Hello Jim How are you doing? Thank you so much for writing back again and thank you for answering my questions.I will also be Glad to answer same questions .You are such a very open minded man and i believe that you have plenty of what i am searching for in a partner.Below are the answers to the same questions i asked you in my last email.I want you to know that i was born here in California but i grew up in Russia, The reason for this is because when i was 7 years old, my late mother separated from my late father and during their separation, she took me to Russia where she is from and we lived there for 8 years and after they got back together, we moved back to the states and i have been living here in California since then. I also want you to know that i have the Russians kind of accent and so i hope that will not bother you.I like what i do for a living and i enjoy my work, my dream is to have my business grow into a big one someone and i will have branches all over the states, if i would do anything i would love to be with someone that will love and cherish me forever, when i have problems, i always talk to someone close to me about it and also my best friend, i am a very open minded person and i love sharing my problems with close friends and my partner. How do I deal with frustration?

I have had a lot of that lately so I can say first hand experience. I face it I get over it. I walk and I talk. I don’t like to bad mouth anyone but sometimes frustration leads to that. For me its often that I don’t understand how people can be the way they are when life can be better if you choose to look at the brighter side. I believe your emotions and reactions are a choice. Often it doesn't need fixing I just need to air my thoughts. I have friends and we talk. As I would want the partner in my life to really be a part of my life then I would like to think he is interested enough to want to know me and how I am and what Is going on. I used to be the kind of person who swallowed frustration and anger and always looked after the other person. The word NO was not one I said often and I was always flexible and helpful at the expense of my own health and wellbeing. It has taken me years to realise that it just isn’t appreciated by most people and in fact it doesn't help people always. I am humanitarian type of person so it’s a fine balance.

Anger

Anger and I don’t get along very well. I don’t get angry often… I don’t really know why. I tried screaming into a pillow at one stage and it was pitiful really.. lol. I get annoyed more than angry. How I deal with it is once again upfront I don’t like to sit with those kind of feelings. I believe everything can be talked out if blame and fear is not part of the equation. I meditate as well which keeps me balanced. I prefer laughter and often find that it cures feelings of anger. I don’t like being around negative or angry people. I think it we could see the energy between these people it would be red because it zaps my energy. Anger is one of those emotions that is a waste of time so is guilt. I know we do what we do at the time with what we know and understand. Anyway after what I have been through in life I keep waiting for the anger but it doesn’t come. I think because I choose to deal with all this emotion rather than let is fester. I wanted to move on. I knew in my heart I wanted to move on. I wasn’t happy in the relationship I just didn’t have the courage to leave. Walking and music is good. I love listening to music. I often find lyrics can say exactly what I feel.

Emotion-:

I was always an emotional person. I wouldn’t say abnormal emotion. I don’t cry at the drop of a hat. I do cry at movies and often when I talk about my parents or family as there is so much heartbreak and pain there. I noticed in the last few years with my ex that I didn’t cry. I really felt emotionally lost and I lost connection with my clients. Now I feel so good about life and alive and yes the tears are back, and laughter I love laughing with friends and seeing other people happy and knowing I contributed in some way.

Happiness

Being with like minded people, laughter, being with people who accept me the way I am. Being in love, music, walking, children, I love seeing things like two older people walking hand in hand I like to think love doesn’t fade or die when you’re with the right person. I love sitting at sidewalk cafes going to the movies. On a deeper level I want to be in a committed relationship and I know my choice will be such that I will be happy. I love cuddles, watching a movie at home with someone lying on your lap or vice versa. I feel good when I achieve something, when I stand up for myself in a way that I can be proud of and the outcome is good. I feel happy when I visit some of my clients as they are gorgeous people. I often feel happy just at home alone. Expressions of love from someone when you’re not with them make me happy, intense love making, just being alive makes me happy. Trying new things makes me happy. Going to shows, I love seeing live acts; I don’t like going alone much. Oh almost forgot, driving through the mountains with the windows down.

How do I wish to be handled…

Just hug me, don’t be scared of me, just be there and be yourself and don’t try and fix it unless I ask for your input. Be interested in me as I would be in you. Feeling Lonely-- I hate to be lonely in life, I like doing a lot of things to keep me busy whenever i am lonely, going fishing, bowling, going to the cinemas and also like reading, i do a lot of reading

I Hope this should tell you a lot more about me, but if there is anything else you will like to know about me.Go ahead and ask me.

Take Good care of yourself. You can call or text me at 916-409-7980 if you would love to talk on phone. I really do enjoy reading your emails and i will be waiting to get an email back soon.

Hugs

Brandon

Hello Jim How are you doing?Thanks so much for your email and thank you for telling me so much about you.I want you to know that i am the only child of my late parents, i do not have brother or sisters. I really do enjoy what i do for work, I own a store here in Sacramento where i sell brand new laptops and computer accessories. I work Mondays- Fridays, 9am -6pm. I really want us to get to know each other better and i so much believe that we can make a good match.I am a very caring, loving and romantic man, I believe in respecting my partner and giving him all the respects he deserves and i also believe that its my duty to make sure that my partner and i remain happy for the rest of my life.

I believe that i am a caring, honest and understanding man and all i need now in my life is to find a man that will show me true love, a partner that will always be there for me, a partner i can trust and share my life with, someone who believes in love, someone who knows the true meaning of true love.What makes you happy in life and what makes you sad. when is your birthday and whats your favorite color.what are the things you are looking for in a partner? what do you like to do for fun? as for me i like dancing, swimming, traveling and fishing, my birthday is October 4th and my favorite color is blue.

I will like to really know more about you and ask you some few questions which i believe will help me in getting to know more about you.

How do you deal with frustration? What are your ways of dealing with anger? Do you wish you were less or more emotional? Why? What things make you extremely happy? What is your favorite way to express your emotions of love? When you are sad about something, how do you wish to be handled? When you are feeling lonely, what makes you feel you better?

I hope i am not asking too much questions. if i am please do pardon me. smile.I don’t know what inspires you but I am prepared to learn, I’m curious. I am not sure what tunes you in and what tunes you out but I believe you will teach me.I don’t know what you dream but I believe we can share.

Well I guess i will have to stop here until i hear from you again, Please feel free to ask me anything you will like to know more about me.

Take good care of yourself and have a lovely day Hugs Brandon

Hello Jim

How are you doing?Thank you so much for writing. I live in the city of Sacramento here in California.I will really love us to get to know more about each other .The happiness of life is to love and to be loved.I am somebody that so much believe in love and caring.I want you to know that i believe in a Monogamous relationship, I just got out of long term relationship few months ago which lasted for 4 years, I really did love him and was very honest and faith to him, he was really a sweet guy from the start but few months before i broke up with him, I started observing some changes in him which made me later found out that he was cheating on me, I was really hurt when i found out because i really did trust him, I had to end the relationship and i am happy that i did and happy i have moved on , I just want to be with someone i can trust and believe in, someone that will love and cherish me as i would do the same. I have so much love inside me to share with the right partner for me, I believe that the spaces between our fingers were created for someone special to fill them in, I want that special man that will fill in the spaces between my fingers, Someone that will be my best friend and my lover..

I am tired of living alone and i need someone to share my life with, someone that i will always care for and share my feelings with, I am a very open minded person, I do like to do a lot of things for fun, I like to dance, go to the movies, swimming , playing games and also dinning out, i also love cooking, I am also a very romantic man and very passionate. I also own a business of my own here, I sell computer accessories and laptops. I inherited the business from my late father before he started with his construction business, he died 7years ago, I really do miss them, They both died in a car accident.sweet parents.

A person is incomplete without love Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust,faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones. Take Good care of yourself and have a wonderful day. I will be waiting to hear from you soon and hoping to get to know more about you as we continue to communicate. I am also attaching for pictures of me. Take care Brandon