You sound nice when i read your mail,looking at your pictures turn me on here and i must let you know that am here to meet the right woman for me,well i havent found the one yet and i am not thinking and hoping maybe it might be you.. we cant say for now but we need to get to know eachother and as time goes on ,well i believe sweet men and caring men are in...The land of Love..So why are you still single? Anyway i guess you were still single for me hehehehe.... Well Let me quicky tell you more about me.From the feedback I have received over time suggests that I am intelligent, focused, well-spoken, a great cook, a good listener, adventurous, well-traveled, an active communicator with sound effects and hand movements ;-), witty albeit with a very dry sense of humor, soft-spoken yet with an outrageous laugh, a gentle man with a good soul that loves his life, intense, generous to a fault, and that my only religion is that of integrity. You would know that I am supportive, loving, cultured, worldly, remember too many facts yet can't remember lyrics to save my life, and sometimes have a difficult time coping with distractions (one of the downsides of being focused I suppose). As for my perspective: I feel that I am a worthy, compassionate, lovingman in those special times when I am completely in my power; the rest of the time I continue my life long journey of growing emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. If you like my description althrough then i am a man for you in terms of sharing true love and long term.drop your email address if you are interested in getting to know me...

I love and care very deeply. I'm serious in terms of sharing true love.
Humor is a big part of my life, and I see humor in most situations. I will always have the little " kid " in me.. life is just too short not to enjoy it. To me, love is the greatest gift there is, and it shouldn't be abused or taken for granted. I'm a homeowner, love to cook and entertain, when I'm not working, i have alot time to be with son. I know you will love to know so much about me which i will also love to know much about you. I am very loyal and will be the best friend you could ever have or want, even more. I may not have the biggest shoulders in the world, but I am a friend for life, and want to always be there for you. I do not smoke or drink. I love to make People smile and Happy at all Time. Its nice seeing new places and meeting new people from the world, Bedroom aerobics are great, and I consider that an important part of a relationship. Being able to come home after work and hold a nice conversation with my partner is something that has been missing in my life for a long time. Believe it or not, the most sensitive part of my body is my fingertips. I love to touch!!! Holding hands and showing affection is very important to me. I believed in friendship so much cos to me it is the key role to a long lasting relationship. I believe i am making sence to you. I would really love to move ahead with you to see how it goes and to learn so much about you.I will stop here and be expecting to hear from you soon.... Take care and God bless you.

Hi babe,i enjoyed your mail on the site and i will be happy if i can get to know you more better cos i do interested in getting to know you deeply... john

Thanks for the mail Marianne,So how are you doing there?I hope you are doing fine wherever you are....Am happy to know you also to chat with you on Pof and i believe this could be a blessing to me and am happy that i can also find someone with a Good heart like yourself,I adore you for that..well good that you can read and Understand me,though i am a Gentle man with good heart and intentions,i really do believe in GOD so much and in Trust,Honesty,understanding and love is the foundation of a strong relationship.I will like us to build all these in this relationship we are about to start cos without all this,a relationship can not go nowhere and God must also be included cos he is the reason why we are alive today.I hope you understand what i mean. Well with the way i found you ,i believe you have all this in you and i will be so Much Happy to get to know you more Deeply,cos its rare to find someone with good heart like you and think things could work out someday with us with time,i also believe you are a God sent to me and i am also a God Sent to you,Who knows?I am new to this internet things and don't have time to spend.All i just came here is to see if my dream woman could be found..Let me tell you little about me cos i want to keep me time to tell you things about me just to let you know am serious in getting to know you..I am ,47yrs old man,5.7ft tall ,residing in NY in USA.Am Single with a kid.I'm a father of a 8 years old son named Richard.I lost my wife in a car accident 3yrs ago and this really hurt me so much and also my son.I believe i have to continue my life and also make my son happy and also find the right lady that i will love so much and will also be a caring mom to my son Richard cos he has been complaining and worried that i should get married cos he needs some one he can call his step mom and someone who will always take care of him when am not around. My son Richard is a very intelligent boy and i do cherish him a lot.He stay with me in New York .I am Originally from Spain but i grew up in US.I work as a Building Contractor specialist to rebuild bridges and roads and i must let you know that i do work for myself and i must let you know that am such a man thats comfortable and have achieved lots in life by God grace and do believe in GOD so much and also God fearing man and hope also believe in God also. .I have a company which i manage in US and do have a house i planned and build by myself.I see myself as a very hard working man. I have being lonely for a long time now and ever since my wife have pass away i haven't find anyone like her,cos i believe before i could start again days will be long and i believe time doesn't wait for anybody and life is short... that,s why i decided to make a Try this time Around and see if am gonna find that special woman for myself and make my Son Happy.I will be more Happy to get to know you more deeply , be Open to me pls just write me more about you,I have a lot to share with you just lets have believe and Focus in this relationship...lets see where the God will lead us too....tell me more things about you. pls write me as soon as you can i will be waiting for your next mail..and don't be exitate to ask me any Question,i will be Happy to Answer you.I have a lot of companion and love to share with my woman..I am not here for games or to hurt feelings..I will give my woman love and every companion a princess deserve and will never regret knowing me,Once again you are welcome to my World. Thinking about you !Hope to read back from you and God bless you... Yours
Scott and Richard

Thanks for the mail babe and i hope everything is fine with you?i want you to know that i love reading from you also i hope you know that my son is 7years old and his going to clock 8 soon,when is your birthday babe?,i hope to read back from you and God bless you...

why do you think we are not companion to eachother?

HMMMM WHAT DO YOU MEAN BABE,I CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF MY SON EVEN WE CAN GET A NANNY FOR HIM IF ITS THAT YOU WANT,RELIGIONS IS NOTHING IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I BELIEVE IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN GETTING TO KNOW ME,YOU WILL NEVER REGRET,YOU MAKE ME FEEL SOMEHOW NOW...

hmmmm you know its normal but if you want to be the woman of mylife,i can leave you to serve whoever you wanna worship okay...am just interested in getting to know you more better....

Hello sweet Marianne,
Infact i do like the way you expressed your feelings with me and i must let you know that I will share with you in this letter, who I am,I will give you a chance to know me, without even having met me in person. I know that relationships are developed, we must meet, spend time together to know for sure. I think it is important that you know me, and I share with you who I am, even through my letters. Take special care to read my letter. Go somewhere still and quiet, so you can be alone with me, give me this special time with you, with no distractions.
Read my letter with your heart, and you will hear my voice, you will hear my heart beating, you will feel my gentleness, my care, my passion, my emotion, my laughter, my joy, my positive energy. mydear, you have no idea the limitless love I have to give, if you were made of wax, it would probably make you melt :).Mydear...I have so much to give, to someone who can fully receive it, and appreciate it :). I will say also, I have such deep desire to be loved in return; it is so very deep within me, such intense longing.. I know we have not got to meet yet, but my impression of you, is that you would be able to love me, and let that love flow out of you, and not hold it back from me. I desire relationship with you that is uninhibited, built on love and trust, comfort and security. We should feel completely safe with each other, and we can share with each other ALL things, our heats, minds, soul, body, and spirit, completely open to each other. What do you think of this,what I have said??? I beleive your heart echo’s the same :),mydear...I must also tell you, something that is so very very important to me, I want that you should always remember this. I try very hard to communicate, and I put a lot of loving work into it. I have learned, from experience, communication is extremely important! my dear..I desire this from you as well; I want to know if you should be sad, if anything troubles you, I also want to know your joy, and laughter, your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.sweety, I want that I should be able to bathe in you, be consumed in who you are, that the river of your soul should wash over me, and bring me into deep...deep...so very deep intimacy with you. I know that communication comes in various ways, it is personal energy, body language, verbal, and mental...a knowing. I think you are this way too, but I want to hear these things from you sweety. I know at times your heart will speak to me in many ways, in your simple gestures, romantic gestures, body language, in a gentle touch, a smile, or a joyful laugh. I consider that communication is also a labor of love, if you truly love someone, you will love to communicate, but it is always a choice, we always choose our actions. If you feel hurt, or misunderstood, or upset, your first reaction should not be to turn away from that person, or to withdraw and become distant. I tell you a more excellent way! Let your heart soften, let the love within you soften your heart, let your first reaction be to draw to each other, to come together. Love can truly heal all things, it is a healing balm or salve, but it is always a choice, love cannot heal unless you allow it, it is a choice of the will, and we must always take accountability for our choices :), we can never blame anyone else.I am a positive person, and I refuse to let negativity control my life.
Positive energy brings life; negative energy tears it down, or destroys it.I wish to be surrounded in a positive environment as much as possible, where life, and love thrive in abundance, and grow!!!
Negativity is another word for FEAR. Please think about this. How does fear effect people, does it ever produce anything good??? Of course not, fear paralyzes people, disables them, hurts them, controls them (if they let it); fear robs from people, causes people to do things they do not want. Fear out of control brings death! Ok...enough about fear! In life there is a rhythm, it is a Universal law, the entire universe abides by it. This rhythm expands and contracts, it is like inhaling the breath of life, and exhaling sweet breath. I look for harmony in relationships, peace, love, nurturing, understanding, gentleness, passion, sensuality, creativity, spontaneity, laughter, joy. The rhythm of love between a husband and wife, sometimes it flows like a raging river of torrent and passion, it can become a gentle stream of slower current, or the slow trickle of crystal water that flows from a mountain stream. Yes love flows these many different ways, and goes through these rhythms and cycles if we let it, if we will only choose love, and give no place to fear.I beleive that life is lived from the inside out, who we are, and who we want to be, is what we are inside. You want to know me right???
Always what is inside of us is what is expressed outwardly, on the outside. I share with you, what comes from within me. I open my heart, even in my letters, so that you can see into my soul, the person who I am, and who I want to be. I share with you, something from my Heart.
Sometimes I write things down, my thoughts, feelings, dreams, emotions, passions. Relationships, good relationships, are not based on hobbies and interests, it is only mutual love that a relationship is strong, and survives. If the love stops flowing, so does the relationship. We must always choose love; it is the most excellent way!! If the relationship is good, then the hobbies and interests work themselves out :). I share with you from my mind, because you need to know me, who I am inside. It is important you know who I am :). If you desire to know who I am, then you will be able to not only read my words, but feel them. As you read, open your heart, let go of all fear, and they will come alive to you, it will whisper the truth to your soul, you have only to become still and quiet, and you will hear it's voice, it is a voice of gentleness, love, and compassion.These are my own words, my own thoughts, and feelings.
Judge for yourself, what kind of person do you think I am??? Do you think I am capable to love??? You have not met me yet in person, but what does my writing speak to you. If you listen, it will speak volumes, if you listen, it will be as if I am with you now. I stand before you, I look into your eyes intently, and with tenderness, read my words, and look into my soul. Indeed, we will meet in person, hopefully very soon....but you do not need to meet me, to know me, before I come to you. I ask you, is not inner beauty most important??? Read my words, read from my Heart that I share with you. Ask yourself, what kind of person I am, can you see, without having met me yet??? Do these words come from a person who is beautiful inside, or someone who is ugly inside??? You be the judge, you want to know me, here I am, and you will know me, if your heart is open, you will have known me, without even seeing me. Of course I am much more than these words, what you see now, is only the tip of the iceberg :). I will be much more in person, than you see here. I am infinitely more...am happy to know you,I will like to stop here and i cant wait to read from you soon.....till then God Bless You... Yours
JOHN(Scott)I LOVE MY MIDDLENAME and MY SON Richard

ohh my is jan 23,I wish you HAPPY EASTER SUNDAY....I HOPE TO READ BACK FROM YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU

And you too....enjoy your day..

yes i do,i will be happy if i can get msg from you too cos i love reading from you..

I feel happy to read back from you and am here with my son too having fun together and going out for shopping babe,i hope you and your family have a great day....i think i will miss your mail,make sure you take good care of yourself okay...

You are looking good right now and i feel happy when seeing your pictures,thats the picture we took yesterday and with my son friend cos they love going on with me,we do alot of shopping yesterday and i believe when we meet we will do the same...

Hello sweet Marianne,
I really appreciate the mail and i really love the way you expressed your feelings,I cant wait to meet you and i feel like in another cloud when reading your mail,Richard say hi to you i told him all about you and he's very eager to meet you and i believe things will work out with us cos Richard will be very happy if you can be the mother her also he love reading from you cos we read your mail together and he really love the way you express yourself also I want you to know that a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this. I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand.This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you. I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time. I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you" because you know it's coming from the heart. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head. I really am crazy about you, everything about you. I Love you I just wanna share this with me and i will take a time to tell you more...And i want you to know that i really a woman like you and am sharing all this with you for you to know the kind of man i am and i promise you that i will do anything to make you happy and i will treat you the way you have not been treated before cos this is what have been praying for since all this while to meet a woman that will understand me and a woman that will believe in God cos I know with God all things are possible also i want you to know that there is five things you need to know in a relationship are, LOVE is a feeling. It is being completely at ease around your partner.
It is smelling a rose and the happiness it bring you. It is more than liking someone. It is being completely devoted to them. It is doing the right thing for your loved one, without letting selfishness and what you want get in the way. It is pleasing someone and going out of your way continuously to make sure they are happy. This is such a simple concept and yet it is so hard to explain. Love is selfless. It completes you. It brings you happiness. TRUST is believing in someone. It is willing to not let suspicion or jealousy or anything else get in the way. It is being willing to take a step back and let another person do what they want. In a way Trust is like taking a leap of faith. It is hard ot do, but it is often worth it.
Trust is what holds a relationship together. If there is no trust, it will decay and fall into ruin. It is hard to explain in words, but it is easy to feel if you trust someone. Trust should also leave you open to communication. If you ever start feeling distrustful, you should be able to talk to people and try to resolve any issues, before any damage is really done. Trust is very difficult to repair and one should always take care to never betray it. LUST, hmmmm... I believe lust is wanting something. To me it feels like it is wanting something for selfish reasons. That's not quite right.
Lust is being attracted to someone for their physical appearance. It is wanting the body more than the soul of a person. If you Lust after a thing you want it, but mostly you wish to posses it, to make it yours exclusively. In a relationship, I little bit of lust is nice. It would make your partner know you appreciate them. That you want them and find them attractive. I don't think a relationship founded only on lust would last though. FEELINGS, are what drives us, they make or break us. Feelings can be good or bad. I don't like the bad one like selfishness, anger, hate. But the good ones can really brighten up your day. Love, trust, happiness, contentment. They make your day better, they brighten your mood. Your feelings can be your best asset. When you feel strongly for another person and they know it it forms a bond between you. It keeps you going when things get down. LIFE, is what we have that makes us alive.In life we experience alot of things both good and bad.Life is a teacher and we always learn from it day to day.Life is so short and you have to do what you wanna do before its late.I hope you understand all what i mean and where am going.. you really mean the world to me and i know you dont know how important you are to me.. not until i come to you very soon.I hope you are not going i hope you are not going to turn your back on me and Richard by the time we meet,I will stop here and i cant wait to meet you ,hope to read back from you... Yours
John(Scott) and Richard

Hello Marianne,
Its a long mail and i love it when i read it babe,at the first place i told you that i lost my parents about 5years ago also i dont have any brothers or sisters cos am the only one in my family,i think you really enjoy the game with Zachary and remi,i think you are a good sport woman and i really admire this in you so much cos am such a man that love sport too and i think we are alot in common babe,i really enjoyed your mail so much and i keep reading and my son is very happy to read with me,i must let you know that am such a man that say my mind and all this words that i said came from the bottom of my heart cos i hate playing with any bodies heart,so babe am really serious about you so much cos you have a lot of qualities am looking for in a woman like you and what i see again is that you are very hard working woman,i love it so much when a woman like you is very hard working,as for me too i love hard working woman and i believe by the time we meet eachother then you will see the real me,i want you to know that i do interested in getting to know you deeply and more than you think,well i will Only let you know my Interest in you ... I am very loyal and will be the best friend you could ever have or want. I may not have the biggest shoulders in the world, but I am a friend for life, and want to always be there for you.I do not smoke or drink. I love to make People smile and Happy at all Time. Its nice seeing new places and meeting new people from the world, Bedroom aerobics are great, and I consider that an important part of a relationship. Being able to come home after work and hold a nice conversation is something that has been missing in my life for a long time. Believe it or not, the most sensitive part of my body is my fingertips. I love to touch!!! Holding hands and showing affection is very important to me. I believed in friendship so much cos to me it is the key role to a long lasting relationship. I am looking for someone to cherish to love or be loved and i believe is you.I want the person whom i can share my ideals with, express my concerns with , comfort him in an hour of need. i am down to earth, very practical, common sense individual. I believe in trusting one another. Trust is the most important of a relationship don't you agree?. Without trust a relationship cannot exist. I want to be the one that can be there to reassure You in your times when you questions something. I want to be the one that can make you laugh for i do have a good sense of humor, and a general good disposition about me. One cannot fake this, I am a one man's woman and i would respect my love for who he is. My heart would not permit me to hurt my love emotionally for to hurt you would also hurt myself. There would be great emptiness in my life if i was to lose you. I will value you like myself ,ideas, and feel that what ever you have to say is important! my values are traditional. I was taught by parents to respect a woman like Yourself. To treat that person as i would be treated. I would like to give it a try and get to know you as deep and compassionate as yourself better. This is my interest and i want you to know what you think about both opinion.Richard say hi to you,I hope to read back from you and say me hi to the family...
Thinking about you.
Yours Sweet
John and Richard.

Hello sweet Marianne,
Thanks for sharing all your past for me also am very happy to know the update about the games of slanders and my Yankees,i love it so much when someone like you highlight me some games that i didnt watch,i really appreciate it alot babe also make sure you dont drink much anytime you are out with your friends,i cant wait to meet them all cos i want them to know that i do interested in you so much cos i believe meeting you is my happiness and i think you know that i do care for you and now you found me,you will never regret why you be you are inlove with me cos I believe that this life is so unpredictable changes always come along, in big or small ways. I don't know what happened that this sudden change has turned my world upside down. I don't know exactly what it is, it just hit me, but there is something really special about you.It might be all the things I see on the surface, the things that everyone notices and admires about you, qualities, capabilities and a wonderful smile obviously connected to a warm and loving heart,these things set you apart from everyone else. But it may also be the big things ... the person you really are that I hope to know more someday and it might also be the little things ... the way you walk and all your actions. I receive so much joy just being able to see a smile in your eyes. If I ever figure out the magic that makes you so special, I'd probably find out that it's a combination of all these things. you are a rare combination of so many special things. you are really amazing.Inside of me there is a place where my sweetest dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought. Sometimes I bring you there purposely just to make my day brighter. But more often, you surprise me and find your own ways into my thoughts.there are even times when I awaken, I realize that you've been a part of my dreams. then during the day, when my imagination is free to run, it takes me into your arms and allows me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do. I know my thoughts are only reflecting the loving hopes of my heart because whenever they wander, they always take me to you.Only the most special things in my world get to come inside my heart and stay.
And now, I realize how deeply my life has been touched by you,My heart has already found it's way you. I want you and no one else. you mean everything to me. I think we should try and make this work. You have to know you're the one, and only one I want. Not only are you perfect for me, you're the perfect friend and I hope we can and will be more. I could never ask for better then what we have had. I am hoping you're feeling the same way because my heart is set on you, and only you.I'm so in love, I get this warm sensual feeling every time I think of you. when I sleep at night, all I can dream about is you. I wish I could hold you in my arms. I dream of the day when I could kiss you passionately on your soft sweet lips and listen to your heart beating because it's sweet music to my ears. all I can say is let me be the one you love let me be the one whose love you need,i believe am not too toward babe just really interested in you more when i saw your pictures and you look like 30s i bet you,hahahaha.I hope to read from you soonest.Take care and GOD bless you.Peace Out say me hi to my kids...love you all
Yours one and only
John and Richard

i mean to the new born baby in the family.......

Hello Marianne,
Yes i deleted my account cos you make me feel so happy all the time reading your mail and i cant wait to start a new life with you,Richard is here reading your mail with me and his very happy now to have such a woman like you as a mother to be also i want you to know that i promise to be your soul-mate,Sweetheart and best friend and as you know that friend is the person who holds your hand when you're scared, helps you fight those who try to take advantage of you, thinks of you at times when you are not there, reminds you of what you have forgotten, helps you put the past behind you but understands when you need to hold on to it a little longer, supports you and builds your confidence, makes time for you, helps you see your mistakes, helps you deal with pressure, makes you smile when you are sad, helps you become a better person; and most important, loves you! If you feel the same, let me know and who knows.I want to be who will do all these to you and want you to realize how important you are to my soul.You have being a blessing that my entire being is very thankful for. I feel that we were made to love, listen, understand, and work through all times in our lives together and individually.I feel that we have shared more time together and I know there are many more special occasions and moments in our lives that will surprise and bring us closer.You have become my soul mate and nothing, and no one else feels more right than you!! I love you eternally and unconditionally. God's love has answered this prayer I've wanted and been almost too anxious for so long. I miss you more than words can say and my love will reach any distance and fly to be in your dreams and heart each evening that we can not be together. I just hope you are not going to hurt my feelings for you or let me down cos i truly cherish you and ready to spend the rest of my life with you.Just promise you are not going to hurt me cos my heary is set on you and i believe that you are the woman God has sent to my life to replace the empty space in my heart.I physically long for you each night and will see you in my dreams until we find ourselves wrapped in the love that grows stronger and deeper each day, into our future together. I believe and have faith in you..You don't know how much I really do miss you. You've opened up a door I thought I locked a long time ago. Until we can be together again you are always in my heart and on my mind. Think of me always and dream of me often.Babe i think this will let you know how deep feelings i have for you....my regards to the family.... Yours
John and Richard

Hi marianne,
I feel happy when reading from you all the time also telling me all this make me feel somehow cos am just expressing my feelings for you,i believe all this will happen in reality,cos i believe that when the time comes,then you will know that is a plan not just the words,i hope everything is fine with you today,have been working since morning and thinking about you even if you dont think about me but i know my feelings is true and i cant wait to meet you babe,when do you think we can meet first,i will have your time cos i want to show you that am not just saying all this sweet words in vain...what i believe is that what will be will surely be and if you believe that this will work out with us,then fine but for me,i know we have something in common and i believe by that time,you will know,i will stop here now,just wanna let you know that i read your mail cos am working now...take good care of yourself.....

Thanks for the mail babe,i really feel happy when i read from you,i told you before that i do live in NYC and anytime am not working,i feel like having fun with my son and i told you that i made a mistake for that in pof,my dad live in the state before he died and i always off and on but when he told me that i need to come down here to learn about his profession then i decided to move to the state about 12years ago now,anyway hope you are in good condition of health? Am happy you wrote me back, writing each other anytime and get to know each other more better ,wonder I guess you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and what to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own.wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,.I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study,What a wonderful way of life it is to find joy and happiness in someone else. I would ask you some few questions which requires a min before you answer each.
Do you believe in Love, even amidst this crazy world we find ourselves in?
Do you believe that happiness has value more than every material things we may get in life?
Do you believe that you have a good heart to care for people unconditionally?
If you found a hundred dollar bill on the road and see a hungry orphan, would you feed him?
If you get into an argument with me, and i pull you close to kiss you, would you still kiss me back?
Would you love those close to me as i would love all those who matter to you?
If i bring you breakfast to your bed would you kiss after saying thanks?
Do you love to run away with me sometimes where we would be out of business environment to spend quality time together?
Do you believe the world should concentrate more on peace projects than war funding ?
Do you have faith that every man is the architect of his own destiny?
Do you believe that Life without Love is like a harp without strings?
Do you know that, You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth?
If God is the DJ, then Life is the dance floor; Love is the rhythm, and You might be my rythm?
If you have said yes to all these and you say no to my next question then you might not really know what you want then,lol.
WOULD YOU BE MINE TODAY , TOMORROW AND TILL END OF TIME?
I know the possibility of thinking, this man i haven't met, how can there be these feelings? what does he know about me? But i can tell you the truth about life. The people you have met and probably fallen in love with them, what do they know about you that you think i don't know?
probably, just some physical things, like smell, sense of touch, and body physics, and that is all. But these few things are the least things to love for. These are just sentimental values that are found in many at good length. The main things to love for are the abilities to agree on phenomena, and sense of directions. The unexplained attraction to someone's words. which is life itself. These are the only things that matters deep down. How best can one get these things better than meeting in writings? where you can escape the sentimental factors i mentioned earlier and once we meet, the biggest sentiments is there and one wouldn't be able to help but start the feelings from there. I can tell you that internet is the best and also the worst way of meeting people.
In the sense that it is the best if two people meet and are as open as a book with each other with no lies. I promise it cant fail . The worst in the sense that if these two met and there is even a single atom of lie in between, there comes disappointments, which is like a small stone that can bring down a big wall. Did you ever lie to me? cos i wouldn't ever lie for anything. My ma brought up a better man than that.LOL. Go and do the research about what i just said and you will find out whether the maths is good or not.
As food is needed for the body, them same way love is needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul. A person is incomplete without love. I will never give up the fight and will of love. Yesterday was big fun for us, we came back from church early enough to have time to enjoy ourselves round the city. We did cruise a boat, and we laughed so much as usual. We all cant wait to be out of here for a longer vacation.They sang for me and put your name in the song, You know we work all day except for Sundays for us. I did picture you with us on the cruise laughing so hard in my arms,lol. Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones. I do cherish your presence in me.i will stop here now and i hope to read back from you...
Yours
John and Richard

Hello Marianne,
how are you doing there?I love your mail so much and I have being thinking about you and cant wait to meet you...I want to be at your side, to let go of the past with the passing of the old year and to embrace with you a future as we enter the new part in our life, I want to be the one who cares for you when you're sick and to be the one you take care of.As I do now, I will be the one who loves you like no other could ever possibly do. We share a connection that goes deeper than anyone has ever known. The road that we have walked together so far has not been an easy one, but you have proven to me, many times over, the kind of man that you are by walking it with me, at my side, spiritually if not physically. You have shown to me a commitment and devotion unequaled by any man. I want to give that back to you for the rest of our lives.We will share in a life of passion and commitment and love unparalleled. We will cross the bridges of troubled waters together and we will laugh and play together under the sun for many years to come.
Others will look at us and pray to one day find that kind of love. We will be the couple, who into their 80's (and beyond) who will still hold hands and share in a kiss in public. The love and devotion will shine around us like a beacon of hope for others.I have given to you my love, my heart and my soul. I will give to you my life, my compassion and my spirit. Should ever you feel weak, lean on me and I will be your shelter from life's troubles. Should ever you feel sad, come to me and I will help you to smile again. Should ever you feel anger, bring it to me and I will help you to find the compassion and forgiveness in your soul. If ever you should feel lost or afraid, step into my arms and let me lead you home to my heart again. And from this night forward I will love you with all that I am or ever could be, for without you I am nothing.You are the vastness in my universe. You are the sun and the light which guides me thru the darkest of times. You are the moon and the stars that lend me my dreams. You are my hope when all seems lost, and you are all that I could ever dream of. You are my heart my soul and my spirit.As the old time have end and the new time begins, take all that I offer to you and hold it dear to you. Keep my heart safe within your soul as I will keep your heart safe within my own soul. From now until all life ends. You are me and I am you, together we are one and I will love you forever.I will be hoping to read from you and hoping you will help me out of this hard time..I will be thinking of you and hoping to read from you..Take care and God bless you......
Yours
John n Richard

Hello my wonderful one. How are you this morning? Why am i getting addicted to my email? lol. I get a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you. Wonderful. How was your night?i think you are such a good sport woman and i really love it so much and I knew something was missing since i havent smiled all morning till now,lol. I was almost late for my chopper in the morning, i woke up late, i think i am becoming restful again, Maybe i could sense something good ahead of us.What wouldn't i do to make my dreams come true. It is like a rigger waiting for a trigger. Would you be my trigger? lol. I just need a woman to hold me before i am old. Absolutely i have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right? but for what purpose? To be realistic, except if you just want to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you have no best friend to share it with. All the millions are useless indeed. how much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? how much do we need for daily fun. excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As i always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy SLEEP.
it can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy TIME, It can buy piles of books , but cant buy KNOWLEDGE. It can buy food, but not SATISFACTION, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy LOVE. That is why , i refuse to follow the crowd, so as my own man, i would give up all that can be bought for that which cant be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods,. she can make me smile in all weather.I am glad that i could get your attention my dear.
You have a special thing in your heart, and i intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure, but i dont mind,lol. Please tell me about your ideology of life my dear. I will be waiting impatiently to hear from you.Till I read from you,Kisses and hugs in their right places..

Its very nice to read all this from you Marianne,i can see the kind of woman you are reading all yours messages and i want to talk to you about myself and what i know about true love.. I have a big heart and i am willing to share my true love to you. Honey I am sure you know that death can not stop true love, it can only delay it for a little while and you know true Love can make you do things that you never thought possible.. true love is an emotion so strong that you would give up everything. To just feel it once, to know that you are part of something special. To know that you can feel what love really is; to know, to feel, to love.. Love and electricity are one in the same, Honey. If you do not feel the jolt in your soul every time a kiss is shared, a whisper is spoken, a touch is felt, then your not really in love at all. to love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. True love is just like rain; it touches us all. True love is a wonder that has no end or beginning. I have true love and if you think it is a lie, well let me tell you for real, true love doesnt comes everyday. True love doesn't just fill your heart, it overflows into your whole body and soul. True love cannot be found where it does not exist, nor can it be denied where it does. True love doesn't have a happy ending because true love doesn't end. Remember that the truest love, is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other. Love isn't love until you give it away, so give it wings and let it go, if it's meant to be it will fly right back to you. No matter how hard things seem, true love will aide you through it.. When during sad times an angel should come to you, open your eyes and see who that angel is, for that is your one true love.
Never underestimate the power because love can do miracles which you never thought possible. True Love comes to those who wait for it, trust it and don't question it when it does finally come. If you are willing to trust in a person when all others tell you to go against it, if you are willing to risk getting your heart broken because you believe in that other person, Then that is true love. Time has no meaning when your in love. True love knows no boundaries. It is the people involved who create them. Now tell me for real , if i dont know what true love is, will i ever find it ? There is one pain I often feel,which you will never know. It's caused by the absence of you Honey.My heart is set for you and i am praying so much for you to be the woman of my life, i cant wait to have you as mine forever. my son say hi to you and my regards to the family...i will be waiting to read back from you... Yours
John and Richard

Hello Marianne,
Thanks for the mail babe and i really enjoyed the link that you gave to me in youtube,infact i can see that you are such a woman with a wonderful heart and soul,thanks for the updating about the Yankees,Rangers and isles,infact i can get time for them too now to be watching then babe,i hope you have a nice weekend?how is family and work,i believe things are going good with you babe,anyway i want you to know that you are a blessing to my life..I can feel the way you make me feel..you are so important to me now and i cant let you out of my life..You simply display to me that you are different from others, I cant wait to meet you in person, i want to have you for whom you are and i also want you to have me for whom i am. I want you to care so much, so much it would overpour, i want you to adore me and be thankful that im here and if i ever needed you in a heartbeat you'd be there, i want you to give me a kiss always in the morning if you are first to wake up so i can wake along with you and if you could give me the world, i want you to tell me everyday that i am your Man, i want to be ur prince and you to be my princess so in the end we can just sit back and reminisce, i want us to be the one that everyone says awww..., i want to wake up next to you every day, month and season, i want you to take me walking along the beautiful shore, i want you to tell me daily that you love me even more, i want you to kiss me softly and always hold my hand, i want you to stand beside me and be proud to be my woman, i want you to make me cry of being so happy with you, i want you to hug me everyday and maybe a kiss or two, i want you to be the one that i share with all my joy, i want you to be that lady that i call my Honey, i want you to do all this before my very eyes, i want you to tell me everything, everything except a lie, i want you to want all this just exactly like i do and if you don't, don't awake me because i will dream my dreams of you. I cant wait to hold you. My words here are not just words out of the mouth, there are from my feelings. I really adore you and i am here thinking about you and missing you toughly. I care for you and i cant wait to claim you as mine,i will be happy if i can hear back from you and Richard wish you happy day.. Yours
John and Richard

How are you doing there?Happy Sunday and How is everything with you over there?Missed you so much and Thinking about you all the time sweetie and Richard say hi to you and he is very Eager to meet you,I have never in my life met someone more beautiful, enjoyable, loving, and comforting as you. Since the very first day that you saw your pics I knew there was something very special about you. I had no idea then that I would fall in love, but now that I have, I am so grateful. I am grateful for us to have wandered into one another's world so softly and unexpectedly.
Nature took its course on our hearts and joined them in a way never imaginable.I want you to know, that from the very depths of my heart, I love you. And I love everything that creates you, from your hair - that I wish I could play in more often... to your forehead - that I wish I could kiss while you sleep; from your eyes - that sparkle when you smile (just for me)... to your nose - that I wish I could rub my nose against; from your lips - that I just know were made perfectly to fit against mine... to your chin - that I would love to place my finger under to pull you close for a kiss; down your neck and to your heart - that in my own, I claim as mine, and down past every inch of every part of your existence.I wish more than anything that you and I could grow together, love together, learn together, and laugh together, forever. I sincerely feel that between the two of us, we have the kind of love that some people never get a chance to experience. I promise to love you as much as I can, as best as I can, and for as long as I can. And no matter what, it's very important to me for you to know that you are an irreplaceable spirit that will always be a part of me. Well i will like to Stop here Hope to hear back from you,i will write later to answer your questions....

Its always good to have time with family friends Marianne cos you will have alot of fun and i cant wait to be together one day and have a meeting nice with the family,i will host every body and make them satisfy.but i know that as the time is clicking fast, i want to work things out for us , i am tired of being lonely, i dont want to think lonely anymore.. I love my son, i have my work, i have what i can get but i dont have a Wife, you know i am not complete.. I pray that you are the one for me and i will forever love and take care of you..I can fully tell you that i dont want to loose you because i dont know if i will get someone else s caring and honest like you...I have to be honest with you because i want the same from you. I trust you despite that i havent meet you in person because i believe everything that you have been telling me..You came into my life to fill in my heart with joy..I do think about you alot.... I admire your independence and courage, you handle yourself very professionally. You make me feel so alive, even i feel so safe with you....I know that when things goes right, we will plan to meet eachother and for the first time of meeting you, i wont be shy but maybe you would.....I love your sincereness and beauty, and most of all "Your Warmed Heart" that I crave in my heart You are no longer alone and I will always be at your side through good and bad times. Let me fill your heart and soul with the "True Love" that you deserve. Let me be the one to take the emptiness of your life and fill it with joy and happiness.
Let me be the man of your dream and destination and together we can build an empire. You are so pleasant to my eyes and i dont want to loose talking to you, i want you to tell me what you think and feel towards me.... I Ok i have to hold up here now and i wish i am going to hear back from you .... Lastly, i have a question, Can i call you Honey..?While i was writing you, i was writing Honey and i had to clean it and write your name because i feel to call you by that name from my heart... yes the weekend went fast but still in new week Marianne,i will be waiting to read back from you and Richard say hi to you all...
Take care and God Bless you..
I am always thinking about you..