha, I am sorry for misspelling your name, thought it's kind of funny though lol.. Do you believe in dreams because I had a dream last night and I saw an old woman telling me how lucky I am. She stood there pointing at me with a smiley face, saying "You're so lucky, Fernando" Babe this conversation means a lot to me, that's why I am putting my all to make sure it works. I have no other words to describe the way you make me feel. No words, no actions could even come close. I believe that Ronald Regan said it best to Nancy in a letter, telling her only that, "I more than love you". Their love was a strong love, surviving everything, even death. I believe that even after his passing, Nancy felt Ronald's love for her raining down upon her. That is why she has always seemed at peace after the death of such a truly loving husband. That is the love that I feel for you. Soon, we shall be together and never depart. Unfortunately, we couldn't find the remaining Medallions, we will keep searching. Hopefully we will find it soon. I miss hearing your sweet voice. Yes, I love my character, what about you? Can I ring you now?
Letter 27

First off thank you, thank you for being amazing and spending every minute of every day being exactly who you are. I’m scared and anxious and I want tell you all the feeling I have in my head and in my heart for you. When we talk I get butterflies and every time you pick up the phone when I call I stop breathing for a second. I want do whatever I can to show you how much you mean to me. I want give you the universe. I want to be around you on your best day ever and i want to be around you on your worst day ever. I want be the one you lay your head on when you cry and the one you get a tissue from when you’re sick. I would move heaven and earth for you the second you asked me to. I loved you when I first saw you and I will love you the same when your ninety. All I want from you is a chance to prove myself. If you let me, I just know in my heart that I can make you happier than anyone else ever would because you have already made me happier than anyone else ever could. I love you with all my heart.

I am getting read to leave to the airport now.

Much love.
Letter 28

Haha!! Well, the came out directly from my heart. Anyways, I arrived safely and tried calling but you didn't pick up. Speak to you soon Hun.
Letter 29

Good morning dear, i think the time difference is 24 hours. I am going to meet my client in a while. I will call you once I am done, if you are still awake. Thinking of you always. Kisses and hugs
Created: 2016-01-28    Last updated: 2016-01-28    Views: 1508
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