Hey, how are you doing? Am Josh from Christian Mingle, Am checking if this is the right email address to contact you on if yes kindly get back to me and tell me a little about yourself.

Thanks for writing back. I guess you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive.
If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be?
When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me.I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study.
MY BACKGROUND
I am Joshua Escobar, most friends call me Josh. I was born to a loving couple, a home by an German-American man from New York and a British woman. My father was an international business man who met this British orphan whose only family were close friends. She says there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist.
sometimes she says she sees same in me,lol. During my father's global movement, while i was twelve i left to study in lethridge Alberta in Canada where i got the first degree in civil Eng and then i later moved on to Join ma back in the UK. My father died and she was left alone.
INTEREST
I love traveling,skiing, hiking, camping, Movies,Reading, diving,opera, pool. and watching sport on tv like baseball,basketball, football soccer and horse riding. i enjoy listening to jazz, soft rock and soul music.
MY JOB
I am a global contractor. I do basically rig constructions and renovations, or over water bridges. We have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project here in Dubai is my last on the field and i shall quit field works and continue my works from my home office while my men do the field work ops. I think i really have gotten to this height cos i embraced work for so long trying to get over my wife, that i worked this hard, but i think i now realize i can move on.
MY DREAM
I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, i just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love eachother more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo,LOL.
I am a total package , i only need someone who understands the value of a good smile and you look like her. I cant wait to hear back from you. pls write me soon my dear.
Josh.

Hey my wonderful one, how are you doing? Am sorry it took me so long to write back to you, i've been so busy with work and some other things, i got the picture of your watch and a picture of you sweetie, I like it

Hey, how are you doing? Wondering why i haven't read back from you, i hope i didn't said anything to scare you off. please write back soon.

Josh

I didn't get any mail from you my wonderful 1, the last mail i sent to you was the 1 with my picture did you get that? pls write back soon my wonderful 1

Yes am in Dubai now, i'm not a picture type, I know i look younger than my age so don't remind me of that, lol, people tells me that everyday but i can't fake it because it my age and i don't have to lie about it. i will be waiting to read more about you in the next mail. have a wonderful night rest.

Hello Wonderful 1, By God Grace in the next 2weeks i should be done with this project, i really appreciate this consistent communication and i will say it is a sign of will, and i tell you where there is a will there is success ahead. I believe we both know that Love is not a destination but a journey and this is a journey that takes two to walk. I mean two souls who understand ahead that they aren't in for a kid walk, and what they have ahead is the most important mission in life. A place meant for true people,. it is a place called joy and happiness. My Grace, i would also be stupid to hold the man of a woman like you,. Really i just see in your face that i can live with this woman, not the beauty part alone, but the depth of your soul. As i could remember, as a kid i was a very cute one,lol. One whom many bullies would target, but only to realise there is a tough side to me. I could make a sober person dance. i could affect one with my smile. I grew up having more older friends. Many would confide in me. To tell you, i am a type that doesn't judge. no matter how dirty you may be, just come clean to me, and i will give your support. There is no Mr right until we make him right. A relationship is never about how much at the beginning but how much we could make it grow into. My old friend and pastor would tell me, if you aren't ready to feel or look stupid, then don't fall in love ,lol But sincerely that is the bitter truth. When i lost my wife, he told me that the fact that something good ends doesn't mean something better cant start. Can you prove that right? I have come to realise that , let a man write a better book, let him preach a better sermon, let him sing the best of songs, let him gain wealth beyond dreams, he is reduced to nothing except he has a woman to call, my wife, my best friend and co pilot. My usual saying, and i am known for it, is that,. Life is simple, for those who take it simple,. I don't like to complicate things. There is joy in every situation if you know the right angle to look it from. My mother is very old now and at almost 80, she can still sing. Now she cant wait to have a proper family, and i cant wait to have a happy home too. after my last project here, i am quitting field works. Any other job would only require my attention from my home office wherever i go. I want to spend the rest of my life having fun. I have a house in Paris where i found my wife and got married, i have one in South Chelsea London, while i have no home. Would you stand by me to build a home? Would you smile at me when i look tense? I don't need a super model, i rather need a very good friend who knows when i am tensed just by looking into my eyes and a super woman. The whole world may be mad at me, but if you are smiling at me, i would care less. I say, who says we cant pick rags and turn to riches? Who says we cant design our own paradise together.
It is workable just walk by my side.

Hello my wonderful one, how was your weekend, i know you would probably be sleeping right now, am sorry it took me so long to write back, My Angel am not trying you scare you to death nor am i trying to toy you, this is me and i am real my Angel, Who never can tell where this might lead us to, I'm willing to relocate any where in the world with the woman i find happiness in, going slow doesn't bother me we both need to take our time to know each other better, I'm not scared about this because i believe i message you for a reason and you replied my message for a reason, not all the people i message on the site reply back to me and i believe for you to have replied my message there is definitely a reason for it. I'm not trying you scare you to death my angel, I will write more later in the day my angel have a wonderful rest and a wonderful day ahead. Joshua

Hello my wonderful one. How are you today? Why am i getting addicted to my email? lol. I get a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you. Wonderful. How was your day and night?. I knew something was missing since i havent smiled all morning till now,lol. I was almost late for my chopper in the morning, i woke up late, i think i am becoming restful again, Maybe i could sense something good ahead of us. What wouldn't i do to make my dreams come true. It is like a rigger waiting for a trigger. Would you be my trigger? lol. I just need a woman to hold me before i am old. Absolutely i have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. how much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? how much do we need for daily fun. excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As i always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. it can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books , but cant buy knowledge. It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy love. That is why , i refuse to follow the crowd, so as my own man, i would give up all that can be bought for that which cant be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods,. she can make me smile in all weather. I am glad that i could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and i intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure, but i dont mind,lol. Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear. I will be waiting impatiently to hear from you.

Hey, Don't know why you decide to spoil this wonderful day for me but i must tell you this, that wasn't me and i didn't know anything about it, I was just about to tell you am taking days off just to see my mom and son then i can see you too, but you ruined it, that wasn't me, believe anything you want

My wonderful one, you can imagine how terrible my day went, everybody notice something is wrong, I didn't lie to you about anything, i never lied to you Rhonda, i meant every bit of my word and i am who i said i am, you can believe anything you want but i want you to believe this i've never felt this way for someone in a long time, I tried so much to give up on this and let go but something keeps bringing me back, 1 of my local worker gave me a wonderful gift just to relief me the pain am going through, he gave me an ipod just to listen to few music and i felt so relaxed after listening to the song, 1st song was by Jason Marz I Won't Give Up 2nd song was by 2face Idibia Dance in The Rain 3rd song was by Di'ja Aww, please even though you don't want me to email you anymore just listen to this songs so my mind can be at peace, i never wanted to make you cry my wonderful one, i never lied to you about anything and i will never do, please just listen to this songs. you can find it on youtube, i've sent this songs to all my love ones, including you my wonderful one

You seem to be an open hearted woman and I looking forward to that day I would see you face to face... But, just so you know, I thought I would tell you what I was looking for, and see what you think... All I am looking for is "True Love," no Games, no Playing around, just want to find my soul mate in life...the one woman I will connect with in every way... I know very little about you, yet any man that does not treat you with respect, true love, genuine kindness and caring is absolutely a fool. True Love can be given without being shared, but a shared Love still allows for your special loved one to grow. To me, there is nothing more special than a shared Love. One that delights in our loved one's achievements, and growth as a person. One hat has no jealousy, anger or mistrust. I believe when I meet the right person, we will believe so completely in each other, and Love each other so completely, that we will trust without hesitation as well....Iam a lovingly touchy person. I am not saying that I am perfect but I always try to do right. I like to hold hands, hug and kiss ... when appropriate... I like open affection, but in good taste, not for affection sake. I love to look into my loved one's eyes, and often get accused of starring... But I stare at flowers too, they never complain that I could look at them from when the blossom until they fade away... I like being touched too. Held and having my hair played with... I like simple things. I want my soul mate to be my best friend, so I can always talk with her about anything and be able to work things out when it matters.Life is so short, why do people make it so complicated by wanting everything they see...and forgetting that we are here to Love one another, not "bed as many as we can" and have nothing true and genuine when our time comes... I believe it takes "a lot of time" to know someone, and when an actual "relationship" does start ...My heart has already found it's way you. I want you and no one else. You mean everything to me. I think we should try and make this work. You have to know you're the one, and only one I want. Not only are you perfect for me, you're the perfect lover and I hope we can and will be more. I could never ask for better then what we have had.. I am hoping you're feeling the same way because my heart is set on you, I know you want to know about my wife and son and my mother but i don't know how to start it, i don't know where to start from my wonderful one but i will write back soon i'm going out with my friends i will write more when am back, Happy Sunday

Hello My Wonderful one, How are you doing? how are you enjoying your weekend, I'm right here sitting on the bed looking at your picture, thinking about you, My Wonderful one you wanted to know about my wife and son here is just little and it what i can breifly write for now.... I met my first love at a soccer match in her name is Brittany Jack, She was a lovely and cool lady with a great smile on her face, we sat next to each other and it all started with HI, We started dating on my 23rd birthday we dated for 4yrs even though it was on and off but we never let go off each other, We got married after 4yrs of dating, I loved her like a sister i never had, I love her to the extend that i will cut off my arm just to see her live, 5yrs of marriage she was unable to take in (pregnant) but i still love her like nobody else, Whenever am not around her she cry and cry and cry unto God to give her a child, i stood by her when nobody was there, She get so worried everytime going from one hospital to another doing all sort of check ups the day i notice she cry whenever am not at home i stop working just to stay home with her so she won't feel so down and cry, I love my wife so much and i know she loves me too, at some point i was getting so down myself because i couldn't stand to see her cry sometimes we cry and pray to God together. Another year goes on still same thing but i kept my faith strong but she couldn't stand it anymore because she was the only child of her and so was I, Both parent are so worried and eager to see thier grandchild, during the year she lost her father then it get so unbearable for her she couldn't stand to loose her mother without she seeing her grandchild so she came up with the idea that we both should try somebody else but i said NO, I insist on staying with her alone but when i couldn't stand to see her cry we both travel seprately she went to scotland and i went to france, I was in frace for 8months and still unable to cheat on her same thing happen with her, during her stay in Scotland her mom died so she had to move back to Paris so did i, we moved back into our house stay happy together but she needed a child so bad she stop going out always indoor and it getting me so angry but i had to control myself anytime i'm with her so she won't feel am getting angry because she couldn't give me a child so i decided we move out of Paris and go to UK so my mom can always keep an eye on her, they were best of friends my mom still looking forward to the day i will introduce a woman to her as my lover. My Mom and my Wife became best of friend, Ma will always tell me not to leave her for any reason i can still remember how she always tells me my son don't leave this woman for any reason she needs you to be strong, she need a man like you beside her, she tells me all sort of things to my ears, years passes on, 1 faithful morning i was still on bed sleeping then i heard a lousy noise from my sleep it was my wife and she jumped on me singing and crying at the same time i was shocked and i asked what happen, have i done anything wrong she cried and sing at the same time with her tears all over my face then she told me My Life you're going to be papa, that was 1 of the happiest day of my life, I cried i cried like the day Ma gave birth to me, it was a very wonderful day we both rushed to Ma's room she joined us in praising God she joined us in crying everybody cried but we thank God it was all tears of joy, i employed 5people to work in the house so she won't stress herself it was a very happy moment we celebrated with everybody around us, 9months and few days later she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, many gathered the day she was in the labour room about 55 people was in our house waiting to hear from me 3rd of April add another grateful day on earth to my life, we partied for a whole week it was a wonderful year for the entire family members, We name him Ian, still more to tell you about that probably when we meet someday am cutting it short because so many things i don't want to remember.. We visited a lot of places with my boy (Ian) Paris,Scotland,Germany,Spain,Usa, many more, His a very good boy, everybody loves him, he likes making friends,his so friendly,Ma will always call him my happiness from the word happiness most of the people around him call him Happy and Ma, Wow i can't believe am telling you this much about myself.. Pls my wonderful one can i tell you about the rest later when we meet? i don't like this feeling am feeling right now it going to ruin my day, pls my wonderful one, it almost morning here and i still have so many things to do in the day and i wouldn't want anybody to ask me what is wrong again, i hope you understand me better, i will write more later in the day, have a wonderful night rest my love, kiss and hugs for you, i know my mail is not super long like yours but i bet i will be more talkative when we meet hope you won't get tired of me when i start telling you about my life in person. With love always
Josh

No my love, you've made work so easy for me, i work with a smile on my face each time i think about you my love, please dont stop puting a smile on my face everyday, I love you Rhonda, i told Ma and Ian about you and what happen to you she felt bad and promise to keep you in her prayers, my love do you think am telling too much people about us? Ma and Ian need to know what makes me happy that why i had to tell them, guess what Ian said? He said J is she beautiful,is she pretty, does she like playing, where is she, she with you now, so many questions but Ma collect the phone from him and i can still hear him asking underground when is she coming to see us, did you tell her about me? What did you tell her about me, he like asking so much questions and i just hope you wont get tired the first day you guys meet, i need to get back to work now sweetie i will check if you email me when it morning your time, I love you

I tell you this often, I know. I am too in love with you to not tell you over and over again. You are the single most beautiful person I have ever known. Inside and out. It’s your whole being which makes you so magical, my love. Your soul, your heart, your passion, your beautiful smile, your amazing body. All of it. You are the total package. I wish you could see in you what I do. You are an amazing woman. What is your favorite color? Do you like flower or rose? I need to get back to work my dear i will write more later
I love you.
Love,
Joshua

Rhonda is it a crime? What was it posted there for? These words was posted on these sites just for us to make use of the ones that express how we feel, what if it your birthday and i wanted to send a birthday wishes and i decide to check internet for lovely birthday wishes and i send it to you, are u still going to complain?

Oh no my wonderful one, i dont want you to see it that way, Firstly i want you to know i love you and that matters alot, secondly how are you feeling now? I thought i might never read from you again, We list a friend and a brother in the plane i told you about so i was unable to check my mail till now, i miss you my wonderful one, i will wrote more later in mid night here, take good care of yourself for me. I Love you

I love you so much more, I love you more than the words could ever say, you mean the world to me baby, i love you and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love you countless time baby, stay cool at work baby, Always have this in mind that i love you so much and you're my world.
Joshua

Thank you Rhonda, thanks for everything may the good Lord reward you abundantly, thank you for the lies, Chan told me there is something fishing when i explained everything to him, he said why does she always come up with something anytime things are cool, i feel that way too but i didnt want to believe what he said was true but here we are today, thank you once more Rhonda, do you still expect me to send you a copy of my passport so you can post shits about me? No , thank you for all the insults, God bless