Hello Patricia, I hope you had a fabulous night rest? Thanks for reaching out.. I honestly feel compelled to say thanks for your interest to get acquainted. I guess I should start by telling you a little bit more about myself. It will take more than a book to describe myself and I bet you will agree that it's hard to describe one's self. Hey! here is an exclusive; if at my age I do not know what to say and when to say it, then what would I be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent more than half his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy end?
Comprehensively I'm an easy going and optimistic human who loves making the best of everything that life offers. Yeah.. I have old fashioned values as I am sure am not from these times just like you lol but I have no choice but to embrace what comes with the times, like internet dating for example. I strongly believe a man needs to live his life with fullness of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own..
Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom I can call a partner in crime lol. A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study. My fullname is John Paul, I was born to a loving couple, a home, by an Irish man from Galway and a German woman from Frankfurt. My father was an international business man who met this German orphan whose only family were close friends. She says there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist. sometimes she says she sees same in me,lol. During my father's global movement, while i was nineteen i left to study in England-Brunel University South East of London where i got a bachelors in civil Eng. I lost both parents in the 90s, I met my wife and best friend in Dublin. We were happy together until her demise 7 years ago to cancer. I am a global independent contractor. I do basically rig constructions and renovations or over water bridges, mine reclamation. We have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project is my last on the field and i shall quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field ops and execution. I think i really have gotten to this height because i embraced work for so long trying to get over my wife, that's why i worked this hard, but i think i now realize i can move on. I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, i just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. I am not perfect , i only need someone who understands the value of a good smile. I cant wait to hear back from you. please write me soon my dear i will wait to read from you soonest.

Good morning Patricia, It was really nice receiving your emails, i had a huge smile going through your email, i appreciate you for sharing this much with me, Bless your heart. How was your night? I'm so serious in getting to know you better and talk more. John Paul is my full name apparently and I was born in Ireland. I thought it would be helpful if I shared what some of my interests are and what some of my passions are and also what my likes and dislikes are. This will give you an idea about the man you are communicating with and if God willing probably spend the rest of your life with..... I have been made to know I do write and speak well in a way that gets to the mind, well, I think I simply try my best to express what I feel and I don’t edit what I say or hide my feelings no matter what the recipient feels as I believe nothing supersedes the truth. The essence of online dating was never intended for people because they lack the courage to interact with opposite sex physically, but because research shows many of the soldiers back in the days who met women via letter writing actually live the life there after in good ways, and then it is now manifest that when people meet on the net, they should at least explore each others mind for a while, share ideas and compare views, finding a common ground is a very great achievement, isn't it said that loving is the soul's recognition of its counterpart in another person. In fact in the medium, it makes you know a person so well to a point you feel they are no more strangers, you would have escaped the possibilities of sentimental attractions in instant meetings , due to boldness and so on, where you won’t be able to really be who you are. It might be thought of in the past, a once lonely man opened an email message from a stranger. It was a nice message but it was brief and at first glance, nothing led him to believe it was significant to this level, But soon, he might learn this message was very special indeed.
Maybe it would be my story; we can’t know (smiles). Maybe on the other end, the other story would be, She sat at her computer and typed with frantic haste, There was so much she needed to say and so little time, Her heart poured out so easily through her fingers As the words appeared on the screen before her She filled her screen with her words of affection Then waited anxiously for him to type his reply, Her heart skipped as his reply appeared before her and She read and reread his words of endearment Then hurried to reply as her heart beat quickly With her emotions building higher with every word Telling how she yearned to be able to touch him ,Longed to be able to see him, to gaze into his eyes (smiles) oh if that becomes your story, then we may be a good match. Please forgive my humor; I am just like that, always playful. My baby girl Michelle is 15, she is currently in boarding school, back in London and will be joining me permanently next year. Trust me, you would love her beauty of the mother and personality of the father, I think it runs down in the family (smiles). I love sea food, I eat mostly intercontinental foods, chinese i love don’t blame me, character I picked up along on my traveling adventures for work. My favorite color is blue and white; I dress clean, exercise regularly. I don’t drink except for parties. When I am not working I do try my best to give myself the best treat, you will agree that all work and no play makes John a dull boy. I would usually take off to Europe, or Asia. I love sailing, watching sports, soccer my favorite, some football only recently still getting around the rules of the game...lol I do play golf and tennis. This is a journey we are trying to make here dear, and I know it’s probably not, the best thing, but I'll try it anyway, because I know it could be the best thing, it could be the best! But we would never know unless we try would we? Seriously they say Find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see you at your ugliest, lips that will kiss you in both instances, and a heart that will love you at your worst. Only then will you have found your true love. I have always said I would want my woman, someone I would love at all stages of life, I mean even after we stop making love but play bingo. What is love all about? It's all about giving, taking, sharing and keeping. If you are willing to do all this, then you are ready to love that someone special. I would give all I have for the one thing that cannot be bought. (Smiles) I have been up early just to write you this note from my heart and I do hope you appreciate it, I really hope to hear from you soon dearie. An exciting stranger

Honeybunch, I am really happy and feel positive with the connection our acquaintance has brought. The way you share your thoughts is something that keeps me amazed, you are adorable and warm. That is one thing about you that makes me feel young and brand new. I just can't help but share this with you my dear. I understand that there are many different ways to build a healthy relationship with your partner and I try not to judge other people's choices. But for me, I would like to find an equal partner, someone who contributes as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn't have to be about wealth, but in totality the work, effort and total happiness we bring to our lives. I have expectations for myself and that of my partner is as important as mine. This way I can give absolute sacrifice for you to ensure we are happy. It seems like so many people want to do "just enough" to get by, but I want more than that. I have been thinking of you, I really do appreciate your priceless personality and honesty in telling all that I know about you. Honesty and openness is the key, hence I don’t believe that "little white lies are harmless or kind. I believe in total honesty, even if we don't don't want to hear what someone has to say, it’s always more kind in the future. I think it’s vital for partners to be able to trust each other, without that it just seems like everything falls apart. I also think it’s important to be able to express your needs to each other and make decisions together about how to meet them. I believe it’s important to be kind to each other and not mind games. To have compassion and empathy for each other. Also to be a good listener to your partner. I will always do all it takes to support my partner in achieving her dreams and feel supported by them in accomplishing mine. I want to work together with my partner to make decisions as one happy union. We all need someone in our lives to love, respect and cherish us back. We need to move on with life and leave the tough past *life's lessons* behind. All your thoughts keeps me smiling. I am so happy and thankful to have someone like you to talk who is full of life and a beautiful woman(the full package in character) like you. I want you to know that I’m someone you can lean on though am not a perfect being, I try and I always give my best shots for that special someone that makes me a darling in their heart. Honestly it’s been a long time I bought surprise roses/chocolates for that special someone and that is my desire for you. I am sure I will do silly healthy things that will make us smile and laugh as a partner. I wish I could go on and on as you are on as good thoughts of you stay incoming. I cherish you for who you are. I believe knowing you is for a reason and for our good. Though you are not here with me but i have a heartbeat for you. I will always love and respect that feeling. With trust and a happy spirit we can build a strong and perfect relationship *imperfection is made perfect when love is there* which I desire for the future of our friendship. Thanks for staying in my thoughts, thinking of me and making me smile.
That is huge and i enjoy what you do. Hugs x

Hi Dear, I hope you are having a good night... you have been quiet a while now. Please let me know if you received my last email. Look forward to even getting more acquainted.

Hello Honey, Funny when you meet strangers and you start knowing them and they don’t seem so strange anyways, Smiles. For the first time i can notice the zeal in me as i longed to read from you today,. one should never underestimate the power of a new found friend. Before you know it, a simple hi or hello may turn to very intimate words such as baby come to bed, he he. I am not disappointed to get my new found daily tonic from my new friend. Something has blossomed within my chest and I am happy your response lifts me up, soaring into the heavens for in truth I dared not believe this could happen yet through the years I hoped and yearned for it. I am supposed to travel ahead of my last contract now due for completion in Cape Town-South Africa, i have to clear that and get all the due balance and it would be a "wow, what a journey" then the work traveling stops and then i can start making the paradise (smiles). I really don’t want to take up to the proposed one month to make it to that spot. I think i should use the period to explore with you, and hopefully cant wait to meet you upon arrival, i do pray it all works.
Hopefully then, Gone would be the shyness as words may flow from your heart as you hopefully describe the true depth of your emotions someday he he, Reading my reply your heart leapt with magnificent joy.
I have come to realize that in finding love, it brings us closer to our own self. This is for those who seek themselves, We are all lost spirits at some point in our lives, and if we do not find our soul, we can never truly share it with another. I've done the merry-go-round; I've been through the revolving doors. I feel like I've met somebody I can stand still with for a minute, and maybe one day you would want to stand still with me? Between you and I, I heard Cupid's been flying around, hitting everyone with a bit of my love, but I sure hope he beats the hell out of you! (Laughing Hard) Thanks for giving attention this way, it is such a wonder that you can feel young again. I really look forward to notes from you with much enthusiasm and attached here is a pic of i and my daughter and i want you to know that we share similar dreams. Would be nice to put up a voice with the beauty. Kindly send your cell phone number and I will make it a point to call you when it is convenient for you. Known Stranger,
John

Hi Honeybunch, Thanks for the wonderful email i really appreciate them I don't know why, but I feel I would have been not so happy had I not gotten a note from you. What I finally realized is that it doesn't matter how far you live, how different the culture is, it doesn't matter if you meet someone on the internet... true love can be found everywhere and it happens when you least expect it. What else do we live for if not for love, maybe my time may have come (smiles). I will be leaving for Cape Town-South Africa on Monday 25th may, I expect to be there for another month plus or minus a day(smiles) Completing the contract will surely be a great deal sealed, I have waited this moment all my life, and prayed for a complete family to share the dividend with at the end, just maybe the timing may be good, (smiles). Upon arrival, I do plan to meet you, but I guess I have some days to plan a good scenario. How do you envision a good private vacation for two? Do you like sailing? Trust me, it takes a lifetime knowing people, and the differences between the two is the fun of the whole journey and that is what love is really about, not just a destination you get to and stop, but a lifetime deal. I remember fully well that I have been told, you can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die your heart. So tell me something Patricia, Are you ready to install love? If they had ever told me fun meeting someone over the air could be, I would have said, 'Impossible, impossible for me.' And if they said I'd find someone I really feel comfortable talking to beyond the computer's end, I would have said, 'Impossible, impossible, my friend.' To dream about what might have been is strange enough for me, but now it seems I'm living in a dream too beautiful to be. If they had said a moonbeam could calm a stormy sea, I know, I, John would have said, Impossible, but now at last I see that nothing is impossible now you got my attention. The old prankster would say, it is not a matter of finding the right person, but a matter of being the right person for the one you choose to love. People seem to forget mostly that love demands our hard work daily. Because really, Love is like trust, when you find you’re special someone it is as if you trust them with your heart.
Loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with that someone, because sometimes Fate plays a fool on us and we are not meant to be together.
But still, there is love between us. So the most important thing is that the friendship created is one that can never be forgotten. That is why i am happy with finding a new friend in you, because even if the end isn't what we plan, the friendship will always be there, so it is a win win situation. Some fools out there would talk about caution which has limited their abilities in life, because life is just of the two options, 1. Worry yourself and remain on one spot,..
Or
2. Dust yourself up and move the Hell on.
Yeah I know I requested for your number in a previous email, maybe we should start communicating via telephone 520 314 1782 Your naughty friend