Letter(s) from Oliver Ocil

 

Letter 1

Greetings Elisabeth,
Thanks so much for getting in touch with me and your lovely pictures.I am very new at this. I'm just going to tell you upfront that I'm probably not going to say anything profound, inspiring, or groundbreaking in the first few communications.

If you have any questions for me, feel free to ask away.
I will make it very simple for us - assuming you want to continue with getting to know me.It was a Rough Week and Stressful. Each time i get home i had to rest prepare something to eat and prepare for work for the nest day.

I am not rich but i am financially secure.I am a very giving, nice and loyal person very honest and even sometimes to a fault. I love children and animals and care for them too . Even if the children are those of someone else, because I believe "it takes a village to raise a child". i'm really picky when it comes to: Where to go out for the evening.

I'm not much into the bar scene, casinos, or clubs, so it takes a time to decide where I want to go when invited out on a walk.Tell me what are you looking for on the site?have you ever been married?Where do you live at the moment.I hope to hear from you
Warm Regards,
Oliver

Letter 2

Tomorrow I have to go to hospital because my meniscus must be fixed, I`ll be back home by Tuesday, but I don?t know when I?ll be able to climb up to the first floor where the computer is.I send you the number of my mobile phone, just in case.0650/7119531

Greetings to you Elisabeth,Thanks so much for telling me alittle about your self and dog.My son have a dog named jack and he love the dog very much.I am shy at first, but once you get to know me you see that I can be alot of fun. I am easy going and as long as I am with the right person, I can have fun.

I am a very positive person and always try to make the best of any situation. I truly value family and friends.I appreciate the little things in life.I love helping people, I am looking to meet someone with whom I can have a great time with. I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor and likes to laugh but also has a serious side and can have intellectual and intimate conversations.That special person would enjoy anything from dinner and a movie, to going dancing, going to the beach or going to an amusement park. I would like someone who can be a bit spontaneous and likes adventure.

I am 56 years of age and i was born in Upper Austria and my mom is from Germany why my dad is from Burgenland,my parent are dead and my Son is 21 years of age and his name is Muller which is very important to me.I now live and work in London but i am willing to come back to Austria if i find the right woman.I own a Company here in London and have house house in upper Austria,I am not rich but i am financially stable and i am looking for a woman to grow old with and enjoy our self.Can you send me more pictures and tell me how long you have been on the site and have there been any luck.Have a nice weekend.

Cheers,
Oliver

Letter 3

Dear Elisabeth,

What a Beautiful email,if you conutine like this,i am going to fall in love with you..I'm just going to try and express in the very sincere way what I really feel about our life.i am very happy about your dog and it really made me cry after reading the sotry.You know when I writing you i need to be very calm to be able to tell you what I really feel about you and the way i understand you.I believe that it very valuable that we have this chance to come to live as a being with a body form which allow us to express ourselves.

This life is just beautiful everyday you wake up and there is chance of another day of new life waiting for you to enjoy it 'how about that" I said enjoy it include the whole human experience 'good or bad"What is why each one of us we have born to experience this life on earth.This is what our purpose or goal of life to understand this whole universe need one only source to keep in harmony which is LOVE.One issue regarding compatibility has to do with temperament, I'm not sure if I am able to explain it very well.Most personalities and temperaments are difficult for me to get along with , I like the strong heart with a peaceful temperament.

This is very hard to find today, a person who has a strong heart yet is not overbearing or obnoxious with their personality.Someone who prefers peaceful resolution rather than fights, logic debate rather than blind argument.What is why each one of us we have born to experience this life on earth.

This is what our purpose or goal of life to understand this whole universe need one only source to keep in harmony which is LOVE.One issue regarding compatibility has to do with temperament, I'm not sure if I am able to explain it very well.Most personalities and temperaments are difficult for me to get along with ,and i think you have all those qualities Barbara.

If you want to conutine getting to know each other better, I'm sincere, and I'm serious, too. I have many things I want to accomplish in my life, and I don't feel like I have extra time to waste. I can devote time getting to know someone, or to see if we have things in common, but definitely not to play games----and the quickestway to figure out if we have a chance is to be open and honest, I think.I have been involved too many times in the past with people who tell me what they think I want to hear, then later I find out it was all insincere, or lies. I am truly happy by myself---but I am still optimistic enough to believe that with the right partner, I could be even happier which i think its you.But i would like to ask you some question,What is your favorite way to express your emotions of love?What are your ways of dealing with anger?I hope to hear from you very soon..

Kind Regards,
Oliver

Letter 4

Dear Elisabeth,

What a Beautiful email,if you conutine like this,i am going to fall in love with you..I'm just going to try and express in the very sincere way what I really feel about our life.i am very happy about your dog and it really made me cry after reading the sotry.You know when I writing you i need to be very calm to be able to tell you what I really feel about you and the way i understand you.I believe that it very valuable that we have this chance to come to live as a being with a body form which allow us to express ourselves.

This life is just beautiful everyday you wake up and there is chance of another day of new life waiting for you to enjoy it 'how about that" I said enjoy it include the whole human experience 'good or bad"What is why each one of us we have born to experience this life on earth.This is what our purpose or goal of life to understand this whole universe need one only source to keep in harmony which is LOVE.One issue regarding compatibility has to do with temperament, I'm not sure if I am able to explain it very well.Most personalities and temperaments are difficult for me to get along with , I like the strong heart with a peaceful temperament.

This is very hard to find today, a person who has a strong heart yet is not overbearing or obnoxious with their personality.Someone who prefers peaceful resolution rather than fights, logic debate rather than blind argument.What is why each one of us we have born to experience this life on earth.

This is what our purpose or goal of life to understand this whole universe need one only source to keep in harmony which is LOVE.One issue regarding compatibility has to do with temperament, I'm not sure if I am able to explain it very well.Most personalities and temperaments are difficult for me to get along with ,and i think you have all those qualities Barbara.

If you want to conutine getting to know each other better, I'm sincere, and I'm serious, too. I have many things I want to accomplish in my life, and I don't feel like I have extra time to waste. I can devote time getting to know someone, or to see if we have things in common, but definitely not to play games----and the quickestway to figure out if we have a chance is to be open and honest, I think.I have been involved too many times in the past with people who tell me what they think I want to hear, then later I find out it was all insincere, or lies. I am truly happy by myself---but I am still optimistic enough to believe that with the right partner, I could be even happier which i think its you.But i would like to ask you some question,What is your favorite way to express your emotions of love?What are your ways of dealing with anger?I hope to hear from you very soon..

Kind Regards,
Oliver

Letter 5

Dear Elisabeth,
I'm writing this letter to explain to you how I feel about you,I am starting to fall for you, and it is driving me crazy, because I can't seem to tell you how I really feel.
I need to know where I stand in your life and if it could ever be more than what we are now. I'm starting to develop strong feelings towards you, and I don't know why. It wasn't supposed to be like this, but I got sprung!
And it is you my heart's sprung on.I need to know how you feel about me.
Could you possibly feel the same towards me, or this can never be. I just want you to be mine. I want to be able to say that you're my woman.
Well, now you know that I am secretly falling in love with you. I just wish I could hear those same words from you. Maybe one day, but until then I guess all I can do is wait. Please, don't make me wait too long!But first I have to get the courage to tell you how I feel. So until then, Sorry Barbabra was my Secretary i was talking to her in my Office when i was sending you the email..i am sorry for that.I love you!
Love always,
Oliver

Letter 6

Over the years I have been described by friends and acquaintances as fundamentally sincere, with a large capacity for kindness and believing deeply that life has meaning only when you care for others more than for yourself.
Qualities that I value include thoughtfulness, honesty and directness, along with spontaneity and an appreciation for the lighter sides of life.

I can often be playful and silly, as well as serious. My interests include spending time with family and close friends, working out, listening to music (largely classical and 60's/70's rock),reading, dining out, movies, etc.chemistry is important to me, but I also very much believe in my ability to grow a deeper love for the inner values that people must work hard to develop.

And so, traits such as genuineness, tenderness, integrity and faithfulness, along with a capacity to stick with your partner through both good and bad times, are attributes that I have learned to cherish.

You are my soul mate and nothing, and no one else feels more right than you!! I love you eternally and unconditionally. God's love has answered this prayer I've wanted and been almost too anxious for so long. I miss you more than words can say and my love will reach any distance and fly to be in your dreams and heart each evening that we can not be together.
I physically long for you each night and will see you in my dreams until we find ourselves wrapped in the love that grows stronger and deeper each day, into our future together. I believe and have faith in you.Can you send me more pictures of your self and family .I look forward to your letter

Love Always,
Oliver

Letter 7

Thanks so much for getting back to me.I am good looking, funny, and a good listener.I enjoy antiques, museums, cooking, dining out, science, learning, intelligence, being silly and not taking things too seriously.
It is important to see the humor in everyday situations. I enjoy the outdoors, love traveling, and having a good time. My family and friends are very important to me.I would really like to talk to you and hear your voice on the phone today.I will call you today and i would like to come see you next week.I think you are right but you are the right about people using fake identy on the internet i met a woman on the site and she ask me to come visit her in Berlin but on getting there i find out she was not the one on the picture on the site i have my fear too and i hope you are the one in the pictures.The ideal relationship is one built on trust, respect, and a deep level of caring. It's one where two people can always laugh and play together but also provide the ultimate source of comfort and support. They don't need to have all of the same interests, but they need to respect and support the interests of the other.like i have told you i have 2 houses in Upper Austria and i would love to take you there when i come visit can i come and see you next week please let me know i would really like to meet you and your family.Have a nice week end.

Cheers,
Oliver

Letter 8

Dear Elisabeth,
It was very nice to hear from you,i am very sorry for my slow response i had to be taken back to the hospital and i just get back home yesterday i would still like to come to Austria and meet you can you set up yahoo messenger or skype so that we can chat some times i look forward to your letter
Cheers,Oliver

Letter 9

Hello Elisabeth,
It was very nice to hear from you,i have fell down in the bath room when i was trying to take my bath and i was rush to the hospital and the Doctor told me to take some days of work,so i wont be working till next year ,i have been sitting home taking some rest and playing around the garden can you please call me today and let me know when you would like to chat i did not get your id on Skype looking forward to chatting with you
Cheers,Oliver

Letter 10

Dear Elisabeth,
I am very happy to have read from you and i would love to chat with you on Skype,i have had problem with my Laptop so i had to call my Engineer to fix it for me,I just added you to my List hope we can chat soon and here is my number +447045763432 you can call me anytime and thanks for your care and concern and i hope you have a nice weekend.Looking forward to your next letter
Cheers,Oliver

Letter 11

Dear,
I hope you had a nice Dream. Thank you for the chat it really made me happy i think we can do that often.I have to say that the last 2 days have been really nice for me. I cant help but get excited when I see your emails. I am perfectly fine starting out as friends and I look forward to continuing to get to know everything about you and of course telling you everything about me. The most important thing that I look for in a friend and a lover is complete honesty, almost constant affection and unconditional love...
I know you have heard it before but I definitely am not a player and do not lie. If anything I am sometimes honest to a fault My main goal at this point in my life is to find a balance in my life. Find the woman of my dreams, start a family and spend the remainder of my life giving everything I have to those that I love. If you have ever been hurt in the past I can assure you that if anyone were to get hurt in our relationship it would be me.
I am so trusting and loyal that it is easy to for anyone to take advantage of my generosity and believe me it has happened several times in the past but I am not jaded.
I am not a jealous person but I liked to be spoiled and expect the person that I love to put me above all others as I will do for them. Anyway, some more information about me. I love a warm loving embrace, passionate kisses and have been told that I give the best hugs ever. I think it is because I dont consider these things just foreplay and truly put every ounce of my love and affection into them. A kiss goodbye from me is my opportunity to make you think about me for the rest of the day and make you anxious to finish work early to see again.
The ability of a man who understands that giving 100% opens himself up to receiving nothing less than 100% in return. At that point, we can strive for a relationship of respect, mutual admiration, and trust. After that, the sky is the limit... I believe in keeping my word. I am very reluctant to make any kind of promise unless I know that I can keep it, whether it is promising to do something for someone or keeping an appointment. conversely, I am very disappointed when someone makes a promise and fails to keep it.I bet we are going to make a good Couple Elisabeth ,with all you have said in your previous email to me.I think we should both hit it off since we are looking for the same thing and have alot in Common.what is the name of the nearest airport to you i would like to come see you on the 12 of Novermember 2010.Do have a nice day and think of me.
Warm Regards,Oliver

Letter 12

Dear Elisabeth,
I have not heard from you for the past 2 days is everything alright ?Did i say something wrong?Please let me know.I have really missed you today. I kept thinking of you, the wonderful flutters I get in the pit of my stomach when I we call you, the tender encouraging words and advice you give to me. You are so open to love. It's hard to describe the emotion churning inside of me.There are many things that I regret ... the greatest is that we didn't meet sooner But I thank God we did meet. No matter what happens, just know that I really do miss you and, Sweetheart, I wish you were here with me.send me an email when you can

Kiss,
Oliver

Letter 13

Good Morning my Love,

It was very nice to wake up this morning and find your email.I am very worried not been able to talk to you online,I cannot begin to find all the words to tell you how incredibly happy you make me. I am ready to explore all of lifes challenges with you and spend all of my days and nights with you.We might be miles away for a while, I might not get to see you smile or hear you laugh or even watch you sleep, but Darling, you know that the true test of love is distance, for it's said that distance brings people closer together.I hope you have a nice day and catch you at 2pm
Kiss,Oliver

Letter 14

Hello Darling,
Good Morning to you over there.I was unable to sleep through out the night i was thinking of you and crying,i want you to know that i love you so much and i willl never do anything to hurt you,......( ) you are an amazing woman who takes everything I am insecure about and makes me feel beautiful.I'm sure I will be fine. I'm just so excited and nervous all at the same time.A time comes in your life when you finally get it.....When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out ENOUGH.
Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on, And, like a child quieting down after a tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back the tears, and through a mantle of wet lashes you begin to look at the world through new eyes.......This is your awakening.
You realize that it's time to stop hoping, and waiting for something to change or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the horizon. You come to terms with the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world there are not always fairytale endings, (or beginnings for that matter) and that any guarantee of "happy ever after" must begin with you, and in the process a sense of serinity is born of ACCEPTANCE..

You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are....and that's OK. (They are entitled to their views and opinions.) And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself, and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of SELF-APPROVAL.
You stop complaining and blaming others for the things they did to you (or didn't do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected.
You learn that people don't always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and that it's not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and take care of yourself, and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of SELF-RELIANCE.

You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they really are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailities and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of FORGIVENESS.

You realize that much of the way you view yourself, and the world around you, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your syche. And you begin to sift through all the crap you have been fed about how you should behave, how you should look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should shop and what you should drive, how and where you should live and what you should do for a living, who you should sleep with, who you should marry and what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children or what you owe your parents. You learn to open up to new worlds and differnet points of view. And you begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've outgrown or should not of bought into to begin with, and in the process you learn to go with your INSTINCTS.

You learn that it is truly in giving that we recieve. And that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a "consumer" looking for your next fix. You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a by gone era but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build your life. You learn that you don't know everything.
It's not your job to save the world and that you can't teach a pig to sing.
You learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake. Then you learn about Love. Romantic love and familial love.

How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important, because of the man at your side or the child that bears your name. You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them to be. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes. You learn that just as people grow and change so it is with Love.....and you learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms.....just to make you happy. And, you learn that alone does not mean lonely....And you look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you "stack up" You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK....and that it is your right to want things and to ask for things that you want.....and sometimes it is neccessary to make demands. You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect and you won't settle for less.
And, you allow only the one who cherishes you to glorify you with his touch, and in the process you learn to internalize the meaning of SELF-RESPECT.

And you learn that your body really is your temple, And you begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin eating a balanced diet, drink more water and taking more time to exercise. You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear. So you take more time to rest. And, just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels the soul.
So you take more time to laugh and play. You learn, that for the most part, in life you get what you think you deserve.....and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for, and that wishing for something to happen is different from working towards making it happen. More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You also learn that no one can do it all alone and that it's OK to risk asking for help. You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time.."Fear" itself. You learn to step right through your fears because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your terms. And you learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of doom. You learn that life isn't always fair and you don't always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to good, unsuspecting people. On these occassions you learn not to personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers. It's just life happening. And you learn to deal with evil in its most primal state--the ego. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of alls. You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about: a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to "never ever settle" for less than your hearts' desire. And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind. And you make it a point to keep smiling....to keep trusting and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart, and with God by your side, you take a stand, you take a deep breath and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can. The only question which matters is, Am I living in a way which is deeply satisfying to me, and which truly expresses me? I hope to hear from you.

Warm Regards,Oliver

Letter 15

Good Morning Elisabeth,

It was very nice chatting with you yesterday i think we can do that often before we finally meet in Friday.I sit right here, thinking of you, and how you make my heart beat and how I am in love. I could never have thought that I would feel this way. You know all too well how surprising this is, I just love you so much. I don't know how it happened, and frankly I don't even care, I just want to love you and you to love me. I'll love you forever and never leave you. You'll be in my arms very soon, I promise you.I will be going with Muller on Sunday to sign the necessary document on Sunday and i will be back on Tuesday.You make me feel loved, you make me feel safe, but more importantly, you make me feel wanted. We both knew our friendship would grow right from the very first day we spoke.You are Intelligent,Kind and caring woman who know what she want out of life.I think you possess all the qualities i seek in a woman.Thank you so much for taking the step to reply my email on the site do have a wonderful day and send me an email when you can.
I miss you Kiss,
Oliver

Letter 16

Dear Elisabeth,
How are you doing today?I hope you are fine i miss you so much and i can not wait to finally meet you in person next week Friday.I have been working in the garden and thinking about you then i am planning about my trip to Nigeria tomorrow noon with Muller.I have been to South Africa but never been to Nigeria ,i would be going to Edo State from Lagos to sign the necessary document on Monday and fly back to London on Monday.We are meant to be together for the rest of our lives, this we know. Each day that passes I am aware that it means that it is one day closer to being in your arms Elisabeth.Please let me know when you would like to chat on Skype tonight i miss you so much Dear.
Lot of Kiss,Oliver

Letter 17

Hello Elisabeth,
Glad to hear from you i am online and i can not find you online can you come online now i miss you
OLIVER

Letter 18

Hello Elisabeth,
How are you doing..I am sorry that I haven't been able to send you mail since our plane touch the ground,but the trip to Nigeria is not a good one .Me and Muller were Rubbed just the moment we get down from the plane in Nigeria.The taxi man do not know much about the road ..He drove us to an unknown road and the next thing I saw were armed men walking towards the vehicle .They requested for what we had with us , wallet, credit Cards, passport,Laptop, handbag where I kept the money and everything i have with me.I gave all they requested for But Muller was reluctant to obey them so they shot him in the head and he collapsed,Muller is presently in the hospital right now.I sustained some Injuries but I am feeling alright .A good Man drive us to the Hospital.
I have gone to report the incident to the police but they told me they will contact me and i have called my bank to inform them about the Incident.I hope they will Contact me soon.I am in the hospital right now using the doctor Laptop to send you this message so you can know my situation here in Nigeria.Darling i feel terrible that i come to this country.Please send me an email as soon as you get my message.All i need from you now is to please pray for my Muller my son must not die he is the only one i have left since i lost his mother.I love you bye for now

Kiss,Oliver

Letter 19

Dear Elisabeth,

I did not sleep all night i was very worried about my son.Muller is dying now and i can't contact anyone expect you now. The Doctor ask me to deposit sum of 600 euros so they can perform a Scan on his brain.I called my bank this morning to send me some money but my account has been blocked due to my Credit cards and ATM STOLEN..I need you to Lend me the sum of 600 euros and i will pay you back with interest once i fly back to London..Please don't let my son die,and i hope the consulate can get back to me as soon as possible.
Just wire the money to the the doctor name below. And the only place you can wire the money is Via Western Union so that the hospital can get the money as soon as possible and perform the sugery...Please look for nearest Western Union office near to you and send the money to this information below.

Reciver's Infor...

Name...Adeshola s Adeniran
Add..... 23 Allen Ave
City....Bodija
State.....Oyo
Country....Nigeria
Zip Code....23402

And here are information you we need to send back to me once you transfer the money.

Sender's Name.....
Address.....
Post Code....

SECRET TEXT QUESTION AND ANSWER OF THE MONEY....MTCN NUMBER OF THE MONEY SENT...YOU WE FIND THAT IN THE RECIPT OF THE MONEY TRANSFER AT THE WESTERN UNION.

Get back to me now as soon as possible, Muller most not die.i am counting on you now Elisabeth please dont let him die,i promise to pay you back when i fly back to LONDON.I hope you do understand my situation and help me out.I will be with the doctor waiting for your call.

Kiss,
Oliver