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01-03-2016, 06:08 AM #firstname.lastname@example.org Guest
Attached to scammer
I no longer communicate with the scammer, however, I am having a hard time getting over him, its so miserable since I know now who he really is and what he does. Can anyone give me some advise.? Anyone else out there having this kind of problem??Informing scammers that they are listed on the forum attracts a BAN from the website!!!
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04-25-2016, 09:36 AM #2Ewa Guest
09-24-2016, 05:16 AM #3Txwildflower Guest
I am going threw all of it myself four years ago my husband of 40 years was cheating on me so. Of course I divorced him. And feeling lonely and all this Capt in the army station Afghanistan due to retire he was a widow no children. He has broke my heart.I get back up after my divorce and I get hurt very deeply.any advice
07-29-2018, 02:51 PM #4Beentheretoo Guest
It will get better
So sorry to hear about your troubles, ladies. I too am divorced and was looking for a new love. Just learn to be confident in yourself & not desperate. The hurt will take a while but it will get better. Take care of yourself. Love will come to you when it is right. Be careful.
11-13-2020, 10:04 AM #5Junior Member
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I was recently in a 5 month long, long distance relationship with a romance scammer, it started supposedly from his home in California, he actually contacted me through instagram, next 5hing I know I have feelings for him and of course he said he loved me, we talked several times a day, and now that I look back there were several clues and they are really all textbook for scammers, we split several times with him acting as if nothing had happened and I would always question him about things trying to get him to make a mistake, but then he says that he has to do one more job so that he can retire and we can be together, but he is an engineer and has won a contract to refurbish an oil platform and that he would be gone a month and that he would chat with me all that he could while he was gone, so much happened I would have to write a book to tell it all, 1 month turned into 5 and of course he asked for money, 200.00 and he never got paid the whole time, and I would question everything and he would sometimes get mad but, he would always apologize, but through this I fell in love with him, we know about each others families and everything, the last time I got mad I just kept telling him I couldn't do this that it was over and I kept saying I cant believe you done this to me and that he had broke my heart, and that I wish he would tell the truth, and he says ok you want the truth and I said yes, he says there is no daughter there is no grandkids there is no dead wife, he is posing as a 62 year old white man and turns out to be a 29 year old black man from Nigeria, I was floored to say the least, he still is saying that he loves meand thats why he told me, im slowly breaking the connection I have with him but he does not want to accept that, it really is hard even though they have lied, he still begs everyday, I have told him I wasn't in love with you I was in love with the man in the picture, he still won't listen, I have tried the photo searches and nothings comes up with this man's picture, I wish I knew who he was so I could tell him this story that all started with his pictureInforming scammers that they are listed on the forum attracts a BAN from the website!!!
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