Scam Email(s) from Jayson Roach to Joy (USA)

 

Letter 1

Hi there, How are you? Yes I have a son, but not 1 year old my boy is 5year old, I will check my profile and fix that, he stays with my mum in another city. I am Looking for companionship. Never been on a dating site before. ..can you show me what it's all about? I love hanging out with family and friends. Looking for honesty and truthfulness.. Please email me and tell me more about yourself and exactly what you’re looking for in a relationship? I would rather email or text since am not always online; my email; Jaysonroach@artlover.com So I'll just keep it simple. I hope to hear from you! ?Jayson

Letter 2

Hi Joy,

How are you today? I am glad to receive your email response, since I received your message I have been thinking of where to start in emailing you, because i am totally new to all of this, but i have got so much courage and i believe they must be a starting point and i believe the starting point is here. It's always tough for me to describe myself but one thing that I truly believe in is Honesty. I have traditional family values and believe that our legacy is built on how we treated others and did we make a positive difference in someones life. I am a man with high integrity and well instilled morals. I still believe that there is someone out there for me, we just haven't crossed paths yet, but i can strongly feel something about you, i will keep watching.

I am from Tulsa OK, but base in the California United States, I am an Artist/Puppeteer. I 'm a specialist in all areas of Arts Concept (Visual and Creative Arts e.t.c). I do not frequent bars or clubs. Although I do love to sing and dance and so my friends say that I am very entertaining with a Great voice..lol. I love the water and being outdoors. I have a very responsible career, work hard and God is a very instrumental part of my life and I do thank him for all the blessings I have and I trust he will find someone special just for me, if you are the one special person so let it be as he wants it, but something pushed me to contact you again and that's why i did so, i see you as something good and my eyes can’t get off you. I just don't know why... But honestly I don't want to be deceived again.... Like you know my cute little boy that stays with my aged mum. I was married before but lost my wife in a terrible car crash, honestly my whole life crashed when I lost her, we were married for 7 years and was still in love at the time when she passed away, I cant help the situation but move on so i decided recently i will find the right person for me, this has been tough as I encoutered few ladies that was not honestly true to themselves so I am hoping you would be the end to my search as you seem to be very open and calm.

I am and upbeat enthusiastic person. Always willing to try new and different things (safely). I am a loyal and sincere friend, don't get into gossip at all! I love to run and do any kind of cardio workouts, take long walks and weight lift occasionally. I am extroverted, so I don't mind going to new social venues where I know nobody. I believe the best way to begin a loving relationship is to develop a friendship first. I love kids, elders, and basically all people. I love to get to know new people with different or similar interests. I prefer going out on the town than sitting at home. Dining, dancing, movie, walking anywhere.

My ideal match would be someone who knows what he wants and is not afraid to go after it. I want someone who is not afraid of commitment and is looking for same. I want someone smart, spontaneous, compassionate, generous and appreciative of the little things that makes a difference in a relationship. I am genuine and not into sugar coating who I am. I live a very simple life, have no stress and enjoy everyday to its fullest. When I'm not working, I like to relax with a book, or go running or biking.

I am only going to ask if there is any woman out there who are still true to themselves and still believe in forever. I'm not looking for any one night stands and I'm not interested in someone to support me financially, I'm interested in someone that would be able to support me in all areas, both emotionally as my one and only true friend. I am not into dating multiple women. I am a One lady's man trying to find that one that Great woman for me. I will stop here and wait for your response, tell me a little about your environment they place you stay, do you stay alone with your family? What exactly do you do for a living? I have attached few of my recent pictures from last days of December 2016.

Have a great day.
Jayson

Letter 3

Good Afternoon Joy,

Happy New Year!! Thanks for writing back, As a matter of fact I'm honored.I think you are a Very beautiful and sweet lady. I would like to get closer to you and learn more about you. You can ask me anything more you would like to know about me.It would be nice to get to know every little things about you.Call me old fashioned but i like to do it the conventional way, get to know each other proper and see how things turn out eventually. We have so much in common and it would be nice for us to get to know each other more.

There is no doubt about that fact that i am getting attracted to you and I'm happy we came across each other here.I am looking forward to meeting you in person soon and hopefully things would work out as we get to know each other. I would like to know what you desires are in your man. How u would like to be treated. The kinds of things you like and things you don't like ,so i can try not to annoy you or make you unhappy. what makes you smile cos i would love to do those things always. I liked everything i saw on your profile. I hope you can be that woman i have been waiting for all this while. You seem like a good match, the perfect friend for me and the type i would definitely like to share a future with someday. I'm willing to learn whatever it takes to please you and makes you happy.I'm totally gonna be myself and i expect the same from you but if there's anything you don't like about me as we go along don't hesitate to let me know.The things I want
are maturity,love,companionship, friendship, honesty and everything else in between.Someone to think of and know that you are also in their thoughts.Someone to share my daily experiences with be it good or bad.Someone who remotely connects with me regardless if there's distance between both of us in case of work or anything.

Here are some things about me, some you must have read on my profile or probably not. Its been a rocky past couple of years.Due to my past state of mind, I have always kept myself busy and buried in my work. I like to spend time with my sons when am not working, his is my only source of joy and happiness. I also wanna share that life with someone as sweet as you. I wanna love again and be loved back in return. I love to listen to music such as blues,rock,good metal and classic music as well as jazz, I like to sit back and watch a good movie when i want to relax mostly weekend.I play Golf most times, I also like playing tennis. I travel occasionally due to my job.I love beach or anything associated with water. i don't have any pet at the moment because there would be no one to look after them when i am away.One last thing, when i love, I love really hard and that is why i was married for 7 years before the sudden death of my late wife. I have been through
several healing and counseling program for the past 3 years and i am totally healed and ready for the next phase of my life.Life has to go on.

You are a very beautiful woman and any man would be lucky to have you as a partner.I would really like to get to know you much better through this medium till we make out time to meet each other. So feel free to write me back.Hoping to hear from you really soon. Please tell me more and more things about you. I dont use Skype or WeChat, We can text and talk anytime or even meet over a coffee..
Bless you.

Jayson

Letter 4

Hey Morning Star,

Sorry for the late response, I have been very busy with work, thanks for reciprocating the gesture of sharing about how you more about you and how you feel, I feel very closer to you now, just after reading those sincere words expressed.. I must have to say that it has been very amazing day for me hearing back from you, honestly I feel very lucky to know someone as loyal and honest as you. this is also the most important thing that i seek in a woman, I would never let you down. Life usually brings unpleasant surprises and events, but I feel there’s a new lighthouse to guide me in my moments of indecision and doubt. I could see from your words that you are special in a natural way, but apart from that, I can also see you the interest and effort you put into making yourself available to others. Just like me I clearly can see your interest in starting a wonderful relationship again! Now that everything seems confused, now that people seem to be losing their faith in a better future, it’s good to know there’s someone special like you close by. It’s great to know there’s still ladies like you who are ready to be honest, loving and loyal to a man . It’s also great to know that youre a happy woman.

I find you very special and I am not surprise because I was looking for the very best, not someone I can live with, rather, I am - that means chemistry and physical attraction : ) I had choose not to settle and I hope you think the same- I was looking to find a loyal, smart (book smart and street smart), active, confident, compassionate, witty, sexy, accomplished, fiscally responsible, fun loving GIVER wanting a fabulous monogamous relationship built on open communication and trust.I am happy that i could gladly stay at this junction to say my search is over. I always speak with great faith and integrity and my actions are congruent- hope you do the same. Physical attraction is important, but more important is your personality and our chemistry. I've learned my best chemistry is with someone who has experienced an adventure in life, can engage me in conversation- post a challenge and be challenged in return. Open communication and ability to compromise without resentment are HUGE for me. For the record, I've learned that listening is the hardest thing anyone can do.

When I say listen, I mean listen to understand vs. listening to respond. I've learned there are givers and takers, I am definitely a giver (I do the shopping, the cooking, the laundry and the "honey do list") and I need you to be a giver too. In return for the one I can't live without; I believe in chivalry- that means I will open the door for you, help you with your coat and assist with your chair. I like to be physically and verbally affectionate and am not afraid to initiate in public- I can also be sarcastic so a sense of humor and reciprocity is a must. My life is drama and stress free- I live within my means and have my own retirement plan. Emotionally, I am ready to open my heart and hope you are also ready to open your heart. I am a hands on do it yourself-mechanically inclined I am always ready with my tool box to fix those little and not so little annoying things around the house. I've built and renovated my homes in the past, to include complete kitchen and bath remodels and I still enjoy the occasional fix it challenge. I hope to renovate or build one last house with the woman that I just can't live without. : ) .

I was thinking how weeknights would be perfect for experimenting with new recipes and I would enjoy your company as my participating partner ready to create fabulous meals and get me away from the computer designing ! : ) Weekends, I can go anywhere, do anything and will appreciate creating a list of destinations to visit by year's end (and actually visiting those destinations/events) : ). Other things I do include BBQ, cooking, wine pairing and brewing : ). You might say I rarely sit still- I appreciate traveling to Asia and Europe... My favorite destinations include; Choquing China, (any time of year), Napa,. Of course Italy & Mexico, there is music! Music is an important part of my everyday life. Many of my friends are musically and vocally talented and I am their biggest fan. I enjoy most types of music, especially live piano, saxophone and "unplugged" harmonies. Tell me about your interests... Did I tell you that I love kids and I am very aware of the need to prioritize your time for children. I can entertain myself to allow you all the time you need to be the best Mom you can be with out worrying about us. For the right person, I have done everything and anything without measure and with out keeping score. I am open-minded about what surprises true love may bring. My Number: 323-325-1944 I will text you after sending this email..

Hope to receive your email (likes and winks are for teenagers) : )

Yours sincerely,
Jayson

Letter 5

my Joy,

Sorry for my late response, I have been busy preparing for the Expo, I am really sorry for not contacting all this time, I have very very busy and never had time to check email.. I know you have been waiting for my email sorry about this. For sure I know that the better expression of feeling, is best described in the email than chat, so i have decided to send you an email before we start chatting.. Yesterday me and my crew arrived New York safely and the weather here today Wednesday 5:00 PM Partly Cloudy Partly Cloudy 52°F | °C Precipitation: 2% Humidity: 54% Wind: 5 mph. We are getting ready for the expo tomorrow and it has been a very busy day today. I was thinking about you all day long I am very pleased to read your message and i am so happy to have you in my life and part of my family, mostly for this moment that we have expressed our true feelings and have accepted that we both are in the same page, i feel so honored and happy my queen. I have decided to discontinue my search on the dating site, I want to now focus on you alone and make the best out of it, Hence I will switched off my profile with the dating site, it doesn't make sense facing all these distractions while talking and confessing my love to you, I want all my concentration on you my dear, this is the extent of my seriousness and commitments into loving you and making you my wonderful Chinese wife.. ;) :)

To be honest, I really could not hide my feelings anymore so i had to tell you exactly how i feel, I want you to know that I fully accept you in my heart, and I am sure that we are destined to be together, so I have decided to love and stick with you because I know its only once in a lifetime that I truly believe, one can find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can not wait to tell them about it, knowing that they will participate in your excitement. They do not hesitate to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself.

They never hurt you or make you feel like you're not good enough, and they build you up and show you things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never pressure, jealousy or competition but calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. Things that seem insignificant to most people, such as music, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Back memories of childhood and so clearly and vividly what it's like to be young.

Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was rare or nonexistent. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there is no need for continuous conversation, but you find you're quite happy just to have them side by side. That never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think about this person, in each case, and in all that you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, a gentle breeze or even a storm cloud on the horizon.

You open your heart knowing that there's a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you feel the love and joy that you never dreamed of. You will find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that's so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security, knowing that they are part of your life.
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I want to spend the rest of my life to love you and make you happy, I hope you feel the same, I want to be with you, and I want us to have a family together, I wish we can talk sometimes .

I will stop here and wait for your reply as soon as possible.

Yours aye,
Mark

"Yours aye" is a Scottish expression meaning "yours always".

Letter 6

Good Evening My Joy,

It was so nice talking to you over the phone last night, Wow you have such a lovely voice that i just cant get over.I am really glad we talked on the phone, now i have to meet you.
I feel we have alot in common and would love to continue this and see where we go from here.No one is made perfect but we could only give it a trial. Though it is right for us to learn from our mistakes. Which makes us resisting and having hard to trust anyone this days. A Relationship is all about TRUST, SINCERITY and HONESTY, all this Paramount fact must exist in a relationship before anything can work out of it. I'm a man of my word and will always stand by my words. I'm a caring and loving man, Open minded and Upfront in every aspect of a relationship.I am a man with so much love and honesty "I am not praising myself".I am a happy man who loves to satisfy my love ones with everything i have, I am a one woman man, i grow my own rose and i am very romantic, i believe in the happiness of my woman, i really would like to get to know you better and i want you to be free in sharing anything with me as i will do just the same.I think you are gradually coming to be the end to my search and will like us to start by been best friends and see where this will lead to as only God knows.

Ever Since i viewed your profile online, i feel this great impulsion on me and since then, I have been very glued to your profile as it stands out among others in a way i can't possibly explain.I have a very good feeling that you might be the end to my search because you simply possess all the qualities of what i am looking for in a woman and the more i keep reading from you, the more i feel it is coming to be true and i pray and hope it does. I really hope you are for real? because i will like us to meet soon as chemistry is equally important in any great and healthy relationship.I want us to give this a try and will be hoping and praying it take us both to where we want to be. I want to love again,because i have so much love to give, cared for and also care for my partner in return, I want to grow old with someone who really cares about me just as i will about her.Lastly i want you to know that when i enter into any relationship, I enter 100 percent in respective of what my partner will bring to the table and not 50/50 percent.

Thank you so much for giving me this opportunity and privilege,i promise never to disappoint you nor to be dishonest to you in any way as we proceed.
Have a good evening and would be looking forward to your email.

God bless you.

Yours Forever,
Jayson

Letter 7

Good Afternoon Sunshine,
How have you been? Sorry for the late response and to hear about your health, I and my crew have been in New York City and its been a very bad weather, I know this have affected our communication, We arrived back in California yesterday, I have been busy the whole day trying to fix things around my house and prepare for my trip to the UK. I am happy to inform you that my company was selected for a Interior art decoration job contract in London UK. We basically creating the interior vintage arts for a newly built vintage hotel set to be open sometime in summer this year. its Grade I listed former Midland Bank headquarters in the City of London, originally designed by Sir Edwin Lutyens, becomes a new flagship 5-star hotel from the Soho House group in 2017. The Ned hotel gets its name from the eminent architect who designed the building - Ned was Sir Edwin's nickname - and has been redesigned using the faded glamour of a 1930s transatlantic ocean liner as inspiration. Making the most of its historic features, the Portland stone facades will be sympathetically restored and the banking hall's 92 green verdite marble columns and walnut panelling preserved. It's here you'll find seven of the bars and restaurants including an American cafe, a New-York-style deli, Parisian cafe, Grill Room and a branch of Cecconi's, the Soho House favourite. You read more and view some pictures by visiting this website: http://www.londontown.com/LondonInformation/Hotels/The-Ned/3b909/
This contract is for 1.4 million USD,which include the cost of hand made mass creation of interior vintage art.The contract award ceremony will take place at London International Convention Center on Monday Morning the 20th of February 2017 .This means that i have to travel to London Saturday Night to arrive there Sunday afternoon as it is 12 hours flight in other to make it right on time to the award ceremony on Monday morning. This news came as a big shock to me as i was not expecting to win the contract nor to be so urgent.
The terms of the contract states that i will be paid quarterly as the job proceed, which means i need to raise the first 25% funds to begin the contract.I will be going to my bank tomorrow morning to get some funds from my investment account to commence the project.Once i am done with my bank,i will have to go shop for some of the items that i will need for the trip as well as a few clothes as i have just checked the weather there and they seems to be in winter.I also need to go get all the tools that i will be working with ready to be shipped to London ASAP.
I also need a good suit for the contract award ceremony which will be attended by some important personnel from the Government,Politicians, NGO's and Government Parastatas on Monday morning.
I am so happy about this contract as this is the first time that i will be doing a project in London.I am sad and very sorry that i may not be able to see you again before i leave as planned.I am expected to be in the London ASAP and i have very little time to prepare with so much to do withing 24 hours.I will only be gone for two weeks and i will be back on the 10th of March.
I will like us to keep in touch with each other by email as well as on phone just as we have been doing.I will be traveling with my laptop and i will be sending you mails on a daily basis.I will buy a new line when i arrive there and we will be able to talk on the phone as well.Upon arrival I am expected to sign the acceptance letter and also to kick start the project.I am not moving to stay there lol.
I am deeply sorry for the way this contract came about and my sudden departure,I promise to make it up to you when i return.I am thinking of flying straight to you on 10th in the morning and we can meet that same day when i arrive.I promise to make it up to you. I want to let you know that I totally agree with all you said in your email and all we need is patient and I want assure and reassure you that I am very much ready for this journey and i want to do this with you.
Please text or call me when you can today just to hear your lovely voice again so that we can discus more about this.
Big Hug.