I'm so glad to receive your message. My name once again is Philip Chandler, born 12/09/60 to an Irish-American father and a Polish-American mother. I just happen to get your contact when I stumbled on your Facebook profile. You are beautiful indeed.
I’m currently on second mission in Kabul Afghanistan. My first mission to Afghanistan, was in 2004 and ended in 2008, Went back to the States, and then lost my ex wife to Breast Cancer, I was in love with her with all my heart until death separated us. As all great marriages should be she was my companion, best friend, help mate, lover and other things words can't describe. I’m having a very hard time dealing with my wife's death. Though I am being myself now. We had one girl together, Audrey Nancy Chandler. Regrettably, she died a few years ago in an auto crash. Her picture is always with me.
My parents are dead long time ago and my only brother died on 9/11 terrorist attack at World Trade Center New York. (May their soul continue to rest in peace).
Meanwhile, being widowed for over 3 years, I am now looking for a woman who will love me and not for what I have, am looking for true love to spend the rest of my life with. I am a loving, generous person who takes care of the people in his life. I am passionate about things, and have a deep respect for others. I treat everyone I meet with kindness. I just believe in being 100% real and genuine. I believe that there is a special person out there who will love and appreciate me for who I am....not who I've been. A woman who appreciates kindness, respect, attention, affection, and honesty. Someone with energy and enthusiasm to participate, contribute and enjoy the precious gift of life.
I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am very direct, straight-forward, independent, intelligent, affectionate, compassionate and self-confident person with a good sense of humor (that’s what my friends say). I enjoy a variety of activities including the theater, movies, sports (I’d rather watch than play), traveling and sipping wine while listening to music. Fine dining, wine (especially Champagne) and stimulating conversation are among my favorite activities. I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners; I enjoy the quietness of the ocean, sunrises and sunsets. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible. I don’t smoke or use drugs. I’m romantic and I like to make you laugh.
I am a very busy man due to the nature of my Job, but I am glad I am close to retirement.
Hope to hear more from you soon. Until then have a pleasant time with a beautiful smile on your face.
Sgt. Philip Chandler
Thanks for your message , i really appreciate your response . sorry i pour out my heart to you but don't blame me much because it what i feel about you , though we have not met but that doesn't mean that i can not love you . love is divine and it comes from the heart , it believe all things and hope all things , rejoice in the wright and not in the wrong and many more according to the bible . Love doesn't look at the outward appearance of some but from the inmost heart . the feelings is very hard to control and hard to resist , that is why we keep asking our selves the reasons why we are loved or love but yet no answer for that .
My dear i understand how you feel and i mean my words to you , i am serious with what i am telling you and pray that God will help us to bring this relationship to reality .
I am telling you this because it is only the wise person that knows the importance of speaking life into his / her partner . i want to stand by you to encourage you and be your peace , just believe .
I will stop so far till i hear from you again , have a lovely and blessed day .
I'm so happy to read from you, I am so happy to have found you. My heart has so long needed a good relationship. I think we should try and make this work. I live for each day and hope I will return to USA and visit you to spend time with you. I'm proud of the person you are. Truly God has got his own reasons for us to meet. Please pray for me always, pray for me so that soon we shall be together. Never did I imagine that I would ever meet you, God has got his own reasons for us to meet. But I hope our love will flourish beyond what it is. Distance maybe just a part of the reason why sometimes we think we can't handle this whole relationship, but I am sure with time, our love for each other will be stronger than any barrier. I must tell you that my love for you is growing that I can't find any words to describe my feelings for you.
I want someone to tell me that they love me. I want someone to make me feel beautiful even though I look ugly, (smiles). I want someone to wipe my tears away and to tell me that everything will be okay. The last thing I want is YOU... because only you can make me feel this way.
Have a wonderful week ahead my dear.
Sgt. Philip Chandler