Dear Marie, How are you doing? I must first of all thank you for responding to my message. I have to admit that you are really a wonderful,beautiful and pretty woman. I like you and I want to believe that our meeting is not by chance or accident, but it was predestined by God so that together we would be able to discover God's plan for ourselves. A friend of mine got me started on this platform as a way of finding the woman of my life since my work nature kept me extremely busy. I'm serving the British Army ranked Major General, my name is Aleksandar K Shashiashvili British Army senior staff born 09Th September 1964, I got Educated at University of Cambridge, Royal Military Academy Sandhurst , I was commissioned into the Green Howards from Sandhurst in 1985 when I was 23 years, served with the 1 St Battalion in Hong Kong, Germany and Libya, after working in the Ministry of Defence, returned to the Battalion as a company commander, serving in currently in Kabul, Afghanistan. I'm passionate about making a difference. I believe that everyone has a responsibility to give back to their community and those that benefit more from it have a greater obligation.
I have been in the army for many years, planning to resign and I thought it was wise starting to get a date for marriage and a friend suggested I try this platform that's why am on here. I am Widower with a child. My Wife died few years ago in auto crash. My son's name Matthew and he is studying foreign languages and information technology. He is a good and intelligent boy and I take him to high esteem because he is my carbon copy. Seeing as I'm heading back home soon, that also gives me a 'different' perspective. I generally socialize outside of the military community since I'm a widower and my peers are pretty much all married with children. I'm an avid athlete, having played most sports at one time or another just to keep fit, everything from Adventure racing to Wiffle ball! These days I mostly play rugby and lift weights. Someday I'll move back home to be able to surf, paddle and dive like I love to do.
I'm not in a hurry to find the love of my life, but I don't want to wait for months or more years because life is too short to spend it alone. The passion, beauty and excitement of being with the one you love is so wonderful. What I want is to find one that is right for me and understand what bothers me most in this life and what is inside it and how you feel, I want to meet one that is romantic, serious and down to earth at the same time, a woman who likes to laugh and enjoy the outdoors, who truly wants to be a wife and believes in the sanctity of marriage, who is honest, loyal, trustworthy and totally devoted to her man. Who is willing to try new things? I'll like to know more about you, I'm hoping to read from you soon, I want to know all about you and what you do for work.
I wish you a wonderful day.
Aleksandar Konstantin Shashiashvili
British Army Deputy Chief of the Defence Staff (Personnel and Training) British Army ISAF Kabul.
ISAF is a key component of the international community's engagement in Afghanistan, assisting the Afghan authorities in providing security, stability and creating the conditions for reconstruction and development with the help of 28 Provincial Reconstruction
Dear Marie well I just want to start off by saying thank you for opening your mind to me and your narrations have inspired me to carry on with my dreams of knowing you more! I feel very happy and delighted when i receive your mail. Though I have Been Extremely Busy with my Troop's camp off Due to recent happenings, it has Been Noted That Afghanistan on 240 incidents a week. We have been working with the Wardak provincial police after the blast in Jalrez district, and also coalition air strike killed a local Taliban commander and injured three insurgents.
I think it is very important sharing more details, to help us in knowing about each other feeling close in heart. I am very happy and I believe that God is about to wipe my tears after losing my wife about six years ago. I believe that our meeting was not by a chance or accident but it was predestined by God so that together we would be able to discover God's plan for us. I dream of an understanding woman like you in my life to be the woman that makes my life complete; I pray that the days will come when I will be able to spend my every moment with you for the rest of our life - I pray that days would come when we would always be together to spend the rest of the days of our lives forever in peace and harmony, to even miss you when I am sleeping - laughing together about how our relationship all started, I also want you to know that sometimes the purity and truthfulness of love through an Internet relationship far passes that of one based on physical contact. please feel free to tell me anything you think i should know about you and i will also tell you more about myself so that we will get to know each other much better. Your presence in my life brings wonderful smiles and loving thoughts within my heart. I'm talking about fate here - when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams.
I am awaiting MOD approval of my evacuation for my back home to put my family together and also make sure that things are going on well for my family - to take good care of my family with love, care and protection.
I'm the child of my Bulgarian Catholic-Christian father (Bulgarian accent); My Mum has English heritage, she and my Dad worked hard to bring me up. My father died when I was little. My mother was carrying everything all along; she's been a wonderful woman and a great mother that I so much love. She brought me up very well in the ways to be of great man I think I am today by working for humanity; carried on working full time until she was surviving cancer and a heart attack. She never gave up on life and our family until the last day of her life; my mother passed away after been aged and weakened, she was 73yrs before death.
my House is located at the military family private housing base - King St., Leeds, West Yorkshire LS1 while I have some other property houses I invest on in Manchester and Liverpool.
My son Matthew. 15years studying foreign languages and information technology in his England affiliated school, he will be more than happy to have a wonderful woman like you, and we will make our family a better place.
My son, our son is under the care of his school administration and all my assets is declared to our British government before deployment for transparency purpose while actively deployed which has to do with our code of conduct to avoid any form of disagreement among other countries government .
The most important thing is for us to be transparent with each other, always try to make an amendment if anyone of does something wrong and with better understanding. Two most important things loyalty and honesty, without these you have nothing - speaking about our common future, discovering the interest of our family and how to make it a better place in peace. I have plans after my retirement - I have property investments in England which I plan to run fully after my retirement though the government made me declare all my asset under them before I was deployed here to avoid any monetary issue or distraction while active here. I know contract may come from the MOD through my government after my retirement but it depends on me and my future partner to make the right decision as I do not want anything that will keep me away from my family but for me to always be by my family always taking up my responsibility. I will be evacuating in about a month or two months from now but awaiting an approval from the MOD - I have lots of responsibilities here due to my rank, my main right hand men are 10 who are stationed in my camp permanently and 55troops under my command here.
My favourite food is Okonomoyaki; Okonomoyaki is a Japanese food. It's similar I guess to an English pancake but it involves different kinds of cabbage and meat and an egg - mixed together and then in the restaurant you would cook it in front of yourself and it's very delicious and usually you have barbecue sauce and mayonnaise on top . I also like paella, which is Spanish food. It has yellow rice and lots of different types of seafood and sometimes it can be spicy.
My favorite genre of music is Blues like Celine Dion, Shania Twain, I dedicate this to you:
Gospels like Don Moen:
I wish you a wonderful evening and please take very good care of yourself as i wait for your reply
My Dearest Marie
I am thankful that you had a chance and time to reply my emails and thank you so much for opening this door of friendship, which i believe this will be the start of a beautiful relationship that we can share both that in-spite of the challenges and trials in life, we can testify that life goes on with GOD who made a way for us to get in touch! You are the sweetest person I have ever met all my life. I am honored to have someone like you in my life. I will learn how to share my time between you and my work till I get evacuated back home for my retirement, then we can spend the rest of our life loving and making each other happy; possibly? I will try and make out time to have a chat with you and I would like to view my webcam to you as well, I admire you for you seem to be a hard working woman and will be of good mother to my son.
My spirit speaks well about you to me when I go down on my kneel praying to God. Even when I am not on my kneels praying I keep remembering you and I am falling into thinking about you and this I must confess is making me to miss you. God has got his own reasons for us to meet through this means beside to truly love something; as you know, tomorrow, hopes and dreams will never die as long as we believe in ourselves and follow our hearts. The kindnesses in our hearts will guide us to accomplish many things in life and overcome all challenges and obstacles. I understand how tight your official schedule is, there is a reward for every service rendered for the advancement of humanity especially when it is given freely with the joy of heart, have no doubt that you are also blessing your soul through the humanitarian job you are doing.
I am inclined to Charity works as well and soon I will let you into the picture of my own little efforts. I will always support your vision and ready to contribute in any way you need a hand.
I believe that we will never give up, always have faith in ourselves, and we will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love we rightly deserve. Whatever we may do in the future, we don,t have let anyone stand in the way of us pursuing our dreams. We have to know that there will always be family and friends to rely on whenever we need them. In marriage we marry a mystery, another, a counterpart. In a sense the person we marry is a stranger about whom we have a magnificent hunch. The person we choose to marry is someone we love, we will come to know only in the long unraveling of time, to imagine that, as time goes on, we will come to enjoy each other even more, become even more of ourselves in presence. To our knowledge we add our willingness to embark on the journey of getting to know each other, even so wonderfully more. Swept up by attraction, attention, fantasy, hope, and a certain happy measure of recognition, we agree to come together for the mysterious future, to see where the journey will take us. This companionship on life, journey is the hallmark of marriage, its natural province, and its sweetest and most primal gift. In promising always, we promise each other time. We promise to exercise our love, to stretch it large enough to embrace the unforeseen realities of the future. We promise to learn to love beyond the level of our instincts and inclinations, to love in foul weather as well as good, In hard times as well as when we are exhilarated by the pleasures of romance. We try some things and resist trying others because, having promised, we feel secure. Marriage, the bond, makes us free to see, to be, to love. Our souls are protected; our hearts have come home.
I'm happy to have a lovely woman like you to be my friend and perhaps my wife in the nearest future, my true love; I am looking for the woman who I can pour my love out to. I have so much love stored up in my heart for you; all I want is forever happiness with an Angel which I believe is you. If you are also on the same track with me being true and strong and also believing in the sanctity of marriage then we would forever be happy.
I feel that I should add this; Relationships are built one day at a time; they take time, patience, honesty, passion and the ability to compromise and grow. So with true love is by sharing the good and the bad together. True love is a covenant that we build on a very strong foundation. That's why it isn't developing in a day. It takes some time to mature and that's when both see that they are having the same strong feelings for each other. I believe that it is important to listen, learn, enjoy, understand and respect one another. And to share each other, goals, dreams, thoughts, ideas and the things that is important in each other, lives. I also believe that laughing is essential, perfection is impossible, honesty is vital, deceit is intolerable and respect is crucial.
As we are destined by God that we will be, my heart wills always yearning for your love and care forever. I am taking care of myself here and God is always in control of our lives here meaning me and other troops under my control. He is going to make everything up to us in the best ways so we would be forever happy. Amen! Take care and I will be waiting for your reply. Never stop praying for every other troop here as I very much believe in prayers. Remember to send me more of your photos,I hope you like flowers?
Am attaching some lovely flowers to you, Honey I dedicate the song to our love http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OFEuhJ98O8
Yours Aleksandar hug and kiss
My Dearest Beloved Princess,
Good morning, How are you doing today? I believe you are doing great, thank you very much for your email with your lovely pictures, honestly i was very glad hearing the sweet sound of your voice during our open conversation on the phone,I did appreciate all your effort thinking and also been so caring about my safety in this deadly land (KABUL AFGHANISTAN)!
Please makes sure you take very good care of yourself for me! I'm currently busy with lots of works here tackling some important files which needed to be propounded to the MOD (Our Ministry of Defence) from the HQ (Headquarter). God has been my guardian ever since the death of my wife because I depend on him as my lord and personal saviour and I pray every day to him for his grace in my life to make me complete by giving me a true woman of my life who will be with me to the end and understand me. I was glad when I came across your profile and find it necessary to contact you due the good feelings that struck my heart to know you, which I did after pray to the lord, I am happy to have you in my life for the better of our future as one family.
I want you to understand that it is God's plan for us to meet at this point in time because there are thousands of women and thousands of men out there but he made it possible for our hearts to stuck together as one, with great joy and happiness which is the most important thing in life and the benefit of marriage. I want you to understand that I will forever love you in any circumstance and will be there to make you happy, will never count down on you or let you down no matter the condition because I am a man of honor as my personality entails and I keep any words that comes out of my mouth, so please take my words as bond to uphold me with forever as my wife. I know there is a lot of distance between is but it will never take my word, heart and my love away from you because I will be right back home to be with you soon, to hug and cherish you as I keep on dreaming about you hoping to be with you upon my evacuation for my retirement because all the necessary documents has been signed of which am waiting for my evacuation approval soon.
Thanks for been there for me of which I promise you never to give up no matter what life brings of which I believe that to truly love something, you must first give it a chance to fail. If it survives, it is going to be stronger than ever, the challenges we are facing now is pure proof of this, and forever we will love if we survive. It's amazing how you got me and trapped me; just keep on thanking God for having you. I believe strongly that we are meant for each other and no one can change that. I promise to love you with ALL my heart. I have lived for a long time since the death of my son's mother, responsible for and dependent in love upon no woman and committed to no one except me. During this period of my life, I considered the world mine for the taking and truly believed that I was living life to the fullest. Then, you came into the picture, and all of a sudden, I realized that I was deceiving myself. I find that my life is not all that I thought it was. In fact, it is terribly lacking in many things, the foremost being love. Now, through some great fortune, I have found that love and along with it, the one person who can make my life truly complete. You are that person, to be honest, I never thought I would ever utter those words, but now, they come forth effortlessly and with great sincerity. I'll be forever being grateful to you for showing me just how shallow my life was.
At last, I have a chance to give it depth and purpose.
I know we have not been dating that long, but I want you to know that I love you from the bottom of my heart my darling beloved . I wanted you in my life, and happy I found you whether as a friend of something a little more.
I prayed for a long time to find someone like you. Someone willing to fight for me and am willing to fight for, someone to make me smile and someone who I know truly loves me. You're in my thoughts, my dreams, and every breath I take.
I know truly that this is love. I feel like I can tell you anything inside me freely; it has not been but a short time of getting to know one another and we are totally crazy about the other, I know I was created for you. Here I am, heart and soul, confessing how I feel about you. Smiles ... funny how love works in people's lives. I sure never expected to neither meet nor find someone as amazing as you. You have touched my heart in so many ways and words could not even begin to explain to you the love I feel for you.
Without further making it harder on the two of us to be together, I love you and I eagerly can not wait to have you in my arms at the airport upon my arrival back home of which am very proud for you accept me as your husband and we will spend forever and eternity in each other's arms. Dreaming of each other always ... I love you. You're the last thing on my mind at night.
You fill every dream I have. You're the very first thing I think of when I wake up ... and you'll never know it. I want you like you'll never know. I want your entire heart and soul. I want to see your face but soon when I return home, I want your love, I NEED your love, and I know that you're happy with that. I just want a day when it's just you and me. I just want a day when my heart can sing true. I pray to God every day to strengthen our marital home and guide us in one accord as husband and wife to love and cherish each other forever.
yours forever. Aleksandar. hug and
My Dearest Beloved Princess,
Good evening my darling beloved wife, how are you doing ? I hope everything is okay with you there in your country. I got your email but very busy today due to the result of work that is the reason why you did not hear from me since morning. honeslty my darling beloved wife I have been thinking about you so much today that even in my mind i said to myself that i am not going to work this evening, but God knows why this great feeling towards you today. I've kept my feelings for you contained for as long as I could. I am in love with you though, and true, honest love shouldn't be contained and kept quiet for this long and My feelings for you grow more and more every day, and my love for you grows deeper and more everlasting with every passing minute. You mean so much to me, I mean just seeing your smiling face or hearing you heart-melting voice just brightens up my worst days and makes them so much better.
How I wish words could express the thoughts that I have towards you. If I should say I love you then the greater percent of my words are still unexpressed. But of course, I must say something ... my heart beats for you, and my heart longs for you. To me, you are a rose that should be protected from thorns around, lest they prick you. You are an angel that shouldn't be hurt. You are also honey that should be covered against contamination.
My Princess i also want to let you know that i am thinking of buying a house which we can use as a resort in your country, but don't worry,i would update you more about it in my next mail to you.
You have the greatest soul, the noblest nature, the sweetest, most loving heart I have ever known, and my love, my reverence, my admiration for you have increased in a very short time as i should have thought only a lifetime of intimate, loving association could have increased them. You are more wonderful and lovely in my eyes than you ever were before; and my pride and joy and gratitude that you should love me with such a perfect love are beyond all expression, My dearest, when two souls, which have sought each other for, however long in the throng, have finally found each other ... a union, fiery and pure as they themselves are begins on earth and continues forever in heaven.
This union is love, true love, ... a religion, which deifies the loved one, whose life comes from devotion and passion, and for which the greatest sacrifice are the sweetest delights. This is the love which you inspire in me... Your soul is made to love with the purity and passion of angels; but perhaps it can only love another angel, in which case I must tremble with apprehension.
I will cover you with love when we are together, with cares, with ecstasy. I want to gorge you with all the joys of the flesh. By the grace of God, I am ready to do whatever it takes to make you happy, I promise. I am so much in love with you. I get this warm sensual feeling every time I think of you.
When I sleep at night, all I can dream about is you. I wish I could hold you in my arms. I dream of the day when I could kiss you passionately on your soft sweet lips and listen to your heart beating.
I am in love with you and have been in love with you!! I love you, Marie