Hi its Lewis from IDC. Please let me know if I've got the reached the right person and address ... THANKS MUCH.
Firstly, thanks for your interest and reply and hope you having a good day!
I really enjoyed reading your profile, I find that we are on common ground and It appears as we have quite a few things in common that's worth exploring.
To start with I'm one woman man I am looking for a soulmate and a partner for life myself. I am looking for an equal partner in a relationship.
I'm new to the internet dating world but since it doesnt really work the old fashion way anymore and due to my busy work schedule its hard for me to meet people.
Honestly,I don't imagine any man to see a gorgeous lady like you with such a lovely profile and still continue searching for other women because I have been looking through many partner recommendations lately and some of them even looked interesting, but yours was one of the few that looked special!
Sometimes finding that person that you click with his very very hard .With finding a partner we can enjoy life together with..I really like being happy and I like making others happy. I believe in do onto others as you would have them do onto you.
I am happy by myself but I think it would be so much better to share my life somebody else. I have one daughter of which she grown 21 years old and on her own.
I would be happy to communicate & try to get to know each other if you are interested,I think it would be fun to start a conversation if nothing else.
Do you mind email conversation so I can write more about myself for you to have a better sense of who i am ...Would you like to exchange emails or something? Well here is my email. firstname.lastname@example.org write me if you would like to correspond more..
I feel very touched by your beauty and I would love to learn more about you.
I will be looking forward to hear from you.
Lets ticktack and see how we go.
Have a good Sunday and a good afternoon.How are you enjoying your weekend? Just got back home from Mass not long,been doing some cleaning around the house making sure everything is in order,what about you? I attached last night pic for you.
Thank you for your very interesting email.You sound like a wonderful person and thank you for letting me no more about yourself.I am quite moved that you felt compelled to express your interest I will do the same.
Thank you so much for sending all these wonderful pictures .I loved all of them.You are very attractive woman!! You have a great smile and sexy eyes. What great pics.
I'd like to tell you a little more about myself in the hopes of getting to know each other a little bit better. I'm more interested in meeting not a perfect woman but a good woman with a good heart.....The best part of a relationship is to have my best friend who knows me and I know her well because we take the time to build trust, understanding, respect and knowledge and our communication is brilliant and honest and often. I am a kind, considerate, driven, giving, compassionate, fun to be around person. And I smile a lot...:).
I want to have a connection so deep as a friend and a lover that I could not imagine my life without this person... Timing is everything and character is so important, I think two people should share the same values -- such as honesty and integrity, thoughtfulness and kindness.I am a non smoker,like good wines actually not a big drinker at all. But i do have social drinks.
I am a work in progress, but I do care for myself and take care of myself well. I then have the energy and abundance of spirit to care for those around me. I believe I have a sense of style - my own mixed with classic design with a touch of elegance. My clothes fit my mood and I love looking pressed and sharp - neat and clean makes me feel good on the inside and allows me to carry myself with great confidence.
You sound like the perfect lady.We have very similar interests and similar ideas of what we are looking for.I have plenty of my own ideas ;) opinions, beliefs and thoughts - I respectfully share all things and love to explore life -- and would like to share all of me with someone very special. I like that you wish to have someone considerate of others and gives more than takes.
I was once married but my wife died 8 years ago, I moved down here about 13 years ago to settle down with my late wife (I'll tell you more about that later. :).
I want someone for whom I can share my deepest thoughts, fears and aspirations... I would like someone to know me because she cares to ask and wants to see me for who I am on the inside ...Not just my physical self... As the outside fades....The seasons take our youth but can bring us rich rewards of lessons learned and appreciation for all the things that matter.
I want someone to grow old with -- to hold my hand, laugh, cry and be there for me no matter what - and I for her. Through the tough times.. That is a true test -- I will always be there for the people I love -- I would lust like for someone to stand with me -- I am a very strong man -- but it would be nice to have one person I could lean on now and again... I have so much love inside as well... and could share so much...
Online is different - not really a natural setting but when we get to our age and busy lifestyle -- So here I am ..and happy to meet you ;) . I am fairly new to this online dating and you're the only woman that have been in contact with me through my personal email though I received some emails from some other ladies on the site but they don't seem to be ready for a serious relationship that might lead to commitments.I'm looking for my hero my life lover i'm one woman man and I don't like game, i'm not one night stand person, if I like you I will tell you, also if I don't I also will tell you, I don't like lies or drama, I believe in honest and truth, I might hurt but its better than lies.
In a woman all I'm looking for a big beautiful heart full of love, caring, respect and laughter, I'm not looking for poor or rich, not looking for what you got or what I got, not looking for looks...I got everything a life can offer i'm very independent man but I got a very big heart I would like to share with the same types of heart with full of joy.
The reason I joined this website is to hope meet the right person as when you are on your own you are the odd person out and at our age we have plenty of living and enjoying life.
What I have said is the truth and hope we can continue being in contact and one day meeting. If there is anything else you wish to know I am only be to pleased to tell you as you sound to be a wonderful caring person.
How about you? Your turn..... I shall have more questions for you next time...
Hope to read back from you soon.
Wishing you a great day.
Hi Veronica, hope your day is going great. Nice to meet you even if it's not face to face yet.It would be wonderful to get to know you. Did you receive my email. It would be wonderful to get to know you. I don't think I'm gonna stay on this site any more I'm not comfortable there. This computer business is new to me.
Thank you for your message, that was sweet. Would love to tell you more about myself and get to find out about you.
I was wondering what a lovely lady like you doing on internet dating sites and how are things going for you on the site? Have you found many interesting men to correspond with?
Let me start by telling you a bit more about myself. I'm Lewis Lukaz Foote by name 56years old. I am an Architect by profession. I am into design and construction management as well. I have been a widow for few years now,I have a 21 years old daughter who study in WA.
I am originally from Italy,my both parents was from Italy and my late wife was from Italy, it was a very lovely and wonderful life with her but now she is gone I have to stay for 8 good years to mourn her death because the love between us was pure real but I think now am ready to pick up my life again and love again.That why I joined online dating I have only been on the dating site for few days..I'm here looking for my life partner the woman who is ready to spend the rest of her life with me, a lovely caring honest respectful and truthful woman with God fearing..
I'm not the jealous possessive controlling type of man nor, am I the clinging needy type of man. I'm a trusting, faithful, respectful, honest up front, good listener, good sense of humour, loyal, good communicator and sincere man.
I'm a passionate romantic man, I love spontaneously giving a bouquet of flowers or a romantic card, moonlit walks holding hands, candle lit dinners, slow dancing cheek to cheek, cuddling while watching a movie, cuddling after making love, cuddling beside a campfire or fire pit sipping wine, expressing my love and desire on a daily basics, paying attention to body language plus, a good listener, love it when I'm flirted with and teased, love keeping the romance refreshing and exciting, short get away romantic weekend trips and extended summer vacations trips. I enjoy golfing, camping, fishing, billiards, bowling, photographing nature, art galleries, museums, live theatre, wood work, writing some poetry, going to small town rodeos and, spending time with family and friends.
I have always believe in old fashion style of meeting people but this seems totally different but it help you search beyond your reach.. I was looking online and saw your page I couldn't help but stop to write you .. You have a nice profile ..You must have alot of men you talk to online you are on dating sites so tell me your good and bad experiences about men online? Tell me what you really looking for online and how long have you been into online dating?
I am a good hearted person who likes to help other when I can. I'm looking for a good sense of humour, a good communicator, trusting, faithful, respectful, loyal, sincere, honest up front and good listener. A lady who will love to become my lover, mentor and best friend, I hate lies, believe in honesty.
I live alone but always have my daughter visit whenever she's on long break quite far away from home ,I've lived my life and worked hard to raise her more than expectation.
What are your days like ? hectic or flexible ? Do you enjoy what you do for a living ? I enjoy my career. I derive joy from what i do for living, that makes it a hobby for me not work .. Smile .In my own book a person who knows how to smile and laugh knows how to enjoy life .. So I must say enjoying life is worth sharing.Guess we can share our smile together..
Write and let me know about yourself I would be very interested, and don’t give us away. You never know what may happen. Tell me your likes and dislikes, what you are looking for, what kind of life you would like to have with a partner.I am honest person and as I said I respect and treat women with the greatest respect.
Well I am a very open book so you know I will answer what so ever question you have for me .. Can you please send me some resent pictures. I attached some pictures of myself and I hope you like them.
I will be looking forward to hearing from You soon!
Have a Lovely evening.
I hope you had a good weekend.I had a good weekend, Did you do anything special, or just nice? What do you like to do most with your spare time?
I try to be honest in relating my thoughts and feelings. I don't want you to think that I am trying to be evasive or testing the waters so to speak. It is very hard to express emotions through emails when you can't see the others' reactions or body language.Communication is so very important to me.
I am very happy to hear from you again and do hope to get more from you so I can learn more and more about you.. I couldn't get back on my computer until now, I'm pleased to read your response. I am someone who wants to enjoy life. I need someone who is free to enjoy doing things with me. I love to talk and I need someone who also likes to talk but who is also prepared to listen. I have an enquiring mind and it likes to be active. I joined this website because I am open to meet people from another race or culture. I didn't want to limit myself. For me when it comes to happiness, age, race or religion should not matter.Love and be loved is what matter and you never know where and when you will find it. I am hoping that this time will be forever.
Would absolutely love to know you more and I'll like to meet you in person will be nice...I would like to tell you more about myself and would love to know all about you too.I love to meet you in person someday,I am so much nicer in person ... photo's are horrible and so is chat ... When you can't see someone's expressions, smile, and reactions, don't you agree? But at least we do have this opportunity to write to each other and get to know each other better until this very special meeting.I hope we can meet up one day but until then I would love to continue chatting & getting to know you even more.
You really sound so nice and wonderful and it would be my pleasure to know you more better.Emotional & passionate. I'm a lover of life, music, new adventures, quiet moments, and treasure all my friendships. I`ll like us to share our past and present life experiences with each other and be able to express our mutual feelings to one another and get to see if there will be Chemistry. Please tell me a bit more about your fun side.
I am looking to meet my new best friend --- I've been in the single arena for almost 8 years.I have dated quite but basically spent the last 8 years raising my wonderful daughter,she means the world to me.I live on my own. And I have a very good friend named Jojo my dog he's a Labrador,he loves to play with other dogs and I adore him.
I do know that I don't want to spend the next chapter of my life solo. I want to travel, hold hands, exchange views, thoughts, agree to disagree and always end each day with a hug and a positive comment. Perhaps a 'Cinderella' complex but I think my wishes are possible! Life is too short to spend it alone and I'm ready to welcome a good, kind & caring person into mine. I am interested in meeting the right person. I am a very strong-minded, intuitive and compassionate person, with a great sense of humor and positive attitude on life. I have spent a good amount of time living by the work hard, play hard rule.
I am looking forward to meeting new woman, sharing what I have to offer, and waiting for my next great love to come along. I am very affectionate and thoughtful within a relationship,and love to have fun.I have been very fortunate for all of the wonderful things that have gone on in my life. I am also very much financially independent, have a career that I enjoy, and that's a blessing in this economy. I am looking for a woman that is compassionate, loves to talk late into the night over a glass of wine, and can make me laugh a lot.I think laughing is one of the keys to good health. Also, I am looking for someone who is ready for a relationship with the right person...Someone who is quite independent, a good communicator, and understands the demands of parenthood and career. I love to laugh and have a very dry sense of Humour. I am very respectful and treat all people with the greatest respect, I miss good manners and hate people who have no values in life . Both of these are high priorities in my life.I am a strong confident independent man,I want someone who will look after me. Not that I cannot look after myself but miss someone telling me its going to be okay when I may doubt life. I like eating out, cinema walks in beautiful unspoilt countryside, I love to hear bird song and have to admit to being a morning man.I miss contact in life and don't refer to just sexual. I miss holding hands and most of all a HUG at the end of the day.
I want someone who will value, appreciate and recognize that everything I have to give is priceless. I have to admit that trust is a weakness in that I will not allow my self to be hurt again in life. I know I have to work on this and am willing to do so. I would love to know you more better.. You sound so nice and posses the qualities of the woman I would like to meet. I would want you to tell me more about yourself & your family background. Your past love life and everything you feel convenient to share with me. Feel free to ask me anything. I will always be Happy to give you a response with Honesty. I hope the above gives you a little more insight about me.
Thanks for taking the time to read this. Online is something new, but I truly believe in destiny,I do believe this is a new wonderful, beautiful adventure, a new page, a new chapter, actually a new book! I’m here, ready to be leaned on!
The reason I joined this site is in the hope of meeting someone who wants the same as me. In time if compatible the it develops into a permanent relationship. I am loyal to the right person so lets see were this goes? This is so different from when I was young, I think we had the best of times but this process is still not easy. When you partner passes, that grieving process can take a long time than you realise It is time to find someone who wants to be with you, love you for who you are, be spontaneous, affectionate and caring.
Bye for now .
Your new found friend Lewis.
I am glad you like our communications - I do also. I can promise you that if we bond and we grow closer and want to be together I have know hesitations about making that commitment to you and moving to wherever you are to begin a life together. I want to tell you, that your message brings smile on my face, and a tickle in my heart, and I would like to thank you,I actually look forward to receive an email from you. I think am learning more about you as I hope you are learning about me as well. I am very much enjoying our email exchanges and learning more about you each day. I want to get to know you more better.
I believe that we have to build the very most important foundation of a relationship, TRUST, RESPECT, and LOVE. Those are the hardest and Takes the longest to build and earned, but it's the easiest to lose, so we have to be very careful. Not to break it.
I believe a relationship cannot be forced, cannot be rushed and it needs faith from each other, and it's a two way process ,in which, two consenting adults ,should have a mutual Understanding in every way, and should have mutual feelings with each other.
But we have to also accept the fact that life is not perfect and nobody's perfect either, You don't really need someone to complete you, you only need someone to accept you completely.
A good relationship, don't just happen, they take Time, Patience and two people who really want to be together, the best feelings are those that have no words to describe them, and the greatest treasures are those invisible to the eyes, But felt by the heart, and that's the feelings we want to have in our search, Is it impossible to find?,Maybe not, maybe yes, but all we need is have faith.
When someone comes into your life,God sent them for a reason, Either to learn from them or to be with them until the end. Who knows, only God knows.God has a reason for allowing things to happen,We may never understand his wisdom but we simply have to Trust His Will.,and God has a perfect trimming,never early, never late, It takes a little patience and it takes a lot of Faith, but it's worth the wait.
Life ends when we stop dreaming, Hope ends when we stop believing, Love ends when we stop caring, Friendship ends when we stop sharing .Dont look back in regret, and Don't live with fear, but move on with hope, a lot of our fears that we are dealing with are really only in our thoughts. In making any decision in our life and moving on, Let's forget all the reasons why it won't work, but just believe the ONE reason why it will work.
All your dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them. The purpose of life is to live it, to taste it, to experience it to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear ,for newer and richer experience. Sometimes we have to stop worrying, wondering and doubting, Have faith that things will work out, maybe not how you planned it, but just how it's meant to be.
Courage doesn't mean you don't get afraid, Courage means you don't let Fear stop you. In your search, I hope you keep in mind,that he's not perfect,you aren't either,and the two of you will never be perfect.Remind ourselves that it's OK not to be perfect.Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect, It means you've decided to see beyond Imperfections. Never be afraid to trust an Unknown Future, to a Known GOD.
I think I have to stop here ,I don't want to bore you, I apologize , I'm just inspired and wanted to share with you, hoping to inspire you as well, lol,just hoping, lol. But for now I look forward to hearing from you,if there are any questions or you would like more details in any area, please don't hesitate to ask ,I will try my best and with all honesty ,to answer all your questions, I'm hoping to hear from you soon, also, I hope you're having a wonderful day, and safe and healthy, with the blessings of the Lord.
I would like to know more about you, your family, friends and your activities. If you could write to me and give me a little more insight into who you are. Such as do you like boating, swimming, snorkling, sitting on the beach, do you play golf , do you read alot, what kind of movies do you like? What is your favorite kind of music? Where do you like to vacation?
I am really enjoying our emails and feel closer to understanding you as a person and friend. I feel that you are a deep thinker and try hard to understand and please others and feel my life will be richer by just knowing and talking with you. I am eager to reveal and see all sides to this new friend. I don't know if it's too forward to give you my phone #, but I will anyway! :)
Text or call if you want. If you want to keep corresponding through email until you're ready, I'm fine with that. :) I just want to know you... My cell # is 209 885-7659. I hope you don't mind little thick europe accent, love to hear more about you.
Take care always.Lewis.
How are you doing my friend it feels like high school lol. I really appreciate our communication I find you very attractive and I must confess I never believe such a wonderful lady like you will be on the dating site but am glad I joined. You are the only woman I ever contacted with my private email and phone number on the dating site and I think I perfectly made the right choice . Smile.. I'm 6.2 tall and yourself? I love learning about you and I had a big smile on my face reading your long text.I am learning more about you as I hope you are learning about me as well.
There is something about you that draws me to you , I would love to learn more about you … Are you completely off on the dating site? I decided to remove my profile on the dating site. Except for you, the other women that have tried to contact me have not been interesting and some of them don't want a special relationship. I'm not interested in women like that. I have too much respect for myself to just meet someone for sexual relief.I feel special that you write to my personal email. I know there are weird people on the site but I guess am lucky to have one of the best kind on there ….
Thank you for putting effort in our communication and learning about each other. I am getting to know about you each day… My last relationship was with my late wife. She passed away almost 8 years ago. She died of cancer. She was told she had this on five parts of her body. This was in august and Dec. she passed. 8 years ago.
Well at least the secondaries. I had supported her through the years of the disease and its treatment, some of which were worse than the disease. Well at least it seemed like it. This may sound callous and cold, but when you choose to stay with your partner in this type of situation you make many sacrifices, often without realizing it.
So I have gone onto a dating site hoping to find someone, and one is the key. Like you I want to share and explore with just a single person and enjoy that life to the maximum. A good idea cause it means you only have to remember one place marker and one set of rules :-) . Avoids taxing the brain too much. While I am not trying to catch-up those missing years, I hope I can get to experience some of those things I have had to put aside (of course, all would be even nicer, but that might be asking too much from a lady).But I warn you I will probably try.
We were married 16 years. Immediately fell madly and passionately in love, married her and lived happily together until she death....16 years! We were each others companion, best friend, partner, mentor, lover, wife and husband and we considered ourselves so fortunate in that we remained that way; never tiring of each others company......and that's what I'm looking for again, in another relationship with another woman! (My parents were both born Italian) and were brought up in the Catholic faith where I continue to attend. My parents were rich family. My memory of my family life are good memories and I know that we were loved by our parents and we were a happy, close family.....Not a perfect family but a happy family. I am very private person and I don't want people to know my business I am usually a very personal type of person as I don't like telling people in what ways they can or could hurt me, I would like to believe that I am a rock but unfortunately that is not true. I would like to believe that nothing could hurt and that I am infallible, unfortunately that is not true.I want us to keep things privately between us and make it a surprise for people when we meet.
When my wife died.....I thought I did too! If somebody would have told me then that "time heals" I wouldn't have ever believed it but 8 years after her death that time did come and I was able to let her go.
I like the way am feeling writing this letter it makes me feel connected its been a while I go on a date....If I am to talk of first date hmmm, A nice dinner, or maybe a nice lunch in a safe environment. Romance, romance, romance.... I love candles,And would love to present little gift to see the expression on her face when she gets the gift , or flowers....And I will love to get a gift from her as well nothing expensive it could be a poem you wrote, or just something to let me know your thinking about me.
I love lots of music. Boston, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Journey, Michael Jackson, (funny to put him next to Journey) lol...80ies music, big hair bands, the Beatles, 60ies music and David Cooke, The Calling, Maria Taylor, Kelly Clarkston, some classical...Some hard rock, Moody Blues, ELO, some country rock, rock love ballads. Lots of music.
You sound like you have very interesting job full of adventure,I will like to know what your days are like, Ok let me ask a question, what are things you must do on a daily basis? In my own day I go by having my coffee (black please and NO sugar) Brush my teeth, wash my face, Let Jojo out to go potty (He has to sit first and he is soooo cute.
Thank the Lord for giving me a new day and so many blessings (that should be first I guess, but I do it as I am taking my first sip of coffee), get dressed , work, work, work, I work from home, do some exercise ,, cook and then clean kitchen ,,,,, odd chores around house ,,,, Watch TV and I guess I will add talking to you its now part of my schedule I guess.. Now you are part of my day and will like to see where this leads us too.
Write to me anytime you are free I love reading from you,hope to hear from you again soon.You communicate so beautifully, tells me your in good touch with your inner self. So I look forward to hearing from you, Don't plan to hide anything from you, because if you ask me I will tell you anyway. Answering any questions you may have, and we can take it from there.
Have a pleasant day. Take care Lewis.
Enjoy.....,,The Light Within
Thursday, May 14th, 2015
The Light Within...
Nothing can dim the light which shines from within.
Know, that nothing in this world can in any way come between you and the Divine spark that has been placed within you...unless you yourself give it the power to. And, as you nurture that relationship with the Spirit, it becomes a flame, burning brightly for all to see, and washing away any remnants of perceived attack, unforgiveness and bitterness that fear has caused. Isn't it time to lay down all of those burdens that you have allowed to dim your view of the marvelous creation that you are...and let your light shine!
The Lord is my Light and my Salvation—whom shall I fear or dread? The Lord is the Refuge and Stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?
~Psalm 27:1 (Amp)~
For with You is the fountain of life; in Your light do we see light.
~Psalm 36:9 (Amp)~
For you have rescued me from death; you have kept my feet from slipping. So now I can walk in your presence, O God, in your life-giving light.
~Psalm 56:13 (NLT)~
...is not this the fast that I have chosen: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the bands of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and that you break every [enslaving] yoke? Is it not to divide your bread with the hungry and bring the homeless poor into your house—when you see the naked, that you cover him, and that you hide not yourself from [the needs of] your own flesh and blood? Then shall your light break forth like the morning, and your healing (your restoration and the power of a new life) shall spring forth speedily; your righteousness (your rightness, your justice, and your right relationship with God) shall go before you [conducting you to peace and prosperity], and the glory of the Lord shall be your rear guard. Then you shall call, and the Lord will answer; you shall cry, and He will say, Here I am. If you take away from your midst yokes of oppression [wherever you find them], the finger pointed in scorn [toward the oppressed or the godly], and every form of false, harsh, unjust, and wicked speaking, And if you pour out that with which you sustain your own life for the hungry and satisfy the need of the afflicted, then shall your light rise in darkness, and your obscurity and gloom become like the noonday. And the Lord shall guide you continually and satisfy you in drought and in dry places and make strong your bones. And you shall be like a watered garden and like a spring of water whose waters fail not...and you shall be called Repairer of the Breach, Restorer of Streets to Dwell In.
~Isaiah 58:6-11 (Amp)~
Enjoy!!!!! Have a wonderful day.
Today, May 19th, 2015
Thoughts and Imaginations...
That which dominates our imaginations and our thoughts will determine our lives, and our character. Therefore, it behooves us to be careful what we worship, for what we are worshipping we are becoming.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson~
Everything that we experience in life, begins with a simple thought, that is then expanded, dwelled upon, and ultimately given place in our words and actions. It is the precursor to that which we perceive and make manifest in this physical realm. It will serve you well to diligently guard your thoughts and intentions, focusing only upon that which you know to be eternal truths, and accepting nothing less for yourself and our world. It will make all the difference in recognizing and experiencing the Divine within yourself, others and our world at large.
For what I fear comes upon me, And what I dread befalls me.
~Job 3:25 (NASB)~
Lord, who shall dwell [temporarily] in Your tabernacle? Who shall dwell [permanently] on Your holy hill? He who walks and lives uprightly and blamelessly, who works rightness and justice and speaks and thinks the truth in his heart...
~Psalm 15:1-2 (Amp)~
For as he thinks within himself, so he is...
~Proverbs 23:7 (NASB)~
For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds; Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ...
~2 Corinthians 10:4-5 (KJV)~
Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything, but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests), with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God. And God’s peace [shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. For the rest, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is worthy of reverence and is honorable and seemly, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely and lovable, whatever is kind and winsome and gracious, if there is any virtue and excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think on and weigh and take account of these things [fix your minds on them].
~Philippians 4:6-8 (Amp)~
Have a great day!!!
Wednesday, May 20th, 2015
Be the Change...
If you want to awaken all of humanity, then awaken all of yourself. If you want to eliminate the suffering in the world, then eliminate all that is dark and negative in yourself. Truly, the greatest gift you have to give is that of your own self-transformation.
It's true, that if we wish to see our world change for the better, then we must first be that change, and allow ourselves to be transformed. The process always begins within us, and then flows outward. When we can truly see things from that perspective, our world becomes filled with endless possibility, and we can impact and transform our surroundings by simply being the light that we are called to be.
For the Lord is the Spirit, and wherever the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. So all of us who have had that veil removed can see and reflect the glory of the Lord. And the Lord—who is the Spirit—makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image.
~2 Corinthians 3:17-18 (NLT)~
And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
~Romans 12:1-2 (NLT)~
For the anxious longing of the creation waits eagerly for the revealing of the sons of God.
~Romans 8:19 (NASB)~
Thursday, May 21st, 2015
A Sensible Approach...
Someday, everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, be strong and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason.
Many things that happen in our lives simply make no sense in the moment. We wonder why they have happened to us, and what possible purpose they could serve. But as time goes on, and we reflect upon them objectively, we begin to see the lessons contained in them, or how they ultimately served to get us to where we needed to be. Understanding that everything happens for a reason, and maintaining an attitude of acceptance, anticipation and hope throughout, makes the transition much easier. Simply rest in the knowledge that everything will become clear in its time.
To everything there is a season, and a time for every matter or purpose under heaven...What profit remains for the worker from his toil? I have seen the painful labor and exertion and miserable business which God has given to the sons of men with which to exercise and busy themselves. He has made everything beautiful in its time. He also has planted eternity in men’s hearts and minds [a divinely implanted sense of a purpose working through the ages which nothing under the sun but God alone can satisfy], yet so that men cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end. I know that there is nothing better for them than to be glad and to get and do good as long as they live; And also that every man should eat and drink and enjoy the good of all his labor—it is the gift of God.
~Ecclesiastes 3:1, 9-13 (Amp)~
Only aim at and strive for and seek His kingdom, and all these things shall be supplied to you also. Do not be seized with alarm and struck with fear, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom!
~Jesus / Luke 12:31-32 (Amp)~
Good Morning My Lady,
I hope you have slept well last night and you had sweet dreams! I like emailing, it’s like old fashioned letter writing and you can go and read them over. We still have much to learn about each other.I have told you a lot about myself yet I still think there are many things I want you to know and I want to know about you.This whole thing is very different for me...I have never communicated online with anyone like this..Being personal and honest and kind of "putting it all out there" to someone I have never met. I am trying to think of things to tell you that you don't already know about me. Let's see.........You make it so easy for me to do.
Those are very nice pictures, good looking family. You are such a beautiful woman, Nice eyes, beautiful nose, beautiful hairstyle, and your smile melts my heart. Seems we want the same thing we want in a relationship. I'm sincere, honest and open, I love to be expressive and determined.
I have been wondering how lucky I am to have met a Pretty lady like you over the globe.. But can't wait to find out if you are as beautiful as you are inside as you are outside which is obvious … So now you know what am willing to find.... I am enjoying writing to you … This whole thing is all new to me but am so glad to see you are interesting and interested .. Smile …I hope you wouldn't mind me asking you questions again because that is the only way we can learn to know each other better till we finally make a meeting possible.. I'll hopefully want to know what your consent is about these questions, I have been writing this for a while now. Not even sure what to ask and not to ask .. I'd hope the questions wouldn't be too much for you to answer. And I will answer the same,If you don't mind me asking.Just because I like to know everything about you. Well let me start with proper introduction..
What is your name in full ? My name is Lewis Lukaz Foote
Do you have a sweet tooth? Yes I do, especially for chocolate lol
How old are you? I will be turning 56 by November ….
When is your birthday? 14/NOV I am a Scorpio which explains my passion.
Where is your Present location? Manteca, CA is a city in the Central Valley of California, very close to east of San Francisco..
How romantic and/or loyal are you? I'm very romantic, I love to hold hands, kiss, have candle-light dinners, leaving each other romantic notes, lots of snuggling....I am always loyal no matter what.
How do you feel about cheating in a relationship? I do not and will never ever cheat for any reason and I would expect the same from the other person.
Do you keep grudges? No I don't, I believe in forgive and forget.
How long have you been single? I have been single a little over 8 years and couple of months ..
To what extent do you go to make a relationship work? I do not and well not get into a relationship if I do not intend to do everything I can to make it work.
Are you ready to settle down? Yes, I am ready to settle down this very moment or when ever it would come about if 5 years time because I don't want to rush into anything ..I Am Ready.
What attracts me to woman? in your case what attracts you to a man? When I was younger it would have been totally physical, as I have gotten older and hopefully matured and gained some wisdom I find attraction from what she is on the inside, is attractive to me, a smile, sense of humor, and intelligence.
How much personal space or away time from your partner do you need? I don't want to be a stalker ... I would say maybe an hour a day or maybe only an hour per week, but it would not always have to be me being away out of the house, sometimes I could just be in another room of the house and that would be fine, but I really think each person is different about their needs in that area and they also may feel different at different times.
My work and hours of work ? Am an architect I work from home .. I love what I do for a living which makes it a hobby for me .. Am sure you enjoy what you do as well at least it pays bills right .. Smile .. I work overtime or late night at times if my joy demands it.
Do you like public intimacy? Public intimacy is my thing .I miss that though. I like to hold hands and to walk while holding hand still,it's fun I guess
How do you treat your Woman? in your case how do you treat your man ? I treat her with respect,loyalty,adore her,treat her like a Queen.
My dislikes? Lying, stealing, judgmental people, arrogant people, cold weather, coconut, lemon anything, diet pop, crowded stores, long lines, and not being able to see and touch you..
What I look for in a woman? in your case what do you look for in a man? The first thing that comes to mind is honesty, a kind and caring heart, compassion, one that can see and enjoy the small things in life, generous of heart, supportive, humble, sensual, easy to smile, intellect, happy with who they are, and loving.
What is love to you? Love is the greatest gift of all, not only to be loved but to be able to give your love un-conditionally to someone. To know in your heart and soul they are the one you want,the one you desire, and knowing it works both ways, being there always for one another,willing and wanting to do anything for that person and in doing so brings you such joy and happiness, fulfillment. It is not about material things, it is about the feelings and emotions and desire, the intensity, the passion, desire. I could go on and on, lol.
Nature of my work? The greatest thing that I like about it is simply walking into a building after you’ve designed it. Turning the key over to the owner and realize that this was a figment your imagination. And i'm currently bidding for a big project with my agency .They requested for a prototype model... basically what I do is I design and draw out what to be build. I do love my work it gives me joy to see what I design being build .. Talk about dream home I can design it for you if you want .. Wink...
Greatest pleasure? I would say the birth of my daughter, holding her and feeling so proud, watching her grow up,the father daughter relationships when she adults, the hugs when we see each other.
Compromise in a relationship? I think that is a good thing, doing something you enjoy would make me feel good, just to see the smile on your face.........
Romantic? Deep down I am very romantic, and hopefully will be able to share that with you...........
Holding hands and being close.......... This is one of the things I am longing for, it would give me great pleasure.....
Enjoy alone time? When I think of my life, I feel that I have been way just about all of it, things have taken my mind of it, but deep down its been there, I do not feel that since I have meet you, you have touched me more than you know. On daily basis, it could be hoeing in the garden, mowing lawn, watching the sun come up with a cup of coffee, this is my time to pray and talk to God ( early morning before sunrise ). After writing I think that I have been a lonely man, since I have meet you I do not feel that way, you are truly a gift. Thank you, I will give you a hug and a kiss.........
Adventurous.........You most likely would not see me climbing a mountain, jumping out of a good airplane, or deep sea diving for treasure. I will have scale that down a little if not a lot. Traveling to new places, trying a new restaurant, time with you, anything that I have not done before.
Greatest strength? Honest, forgiving, generous, my character.
Weakness? Being to generous, to forgiving, letting things go to long, not following my heart.
Enjoy holidays? Yes very much so, my daughter are usually home for the longs holidays.
Family important and share holidays? Family is very important to me, it keeps the family together.
Do you have a favorite color? Blue
Favorite Food? Sea food, chicken, ham, bananas, chocolate pudding, pizza or manicotti ,Italian, Mexican, Chinese
Do you like Animal? OMG I love dogs . I pretty much love all animals. Animals and Babies: they come from another world. from God's world. we can never look at them WITHOUT A SMILE ON OUR FACE....... there is something so innocent and beautiful about them................our children grow and leave us........that's why we get the chance with having pets. they bring god closer to us by keeping god's babies safe with us. .......another one of the miracles/blessings we have.
What do you drive? I drive a Bentley 2012 and Honda Truck 2010.
Do you participate in any sport? I like Europa soccer. boating, swimming, I like golf. I have played ten pin bowling, squash and had a go at most things.
Would you allow me to kiss you? That is on my wish list, and would most definitely allow you allow you to, an I hope more than one, I am thinking many!
Pass-time? Dinner at a good restaurant, out for a movie, out for a drink on occasion, site seeing some where new, cuddle on the couch while watching a movie at home, coffee with conversation, planting a garden and watching it grow, making a vehicle repair or house repair, remodeling in the house,reading, listening to music. The most recent and most enjoyable is talking to you and getting to know you, ,I like sitting on the beach.
What is the one thing people notice about you when they first meet you? I have been told my eyes and also the way I speak. I have Italian thick accent and my smile.
How do you feel about chemistry in a relationship? I feel that chemistry is very important to the relationship cause if you're going to spend the rest of your life with that person you really need to have things in common.
What are the best traits you have to offer a partner? I would say my best trait would be my ability to love deeply.
Well there you go, I hope you get this and it gives you a little bit more insight on me. The more we talk, seems the more I want, cannot get you out of my mind. Look forward to hearing from you. You are in my thoughts and prayers and now in my heart.I hope this tells you a little bit more about me and hope to continue to get to know you. I will look for your answers as well before then have a wonderful week.
Hugs and Kisses .
I had to just tell you good morning and I hope you slept well. I slept better. You are always in my mind. It was wonderful and I no we have got closer to each other. It is the only way to find out about each other and believe it has been fantastic the way we are together. I hope your day goes well.
We should be glad we don't live close so that we're forced to get to know each other well and take our time. Rome was not built in a day and neither is a loving happy relationship. You first have to lay the foundation and build upon it. I believe those foundation building blocks are:
Respect for each other
Trust of and in each other
Honesty with each other
Love for each other
Commitment to each other
And of course attraction to each other and keeping outside influences out. As I told you, I am a "one woman man" and I have very high standards both for myself and that woman. In just the few emails we have sent, I am really starting to feel a connection. Every time I read one of your emails, it's incredible how much we have in common, and we seem to both be looking for the same thing in a relationship. I appreciate all of the information you sent me about yourself it really makes me feel so close to you like have know you for long.I cant wait to be with you in person.
Right now I'm busy with a project at hand they gave me a deadline for the submission and I was trying to beat the time, I was able to get alot done yesterday, Its a big project i am bidding for, So no sweat I am sure I will beat the time given. So we can meet in person really soon, I want to know more about you, you seem like an interesting and caring person to be with.
Thank you for taking your timeout writing back and forth.. You seem to be a very nice kind lady. I'm eager to learn more about you, I want to know your likes and dislikes, what makes you smile, what sort of things bother you (if only to avoid those things) and what you aspire to do or where you want to go in this life. I can hardly wait to hear about your past because that is what has made you who you are today. I am eager to learn what type of sense of humor you have and so much more.
Wouldn't it be nice to look forward to coming home to someone who can't wait to see you and hear about your day? It would be nice to share a table in a quiet corner and talk about what ever comes to mind. Do you dance? I want to learn. I can't remember when I've been more excited to get to know somebody like I am with.
We are about to embark on the journey to see if this is, indeed, what we both have been desirous of and seeking for so long. It can be a little scary because in order to embark on this road, one has to open oneself up to another person and take the tremendous risk of experiencing a devastating heartbreak.
We each have to be sincere and serious. I do not take this lightly as I neither want to hurt anyone or be hurt.
However, I know God did not put us in each others path for no reason. I also have always believed that I am only living the script the Lord wrote for my life before I was even born and his reasons and reasoning will soon be revealed.
My attraction to you is so strong and I cannot explain it. It happened so quickly and that tells me to "follow my heart" as my Grandmother used to say, and move forward and see what lies ahead.
I don't believe in short term relationships. You invest too much of yourself and the pain of parting is too great. My prayer and hope is that I will enter into and be blessed with a lasting, long term relationship. One in which I can completely let myself go and give all this pent up emotion, desire and affection to that one person. I don't want to hold anything back. Which means I am totally vulnerable. But with trust and honesty in place I would also be secure in the knowledge that my heart is in safe hands. As for you, you can be rest assured that your heart also would be in safe hands.
Are you affectionate, are you passionate, do you like to display your affection, are you protective of your man or possessive and jealous, do you like to play and be silly sometimes or are you staid and serious, do you like your man to be fashionable and dressed but also break out casual in a pair of jeans, and a t-shirt, would you rather be in a crowd of people or in a more intimate one on one environment, what makes you happy and what makes you sad, do you still have residual feelings for someone else, are you a morning person or a night person, do you watch sports and which ones, what do you do to relax, what makes you angry, are you open and communicative and share your thoughts desires and fears or do you hold them inside, are you willing to get down in the trenches in the rough times and work it out or do you give up and bail out, why are you still single.
ARE YOU GOING TO LOVE ME WITH ALL YOUR MIND, BODY AND SOUL.
I'm sorry I'm rattling on and all questions cannot be asked and answered at one time. Do I have more questions, of course they have been running through my brain at a thousand miles a minute. I want to gaze into your eyes and see that beautiful smile as they are asked and answered.
Some questions will be answered without a word being spoken. They will be answered as we spend time with and observe each other. They will be answered in the mannerisms we pick up about each other, the conversations we will have, the hugs and kisses, the laughter and the tears, the desire to be with each other, the physical connection and then one day, like a bolt of lightening realize, "I cannot imagine my life without this person".
I am going to go for now. Will we cross the finish line?
Have a nice day think about me as I will think about you.
Kiss Kiss *:-* kiss*:-* kiss*:-* kiss
Peace, Love and Happiness.
Good Afternoon My Princess.
I still have to pinch myself each morning as well to see if this is reality. How does this happen? I go to sleep wishing you were holding me. I wake up with you on my mind. I re-read your emails and text so that I can feel you close to me, how did we get to this place almost immediately?
I to pray that God is watching out for both of us. I feel he is. I agree with you that he has a plan for our lives, I just hope his plan for us includes each other, at this point it would hurt to much if it did not.
I have to run get some work done,Its a busy weekend. The big project I told you am bidding working on the presentation is coming up soon .. Pray for me sweetie .. I will attach some pictures of the model am working on .. Its a conference center, hotel , shopping mall and offices in it..
I just wanted to let you know how I feel and for you to have the most wonderful day. I will talk to you later!
Hugs and kisses
Tuesday, June 9th, 2015
You don't want a million answers as much as you want a few forever questions. The questions are diamonds you hold in the light. Study a lifetime and you see different colors from the same jewel.
In this lifetime, there will always be deeper insights and new revelations to be gained regarding universal truths. How many times have you read and studied some Divine truth that you may have looked at dozens of times, when suddenly it ignites an entirely new perspective within you, and deeper understanding? It is much like peeling away the layers of an onion. As you mature and develop your own sense of connection to the Source of these truths, you open yourself up for a deeper experience of them. Never stop seeking, and the journey will be ever filled with the joyful thrill of those "aha moments of discovery.
“Whom will he teach knowledge? And whom will he make to understand the message? Those just weaned from milk?...For precept must be upon precept, precept upon precept, Line upon line, line upon line, Here a little, there a little.”
~Isaiah 28:9-10 (NKJV)~
If any man has ears to hear, let him be listening and let him perceive and comprehend. And He said to them, Be careful what you are hearing. The measure [of thought and study] you give [to the truth you hear] will be the measure [of virtue and knowledge] that comes back to you—and more [besides] will be given to you who hear.
~Jesus - Mark 4:23-24 (Amp)~
Up to this time you have not asked a [single] thing in My Name [as presenting all that I AM]; but now ask and keep on asking and you will receive, so that your joy (gladness, delight) may be full and complete.
~Jesus - John 16:24 (Amp)~
How has your weekend been, I miss you so much Honey. I went to mass this morning,had a fantastic time, the worship was powerful, on Relationships: the main reading is Proverbs 31. The relationships theme for this week focused on 1. Trust (is the foundation of every relationship and every home and both the man and the woman should never give reason not to trust each other), 2. Respect (is vital in building one another) and 3. Praise (a couple should always praise and encourage one another and not put each other down and never let the sun go down still angry and upset with each other; any damage done to each other should be repaired quickly and not let it fester). These three themes are necessary into building a healthy relationship and a healthy home. I prayed to God for a better tomorrow and I always thank him for sending you into my life. I want to meet all your family. I want to become part of your family.
How has your weekend been,I didn't do much It been a stressful week.
Honey I love you and I pray for us each day for the LORD to be with us always. Will speak to you later.
Love you with all my heart
Good Afternoon Sweetheart,
You are on my mind so much I had to write you. I need to tell you how I feel. When I look at your picture and read your e-mails my heart beats faster.I never thought I could fall so deeply in love so fast with someone I haven't met face to face.
I want to show you that there is still true love and happiness to share. I want to wipe away all the pain you have endured and fill that space with love and joy.I pray I can be the vision of your happiness.
If could say everything I want to, I would use this whole page to express my feeling but word cant describe it all .. Time passes quickly,we have been communicating for a few weeks now? Its been a great pleasure knowing you and you understanding me, my English is not very well,my sentences is not always beautiful, but I write it by my heart. Which is the truth of my feelings.. But you know you are so fine that the blue sky wouldn't eclipse your shiny Smile…. I always love our communication …. My eyes miss seeing your picture, My feelings love you, My hands need you , My mind Calls you , My heart just for you, Because I have fallen in love with you …..
I thought I lost my talent of being romantic and loving, there again you bring out the sweetness and joy in me. I rely on memories to create images, I hope on sleep before I dream but all this is easy now whenever I think about you ..
My daughter is so happy for me.. She sees the joy and happiness the way I sound on the phone last night when we talk.. You give me joy I am the happiest man on earth at least in my world.. I like you today and hopefully tomorrow and forever.. It is a wonderful feeling writing these words..
Today I was busy working in the studio on my project..I wish you are here to give me a shoulder massage. (Smile)… Hmmmmmm but then again will I be able to get any work done? I doubt it sweetie.. I'm getting so used to you babe, I will like to keep learning more and more about you and would love to move forward to one day seeing and meeting each other at the right time. Those are things that's we shouldn't rush but will let nature take its course …. I'm so drunk with thoughts of you. Babe I won't be able to contain myself, I will want to kiss and hug you baby. why are you making me suffer to much Honey.
This is my song for you.I hope you love my kind of music.
I can't wait to hold you and actually feel your body heat next to mine.
kisses kisses ..