Scam Email(s) from Steven M. Unger to Patti (USA)

 

Letter 1

Dear Pat,
How was your night ? Nice to hear back from you. I would be very glad if you can give this a chance to see where and how it would lead us, you sound very wonderful and I'm willing to know about you. I'm 6'0 tall, I came to the United States of America when I was 37 years, and I was born and raised in Republic of Poland, I live in Lakewood Ranch, FL. I lost my wife 5 years ago due to breast cancer and now intending to move on with my life with that lovely, honest, faithful woman with so much love to give because I am tired of public settings with dishonest, unfaithful women. I am not looking for someone to replace my wife, but someone to be herself, know what she wants out of life and someone willing to forget the past and intending to move on for a better future. My late wife left an unforgettable memory for me and that is my lovely son though I had a Daughter and she died at the age of 24 years last year, Michael is 20 years of age. I feel so blessed to have a lovely son left with me. He has been my source of inspiration for me after the death of my wife by giving me so much hope, courage to live for a better tomorrow. I was introduced to the dating site just a few days ago through a friend of mine who got married on there and hope I can find my dreams come true too. I am now willing to enjoy life, spend, share time together with that lovely woman that could make things right between us.. Being a single parent has been a challenge for me.. Having a very strong faith really helps to get one through the hard times and I thank God for everything. God is a big part of my life. I don’t know what I would do without him, he's my rock. I have a puppy dog and his name is buddie.

Occupation: I am into (Construction Engineering)... I am a happy man with so much love to give but take honesty has the first step in doing anything and also friends first, we could take it from there and see what develops. I am a good Catholic Christian with a sincere, caring, loving heart and hope of a better tomorrow because when there is life our hope should always be high and we should never give up until we finally make our dreams come true and this is the reason why I am taking this chance because we aren't meant to be alone forever. I am a very honest, caring, family oriented, Independent, loving, romantic man with a nice sincere heart of taking care of my own woman, family, home, respect her and giving her all the love she deserves because I want a woman that I can't live without and same in return. I am a very optimistic man and love to meet new people with my smile, I am very easygoing, non smoker and non drinker. I have a great sense of humor, love to laugh, tease jokes, cuddle, swimming, camping.. I would love to know more about you. I hope we can become close friends and perhaps even more.. All good things, great relationships take time to develop, tell me more about you.. I will be waiting to hear from you soon.
Steve.

Letter 2

Dear Pat,
You sound very interesting and a sincere woman who knows what she's looking for in life and in a partner. I have a kind heart I do love to help when I am in the right position... I was once married to very, caring, honest, passionate, loyal, humble, open-minded and sincere woman for some years until death came and strike her away from me, but I won't let that let me down so much that I won't be able to go on with my life as we are not meant to be alone for life, God doesn't want that, because I believe God has a reason for taking her from me. We both met each other when I came to the states.. As I have told you I lost her 5 years ago with my lovely daughter last year to Esophageal cancer, Since then I have been alone with my Son (Michael) He's in the University studying mass communication. I'm new at this internet dating... Never meet or correspond with anyone on this on-line dating except you.

It's hard to be alone, I believe its one of my past and since then have been searching for a loving,caring,honest,sincere,passionate and affectionate woman who love God and wouldn't hurt my feelings and emotion which I have for her. Most people don't know what it take to hurt another one's feelings and emotion.I am open-minded, honest and independent and am looking for someone with similar qualities. I love to dance and i love country music. I love to play golf, go to the beach to watch the sunset, watch TV.

I am looking for a woman to spend the rest of my life with woman of my dream and long term relationship, I am not looking for a "one night stand" or to develop a "harem". I am an honest, faithful and loving person who is not looking to take advantage of you. Moreover, what will be my gain if I take advantage of a woman?

My family is important to me... I want to find a soul mate. I feel I am a good mate, I like to do special things for that person, cook a special meal for you, like call you at work and let you now how much I do love and care for you. I am a Catholic, I don't think distance should be obstacles in a relationship when both sides have the faith and trust that it will happen and I want you to know that Love knows no distance and also Love is strong... What else will you like to know about me ask me and I will sincerely tell you?

I believe with the little which I have said about myself can give you knowledge about whom you are writing to. I will have to go now.. I believe that it has been ordained by God for us to meet on here. Looking forward to hearing from you soon, remain blessed.
Cheers,
Steve.

Letter 3

Good Morning Pat,

How was your night ? I'm just dropping in to say Hi, I hope you have a wonderful day, may your morning be sunny side up, your afternoon bright too. May the whole day bring good news to you as I email this greeting, I'm sending you a morning prayer in hopes that your day will be great, without a tear or care. May the day bring you hope and many reasons to smile, with enough happiness in your heart to keep you warm across every mile. May your day be full of sunshine and lots of hugs and love, and may you receive many blessings from heaven above and when night time falls, with a sky shot full of stars,may you enjoy sweet dreams that in the daylight takes you far.
I want you to know that two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his partner can help him up but pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm but how can one keep warm alone ? The one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.
Yours Steve.

Letter 4

Dear Pat,
Life without Love is like a harp without strings. We can work things out on here... All we just need is to understand each other and constant conversation... I have a kind heart and I have a lot of love in my heart to give it to my beloved woman. I am an optimist and do hope that one day I will see a smile that will fill my life with sunny rays of happy family life. I will do my best to create warm tender atmosphere and special coziness where one can feel comfortable. My ambition is to inspire my beloved woman constantly, to help her to keep the balance between career and private life, just as she will help me and inspire me to do good. But It's always for me, Love is first. I need a woman for sharing life, who wants to create a strong family. I want to take long walks with her and share our life journeys with joy and sorrow. - I do like to look up to her as an authority for me, to be proud of her, to adore her and give her my femininity, devotion, understanding, kindness, care, calmness, cheerfulness,soul support and my great love. I'm a man who dreams about human happiness. There are so many interesting things around worthy to be seen and amazed together with a special person like you. I will be waiting to read back from you, thanks and God bless you.
Steve.

Letter 5

Dear Pat,
I wish you know how much I appreciate the time you took to write back after hearing from me again, I'm so glad to read from you and much more happy to know how I feel and know much more about you, well I'm not perfect in life nor you are perfect but we have to give life a trial and make good things out for it. I love watching car show, county fairground and festival.
I know it's right for us to spend time and know one another but I believe that we are much more grown and matured better to know how much you need peace and joy in our relationship, I have lived on the farm when I was young before I came to the states, I'm so much glad that I have achieved much in life but I still like the farm life, I don't stay late outside, better I will be indoor. We can overcome the great distance, as distance should & does not come between two loving hearts but it does make it inconvenient. However I also believe " Where there is a will there is a way.
Steve.

Letter 6

Dear Pat,
I want you to know that sometimes reality is the hardest thing to understand and the thing that takes the longest to realize but once it hits us in the face we'll never forget it, it will always be there in our memories and sometimes that is the best way to look at it. I have told Michael some little about you and he's very happy about it, he said to me... Dad, I can't wait to see her.
I can cook pretty good for you... I like a good wine. I've been working out more regularly than I had been, and eat healthy food... I don't do drugs, and I like who I am although I think a terrific woman would bring out the best in me... I'm a believer in God who pray every blessed day, am a good catholic, i do go to church weekly, and try to do the right things every day... I don't worry about what people think of me... I know how to treat a woman very well. I believe that the most important key to a successful relationship would have to be trust, I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. Babe you know that i also don't want you to think about what have happened to you in the past because it will not make our love grow... Ouch worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time you just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart, nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad may come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of true love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust but i am promising you this now (Pat) that i will never betray you... that's the risk but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart is that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy ? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we are searching for ? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy of the true love which i have for you. For everyone there is a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life...-and i also want you to know that as the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters. As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste. I also want you to know that the key is to be understanding, nobody can change their personality, so we simply have to try to understand each other as we become closer.
You are really amazing inside of me there is a place where my sweetest dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought. Sometimes I bring you there purposely just to make my day brighter but more often, you surprise me and find your own ways into my thoughts. There are even times when I awaken, I realize that you've been a part of my dreams. Then during the day, when my imagination is free to run, it takes me into your arms and allows me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do. I know my thoughts are only reflecting the loving hopes of my heart because whenever they wander, they always take me to you. Only the most special things in my world get to come inside my heart and stay and now, I realize how deeply my life has been touched by you.
We seem to have some things in common and share some similarities as being a good Christian fellow... My Son wants me with a woman to spend the rest of my life with. He doesn't want me to be alone anymore because i have been lonely for a very long time. Hope you can be able to understand my feelings and let us build a relationship based on honesty, trust and sincerity.
Steve.

Letter 7

Dearest Pat,
I feel we share the same common interest and definitely looking for the same thing in life if only we give this a chance. I can't wait to meet you in person to express my feelings. I truly like everything about you and long to be with you, you are an intriguing woman with true beauty, I wish to share my dreams and ambition with and build a good solid foundation with you. I would welcome the challenge of such a relationship that may have the possibility of evolving into something more or not. I need a woman who's ready to love me for who I am, a woman that's sincere, worthy, creative, honest, outgoing and outspoken, a woman who I can regard as my best friend, a comforter, a lady who's comfortable in her skin, one who is bold enough to make right decisions on her own, a family oriented woman who has goals in life and future ambitions, a woman who is able to make life worth living like in paradise, she understands my feelings and she's willing to show affection and love always. I'm not looking for a rich woman, No that's not an issue to me... but a woman who is rich with love care and affections. Do you think you can be the woman of my dreams ?
I love to be kept at the edge of my seat. My favorite cuisine are Italian, I also like the american food as well. My perception of an ideal date is walks on the beach when we have hands in hands and from there we can go for a candle lit dinner or something else that is nice. Now some little questions for you lol.. What do you like to do for fun ? What's your favorite meal ? what's your idea of a perfect first date ? what's your kind of music & movies ? What are your dreams towards our communication ? Hope to hear from you soon.
Lots of Hugs and Blessings.
Steve.

Letter 8

Dearest Pat,
I really appreciate and love your outspokenness and honesty, I believe that partners are 100% equal in a relationship and both should be able to feel they can trust each other 100% at all times. I feel that any woman who ever disrespects a man is not a caring woman. I am affectionate and I have no problem showing it for the right woman in public or private. I love to cuddle while watching a good movie, when we were in bed, I love to hug, cuddle and kiss my woman at anytime and anywhere it could, be it a store, shopping mall or along the side-walk. Patience, honesty, passion and ability to compromise and grow, so with true love, is by sharing bad and good times together. True love is a covenant that we build on a strong foundation and that’s why we don’t develop it within a day. It takes sometime to mature and that’s when both sees that they are having the same strong feeling for each other.. It is with true love as it is with ghosts, everyone talks about it, but few have seen it. Family is very important to me and I think they come second after God. I have positive feelings about us meeting soon.
I promise to make my one and only the most happiest woman on earth if only she is willing to accept me as part of her. I will be there whenever she needs me and promise never to do anything to hurt her feelings. I will love her just the way she is, being blind, disable, deaf or dumb or whatever category that she falls in. I really mean my words and I am serious too. I am ever ready to sail to the end of the sea with you and ever prepared to do anything to have you forever. I promised to be the man of your dreams because I am not going to let you down on earth or hurt your feelings, since the adage goes: A man without a woman is like a river or a stream without a source and as relationship are build on trust and with mutual respect I assure you my whole heart. Why don’t we give ourselves a chance and find out what happens... I hope to hear from you soon my dearest one.
Warmest Regards,
Steve.

Letter 9

Dearest Pat,
How was your night ? It's good to get an upfront and sincere response from you... Everything in life happen for a reason, my being lonely for a very long time makes me want a companion and a woman to share my feelings with, I'm in search of a soulmate to spend the rest of our life's together. No one is perfect and we could only give it a trial. Though it is right for us to learn from our mistakes. A relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY and HONESTY, all this paramount fact must exist in a relationship before anything can work out of it. I'm a man of my word and will always stand by my word. I'm a caring and loving man... I like to pamper my woman and get her spoil in life and cuddle together.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the strength to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference. I'm old enough to know better, but too young too care. The more you fight waiting, the more waiting you will have to fight. I may be able to speak the languages of human beings and even of angels, but if I have no love, my speech is no more than a noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have the gift of inspired preaching; I may have all knowledge and understand all secrets, I may have the faith needed to move mountains but if I have no love, I am nothing. I may give away everything I have, and even give up my body to be burned but if I have no love, this does me no good. As the lily among thorns, As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste and you are sweet to my taste by reading your emails that is why i will be happy to be with you forever and ever. Just when you think things can't get any worse, they do. I have learned that life is like hour glass sand, sooner or later, everything hits rock bottom, but all you have to do is be patient and wait for something to turn everything back around. I have learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up, it simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up, it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be. Love is the greatest feeling you will ever have, yet it is also one of the greatest sorrows. There is so much suffering, but then there are times when the crying, pain, and heartache is worth it. Those moments are perfect, they are right. Those moments make all the suffering worth while. It's those moments we should live for... I can't wait for us to be together. I really feel so secure with you and i feel so comfortable getting along with you... Looking forward to hear from you. Hugs and kisses.
Steve.

Letter 10

Dearest Pat,
I'm always happy getting an email from you. I'm ready for love and I want you to know that life is so unpredictable. Changes always come along, in big or small ways. I don't know what happened that this sudden change has turned my world upside down. I don't know exactly what it is, it just hit me, but there is something really special about you.
It might be all the things I see on the surface, the things that everyone notices and admires about you, qualities, capabilities and a wonderful smile obviously connected to a warm and loving heart, these things set you apart from everyone else. But it may also be the big things... the person you really are that I hope to know more someday and it might also be the little things... If I ever figure out the magic that makes you so special, I'd probably find out that it's a combination of all these things. You are a rare combination of so many special things. You are really amazing.
Love Always,
Yours Steve.

Letter 11

Dearest Pat,
I just got a confirmation contract which has been approved and awarded to me last week. I'm to remodel a great and huge Hotel. It's going to be executed in Cairo/Egypt. The work has to start as soon as possible (Wednesday, if possible). You have brought a lot into my life, and I promise I will never let you down. My traveling document and papers have been put to place, but Michael would not love to stay back home alone, I have to book a seat for him too so we can leave on Monday morning together and the duration of the contract is 4 weeks. I'm very sorry for the short notice. We'll be checking into a Hotel and we won't lose communication. I have also thinking of planning my return trip towards your place so I can just meet you before I head back home, I love you so much and I want you to know that I am doing this to build up my career and making sure we have a wonderful future. I miss u so much and I wish I was already there with you to hold you kiss you, touch you, caress you & hug you tight and close, go on vacations with only you just like been on our honeymoon. In life, we receive a wonderful opportunity, and that is to love. Love comes in many forms. You love people in different ways and for different reasons, depending upon how they have touched your life. Love is a very powerful word and can describe a multitude of feelings, but its main context carries the same meaning I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I want to lay down next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms, only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything. You are everything to me.You are everything I do. You see and bring out the best in me.You are the one I want to share everything with - my thoughts, hopes and dreams.Thinking of you makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for me. I will forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life.So, to repay you, I promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my life. I love you so much... To say this a million times is not enough to express how much I do. I love you dearly... beyond the stars.
Steve.

Letter 12

Dearest Pat,
Thanks so much for your words, I really appreciate it and very flattered. If I haven't told you, I am so lucky to have you in my life. I adore and love you so much. You are a wonderful woman and words cannot convey how much you mean to me. Just thinking about these feelings makes me tingle all over to this day I still have butterflies in my stomach. I feel like these feelings should be left for teenagers only. I don't know if you understand what I am saying, It feels great to actually love and be love in return. I can hardly wait to get to Egypt and get the contract complete to be on my way back to meet you. I never feel less or more when I am writing to you, you always make me feel needed. Most of all, you make me feel safe emotionally and mentally. Thank you for being part of my life. I'm very happy with you and I could not ask for a better woman than you. Thank you for being an exceptional woman... you are one of a kind.
Steve.

Letter 13

Dearest Pat,
Thanks for your nice words, I really appreciate it. You are such a wonderful woman and I can't wait to meet you to prove my undying and everlasting love to you.
I feel the chemistry with you and with you I have hope that my prayers have been answered by God and I'm searching no more. I just want to be the man for you, to make you happy like no other, wake up every morning knowing that I'm deeply love by you. I'm loving you more every day. Have a nice evening.
Steve.

Letter 14

Dearest Pat,
How was your night ? I was thinking of you while I was in the plane, It's very beautiful here. We have arrived in CIA - Cairo International Airport, it is so hot here. I really enjoy our trip. I really missed you badly and i wish you are here with me to cuddle together. I will start working tomorrow. I want you to know that the hotel do have an Internet, so I will have much time to write you at anytime. I will call later when i wake up because I need to rest now... I can't wait to talk to you because I really miss you very much, It's a long way from home coming down to Egypt.
Loving you is the greatest things that has ever happen to me in life, I love you with the deepest passion and I wish we could see each other every day but I know that I'm so far away. It hurts me to know how I sometimes can be a little selfish when it comes to you but, sweetheart I'm in the deepest love for you. I love you, my beautiful queen. I want you to know how I feel, my heart bleeds blood for you and I can't see, my stomach hurts and my head is throbbing but I want you to know more than anything that I miss you and forever in love with you. Thanks for your prayer and never stop praying for us while we are here, just have it in mind that I really care for you and I will forever love you. I promise you that as soon as I finish the contract, we are coming down directly to your place and Michael said his birthday is coming next week and he would want you to send him a gift, he told me that he needs a gift from you. I have miss you so much... I will love you till the end of my life.
Hugs and kisses.
Yours Steve

Letter 15

Dear Pat,
How are you doing ? I went to the site today and the little I could do is to inspect it only because my equipments haven't arrive yet but I took the chance to go around and see the beauty of this country and I have attached the pictures to this email for you to see. He will be 21. Michael would love to have an Apple laptop for his birthday gift so it will keep him busy and do his assignments on it.
I could describe you with one word... delicious. I dream of you here with me with nothing on but our imaginations. I can almost feel you here, caressing me, touching me. You are the fire burning inside of me, you are my passion for life. I can feel the fiery passion of desire begging to be shared in a blissful night of paradise. I love the way you love me. I want to evoke such a passion within you that leaves us both breathless... You are the fire that burns the passion within my soul. Loving you makes me desire you even more. Did you dream of me touching you last night ? The passion we share together online just leaves me wanting one thing… more, I want to make love to you every minute of every day. When you can count all the stars in the sky, that's when I'll stop wanting you.
Steve.

Letter 16

Dearest Pat,
How was your night ? See things as they are, not as they could be... Look around, see how lucky we are, fortune is on our side, not fighting against us. Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it. I want to be the sun that brightens up your life, but I'd rather be the moon that shines down on you in your darkest hours. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking creates profoundness, kindness in giving creates love, remember, if you intend to follow the flying of a dragon, be careful, you may hit a mountain in the mist, every time you cross my mind, I break out in exclamations of thanks to God. I believe I'm the man of your dreams, I can protect you, encourage you, support you, provide for you and make you feel very sure secure and safe. I will see you very beautiful every day and night, when you wake up in the morning with your hair messy or when you old and wrinkled. I will always make you feel very safe and comfortable whenever you are afraid, I will serve the Lord with you with all my heart and lead you with His way. You are the woman of my dreams and I love you immensely with all my heart and soul, I want to be the first to see you every morning when you wake up and the last to see when you go to sleep at night, I want to be the one you holding, I want to be the one you lean on, I don't want to see you crying, I just wanna be the one you calling and love you forever.
Work started today and everything seems to be fine, I discovered that a very important equipment that I do need for the project seems to be missing, when I called the shipping company in charge, I was told that it had been shipped down here and there wasn't any possibility or anything they could do for me, after much deliberation, I and some of my workers went around the city here in CAIRO to check if we could, we found a very good store that has an exact description of this equipment which I'm needing for the project that I came here for and after much inquiry, we finally agreed that they would be collecting the sum of $4,500 for renting out the equipment to me for the duration of week and I will be needing the equipment for good 4 weeks that I will be getting my project done which will be really help me a lot, love for oneself is the beginning of life-long romance, when loving someone never regret what you do. Only regret what you didn't do. Be who you are and say what you feel, for those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, Do not break the bridge that you might need to cross someday, cause without the main equipment I might end up losing this project which will end up as a great loss for me coming down to CAIRO, which I don't want to happen to me. After checking my budget and finances I discovered that the money that I brought along has been used up mainly for the project and and I will be needing almost $18,0000. I was thinking, wondering and hoping if you could loan me the sum of $10,500, I know it's kind of weary of asking you such and I am very ashamed of myself, but I believe our love can conquer it all because it's true love that exist between us. I tried to contact my bank but since I'm based on a fixed deposit account, nothing can be done except I appear in person. Love is patient, Love is kind, It does not envy, It does not boast, It is not proud, It is not rude, It is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrong doing, It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.If you spend your whole life comparing yourself to others, you will never be worth comparison, True greatness is experienced through simplicity, It is better to reach for the stars and to drag your feet on the tops of the trees then to reach the tops of the trees and drag your feet in the mud.I was thinking if you would be able to assist me by loaning me the money. I know it sounds too blunt and plain, but I feel behind every successful man there's a woman to support. Now is the time I need your support and I believe you will give it to me right, Values are only measured by the importance it has to you Love is not something we find, love is something we DO. Love Conquers All. Two fellows on a ship will not make it safely to shore unless they agree and take care of the minutes, and the hours will take care of themselves. He who shines will let the light fall on those next to him, Charity is a song learned by heart while altruism is a hymn sung from the heart. I will be waiting to read back from you soon. Love from one side hurts, but love from two sides heals. No matter how hard things seem, true love will aide us through it. My lady, I will be waiting to read the good news from you because there is no time to waste and I promise to refund the money with interest. I need to hear from you soon, If we have love, we will live longer and forever till eternity. I hope you are had a wonderful night. May the lord help us (AMEN)
Love you,
Steve.